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April 15, 2018March 27, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 signs that you should break up with your girl

or a lot of people, you don’t hear me giving a lot of relationship advice like most guys in this industry. That’s because you don’t need much. It’s pretty black and white – when a woman really likes you she will be easy to deal with. She won’t want to risk losing you, because you make her feel complete.

So below I’ve listed some good shit on the topic – that I personally use – so I don’t get stuck with any woman that I can’t make feel complete. Here it is…

1) She isn’t willing to invest.

To me, there is nothing more annoying than a girl who is trying to get me to do everything for her. Meaning pay the bill, text her to set up dates and basically give her the power to do whatever she wants to do.

If you run into this type of girl, I promise you won’t be getting sex as much as you probably want – if you get any at all. Wasting time with this type of girl will trigger the provider switch in her mind. She’ll see that you can be easily taken advantage of and she will lose respect. Respect is necessary to turn a woman on and if she can’t respect you, then she won’t be as sexually attracted to you.

2) Pointless drama.

In my experience, more drama usually means she isn’t content with you. Which also means that she would be more content with someone else. So save yourself both some trouble and tell her to take a hike.

It always takes some fishing before you find a girl you really click with. For me it’s probably 30% of the women I date; sometimes less. You just have to be patient, enjoy the process and get used to never getting attached that fast.

3) Parties too much.

I was seeing a girl not too long ago that told me she wanted to just be with one guy. She told me she wanted something serious and I almost believed her. Later I find out from one of her friends that she was going out 3-4 times a week.

She’s a chef so she would always get done at night. After I realized this I stopped responding to her texts. A week passes and I’m at the bar I met her at and she comes in drunk with her roommate and another guy.

So there was proof that I made the right decision. She didn’t even bother to come up to me either. A few years ago I would have been upset and would’ve probably acted up, but these days – since I understand women a lot better – I just let it go without any emotional attachment at all. I did this because I already know I can find someone just as good that will treat me much better.

So moral of the story is that you should not kid yourself when it comes to women that like to party a lot. They will never be relationship material and if you are the kind of guy that wants something serious – these are the women you should seriously stay away from. This is the path to disappointment.

4) She’s too controlling.

A major red-flag is when a girl wants you to tell her everything and tries to boss you around. Some women will want to check your phone and find out where you work, etc. The best advice I can give you with women like this is to get the hell away while you still have a dick. These are the Lorena Bobbett types.

5) She doesn’t enjoy having sex.

If you’ve allowed a relationship to progress to this point, then you’re a moron. Sorry if I am being too blunt. Unless you have a kid with her, she has no leverage to quit putting out. If your woman thinks she doesn’t need to have sex with you anymore to keep you around, then “zero sex” she will give.

So you need to be willing to draw the line and there are a few ways to deal with this also. One is to just make her satisfied sexually; which sometimes just isn’t possible. The second is be willing to lose her by telling her straight up that you will leave her if she stops putting out. If she values you enough, then she’ll respect your wishes. If not, then it wasn’t meant to be.

So in short, the only way to find out if you are with the right woman is by maintaining a mindset of abundance. This will become easier the more numbers you rack up with attractive women. When your reference number (Number of women you’ve slept with.) is high, then you won’t have a problem cutting one loose. At that point you’ve already internalized indefinitely the idea that there are 20 more women that are hotter to take her place.

So that about does it…

Don’t make these mistakes and you should have some smooth sailing or I guess you can say humping. A nice adage to add to your arsenile for the day is “If they did it once, then they’ll do it again”. So once again, thanks for reading, hope I was able to help some of you and make sure you go out this weekend!

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April 8, 2018March 27, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for guys who have been gaming awhile without results

hen some of you got into the game, you probably expected to become a master seducer within the first couple of years or so. Unfortunately for many of you (Including myself.) it didn’t progress that way.

In stead I had to learn for much more than 2 years, something like 5-6, until I started to see the matrix. Now it’s in every aspect of my life and yes I have conquered approach anxiety; which is possible.

So I’m taking the time to share my own input on the 5 most important things you need to focus on in order to start seeing massive results – which are listed below…

1) Lack of Style.

One thing that women pay attention to is a guy’s sense of style. So if you look like you don’t put thought into how you look, then it will show in your style.

I gamed a long time without really caring, but one day I just thought to myself “What the hell” and decided to put more thought into it. Low and behold I’m having more women come up to me on their own. So basically changing up my look made the attraction process half as hard.

If you are like I was and overlook this, then it just might be one of your sticking points. So in short, don’t neglect your style.

2) Lack of Health.

For me, these days are way more focused on health than anything. Now that I’m so knowledgeable about women – I want to make sure I can enjoy this new-found freedom for as long as possible.

It’s amazing what a healthy state of mind can do for your life. Tons of energy leading to more intriguing conversations and tons of energy leading to tons of hot times between the sheets as well. So get your diet in check fast. I personally suggest looking into the Keto (Short for ketogenic.) diet.

As for fitness… get a gym membership and start working out at least 3 times a week. Do an hour of weights, then finish it off with a 30 minute walk. If you don’t know how to lift weights, do a few sessions with a trainer until you have a good routine figured out and don’t be afraid to ask questions.

3) Lack of Escalation.

Now escalation is a tough skill to master. Not for the technical aspects, but because most men feel like creeps trying to touch a girl.

The truth is that women naturally become submissive to men they are attracted to. Consider it some sort of biological programming created through generations of evolution.

