ow if you ask many supposed “pickup gurus” they will all have their own opinions. Just like many I have my own beliefs that are based on my own experience with the opposite sex. The list I have made is not from books I’ve read or from videos I’ve watched on YouTube, but from actual real-life experiences that I have had with countless women – from phone number to bedroom. So get ready!
The following are…
1. Be mysterious:
I really can’t count how many times I’ve had a girl tell me this. I’ve been getting this most of my life and honestly I think it might be because I come off kind of reserved when they first get to know me. When I first got into “the game” I thought this was a bad thing but it is actually the exact opposite of bad.
It means that you aren’t trying too hard to impress her and because of this you stand out from the rest of the guys. So if you are naturally introverted, then embrace it. Get used to being this way but without portraying any attention-seeking or fake behavior. You can have a conversation without trying to be the life of the party and still get the girl.
2. Have a life:
I would say this goes hand in hand with having drive or purpose. The idea is to not be a lazy bum and to actually have healthy activities other than chasing women going on. For me that would involve going to the gym, writing, playing guitar – I think you get my drift.
It’s also not a bad idea to have some friends that you hang out with and see an occasional movie at the theatre with. It’s healthy to have human interaction every so often and not just be a loner all the time. If you have this part of your life handled then you are one step further than the rest of the crowd already.
3. Build some muscle:
Studies have shown that even just a little bit of exercise can help you exude confidence (View Study Here). Not only that but the status quo that most women are fawning after is the hard body that you can only get from, you guessed it, working out.
So I suggest getting a trainer that you trust if you are serious about finding yourself a woman of quality. It’s a great feeling when you find a woman that finds you sexy and unless you were born with the looks of Brad Pitt then you’re going to have to take some initiative.
4. Be bold:
When I say be bold I’m talking about approaching shamelessly and mercilessly. I am not talking about approaching every woman in your sight, but approaching when you see a woman take notice.
If she is looking at you for longer than a couple of seconds or even looks at you more than once then that’s your green light. Make your move… just say hello and try to strike up a conversation. If she is smiling and seems like she enjoys talking to you then ask for her number. With more practice it will become more natural but you must be willing to make that first move.
5. Make her invest:
This doesn’t have to be much… just asking her to watch your drink while you go to the bathroom is fine. The reason I advise that you do this is because people are much more willing to accept that they like a person if they do them a favor.
However do not stress it or you can easily go from casual to rude. So use this sparingly and remember that after she’s done something little for you she might expect you to do something little for her as well. As long as it’s not excessive, meaning a tiny favor as well, then remember to return that favor. If it is excessive then you can just make up an excuse not to do it.
*Bonus: How to pass a common “shit test”*
Sometimes women will test to see how reactive a man is by making ridiculous requests. An example would be, “Can you wait here and watch our stuff while we go freshen up in the bathroom?” This is just one example, but if the girl is going to try to push to see how much she can get you to do then back out immediately. Just tell her something like, “I just was about to get up and get a drink sorry.” Since you only asked ‘her’ to watch your drink before, then it makes no sense why you would watch everyone else’s.
Then go to the bar and pretend like you were going to do so. When they get back you can join them. If she asks where your drink went just tell her you finished it or got sick of waiting for the bartender.
Yes, it sounds ridiculous but if you stayed back to watch their stuff she would view you as a beta male; or a weaker male. She would lose respect for you and she would most likely never return your call or text – if you managed to get her number in the first place. So to make a long story short… don’t ever let a woman take advantage because they will.
And there you are…
I’m keeping everything as straight to the point as possible. I’m not a fan of unnecessarily long step-by-step tutorials that will just confuse whoever is reading them. Instead I like to talk in concepts. When you can understand the concepts then you can connect better and eventually seduce the target.
There isn’t some one time trick that will all of a sudden make every woman you talk to attracted to you. The only real thing you can do is work on yourself to become a person of character. When your character is put together correctly then you’ll gradually start to see more and more women become attracted to you.
In the end it comes down to behavior and a healthy sense of entitlement. When you master how to behave along with learning to be comfortable in your own shoes wonderful things will start to happen.
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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-PUA Redsky
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