have a lot of people ask me what I do to break the touch barrier. I tell them it isn’t as simple as do this, then this and this and so on. First it comes down to the right timing, regulating the tension – while lathering on some comfort as well. Below I’ve categorized the three keys to touch:
1) Timing:
Timing is being able to read the girl. A good example might be if a girl tells you that she thinks you’re cute. This might be a good time to grab her arm and lightly pull her close.
Another example might be if a girl is complimenting you or very interested in talking with you; asking a lot of questions. Even if she just was willing to go with you somewhere – this usually means that you can easily break the touch barrier. Women naturally submit to men they’re attracted to. So if she is submitting to you then you might as well pull her close to you and try to kiss her.
2) Tension:
The way that I work on tension is by putting myself and situations that other guys would try to kiss the girl. However I don’t kiss the girl, I just sit back and let her watch. Sometimes a girl will kiss you on their own.
When I do this, by the time I finally do make the move she is already wanting it really bad. So because I already got her buying temperature up somewhat – I lower the rate of rejection.
3) Comfort:
Comfort is giving her space. Comfort is not forcing her to do anything, instead you are just enjoying your time together. Don’t have any expectations just try to have fun. If you know any cool places in the city, then take her there. Take her places that you want to go and meet women at places that you want to go. If you’re somewhere you like, then it will be easier for you to make people comfortable around you. Simply because you are comfortable.
On a final note…
Keep these three things in mind next time you’re out and want to try to break the touch barrier. It all comes with experience – just keep going out and get that lay count up!
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