was thinking the other day that there is a lot of material on how to get laid, but not much on how to pick women that will be more than a one night stand. So I thought I’d dedicate some thought to just that. Today I’m going to cover how I personally choose women and have had quite some success in doing so…
- Stop dating easy women, but don’t be manipulated.
Thinking this way is somewhat controversial in the pickup community, because a lot of pickup artists might argue that even loyal women are easy for a man they are truly attracted to.
However I find this to be false the majority of the time. In my experience the women that take – usually 1xtra date to have sex – are the most loyal the majority of the time.
Yes there are women that take extra long just because they want to use the guy. Nevertheless you can filter these women out by just trying to get them to buy a round or 2 of drinks. If they can’t, then case closed – get rid of her.
- Put your foot down if necessary.
When I say this I mean to get used to speaking up if a girl is mistreating you. If the girl is right, then she’ll stay regardless of you getting mad at her.
- Always be willing to leave when you are being taken advantage of.
The right girl will come after you every time you leave. I know because when I’m in a long term relationship, I am in it because the girl is one that won’t let me leave so easy.
You should never be the one running back after her. If you find yourself in this position, then it is already too late. The only way to make things better is to find someone that is grateful for having you.
- Stay away from women that have slept with your friends.
Unless you live in a very small town, then most of us have control over who we get involved with. Refrain from having sex with women that your friends have history with.
You will never have a fully meaningful relationship with this woman. It will perpetuate nothing but a feeling of hollow detachment and you will never experience any kind of deep fulfillment being with a woman like this.
- Only focus on women that have a habit of being in long term relationships.
A pattern I’ve noticed over the years is that quality women have an obsession with being in serious relationships. Even though they may take longer to sleep with, they are usually great in bed with whomever it is they finally settle down with. Therefore there is no reason to be thinking that just because a woman isn’t easy, that she has my drive for sex. These are two completely different things.
Aside from that, you’ll also experience an overwhelming obsession with loyalty. Which is clearly not a bad thing and trust me it is quite gratifying knowing that you don’t have to worry about your girlfriend giving out her number to another guy when you’re in the bathroom.
In addition, here is my book for everyone; there’s some very useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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-PUA Redsky
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