ome of you may have learned some of these in school if you’ve studied psychology. Today I’m going to list a few psychological phenomena that will help aid you all in getting whatever it is that you may desire from others.
I’m listing a few tips that will help you to not just better read someone’s mind, but to also have more control of the outcome of whatever interactions you may find yourself in at some point. Imagine having the power to make people always feel comfortable around you, or even better, have the power to make people like you. This is exactly how these tricks can be used – so pay attention. The following are…
1) The Benjamin Franklyn effect.
I’ve talked about this a good amount… this is basically asking a small favor of the person. The idea behind this is that there has been a good amount of research that suggests that people tend to like people they’ve done favors for. So you can raise your value in someone’s eyes just by asking simple favors.
This could be anything from watching your chair when you go to the bathroom or even just asking someone to hold your phone while you put on your jacket. Favors are basically the building blocks that add meaning to relationships.
2) The Yawning effect.
This is an interesting one, if you have ever been curious to know if anyone is looking at you, then yawn in front of a bunch of people. If anyone is paying attention to you they will yawn as well. This is good, when in crowded places like Starbucks, a subway or a bar.
Knowing who is looking at you will give you a big advantage when deciding what women you are going to approach. Chances are if she’s looking at you, then she’s attracted to you as well.
3) The Look-to-comrade effect.
This is a fun one…
I like this because I enjoy telling jokes, but you can also just tell a story. For some reason or another people will look at the person they like the most in a group following a funny joke or story. So if you are curious about who a girl likes the most in a group, then tell a joke or share a short story. Make sure you have everyone’s attention when doing this as well.
4) The Chewing effect.
Now this is great for when you are nervous about a girl before you meet up for a date. Just chew gum or eat something and you’ll feel more at ease when you meet up. I myself chew a lot of gum already, so this may explain why so many girls have told me in the past that I seem quite calm and relaxed.
5) The Mirror effect.
This is another trick that I find rather clever due to attractive women’s common habit of being rather narcissistic. Going to a bar that has a lot of mirrors and sitting close to the mirrors will usually lead to a better time with your target. This is because no one wants to see themself angry and the mirror will help amplify the desired result; which is to put the target in a good mood.
So next time you choose your date location, carefully pick a bar or lounge with mirrors and sit nearby them. If you can, sit next to one or have one behind where you sit. This way when she looks at you, then she’ll be forced to see herself from the side. Don’t be surprised if she looks at herself in the mirror often as well.
Last of all…
Although these tricks will not guarantee 100 percent success, they will push you more in that direction than if you didn’t know them. So use them and remember, more importantly, to always enjoy yourself and just have fun. So that’s about it for today! Now enjoy your weekend and get out there!
To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…
“Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.
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