PUA Tips: Top 5 dating don’ts

Don’t brag.

I think this is one of the more obvious things, yet I still see guys doing it. Sorry to break it to some of you, but the more you give out about yourself the more dull you’ll seem.

Instead say as little as possible about yourself and allow her imagination to wander. The more mindfucked she is – the better. Be a mystery.

Don’t talk about an ex.

Talking about your ex in general is a bad idea – even worse if you talk bad about them. Unless asked, stay far away from this topic, it will only lead to trouble.

Don’t be too touchy feely

It’s important to break the touch barrier at some point, but don’t ever be in a rush to do so. Wait a bit until the girl has gotten comfortable around you first.

Build rapport and get her laughing. Maybe tell her to hold your arm when crossing the street sometime beforehand. After a drink or 2 pull her chair closer at a bar and look in her eyes. If she looks back, then move your face close to hers and see if she does the same.

If she does move in, get a kiss. From a kiss at least you have somewhere to start. Take your time though.

Don’t pay for everything.

Sorry to sound like such a pessimist, but chivalry is dead unless you’re already intimate with the girl. So one of the best ways to a girl’s respect is by asking her to get a round or 2 also.

Don’t wear too much cologne.

There is a happy medium between smelling of body odor and smelling like a midlife crisis. No more than 2 sprays on the neck and 1 on the wrist should be just fine. Anymore and you’ll keep anyone within a 20 foot radius far away from you.