PUA Tips: Top 5 Dating tips from Casanova himself

PUA Picture know a lot of you have heard of the famous Giacomo Casanova, but for those of you that haven’t… he’s pretty much one of the first recorded pickup artists in history; among other things.

Well, I personally have been reading up a little about him. So today I put together a list of some things he considered when getting women that I also agree with. The following are…To make a woman feel special, do something special.

I’ve had the most luck taking women to high end nightclubs, rooftops and of course dimly lit bars with relaxing music.

Privacy is an aphrodisiac.

This I apply to the dimly lit bar scenario – which also has enough space where my target and I can not be disturbed. I personally have a place that I have been going for close to 10 years that hardly ever has anyone in the back on the weekdays.

In those 10 years I’ve gotten blow jobs, hand jobs, and banged a couple of girls in the bathroom. Of course I always tip the bartender well – so we don’t get kicked out.

Admire her from all angles.

What Casanova is talking about is mirrors. There has also been some psychological evidence that suggests people naturally feel more comfortable in a setting with more mirrors. So wherever you choose to go – the more mirrors, the merrier.

Ask what she thinks.

Casanova spent a lot of his time asking questions and listening to details. I apply this to commonalities… the more commonalities, the better you connect. So listen carefully so you can catch those commonalities.

Once you find a commonality that you can relate to, then you can quickly recall an interesting experience to tell a captivating story. Remember to keep her engaged in the story by asking her subtle meaningless questions like “Have you been there” or “That’s a weird name right” as well.

Casanova sought to appeal to all the woman’s senses.

What he means by this is to smell good, surround her with good music and of course go to nice restaurants; at least when the relationship becomes a regular thing. I don’t take women out to eat until after we’ve already had sex though. Sometimes I’ll even take them out to a nice French restaurant for breakfast the day after.

As for smelling good… I always have a fresh collection of new cheap cologne, from all over the world, that I buy when travelling. London has tons of cheap vendors all over the city and Dubai has some of the best smelling street vendor colognes I’ve ever bought; all for around 5$ a jar.

I love music and I’m sure everyone does. So I take my dates out to places that have music like Frank Sinatra for a dimly lit bar experience. Also clubs that have great DJs that I’ve already heard.

And that about does it…

In addition, here is my book for everyone; there’s some very useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips on early signs you are in a toxic relationship

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I did a similar piece about how to know if you are in toxic relationship before, but I was more-so speaking to those that have been in a relationship for awhile already. Now this time around I thought I would help those of you that are just forming or about to form a relationship with a prospective partner. The following signs are what I think you all should look out for before proceeding further with any woman you are considering becoming more serious with…

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1) Quickly fall hard for the person.

If you find yourself thinking about this person too often and can’t get on well without them popping into your mind, then this is clearly toxic. You need to be able to function normally, otherwise it is clearly not a healthy situation for anyone. So if you feel a massive amount of infatuation, you might want to consider giving the 2 of you some time off or a break to get your bearings back.

2) They give you verbal warnings.

Another subtle sign to look out for is when a girl you’re seeing is throwing warnings at you. This means she’s telling you things like she’s hard to be with or just stating something like she’s not good with relationships. If she is giving you warnings, then it’s for a good reason – so listen to those warnings and cut it short before you get hurt.

Sometimes girls will stay with guys they don’t really want because they are too afraid to hurt them. Don’t let yourself fall into this trap, there are not many things more emotionally painful than unrequited love.

3) Partner doesn’t want to meet your friends.

Usually when someone really likes you, they want to be part of your life. They are also more willing to do things for you if asked. So it makes plenty of sense why you should view her not wanting to meet your friends as a red flag. What this shows is that she doesn’t value you as much as she should and will just lead to her taking and you giving the whole relationship. To make a long story short, stay away from takers.

4) Unforgivable behavior.

I don’t know how many times I’ve seen a girl out with a guy, then at the end of the night that same guy is still standing right next while she makes out with another dude. Yet, he ends up staying right there with her til the end of the night as he accompanies his belligerent girlfriend back home; like the noble man he thinks he’s being.

First off, you shouldn’t be with a girl that gets this drunk to begin with and second of all you definitely shouldn’t be with a girl that is going to kiss other guys in front of you. I don’t think I need to describe what unforgivable behavior is; anything that is extremely offensive is all. If she does it once, then she’ll do it again.

5) You find yourself feeling jealous.

If you’re with a girl that doesn’t understand how to behave with a man that they are with, then it might be a good time to leave. A lot of women these days – especially American women – think that it’s alright to talk with other men when out with their guy. Unless you’re into 3-ways this is a big red flag.

If a girl you are courting is constantly trying to make you jealous, she needs a psychiatrist, not a boyfriend. Our job is not to give a woman the attention her parents failed to give her – our job is to find a woman that values us and respects us. It’s pretty cut and dry – she either appreciates the time spent with a man or she doesn’t and if she is talking to other guys, then she clearly doesn’t respect or appreciate you in her life.

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Taking note of all these things will keep you from falling into the trap of unrequited love. Yes it may be difficult to let go of a beautiful woman at times, but it will pay off in the long run. Well, that’s all for today, thanks for reading and enjoy the weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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