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December 2, 2014October 24, 2019

PUA Tips: The 1 thing that women really want

PUA Tips: The 1 thing that women really want:

Some of you may know of a man named Pete Cashmore. Pete is one of the most successful bloggers on the internet. This guy is only 29 years old and already worth 95 million dollars that he made from some blog that he started in his home in Scotland.

You may be thinking why am I bringing him up at this very instant and what he has to do with Pick-up?

Well, the truth of the matter is that in order to be successful with women of the highest caliber, you need to have a little thing called inner-game. And for me inner-game has only been developed from overcoming extreme hardship or struggle.

This hardship can be from going to school to become a doctor, even from overcoming a troubled childhood and proving to yourself that you will not become another statistic or like Mister Cashmore; creating a fortune from an unbeatable ambition to have a successful blog. But regardless of your situation you will be left a man afterwards, because you chose not to give up until you were successful.

This is the true essence of what all women are looking for in their mate. It doesn’t matter what you really look like honestly. I’ve had amazingly beautiful women tell me they found Vladimir Putin hot.

They want a man that has battled with the world and won…

They want drive.

If you want a high quality woman that has got her shit in order and is of the most superior genetics, then you need to become a man. You can’t be living at home with your parents and expect to marry a woman like that.

On the contrary, you can’t expect to get the women that you want if you are only approaching a few girls either. If you ever expect to meet a real prime quality female, then it takes experience after experience.

You need to believe that you are going to meet that lady also, because you will, you just have to believe in yourself. Eventually you will find that chemistry and know exactly how to behave to keep the fire burning. Experience after experience and failure after failure. Eventually you will get to a point that you just know what you have to do.

Everything will click, but it is not going to be handed to you over-night. Pick-up is a journey that will last years. If you truly want to get to that level where you are seducing 9’s and 10’s, then you are going to have a lot of relationships ahead of you in the process.

But in the end it will be worth it… because you’ll be happy.

Now that’s all I got for today and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newsletter!

Good luck and remember to stay up.

-PUA Redsky

November 19, 2014October 24, 2019

PUA Tips: A look at Frame-control

PUA Tips: Frame Control

What is this?

I know a lot of us may have heard this term and are not quite sure exactly what it is. This is something that is commonly used, not just in pick-up, but in other important areas of our lives.

For many, as we embark on different journeys and overcome different obstacles in life, we may feel a bit more comfortable in our own shoes. We develop a sense of purpose and after overcoming obstacle after obstacle we start to become more strong-willed. We will also realize what we truly value in life.

In time a man who has seen a lot will get a better sense of what they are capable of; or what kind of impact they have on the world. A person that has experienced a lot in life will typically tend to have a strong frame. In other words, he will not feel easily intimidated by beautiful women if he has had a good amount of experience with other women just as attractive from other times before.

How would one describe a frame?

Well, imagine that you are walking around everyday with a frame floating next to you. In every interaction that you have with a person, your frames are going to collide. When they collide, the stronger frame is going to be the remaining frame that has control.

In sales, the salesman is always supposed to maintain control of the frame or hold their frame. In doing this he is better able to push his ideas on to his client. Whether it be convincing them why they should get his product, why his product is going to be a good choice or how the product is going to make their life better; one of the concepts used for winning them over and “getting that sale” is mainly based around a little thing called ‘frame control’.

A meeting with a group of businessmen comes together to make decisions on how they should continue running their organization. In the process ideas are thrown out and against each other. Some of these ideas agree and other ideas clash, but in the end, the remaining ideas are created by those that maintain the strongest frame. Those that are not willing to submit to the other’s ideas will control the frame.

It does not matter whether these people chose to submit because the ideas were more intelligent, logical, ethical, beneficial, etc. The truth is that you can shape words into explanations that will make almost anything seem logical, ethical or beneficial; but it does not necessarily mean they are… What it means is that some of these men were not willing to continue arguing; therefore they allowed their frames to be absorbed by the strongest frame.

When you come in contact with a member of the opposite sex, you do not falter. Instead, make sure to look them straight in their eyes. They may try to tease you or maybe even push your buttons to see if you will get angry.

How do we deal with this?

Do we get mad?

Do we ask them to stop?

Do we laugh and make a joke?

