was recollecting some experiences from my personal ‘so-called journey’ and I created a few things that I thought I’d talk about. I seriously considered how my pure intuition for reading women has gotten better, in general, since gaming and mainly how I’ve just gotten better at seeing through people’s BS.
Come to think about it, the more I’ve gotten better at seeing through the BS, the more I’ve improved with women. I’ve also accumulated a lot of garnered life experience from, more often than not, constantly bringing myself out of ‘the comfort-zone’. Nevertheless, what I’ve come to learn is 3 things in particular that really stuck out in my mind.
These 3 things are…
Whether you’ve gone relationship to relationship and had your heart broken in the process. If you’ve found out your girlfriend cheated on you; maybe even many times. Maybe you had a girlfriend just up and tell you she doesn’t want to be with you anymore; out of the blue…
It does not really matter just what, but the point is you are not the only one…
I highly skepticize any man, in this world, who’s finally met the lady of his dreams, didn’t have to over-come some shitty string of events within the journey to find her.
This kind of stuff will happen and you may not be used to it in the beginning, but eventually after time you get stronger and realize that unless you lose sight of the big picture, eventually you’ll conquer your goal.
Avoid being like the fool that lowered his standards which is now having to stare at a ‘but-her-face’ for the rest of his life. Because he didn’t develop the drive to keep looking and settled for the easiest thing, out of fear of loneliness.
A lot of ‘Average-Joes’, that I coach, think that HQ(High-Quality) girls will not give them the time, because they have countless other options, etc, etc. But I’ve learned first-hand that this is not true; granted looks may make it faster for you to hook a lady. Nevertheless, if you haven’t developed the ‘Interior’ and only focus on the ‘Exterior’, then you aren’t going to have any HQ girl for long.
The reality is that HQ women want guys of whom can be genuine and are certainly not afraid to let go and say what they think. They want a man that doesn’t ‘play it safe’ all the time or someone that is worried about what so and so thinks of them all the time. You need to learn to be natural.
If you can do this while keeping conversation positive, then you’ll see much improvement and you are going to become, over-all, more secure with yourself. Many people hit me up on Facebook asking questions on how to stay away from the friend-zone and I say to them this:
“Most of the time if you are usually in the friend-zone then you probably care too much about what she thinks. You are simply just playing it safe and thinking that she will at some point throw herself at you when you’ve scored enough points, however you are wrong.
You are “oh so wrong”…
Women aren’t all ‘Einsteins’ but they see through ‘the charade’ or fantasy you might be role-playing in. If you expect to get results you need to be willing to take chances… that means actually talking to her and creating a real conversation about things you like, not just asking her questions and aggreeing with what she says. If Jane is on a date with you, then tell her about how you love to draw portraits in your spare-time or the fact that you waited in the rain forever to get tickets to an EDM festival. Whatever it can be, just make sure you keep it positive.
Although you may say something dumb in the process it won’t wreck the interaction until you think it has. Just smile and move on to the next topic. If you are truly having a good time then so will she.”
I know many people don’t want to here this, but sitting at your computer or on the couch playing X-box or PS4 will not make you happy. I know it can be fun and all but you are never going to fill that deep void that only acceptance can bring.
If you’ve ever thought about it, most people make the vast majority of their choices based on acceptance.
Acceptance into a good University…
Acceptance to a high paying job or a client accepting you for your service…
Acceptance of any beautiful and caring partner…
The cure for loneliness is in the hands of others.
You can play, by far, the most entertaining and coolest of games, but in the end you will still long for that special someone. I know you feel this longing whenever you see ‘that perfect female character’ in whatever game you are playing.
Well, guess what… you are just as capable of getting her in your life, ‘for real‘ with hard-work, as you are at playing that game.
When you finally have her, then all you’ll be longing for is being with her. And when you finally see that beautiful someone that feels exactly the same way about you, you’ll ‘long‘ for each other.
Plus you can still play videogames once you’ve found her too.
So in conclusion…
Now you have 3 things to take into consideration… have fun thinking about them, because they’re very real; I speak the truth and the truth shall set you free.
Now for the people that aren’t completely acquainted with how to Day-Game, I’ve included a book for you… this is my own, personal work and it is called…
“Street Game: Day Game Tactics” by me (Cole Montag A.K.A. PUA Redsky)
I put this together after venturing out religiously since the summertime of 2007, while meeting quite a few lovely women in the process. In time, I finally felt that I acquired enough wisdom to create a book that will actually get men the ladies they want. This book is straight to the point and ‘Day-Game‘ in its ‘Rawest‘ form.
Just click on the icon below to start reading “Street Game: Day Game Tactics” now.
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