remember my 20s and how much fun they were, but I also remember the missed opportunities I also had because of lack of experience. I passed into my 30s not too long ago and I am going to share what I think everyone should here when in their 20s. So here goes…
1) Stay away from long term relationships:
As much as you may think you are ready, you are most likely not and neither is the girl you are dating. Most men aren’t realistically ready to settle down until their late 30s – so don’t be in a hurry to find “The one” anytime soon. Just enjoy your youth and take every hookup with a grain of salt.
2) Don’t have kids:
Although I did have kids in my 20s, I still advise strongly against it. Yea, you may still be relatively young when your kid is ready to go off to college, but you are going to be busting your ass 10 times more than you ever did the moment that kid is born.
So I advise to hold off until at least your late 30s. This way you will probably, not just have more money, but also have a better idea of what you want in a partner and much more game – so you can actually attract your ideal counterpart.
3) Date women to understand them:
In stead of just going out and hoping you get lucky, try new things and always be trying to learn more about women. Relate and try your best to empathize with them. Try to figure out how a woman looks at the world. When you can master this, then getting a woman comfortable enough to go home with you will be a breeze.
4) Work toward breaking 100 lays:
I remember when I first broke 100 lays… I felt like I hit a whole different level with women and you will too. You’d have to live it to understand what it feels like to look in a beautiful woman’s eyes in a bar, knowing you’ve been with 100 women as beautiful or more beautiful than her.
This is what I like to call reference confidence… it’s something that can’t be faked. Women smell this kind of experience. If you are always going for the hottest girl in the bar, then once you finally hit 100, meeting women will almost seem effortless.
Now that about does it…
This advice is aimed to allow you all to enjoy your 20s to your full potential. So keep it in mind if you are feeling lost and need some kind of guidance. That’s all I have for today, keep grinding!
To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…
“Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.
Just click the icon below to begin reading now…
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-PUA Redsky
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