Basically when the female mind analyzes a potential mate and deems him good enough – subconsciously and/or consciously – they naturally become willing to submit to his advances. So the only way you can ever find out if a woman sees you as a suitable mate is by trying to sleep with her.

So trying to sleep with her would look something like:

You approaching her and having a normal conversation. Maybe asking her where she’s from and telling her where you’re from. Then you may judge her level of interest by how excited she becomes when you tell her these things; or maybe just by how excited she is to talk with you. If she is smiling – that’s is always a good sign.

Now you got her smiling and impressed by you. Next step could be suggesting she come to another part of the bar where it’s not as noisy or outside with you for a smoke. I’ve had women come outside with me that didn’t smoke before – just to accompany me. If a girl likes you, she’ll be willing to follow you almost anywhere.

Once you get her isolated, then you can move in to kiss. Your kiss has a lot of power so figure out what women like – all you have to do is ask them.

When she gives you the kiss, make sure it is good and do it until she’s breathing hard. After she’s breathing hard grab her butt firmly. From here you can go close to the Vag. If she isn’t pushing your hand away, go for fingering.

If a girl lets you finger her, you might as well try to bang her in the bathroom somewhere. If that’s not an option, then ask her if she lives close by. If that’s neither an option, then tell her, “Let’s go to my place.” I promise you she will most likely say yes.

Remember even a pervert that tries to make the moves on every woman he sees is going to get laid more often than an exceptional looking guy that just sits around and expects women to fall out of the sky.

4) Lack of Logistics.

Yes – this is a skill you need to get in check and I’ll break in down for all of you. First off, you need to make sure you are always at least a 15 minute cab ride from your place; whether gaming on weekends or when out on dates.

Sometimes girls just aren’t willing to leave with a guy they just met. However they will still go to first or second base (Fingering, ass-grabbing, etc.). When you see this – like I mentioned earlier – just try to take her to a bathroom. I know some awesome clubs here in NYC that have cool, clean and large bathrooms that are also unisex; can’t get any more convenient for hooking up than that. Just look around and you’ll find something like this – especially if you live in a big city.

5) Lacking Social skills.

What are social skills?

Good question… I’ll categorize it for you now. Social skills are comprised of, but not limited to, your ability to tell stories, your sense of humor, your demeanor, your level of confidence, your level of comfort in social situations and many more.

For starters, the most important things to focus on are your ability to tell stories and your ability to be funny. I’ll cover these now…

Funny stories or jokes:

You can easily learn a few jokes; there are plenty online. Remember nothing sexist, racist, political or just stupid.

For me personally, I might just tell a story like, “One time I was in Japan and I was in club with a few expats. All of the security were telling everyone to leave and the drunk British guy in our group decides to tell them to fuck off. Next thing I know I see this whole group of skinny Japanese guys come in and literally lift the guy off the floor all the way to the entrance. The guy was a big dude too – he was like 6’3″ at least. That was one of the craziest things I’ve ever seen”

This is why I advise people to travel. When you travel your acquire so many hilarious experiences that you can go on for hours and never run out of shit to talk about.

So that about breaks it down for today…

If you have been gaming for awhile and feel like you are still not getting shit done, then take note of what I wrote above. Read it and read it again. Don’t procrastinate and remember to always be pushing your comfort zone. So that’s all I got today, thanks for your support and keep going out!

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April 1, 2018March 27, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 tips for overcoming depression

am not exactly the most depressed person in the world, but every now and again I do feel the blues. When this happens I just sit back and think about a few things that I may need to work on to make myself feel better. Usually when I realize what it is I’m lacking, and work on it, then I always begin to feel like my normal, happier self. I’ve listed the most important building blocks to feeling better below…

1) Clean up your diet.

This right here is not just important, but should be a virtue. If you think you are going to be able to eat crap and feel like a million bucks all the time, then I got some bad news for you.

It’s necessary that you eat healthy and stay away from processed shit that you’ll find in pretty much all fast food. If you have a gut, then work on losing it. Always work toward becoming a healthier, better version of yourself.

2) Work out.

Accompanied with the dieting should be a healthy amount of physical activity. I suggest 3 times a week. A good hour with weights or some kind of intense muscle working activity, then a nice 20 minute walk after. Don’t forget to stretch before and after as well.

3) Cut down on partying.

Just like number 1, if you are putting garbage inside your body, then don’t expect to feel ready to conquer the world. I personally believe most of that “feel good sensation” we have when we aren’t depressed, just comes from energy. And if you are keeping your health in check, then you’ll have lots of energy.

4) Get a girlfriend.

In my opinion, I think everyone needs at least 1-2 women that they see every week on the regular. If you are just whacking it all the time and not having any real female intimacy (Sex.), then of course you’ll feel like a loser.

We are biological machines that have needs to run optimally. One of these needs is sex, so it is your job to figure out how to keep it coming in and it’s my job to teach you. So listen up!

5) Travel.

I know a few of my friends don’t have any desire to travel and are completely content in life. Nevertheless, if you aren’t content with your life, then why not at least try it. For me, travelling is my favorite hobby. If I could I would travel all year. I’ve never experienced anything more fulfilling.

I guarantee you will come back asking yourself why you even felt bad in the first place. It’s hard to feel bad when there are so many mindblowing places to visit on this planet. All with beautiful women wanting to sleep with you because you’re intriguingly different from what they are used to.

Furthermore…

Remember these five things the next time you begin to feel a little depressed. I bet you anything that you are lacking something from at least one of them. When you realize what it is, then change it. It’s not difficult, you just need to discipline yourself. So that’s it for today, now go out and meet some women!

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