PUA Tips: How to get a woman that treats you right

PUA Picture was thinking the other day that there is a lot of material on how to get laid, but not much on how to pick women that will be more than a one night stand. So I thought I’d dedicate some thought to just that. Today I’m going to cover how I personally choose women and have had quite some success in doing so…

  • Stop dating easy women, but don’t be manipulated.

Thinking this way is somewhat controversial in the pickup community, because a lot of pickup artists might argue that even loyal women are easy for a man they are truly attracted to.

However I find this to be false the majority of the time. In my experience the women that take – usually 1xtra date to have sex – are the most loyal the majority of the time.

Yes there are women that take extra long just because they want to use the guy. Nevertheless you can filter these women out by just trying to get them to buy a round or 2 of drinks. If they can’t, then case closed – get rid of her.

  • Put your foot down if necessary.

When I say this I mean to get used to speaking up if a girl is mistreating you. If the girl is right, then she’ll stay regardless of you getting mad at her.

  • Always be willing to leave when you are being taken advantage of.

The right girl will come after you every time you leave. I know because when I’m in a long term relationship, I am in it because the girl is one that won’t let me leave so easy.

You should never be the one running back after her. If you find yourself in this position, then it is already too late. The only way to make things better is to find someone that is grateful for having you.

  • Stay away from women that have slept with your friends.

Unless you live in a very small town, then most of us have control over who we get involved with. Refrain from having sex with women that your friends have history with.

You will never have a fully meaningful relationship with this woman. It will perpetuate nothing but a feeling of hollow detachment and you will never experience any kind of deep fulfillment being with a woman like this.

  • Only focus on women that have a habit of being in long term relationships.

A pattern I’ve noticed over the years is that quality women have an obsession with being in serious relationships. Even though they may take longer to sleep with, they are usually great in bed with whomever it is they finally settle down with. Therefore there is no reason to be thinking that just because a woman isn’t easy, that she has my drive for sex. These are two completely different things.

Aside from that, you’ll also experience an overwhelming obsession with loyalty. Which is clearly not a bad thing and trust me it is quite gratifying knowing that you don’t have to worry about your girlfriend giving out her number to another guy when you’re in the bathroom.

In addition, here is my book for everyone; there’s some very useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 dating don’ts

PUA Picture was browsing YouTube the other day and ran across the topic dating don’ts – so I thought I may add to the plethora of information covering this. The following dating don’ts that I came up with are…

Don’t brag.

I think this is one of the more obvious things, yet I still see guys doing it. Sorry to break it to some of you, but the more you give out about yourself the more dull you’ll seem.

Instead say as little as possible about yourself and allow her imagination to wander. The more mindfucked she is – the better. Be a mystery.

Don’t talk about an ex.

Talking about your ex in general is a bad idea – even worse if you talk bad about them. Unless asked, stay far away from this topic, it will only lead to trouble.

Don’t be too touchy feely

It’s important to break the touch barrier at some point, but don’t ever be in a rush to do so. Wait a bit until the girl has gotten comfortable around you first.

Build rapport and get her laughing. Maybe tell her to hold your arm when crossing the street sometime beforehand. After a drink or 2 pull her chair closer at a bar and look in her eyes. If she looks back, then move your face close to hers and see if she does the same.

If she does move in, get a kiss. From a kiss at least you have somewhere to start. Take your time though.

Don’t pay for everything.

Sorry to sound like such a pessimist, but chivalry is dead unless you’re already intimate with the girl. So one of the best ways to a girl’s respect is by asking her to get a round or 2 also.

Don’t wear too much cologne.

There is a happy medium between smelling of body odor and smelling like a midlife crisis. No more than 2 sprays on the neck and 1 on the wrist should be just fine. Anymore and you’ll keep anyone within a 20 foot radius far away from you.

In addition, here is my book for everyone; there’s some very useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 Principles of Day Game

PUA Picture don’t know some of you may be into Day game, so I figured I might as well bring up how when I first started out I did a great bit of Day game and still do. I find it to be the most efficient form of pickup when it comes to time and money.

If you aren’t a big fan of online game or don’t like blowing a ton of money at bars and clubs, then this is just the thing for you. Today I’m going to explain some principles that will make Day game much easier for most anyone. The following are…

1) Game in crowded places

I say this because you can approach a lot more targets, therefore getting a lot more numbers in a shorter period of time. Think of the Pareto principle… 20% of the women you approach will lead to something. So the more women you meet, then a higher amount of success. In short, the sooner – the better.

2) Pick targets carefully

This comes mostly down to compliance and reading body language. The simplest way to put this is if a girl is being difficult, then move on to someone else. If she is hesitant to go on a date with you then leave her be; there will be plenty more opportunity as long as you keep approaching new targets.

3) Have a game-plan for conversation

My game plan comes down to an acronym… this acronym is FORD. Ford stands for family, occupation, recreation and dreams. The idea is to focus on either of those topics and conversation will just flow. Ask her questions and talk about yourself as well – not much more to it.

4) Have a game-plan for logistics

Most of the time we go back to my place – if we’re going to hookup. Sometimes their place, but no more than 20% of the time. So because of this fact, I always meet the girl at a bar within a 15-20 minute cab ride from home. I have plenty of information on this in my books and in articles on my website as well.

5) Never go home empty-handed

When I say this I mean to make sure you’ve pushed as far as you can. That means if she gives you a kiss – try to touch her butt. If she lets you touch her butt – then try to finger her. If she allows fingering – then ask her to come home with you. So on and so forth.

So that covers that…

In addition, here is my book for everyone; there’s some very useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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