The answer to all of these questions is that you do what “YOU” want to do. You don’t question it or allow yourself to become mentally defeated. You hold your frame and if you are convincing enough with your inner-game or inner-confidence, then she will give in.

Now I hope some of you all have a better understanding on what exactly frame control is and how it works.

That’s all I got for today and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newsletter!

-PUA Redsky

March 27, 2014October 24, 2019

PUA 3 Missions

PUA 3 Missions:

Today I thought about productive ways to get better at pick up and also to step things up in life in general. I brainstormed some ideas for doing this and will repeat them as followed.

1) Have a mission to get out and do something besides worry about work and the whole day-to-day rat race.

When I say this I am describing the daily grind of going to work, worrying about work, going to the gym, worrying about missing a workout or going on a date, worrying about the date.

I believe it is healthy both emotionally and physically to do something aside of the before-mentioned.

What would one of those things be exactly?

Well I’ll give you a hint… Mountains, lake, landscape, outdoors…

Yes, go outside! Go for a hike and walk up a mountain path. Do this a couple of times a week on your days off. Go off and explore to find a nice view that you haven’t seen before. You will be surprised how motivated and inspired you will feel afterwards.

Something I like to do is go on Google to pick a random place I haven’t been. I used to do 5 miles away from where I live but now I have raised it to 10 miles; give or take. Make sure that it’s a safe area if you live in a big city.

2) Have a mission when you are out partying on the weekends with your friends.

What kind of mission?

A mission involving women! Pretty good explanation right?!

Something I like to do is write out a goal for the night on my phone. I have a nice little application called ‘Writer’ that lets me do this.

I like to write out something like:

“Venue change at least 1-2 females.” or “Get into club with females I met on the street or in a bar.”

Since a lot of clubs in NYC will let you in without cover if you bring hot girls then it is a win. It is also very true that clubs hire promoters to purposely increase the ratio of women so that there are more women than men. They also, not only increase the ratio, they hire these promoters to bring only hot and highly attractive women.

Which brings me to the conclusion that if I can avoid the cover charge and go to a club for free then I improve my benefits. These benefits being that you will increase your odds of getting some action and most likely with hotter women, as long as you approach them.

3) Have a mission to approach at least 10 “very attractive” women a day.

Yes, I said “very attractive” not attractive or even acceptable. I want you to approach hot, hot women. You need to go for the gold because if you just go for second rate then you will be second rate your whole life.

Let me tell you a secret… No one wants to be second rate.

Some people may tell you, “I am not trying to be with a super model I just want someone I can cuddle with and have around at times so I won’t be lonely.”

You know what I do when I hear that for the hundred millionth time?!

I laugh in that fool’s face!!

You want to know why?

Because time after time that douche-bag is the one talking behind my back about how I have a problem with commitment and will never be happy in life, etc… etc…

It isn’t always that but it seems to be something along those lines.

Well, guess what my friend?!

I have news for you if you are “that guy.”

I know that you see me making out with beautiful women in front of you, while you sit back and have movie night with your so, so girlfriend. Trying to pretend that you are proper and appropriate. However you are still with an average woman and you are still getting mad when you see me with a new woman hotter than your average girlfriend.

But do you even know why you are mad my friend?

One word…

“Envy.”

You are mad because you are jealous, plain and simple. You probably won’t even admit you are mad but you’re in denial.

You want those hot women and you want to be on top of them. You just try to pretend that you don’t and I know this fact all too well.

So don’t think you are fooling anyone because you are only fooling yourself!!

If you didn’t want it then you wouldn’t talk garbage about how sleezy and ridiculous my sex life is to your friends.

You would just sit and be satisfied and not have the urge to talk poorly of others or even have the urge to be mad. This is because you would be happy… Which you are not.

So think about that…

Now go out and quit selling yourself short with these “whatever” girls. You know the girls that are easy for you to get.

Go out and get rejected again and again! Process after process! Until finally!

Finally! Finally! Finally!

You have met a 10! A 10! A 10! 10, 10, 10!!!!

A 10 that actually likes you!

Wtf?!?!

When you get used to that, my friends… Then you have just discovered what it feels like to have improved your skill in pick up.

Now there you have it. Never get comfortable.. Never stop getting hungry.. Never stop wanting better.

Thanks for reading and good luck!

-PUA Redsky