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May 30, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for how to use takeaways

o today I am going to cover the ancient art of the takeaway. For those that are not familiar… a takeaway is when you meet a girl who is obviously showing signs of attraction (IOIs: Indicators of interest.) and instead of giving her a lot of attention or making it obvious that you are interested – you back off a little. This way you cause her to feel a stronger level of attraction for you, because it’s human nature to want something that is not that easy to get.

I’ve listed below the details on how to master the takeaway – so take note if you don’t have this down already…

1) Best to use early on in the night.

Yes, the reason I say this is because most women in the club are still sober early on. So bouncing around to a few girls will give you an idea of who is showing the most interest. If a girl is showing interest when sober, then backing off and reapproaching a little later on in the night – when the target has a few drinks in her – may just light a fire.

Once you reapproach all you have to do is build some sexual tension through eye-contact (Google triangular gazing). Mastering the takeaway is what separates the men from the boys in my opinion. When you completely understand how to do this from practice, then you will see your success rate improve drastically. When I first got the hang of this I finally reached a turning point where I felt like I had more solid control of my game.

2) Walking away after pinnacle of interaction.

So it’s early on in the night and you see a girl that is looking at you constantly. Now is the perfect chance to go up and introduce yourself – so you do this. You exchange information about each other and she’s very receptive. She’s probably smiling as well at this point.

Eventually you get to the point where she is talking more than you. This is the perfect time to use the takeaway. What I do is just tell her I’ll be back later, but first I find out if she’s planning to stick around for awhile. If not, I’ll ask if she has Facebook or if she wants to meet up another time. If she says yes, then I’ll ask for her number and part ways.

Nevertheless if she does plan on staying around, I just tell her I’ll be back. Following this I’ll leave her plain of sight. At this point she doesn’t know if I left or if I am even still around. Now she’s most likely thinking about me – this interesting and mysterious guy – that she may never see again. That feeling is exactly the point of the takeaway and now she values me higher than most of the other guys that are going to approach her later on.

I try not to wait too long, maybe 45 minutes or so, then I’ll come back. Hopefully she is feeling the alcohol a little more. Usually they do, because it doesn’t take more than 1 or 2 drinks for most women to feel the effects of booze.

Once I’ve come back and see that she is clearly excited to see me, then I will smile and say something playful like, “Long time, no see.” I’ll talk with her a bit more and then suggest going out for a smoke or tell her to come with while I get a drink so I can isolate her from her friends. Once I see that she’s compliant with this, then I’ll start to escalate (Move in for a kiss, etc.).

3) Use sparingly.

Another piece to add to the equation is that you should not apply this technique to the same target more than once. In order to be effective one time is enough. If you do too often then you’ll just make the girl think you are not that interested or that you’re a douche. The idea is to create a sense of loss, then ultimately add clout to the initial level of attraction – not to make you seem like a jerk.

4) Make sure the target is giving IOIs before using.

A few examples of IOIs are her moving close to your vicinity, looking at you more than normal, smiling at you or just flat out coming up to you to talk. If you notice any of these things, then it is obviously safe to make these girls you targets.

5) Don’t be too harsh.

I’ve read some research over the years about how to be an effective leader in the workplace and heard that it is better not to be too nice but at the same time not be too mean as well. So this can also be applied to effectively attracting a mate.

There is a happy medium that women are more attracted to. Meaning that you must have a certain level of detachment that keeps the woman yearning for you. This basically makes us seem like a challenge – which humans in general are just more attracted to. Think about it… no one appreciates anything that comes easy.

So in short…

Just don’t be easy and you’ll be in the right state of awareness to master this skill. Women can sense desperation, so keep your options open – and most of all – don’t doubt yourself. Now that’s everything for today – enjoy your week and make sure you’re going out!

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“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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-PUA Redsky
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May 13, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 reasons why you’re still single

ome of you may not want to accept it, but if you are single and not by choice, then you might have some flaws. If you are actively looking or have been wanting a beautiful, respectful and virtuous woman in your life for a long time without having success, then look no further. I’ve compiled 5 of the main reasons you are most likely single below…

1) Screening.

There should be a substantial amount of attraction from the woman’s part before you even consider getting in a relationship. This means she is texting you on her own – not just responding to you – and rarely flaking when you meet up to hang out.

2) Bad communication/social skills.

