PUA Tips: Things women are programmed to look for in a man

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pua pictureow this article is based on what I’ve seen in over ten years of going out and meeting different women. I’ve also maintained many relationships with lots of women – that I’m still in touch with to this day.

The following things listed are what I personally believe most women are programmed to search for in their potential mate…

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1) Intelligence.

Probably one of the strongest impressions to make on someone is to impress them with your intelligence. When a person (Female or male) respects your intelligence, then you better believe they’ll value your company.

So remember the brain is like a muscle, the more we train it, then the smarter we get. Therefore, never stop being great… learn new languages, travel, study, learn and never stop learning.

2) Confidence.

Confidence – to me – is a combination of experience and never-ending growth. So if you want to radiate confidence, then first get your lay-count up with quality women. Once you’ve accomplished that, then keep the ball rolling. Never stop and never get comfortable; always be pushing for the next level.

3) A social life.

Don’t just push to master getting women, work to master relationships with people as well. Learn to build relationships with powerful people and learn what you need to do to get them to respect you as well.

4) A good sense of humor.

The ability to put others at ease with a good sense of humor is a very useful tool. Knowing when to poke fun at others and using sarcasm subtly can be a start. The rest of it is learned through trial and error.

5) Similar interests.

I think it helps to have things you are both passionate about in common. For example: My last serious relationship, my girl and I both were passionate about checking out new restaurants in the city. I guess you can say we are both “foodies” – anyway, we always had a good time together because of this.

Remember that everyone has at least one thing in common, that you both can be passionate about. So try to find it, it helps big time to know how to pinpoint the commonalities and embellish; especially for retaining the women you really like.

So that about does it…

Hopefully the aforementioned will help simplify everyone’s perception of what is needed to attract your ideal mate. I think I made it pretty clear, so I am going to cut it off here. Just remember that not all of these things can be changed in a day; it will take time to improve character. Anyway, that’s all I’ve got for this week and once again… keep going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: How to test for quality women

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W-design-1 pua picturehen I grew up I had a fairly large family on both my mom and dad’s side. Also men were dominant, so I had more uncles than aunts. I am lucky to come from the family I came from, because most of my uncles were not only very successful, but also great with women.

I was able to get a first-hand look at how naturals pickup and keep, not only beautiful, but quality women in their lives. So among many great things that I learned from watching and doing what I saw my uncles doing – a few principles stuck out in my mind. They gave me insight that allowed me to come up with these 3 tests that will raise red flags right away; so I don’t end up with shitty women. Below I’ve listed a few ways to tell if you should stay with a girl or not…

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1) Ask them to pay for something.

When I’m out with a girl for the first time, I like to see if they’ll get at least one drink. This right here shows a few things for me. One is that they are independent and two is that they like me enough to invest money in me. People won’t invest a thing if they don’t truly like a person.

2) Shaming you.

This is a typical female manipulation tactic and it is a telltale sign that she is an abusive person. Some people just like to be abusive and although it isn’t right, you can’t change them. So in short, just stay away from them, because there are plenty of women out there that will treat you a hell of a lot better.

3) Ask a friend to try to get her number while you’re in the bathroom.

So let’s say you met a girl and she past the first two tests. Now you can see that she at least likes you. Next step is to see how loyal she is.

I have had women fail this test and it has done me great justice. I always end up in the most rewarding relationships. My women all fall hard for me and always are willing to stay in my life for a long time.

Not only that, they are thoughtful and give me my space. We don’t fight as much either and my theory for this outcome is that when a person truly values a person, then they won’t do things to upset them. The thought of losing me is too great, so in return she is more well-behaved.

For the most part…

All this advice is golden and you’ll thank me later if you follow this. If you lower your standards, then you lower your rewards. The key is to evolve to the highest level possible as a man (Physically, financially and mentally.) and when you’re there, then high level women will come to you with ease. So that’s about it for today, thanks once more for reading and make sure you get out this weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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PUA Tips: Top 4 tips for being funny

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pua pictureow here is a skill that all of us can improve, and thankfully, I can confidently say that I have it pretty well figured out. It isn’t that complicated if you just have someone that knows what they are doing to explain it.

A good sense of humor is vital and has an immense amount of power as well. You can go from a very boring evening to an amazing one in the blink of an eye – if you only know what to do. So lucky enough for all of you, below I’ve included a list of principles that will allow you to master this skill very quickly…

1) Self-deprecating humor:

Maybe some of you have heard this term before “self deprecating humor”… what this means is that you don’t poke fun at anyone but yourself, therefore you don’t offend anyone; which is actually a big deal if you want everyone to like your jokes.

Here is an example of a joke I used last weekend:

Me: “I had an interesting conversation with a random girl the other night. You want to hear the story?”

Girl I just met: “Sure.”

Me: “The other day I was talking to this girl I randomly bumped into at a bar and she asked me if I was drunk. I told her I only had 2 drinks. She then asked me how many I had at home.

(Pause 2-3 seconds)

Me: “Guess what I told her?”

Girl I just met: “What?”

Me: “I told her shots don’t count.”

Girl I just met: “Haha.”

Notice how I am keeping the focus on me and not picking at anyone else. This kind of humor is great for making people you just met more comfortable around you. Just don’t crack jokes too often or you’ll just look like an attention whore.

2) Making fun of someone annoying in the room:

I usually do this after I’ve confirmed that a girl already likes me or after we’ve already kissed. This is good, because it puts less stress on me for having to keep the conversation going. I don’t have to think about telling a good story and it is an easy way to get a girl laughing.

Just don’t come off too much like a douche-bag. A simple comment like, “I bet that guy gets all the girls” is good enough.

3) Sarcastic answers to serious questions:

When I mean sarcastic answers, I’m thinking the way an older brother would kid with a younger sibling. For instance, if a girl asks me “what I do for a living” or “where I work”, which will happen, then I’ll answer with something like, “At an office, in a building, next to a street.” Some simple word-play like that is much more entertaining than the typical response.

You could even go as far as to say something like, “I sleep next to a dumpster down the street.” I’ve used both of these responses with a great deal of success.

4) Teasing:

Teasing is also very simple… telling her “good job” when she missed a shot while playing a game of pool is a good example. Maybe she has a striped sweater on. I would say something like, “Did you just come from a ‘Where’s Waldo audition’?” Yes these may seem a little harsh, but if a woman is somewhat attracted to you, then they just view comments like these as flirting. Just don’t over-do it or they will be offended.

For the most part…

You will have to figure out what is too much and just right, through trial and error. Different women will have different degrees of tolerance. And if they do get offended easily, then just move on to someone else. If they get offended, then they are obviously not for you. Well, that’s all I got for today. Hope this has helped some of you and remember to keep going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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