or a lot of people, you don’t hear me giving a lot of relationship advice like most guys in this industry. That’s because you don’t need much. It’s pretty black and white – when a woman really likes you she will be easy to deal with. She won’t want to risk losing you, because you make her feel complete.
So below I’ve listed some good shit on the topic – that I personally use – so I don’t get stuck with any woman that I can’t make feel complete. Here it is…
1) She isn’t willing to invest.
To me, there is nothing more annoying than a girl who is trying to get me to do everything for her. Meaning pay the bill, text her to set up dates and basically give her the power to do whatever she wants to do.
If you run into this type of girl, I promise you won’t be getting sex as much as you probably want – if you get any at all. Wasting time with this type of girl will trigger the provider switch in her mind. She’ll see that you can be easily taken advantage of and she will lose respect. Respect is necessary to turn a woman on and if she can’t respect you, then she won’t be as sexually attracted to you.
2) Pointless drama.
In my experience, more drama usually means she isn’t content with you. Which also means that she would be more content with someone else. So save yourself both some trouble and tell her to take a hike.
It always takes some fishing before you find a girl you really click with. For me it’s probably 30% of the women I date; sometimes less. You just have to be patient, enjoy the process and get used to never getting attached that fast.
3) Parties too much.
I was seeing a girl not too long ago that told me she wanted to just be with one guy. She told me she wanted something serious and I almost believed her. Later I find out from one of her friends that she was going out 3-4 times a week.
She’s a chef so she would always get done at night. After I realized this I stopped responding to her texts. A week passes and I’m at the bar I met her at and she comes in drunk with her roommate and another guy.
So there was proof that I made the right decision. She didn’t even bother to come up to me either. A few years ago I would have been upset and would’ve probably acted up, but these days – since I understand women a lot better – I just let it go without any emotional attachment at all. I did this because I already know I can find someone just as good that will treat me much better.
So moral of the story is that you should not kid yourself when it comes to women that like to party a lot. They will never be relationship material and if you are the kind of guy that wants something serious – these are the women you should seriously stay away from. This is the path to disappointment.
4) She’s too controlling.
A major red-flag is when a girl wants you to tell her everything and tries to boss you around. Some women will want to check your phone and find out where you work, etc. The best advice I can give you with women like this is to get the hell away while you still have a dick. These are the Lorena Bobbett types.
5) She doesn’t enjoy having sex.
If you’ve allowed a relationship to progress to this point, then you’re a moron. Sorry if I am being too blunt. Unless you have a kid with her, she has no leverage to quit putting out. If your woman thinks she doesn’t need to have sex with you anymore to keep you around, then “zero sex” she will give.
So you need to be willing to draw the line and there are a few ways to deal with this also. One is to just make her satisfied sexually; which sometimes just isn’t possible. The second is be willing to lose her by telling her straight up that you will leave her if she stops putting out. If she values you enough, then she’ll respect your wishes. If not, then it wasn’t meant to be.
So in short, the only way to find out if you are with the right woman is by maintaining a mindset of abundance. This will become easier the more numbers you rack up with attractive women. When your reference number (Number of women you’ve slept with.) is high, then you won’t have a problem cutting one loose. At that point you’ve already internalized indefinitely the idea that there are 20 more women that are hotter to take her place.
So that about does it…
Don’t make these mistakes and you should have some smooth sailing or I guess you can say humping. A nice adage to add to your arsenile for the day is “If they did it once, then they’ll do it again”. So once again, thanks for reading, hope I was able to help some of you and make sure you go out this weekend!
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“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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