Today I wanted to share with you something that may be quite amusing to some of you. Today I must talk about frame battles…
Whether you realize it or not, we are all constantly seeking to out-do each other in one way or another. Our subconscious instincts are to show to others that we are the alpha-wolf. If you can understand our raw needs as humans, then you can know how people standardly operate socially.
In case you have high hopes and ambition to be successful at some point, with whatever you choose to do. Then you ought to master this talent. The concept is known as out-framing…
The first step is to find something that you love to do and that you are good at. Then make that your main purpose in life…
Once you’ve accomplished this, then everything will fall into place.
A basic way to out-frame pretty much anyone you deal with in your life, is by simply not giving a crap what people think of you; but don’t give a crap with style and class.
I think lots of businessmen are good with women considering they learn how to act professional. Being professional isn’t the only ingredient for the recipe though. It is advisable to have a strong foundation of beliefs that are realistic.
I think when you have your own enterprise, everything is cut-throat… you get an awareness of who will make you money and who won’t. I guess if you think about it then dating is kind of the same way.
After doing it for awhile then you can see who is going to be a good experience and who is going to be a mess. In either case, if you want to keep on top of your relationships and find the respect you deserve, then you must learn to out frame or hold your frame… not allow yourself to become mentally defeated.
You need to help overcome shyness and look people straight in their eyes… Learn to be comfortable in your shoes…
Learn to love yourself almost at a narcissistic level… you should love to be in your shoes.
If someone doesn’t trust you, then never let it affect you. If a girl calls you creepy, don’t let it affect you. After awhile people will observe how relaxed you always are; how comfortable that you are with yourself. Soon more people will become attracted.
Staying chill, relaxed and enjoying life, as it passes us by, is what living is all about anyway. The way you create the ultimate frame is by just staying content. Being content with who you are and not giving up easily.
Instead of becoming discouraged by work, get excited over it. Think of obstructions as challenges to be conquered or another opportunity to see just how strong you are.
That’s right, that there is the ultimate frame my friends… and if you are looking for a sign, then this is it.
So go out and do the work and don’t let a little bit of bad news hold you down… because you will feel that much better when you over-come it.
Now that I got that covered, I thought I would introduce a great book called…
This right here is a great resource that will steer your outlook on life in the right direction.
Click the icon below to start reading “The 48 Laws of Power“.
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