PUA Tips: Attraction and the brain

Attraction and her brain pua picture

S-design-1 pua pictureo I’ve been in the seduction community for pretty much all of my adult life. I’ve been going out and seducing beautiful women for around 13 or 14 years now and I’ve been able to analyze a lot of interesting data.

I’ve learned a lot about myself and also just people in general. I’ve been able to connect the dots when it comes to what must be done or what behavior must be displayed so I can ultimately get a woman to want to have sex with me.

Now today I am going to share one of my most groundbreaking conclusions I’ve stumbled upon on this journey…

I’ll start by mentioning the fact that the human brain is made up of 3 sub-brains. Each of these brains control different processes for survival. They also respond to different behaviors and if you know what behaviors trigger what portion of the brain then you can actually influence the target to become more attracted to you – meaning they will be more inclined to sleep with you or stay in a relationship with you.

This ideology is similar to how NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) works. Saying or doing certain things can trigger a person’s nervous system so that they are feeling the desired emotions. So in other words you are like a puppeteer pulling the strings of his puppets.

Attraction and the brain pua picture

Now I’m going to describe the 3 sub-brains…

1) The Reptilian Brain.

This brain is considered the most primitive and is in charge of regulating the emotions necessary for survival. So this would be considered the “instinctive brain” and is responsibility for all responses related; such as fear. Activating this part of the brain will usually end in rejection.

2) The Mammalian Brain.

This is the “second brain” and the brain that we as seducers should understand the most in my opinion. This part is responsible for human emotion as well as pleasure. I’ll explain further on what one can do to stimulate this brain as much as possible. Activating this part of the brain effectively will usually end in hooking up.

3) The Rational Brain.

This is what scientists call the “new brain”. Here you have self awareness, thinking, consciousness and of course logic. Activating this part of the brain will most likely lead to being friend-zoned.


Now you have a better understanding of the 3 sub-brains. To push on a little more… there are certain ways a person can conduct themself in order to activate the desired brain. Below I’ve listed certain behaviors and what parts of the brain they activate…


Touch is definitely necessary in order to get a woman home, but too much of it will kill attraction. I don’t consider breaking the touch barrier until I’ve gotten a good amount of compliance from a woman first. Usually I’ll ask her to go somewhere with me; like out for a smoke or to a less crowded area of a bar. Once she’s agreed then I’ll make a move and that is usually lightly pulling her close for a kiss. Excessive touching activates the reptilian brain, but the right amount of touching at the right time or in the right areas will activate the mammalian brain.

Eye contact:

Eye contact is similar to touch – too much will turn her off but the right amount will turn her on. I usually will look at a woman until she looks straight back at me or we both are making solid eye contact. Following that I’ll break eye contact for a moment by looking off to the side then my eyes will come right back to hers. Too much eye contact will activate the reptilian brain and the right amount will activate the mammalian brain.


Certain topics will obviously activate different parts of the brain.

Example 1 – A debate: If you are bringing up something like why a woman should date you or giving her logical reasons why you are qualified, then you are most likely going to trigger the rational brain.

Example 2: Travelling: Talking about places you’ve been always seems to go well with me. Just be careful not to come across in a braggadocious manner. Bragging will look try-hard and trigger the rational brain.

Instead just share stories and pleasant experiences that you had. Talk about the nice places you’ve been or the weather; elicit emotions. Draw a picture with your words or describe how you felt and what you enjoyed – doing so will activate the mammalian brain.

To conclude…

Understanding the correlation between behavior and the brain can benefit all of us when it comes to connecting better with women. Now I’ve given you all a taste of some of the knowledge I’ve acquired over the years. It is up to you to continue to develop your understanding and remember knowledge is power; knowledge is also control. So never stop learning and never stop pushing your comfort zone – the sky is the limit.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

pua redsky picture

-PUA Redsky

Posted in Dating Tips Tagged with: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,
One comment on “PUA Tips: Attraction and the brain
  1. Noob says:

    That’s some back to the future type shit

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

twitter pua redsky youtube pua redsky youtube pua redsky