This usually comes down to not being assertive enough and not stating what you are unhappy about with your potential partner. She can either be willing to address it or leave.

A good partner, when you’ve found one, will want to make you happy. As long as you are being fair and respectful, then she will listen to whatever is on your mind. So don’t be afraid to say what you feel – just make sure you are coming from a healthy place first before you speak. This means not spewing out drunken belligerence, or talking when you feel insecure or selfish.

3) Bad habits.

Bad habits can be a number of things… anywhere from not taking care of yourself, being negative or just acting out of insecurity. What I’ve found to be a big attraction killer for most guys I’ve worked with is acting out due to a high level of insecurity.

When you act out due to insecurity – you will unknowingly do a lot of obnoxious things that will obviously turn women off. For example, getting jealous easily or being reactive; getting offended easily; being needy or jumping to conclusions as well. The idea is to create a comfortable vibe that will make people want to be around you.

4) Laziness.

When I talk about laziness I am mostly referring to not putting yourself in enough situations where you can meet women. This means you need to start taking massive action so you can take advantage of every potential opportunity to bring a new woman into your life.

Naturally the more women you talk to and try to get romantically involved with will lead to more sex. And if you want more than sex, then it will give you more power over who you wind up with. So in short, you need to go out more – there are no shortcuts.

5) Boring/unattractive lifestyle.

New experiences are the building blocks of an attractive lifestyle. This means travelling to new places, going to festivals, etc. You want to do more things that you can tell interesting stories about.

Learning new languages is a great start as well, and in my experience, the best way to learn new languages is to travel to different countries. There is an old French adage I like, it goes like this…

“A man that knows 2 languages is worth 2 men.”

I find this to be accurate – your value in the eyes of women will skyrocket when you demonstrate this ability. You’ll go from just another ordinary bloke to extremely attractive. So take advantage of your ability to learn new languages as much as you can, because as you get older it becomes harder and harder to learn new things.

All in all…

Being single is in your control – so stop playing video games and getting distracted with habits that won’t benefit you in developing your character. That’s what it comes down to – “character”. Well that’s everything for this week. Remember to keep being the best version of yourself and go out and meet some ladies this weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

-PUA Redsky
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May 6, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 4 tips on how to get over rejection

o I came up with this list of concepts that I personally think allow me to never let myself get too bent out of shape over women. Some of you may know this already, but when you start getting decent amounts of lays on a regular basis, then it can take somewhat of an emotional toll.

For one – you are meeting a lot of women, because you’ll be going out a lot more, which means a lot more rejections as a whole. Another factor is when women leave for whatever reasons – maybe sex is getting dull or she’s moving – you are going to have to say goodbye. This can be tough, but in time it gets easier. The following concepts that will help with getting over women easier are…

1) Accept that everything comes to an end.

A harsh truth, but it is the truth. Every perfect relationship will eventually come to an end – it doesn’t matter how good it is. So the best mode to get in – or perception to accept – is that one day that giel with the sexy little ass will eventually not see you as sexy anymore. Learn to fall in love with the chase and you’ll never be disappointed.

2) Remember that she’s the one missing out.

Remember that you are the one that has to be “you”. So always view yourself as a sex machine that women would be foolish to pass up. If she can’t handle you confident and proud of who you are, then she’s not the one. If she can’t appreciate your presence, then allow her to appreciate your absense.

3) Approach more women.

Another major truth one will learn in the journey of getting better with women is that you have to go out. If you are staying in all the time and not having the balls to approach more women, then don’t expect to get over anyone.

You need to take massive action and be putting yourself in more social situations more frequently. You also need to be making approaches and not ending those approaches without either trying to hang out at that instant or getting her number. Yes you will get rejected more, but every success you continue to have will ease the emotional toll of every rejection.

4) Make it a habit of prioritizing self improvement over women.

No woman should every be more important than making money, going to the gym or anything related to you achieving greatness. So if she is being selfish and complicating your life, then she’s done. If she is stressing you out to the point where you are feeling depressed, then simply don’t go any further.

So that’s about it…

For me, getting over rejection is about perception… so if you perceive yourself in a bad situation, then you’ll be more likely to dwell on things a bit more. However, if you learn to make light of things and look at all the pay off – from going out and pursuing more women and not whacking off in the house – then you’ll definitely feel better about every situation. Just make sure you have your life lined up right. That’s what I got – thanks for reading and don’t forget to take advantage of the Spring weather!

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