PUA 3 Missions:
Today I thought about productive ways to get better at pick up and also to step things up in life in general. I brainstormed some ideas for doing this and will repeat them as followed.
1) Have a mission to get out and do something besides worry about work and the whole day-to-day rat race.
When I say this I am describing the daily grind of going to work, worrying about work, going to the gym, worrying about missing a workout or going on a date, worrying about the date.
I believe it is healthy both emotionally and physically to do something aside of the before-mentioned.
What would one of those things be exactly?
Well I’ll give you a hint… Mountains, lake, landscape, outdoors…
Yes, go outside! Go for a hike and walk up a mountain path. Do this a couple of times a week on your days off. Go off and explore to find a nice view that you haven’t seen before. You will be surprised how motivated and inspired you will feel afterwards.
Something I like to do is go on Google to pick a random place I haven’t been. I used to do 5 miles away from where I live but now I have raised it to 10 miles; give or take. Make sure that it’s a safe area if you live in a big city.
2) Have a mission when you are out partying on the weekends with your friends.
What kind of mission?
A mission involving women! Pretty good explanation right?!
Something I like to do is write out a goal for the night on my phone. I have a nice little application called ‘Writer’ that lets me do this.
I like to write out something like:
“Venue change at least 1-2 females.” or “Get into club with females I met on the street or in a bar.”
Since a lot of clubs in NYC will let you in without cover if you bring hot girls then it is a win. It is also very true that clubs hire promoters to purposely increase the ratio of women so that there are more women than men. They also, not only increase the ratio, they hire these promoters to bring only hot and highly attractive women.
Which brings me to the conclusion that if I can avoid the cover charge and go to a club for free then I improve my benefits. These benefits being that you will increase your odds of getting some action and most likely with hotter women, as long as you approach them.
3) Have a mission to approach at least 10 “very attractive” women a day.
Yes, I said “very attractive” not attractive or even acceptable. I want you to approach hot, hot women. You need to go for the gold because if you just go for second rate then you will be second rate your whole life.
Let me tell you a secret… No one wants to be second rate.
Some people may tell you, “I am not trying to be with a super model I just want someone I can cuddle with and have around at times so I won’t be lonely.”
You know what I do when I hear that for the hundred millionth time?!
I laugh in that fool’s face!!
You want to know why?
Because time after time that douche-bag is the one talking behind my back about how I have a problem with commitment and will never be happy in life, etc… etc…
It isn’t always that but it seems to be something along those lines.
Well, guess what my friend?!
I have news for you if you are “that guy.”
I know that you see me making out with beautiful women in front of you, while you sit back and have movie night with your so, so girlfriend. Trying to pretend that you are proper and appropriate. However you are still with an average woman and you are still getting mad when you see me with a new woman hotter than your average girlfriend.
But do you even know why you are mad my friend?
One word…
“Envy.”
You are mad because you are jealous, plain and simple. You probably won’t even admit you are mad but you’re in denial.
You want those hot women and you want to be on top of them. You just try to pretend that you don’t and I know this fact all too well.
So don’t think you are fooling anyone because you are only fooling yourself!!
If you didn’t want it then you wouldn’t talk garbage about how sleezy and ridiculous my sex life is to your friends.
You would just sit and be satisfied and not have the urge to talk poorly of others or even have the urge to be mad. This is because you would be happy… Which you are not.
So think about that…
Now go out and quit selling yourself short with these “whatever” girls. You know the girls that are easy for you to get.
Go out and get rejected again and again! Process after process! Until finally!
Finally! Finally! Finally!
You have met a 10! A 10! A 10! 10, 10, 10!!!!
A 10 that actually likes you!
Wtf?!?!
When you get used to that, my friends… Then you have just discovered what it feels like to have improved your skill in pick up.
Now there you have it. Never get comfortable.. Never stop getting hungry.. Never stop wanting better.
Thanks for reading and good luck!
-PUA Redsky
