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May 13, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 reasons why you’re still single

ome of you may not want to accept it, but if you are single and not by choice, then you might have some flaws. If you are actively looking or have been wanting a beautiful, respectful and virtuous woman in your life for a long time without having success, then look no further. I’ve compiled 5 of the main reasons you are most likely single below…

1) Screening.

There should be a substantial amount of attraction from the woman’s part before you even consider getting in a relationship. This means she is texting you on her own – not just responding to you – and rarely flaking when you meet up to hang out.

2) Bad communication/social skills.

This usually comes down to not being assertive enough and not stating what you are unhappy about with your potential partner. She can either be willing to address it or leave.

A good partner, when you’ve found one, will want to make you happy. As long as you are being fair and respectful, then she will listen to whatever is on your mind. So don’t be afraid to say what you feel – just make sure you are coming from a healthy place first before you speak. This means not spewing out drunken belligerence, or talking when you feel insecure or selfish.

3) Bad habits.

Bad habits can be a number of things… anywhere from not taking care of yourself, being negative or just acting out of insecurity. What I’ve found to be a big attraction killer for most guys I’ve worked with is acting out due to a high level of insecurity.

When you act out due to insecurity – you will unknowingly do a lot of obnoxious things that will obviously turn women off. For example, getting jealous easily or being reactive; getting offended easily; being needy or jumping to conclusions as well. The idea is to create a comfortable vibe that will make people want to be around you.

4) Laziness.

When I talk about laziness I am mostly referring to not putting yourself in enough situations where you can meet women. This means you need to start taking massive action so you can take advantage of every potential opportunity to bring a new woman into your life.

Naturally the more women you talk to and try to get romantically involved with will lead to more sex. And if you want more than sex, then it will give you more power over who you wind up with. So in short, you need to go out more – there are no shortcuts.

5) Boring/unattractive lifestyle.

New experiences are the building blocks of an attractive lifestyle. This means travelling to new places, going to festivals, etc. You want to do more things that you can tell interesting stories about.

Learning new languages is a great start as well, and in my experience, the best way to learn new languages is to travel to different countries. There is an old French adage I like, it goes like this…

“A man that knows 2 languages is worth 2 men.”

I find this to be accurate – your value in the eyes of women will skyrocket when you demonstrate this ability. You’ll go from just another ordinary bloke to extremely attractive. So take advantage of your ability to learn new languages as much as you can, because as you get older it becomes harder and harder to learn new things.

All in all…

Being single is in your control – so stop playing video games and getting distracted with habits that won’t benefit you in developing your character. That’s what it comes down to – “character”. Well that’s everything for this week. Remember to keep being the best version of yourself and go out and meet some ladies this weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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-PUA Redsky
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April 29, 2018March 26, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips to make any girl like you

ow I thought I might make the article of the day about building comfort – or the initial part of the first date/first interaction. In my opinion, you shouldn’t have much trouble getting on a woman’s good side if you have the following concepts mastered. These concepts are…

1) Make her feel good.

I don’t think it is rocket science to understand that making someone feel good around you will also make them value you a little more. So putting some effort into making people feel pleasant in your company can definitely help.

Sweet talking: A form of banter that ilicits positive emotions with mostly flattery.

Sweet talking is great for American women; at least I’ve found this to be true. Especially with the whole feminist trend taking place within the American female community. If a girl is attracted to you from the start, then a sweet compliment about how you think she’s cute may play in your favor. Don’t elevate her too much though; 2 compliments at max.

2) Meet women in a place where you feel comfortable.

I actually discovered this after years of putting myself in uncomfortable situations. One day I just realized certain bars, where I know everyone, I just seem to kill it at. So I started doing this and started getting double the hookups I was getting before. It actually blew my mind how much one little tweak like this changed everything.

So find out where your safe space is and start making this your sacred hunting ground. Just like how the Native Americans have sacred hunting ground – find out where yours are.

3) Be positive.

When I say be positive I mean don’t get triggered like a little insecure child by any slight shot to your ego a woman might take. Talk about positive experiences and basically be nice to everybody – the tyoe of behavior some us in New York might consider being fake. However other people in Los Angeles might consider having class. Nevertheless, don’t be the downer or the guy who doesn’t ever seem like he’s having fun.

4) Make her laugh.

I have a bunch of content on this already (Article: How to be funny), but the idea is to just not take things as seriously and stay relaxed. You can say something like, “The waiter/bartender looks like a penguin – I feel like I’m watching National Geographic.” It doesn’t have to be super funny either… even better if you got the girl is laughing at things that aren’t that funny. It shows compliance and that seducing her might actually be easier than originally thought.

So that’s about it for this week…

Hope that I was able to share some insight with you guys this week and feel free to message me with ideas for new articles as well. Also remember that the more women you have seduced, that are actually a challenge, then the more comfortable you will become naturally; at least for me. It’s like you’re subconsciously learning too. The way I see it is that you are like a guitar string and the more women you’re with, then the more tuned the string (You) will become. Well that’s everything I have to share, thanks for reading – now go out and take advantage of the Spring!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

-PUA Redsky
Follow @redsgy

April 22, 2018March 26, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 4 tips on how to react when someone insults you

find myself in this predicament ever so often, you can’t really live in a city like New York and not expect to come across at least one douche every now and then. So I’ve put together a list of a few ways I react to either diffuse a bad situation or avoid it entirely. The following are…

1) Ignore them.

Sometimes when I find myself in an unfortunate altercation, I will merely pretend as though I didn’t even hear the aggressor. You’ll be surprised how well this works. People will just go about their business and I’ve even seen people block the rude one out of the conversation; even if they were friends.

Also if this is successful you might even become the dominant frame in the group. This is good – because if their are women in the group – it may make it easier to seduce them.

2) Cut them off.

Similar to ignoring them, it has the same effect. You basically out-alpha them and most guys aren’t going to say anything because they know they’ll look bad.

All you have to do is continue talking about whatever you want to talk about with someone else. Make sure to behave engaged as well so the jerk doesn’t decide to try to spew out more negativity.

3) Laugh about it.

Sometimes I’ll laugh and say something like,”Are you serious?” I might even follow up with “We’re all adults here” and change the topic. This is another example of holding your frame. In stead of giving the harasser the floor – you hold it and break the harasser’s frame by implying that we are all grown men. Most guys will fall into frame, unless you’re usually surrounded by psychopaths, but hopefully that’s not the case. If you hang out with bad company, then my best advice is that you stop.

4) Move on to another group.

If all else fails, then you should just move on to another set – that is if you aren’t with the group of people or are able to just leave. This is one of the reasons I prefer to just go out with myself most of the time.

If you are approaching often – like you should be – then you will come across a bad set (Set: Meaning group of people.). Just learn to have a thick skin and realize that many people aren’t as willing to accept people they don’t know as well as others.

So that about ends it for today…

When you go out enough and get reasonably experienced, then it will be hard to get mad with all the pussy you’re getting. So dodging douche-bags won’t be a problem. Well I hope this was able to benefit some of you. Thanks for reading and remember to go out and approach this weekend!

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