ey everyone,
I just wanted to make something clear… I have never come across a girl that was beautiful enough to make me feel she was worth putting up with a plethora of ridiculous bullshit regularly just to be with. It’s possible some guys are into this garbage, but most certainly not anyone with any kind of self respect. Guys, you have to put your efforts into investing in a woman that treats you with respect and dignity, because women that don’t will probably never change that. If that reminds you of your relationship, then I suggest grabbing your gold fish, the Budlight she doesn’t want you sipping on and get the hell out of there.
Pay attention to the ‘Omens’ below…
You’ve been seeing each other for around half a year (Maybe not even that) and now all of a sudden everything you have is now “ours”. Next thing you know she’s painting your walls a certain color and having your dog groomed to her satisfaction.
This is something that some of us might refer to as the “I hope you aren’t going to do that”, “This will be talked about later”, “I can’t believe you’re eating that” look. Someone that has been with an overbearing, control freak probably knows this look. The reality of the situation is that no woman has the right to tell an adult male how to live his life.
If you find yourself having to say stuff regularly just to please her, then you might be already screwed mentally from this ‘unhealthy arrangement’. For example: “Yea, you were right”, “Yes, I know I shouldn’t have done it that way”, “I am very sorry”, etc, etc, etc. So if you are constantly admitting you are wrong, apologizing excessively and for dumb things, then you are clearly in a crappy relationship. No good will come from this.
Let’s say this woman is constantly online checking out vacation spots that she wants ‘you’ to take her to or maybe she’s messaged you a picture of the ring she wants, when she wants ‘you’ to tie the knot. If that’s going on already, then it’s going to continue and continue for as long as you are with her. It will become a materialistic relationship and the only way to make her want to stay with you, is most likely, with things you buy her or places you take her. Even after the wedding, let’s see how she overcomes children constantly crying and needing to be attended to. I don’t think it will end pretty; at least for you.
If you find her commonly lashing out at other women, server’s at restaurants, people in front of her when in line at the mall, then it is most likely not the other people’s fault; she is clearly the person with the problems. Suppose your family doesn’t want to say anything mean about her, but still can’t find anything good to say. When this happens it probably means they are disappointed in your choice. So keep this in mind if you value your happiness.
She despises the time you’re gone. She won’t let you go out with your friends without making a huge deal over it. You end up having to ditch your friends for her ridiculous need for constant reassurance. And don’t let it get to the point where you have to ask for permission to do anything with friends in general. She is constantly envious of anyone else involved in your life, whether it be family or friends, she always needs to know she is “number 1”.
So there is just a few things to keep in mind. Any of this that sounds applicable to your current relationships means you should probably consider rethinking whether it’s worth the life it will be draining out of you. After all, it’s only costing you your happiness.
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Greetings! Very helpful advice on this article! It is the little changes that make the biggest changes. Thanks a lot for sharing!