My pick up artist experience at a Real Social Dynamics Free Tour Seminar

My pick up artist experience at a Real Social Dynamics Free Tour Seminar:

I just recently went to an RSD seminar and I thought it might be worth sharing what I thought of it. So for those that are interested in trying out RSD, listen up.

The first speaker was RSD Todd. Todd had some useful information. For one, he stated the importance of positioning the women so that they weren’t looking at each other, when you are with a wing-man and trying to chat up a set.

The reason you do this is so that they won’t be distracted by each other. If they can see each other then I guess it is harder for attraction to be built.

However, I was getting a bit sleepy listening to him, to be honest. I am not going to say he didn’t offer value but he didn’t inspire me like other speakers I have listened to in the past.

Next up was RSD Julien. RSD Julien was very entertaining and I have to say that I enjoyed listening to him. I was not impressed by the content because it was all stuff that I had heard before but the way he spoke was very entertaining. His game isn’t exactly my style, yet there is no doubt in my mind that he doesn’t get laid.

He did state one thing I thought was helpful though. His advice was not to try to entertain the target but to entertain yourself. I found this to be great advice because it clicked in my mind that the essence of being fun is to do what amuses oneself.

So if you find yourself on a date and things are starting to go stale or get boring then think about what you could do to entertain yourself at that moment. One example he gave, was making up a story about just getting out of a relationship with a woman who is 200 pounds overweight, just to see your target’s reaction.

Another example is when talking to a girl, one can make a goofy laugh every time she answers a question. I found that pretty hilarious, especially when I heard what the goofy laugh, Julien used, sounds like.

After Julien, RSD Tyler spoke. Tyler was in a serious mood that day and decided to talk about social awareness. Which I already understand pretty well, so everything he stated was stuff I already knew, for the most part.

He also spent a good amount of time talking about how he got into game and the person he was before he got into the game. According to him, he used to think women were just after money and muscles. He even said that he would roll his sleeves up to show off his arms and flex when talking to his targets. He also would wear an expensive watch, keep it in plain sight when speaking with these women and boast about just buying a new house.

For me, the most entertaining thing about Tyler was the way he walked. He has a very awkward and almost cartoonish walk about him. He has this look on his face when he walks that is just so nerdy and geeky that I couldn’t help but chuckle to myself every time he walked by. To be blunt, he looked like a doofus or he just is a doofus, but a successful one and one whom is skilled in the art of seduction.

I valued his little self improvement speech up until he began to make the sales pitch at the end. He probably spent 35 minutes trying to talk about how great the RSD hot-seats are. He also went on about how they will change your life. However, they are still 2000 dollars and that is a lot of money.

After drilling in our heads, the benefits of their boot-camps and hot-seats, we then were asked to stand up. When we stood up, Tyler talked about a friend of his that slept with around 500 women but had a very odd laugh. Tyler told us to mimic that laugh and before I knew it there was a room full of around 400 socially awkward frat boys, jumping up and down while letting out this ridiculous laugh. I myself could not engage but I did enjoy spectating.

Over-all, I had a good time. I met Tyler, Julien and I already knew Todd because he always goes out to one of my weekend spots. Where he does pick up with his pawns. Tyler didn’t seem like he was in a very social mood, Julien was sociable and friendly and Todd was a bit stand offish when I greeted him.

So that’s about it. If you ever have the opportunity to hear Julien speak then I suggest that you take advantage. As for the rest of the pick up artists that were speaking that day, I would not see them again unless I needed help falling asleep.

Thanks for reading and get out and do some pick up.

-Redsky

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Guest Posting: Make the “right” mistake: overdo it. -Dating tips by Josh Sway-

Make the “right” mistake: overdo it.

*Here are some helpful dating tips written by a good guy I know, whom is also very experienced in the craft of seduction. His name is Josh Sway, enjoy.*

A big part of the learning process in anything, not just seduction, is making mistakes. No one is perfect, and when it comes to the imperfect “science” of seduction, it’s impossible to come even close to being perfect. With that said, you can dramatically improve your game if, when you make mistakes, you make the “right” mistakes, the “right way”. For dating, the “right” way is usually to overdo it.

Examples

Explaining what a “right” mistake is versus a “wrong” mistake is most easily done by example. Here are a few that will get your mind thinking the right way when you are out there improving your skills.

1. Bad approaches versus few approaches

If you are struggling with your approach game, you want to be struggling because you are making bad approaches, not because you are not making approaches at all. Bad approaches can usually turn into good approaches with some practice and tweaking. No approaches isn’t turning into shit. If you are going to go home to your left hand. don’t go home to it because you didn’t even try. Go home to your porn directory because you approached 50 women but it just didn’t work out.

2. Creepy eye contact vs no eye contact

Similar to point #1, if you have trouble making eye contact, always err on the side of making too much creepy eye contact versus not making eye contact. Fixing being the guy who “stares too long” or gives “creepy stares” is WAY easier than fixing being the guy who can’t make eye contact to save his life.

3. Neediness

A lot of guys have trouble being “non-needy”, They meet some girl who is hotter than most girls they normally associate with and they turn into one of those lovable losers from a teenage romantic comedy. If you have neediness issues, err on the right side, that is, be too “non-needy”. If you aren’t sure if to text the next day or in two days, wait two days. If you aren’t sure if you should tell her how much you like her yet or not, don’t do it. Always err on the non-needy side if you aren’t sure. Being a little bit cold almost always works better than being a little too needy.

4. Moving too fast vs moving too slow

Those of you who regularly read my work know that I am a major proponent of moving quickly towards sex. Many guys are uncomfortable with this (inviting girls back to your place on the first date or on the first meeting) but guys, it is the right way to go. However, sometimes, you may end up going too fast for the girls comfort level. This is fine as long as you don’t force her to do anything she is not consenting and comfortable doing. It is a much better error to get the: “I think we are moving too fast” line (usually, that line is nothing more than token resistance anyways) than to take it too slow and see your chances vanish before your eyes, or worse, another guy getting in there, moving quickly, and fucking the girl you wanted.

5. Too high energy vs no energy

If you are a shy guy who needs to amp up his energy level. Don’t worry about going overboard. Being the guy who is “too high energy” and kind of annoying is way better than being the guy who just stands around doing nothing. If energy is your problem, worry about having a high energy level first, and then worry about how to calibrate what the right amount is.

These are just 5 of many other examples of the overdoing it vs not doing it principle. Your game will substantially improve when you start doing what you know you need to do with the risk of going too far instead of not doing it at all because you are afraid of going overboard.

Read more of Josh Sway’s work at
http://www.joshsway.com

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