Here’s a video explaining the Break-down, enjoy!
Here is a model to show the way the interaction should go:
PUA Day-game conversation set-up:
Here is a little outline I’ve come up with that will help breakdown the interaction up to getting your target’s number or getting an instant-date.
-Approach (Over the shoulder):
This is the first part of the interaction and there are a variety of ways to do this, but the most basic is over the shoulder. The reason I suggest over the shoulder is because it is the least threatening way to approach and will allow you to get some rapport built without alarming her.
-Opener:
The opener is the next step and this can be anything from a “hello” to a funny one liner that might catch her attention. I won’t go into detail because I’ve included some ideas in the video above.
-False-time constraint:
The point of this is to not spook the target and giving her a little relief that you aren’t going to follow her around like a weirdo. This also explained better in the video…
-Qualifications (While body rocking):
This is kind of like a test to determine what her level of interest is. The idea is that if she is asking about you, then she is curious about you. On the other hand, if she is indifferent, then you are able to see she isn’t that into you; this way you aren’t wasting too much time.
I don’t see why it wouldn’t be good practice to continue gaming her, even if she doesn’t ask about you. However, if you are trying to meet a woman sooner than later, then I would avoid the women that aren’t willing to qualify themselves to you.
-Commonalities:
This is also another part of the interaction that is covered well in the video above, but the key concept is; you ask questions that are somewhat related to your personal interests, in order to find something you both have in common.
-DHV:
This is a common term in the Seduction Community that stands for ‘Demonstrations of Higher Value’. This is basically a subtle story that tells the girl something about you that implies you aren’t a loser and a man of value. (ie. Winner)
-Kino routine:
This is the part of the interaction that allows one to get the target comfortable with his touch. I believe the better you get at this, then the more success you will have. There are many routines online that are useful; I personally would suggest routines by PUA Neil Strauss.
-Multiple Threading:
This is a technique that requires learning a few interesting stories that you are very familiar with. The idea is to tell the stories up until the most interesting part, then switch to another story and repeat the process.
This is good for getting the target more curious and interested in what you are saying; everyone wants to hear the good part.
-Invite for Instant-date:
After you’ve built enough comfort with the techniques mentioned above, then you can ask your target to coffee or a drink; if it isn’t too early.
*If she’s busy, you can give her negative body-language(explained in video), then run another DHV.
-False time constraint again and number-close:
This is if you don’t get the Instant-date and you will just tell her that you need to go, but imply that you had a good time talking to her. If she seems like she enjoyed talking with you, then now is the time to ask for her number to hang out later.
-Kino (kiss on cheek)
I like to do this, because it shows her that I am not afraid to get physical and get’s her even more comfortable with my touch.
-Good bye:
This is self-explanatory…
So there you have my basic break-down for how I like to perform my interactions when I Day-Game.
Of course I am not going to share all my secrets, because I worked hard to discover them, but I think I shared enough to help those that are struggling improve a little.
Now thanks for reading and keep up the hard-work!
-PUA Redsky
