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December 12, 2014October 24, 2019

PUA Tips: Frame Battles

Frame Battles:

Today I wanted to share with you something that may be quite amusing to some of you. Today I must talk about frame battles…

Whether you realize it or not, we are all constantly seeking to out-do each other in one way or another. Our subconscious instincts are to show to others that we are the alpha-wolf. If you can understand our raw needs as humans, then you can know how people standardly operate socially.

In case you have high hopes and ambition to be successful at some point, with whatever you choose to do. Then you ought to master this talent. The concept is known as out-framing…

The first step is to find something that you love to do and that you are good at. Then make that your main purpose in life…

Once you’ve accomplished this, then everything will fall into place.

A basic way to out-frame pretty much anyone you deal with in your life, is by simply not giving a crap what people think of you; but don’t give a crap with style and class.

I think lots of businessmen are good with women considering they learn how to act professional. Being professional isn’t the only ingredient for the recipe though. It is advisable to have a strong foundation of beliefs that are realistic.

I think when you have your own enterprise, everything is cut-throat… you get an awareness of who will make you money and who won’t. I guess if you think about it then dating is kind of the same way.

After doing it for awhile then you can see who is going to be a good experience and who is going to be a mess. In either case, if you want to keep on top of your relationships and find the respect you deserve, then you must learn to out frame or hold your frame… not allow yourself to become mentally defeated.

You need to help overcome shyness and look people straight in their eyes… Learn to be comfortable in your shoes…

Learn to love yourself almost at a narcissistic level… you should love to be in your shoes.

If someone doesn’t trust you, then never let it affect you. If a girl calls you creepy, don’t let it affect you. After awhile people will observe how relaxed you always are; how comfortable that you are with yourself. Soon more people will become attracted.

Staying chill, relaxed and enjoying life, as it passes us by, is what living is all about anyway. The way you create the ultimate frame is by just staying content. Being content with who you are and not giving up easily.

Instead of becoming discouraged by work, get excited over it. Think of obstructions as challenges to be conquered or another opportunity to see just how strong you are.

That’s right, that there is the ultimate frame my friends… and if you are looking for a sign, then this is it.

So go out and do the work and don’t let a little bit of bad news hold you down… because you will feel that much better when you over-come it.

Now that I got that covered, I thought I would introduce a great book called…

“The 48 Laws of Power” by Robert Greene.

This right here is a great resource that will steer your outlook on life in the right direction.

Click the icon below to start reading “The 48 Laws of Power“.

Thanks for reading and remember to subscribe on the GBTN Newsletter!

December 5, 2014October 24, 2019

PUA Tips: 4 ways to beat social anxiety

4 ways to beat nervousness around women and people:

Hello everyone,

I know a lot of us may find ourselves at points where we begin to feel overwhelmed. This is usually when around women, as well as around people we don’t know extremely well. I thought I might focus on that today.

For some of us getting nervous can be discouraging and I know a lot of us would do whatever we could to have control over it. I decided to put together a little list of things, I do personally, to combat becoming anxious or nervous.

#1-Count in your head:

This is something I tell my students to do when they first start doing day-game. I tend to do a lot of day-game. I do day-game because day-game in New York City is one of the quickest ways to end up with a beautiful girlfriend.

A lot of the times, when we’re out, I have them asking how to deal with the feeling of anxiousness when they are talking to a girl for the first time. I tell them to count in their head over and over again. It can be from 1-10 or 1-50; it doesn’t really matter. The idea is to take your mind off the fact that you feel this anxiety.

#2-Affirmations:

If you are familiar with ‘Self-help’ then you might already know what this is. The idea is to tell yourself something along the lines of “I don’t doubt myself.” You do this over and over while getting that overwhelming sensation that makes you unsure of yourself(ie. Anxiety).

Trust me these work and especially at the beginning; but after awhile you won’t even need them anymore. Once you’ve started having success with some really high-quality women, then your inner-game will be sound enough that all you have to focus on is building comfort and escalating.

#3-Breathe:

Here is another obvious, yet under-rated way to keep your head in the game. A lot of us get nervous around women and don’t even realize that we are holding our breath. Don’t do this, it will increase your anxiety and make you even more uncomfortable.

Try breathing in and out at a slow and steady pace right now. Do it 10 times and pay attention to how you are feeling. You might feel your body start to gradually adjust and start becoming more at ease with each breath.

Also, focusing on your breathing will help you feel more in touch with your body, so you are not allowing yourself to over-analyze.

#4-Work out:

Yes, yes, this is a given but I can’t help but stress the importance of this again and again… Exercise lowers cortisol levels(The Stress Hormone) while releasing dopamine, serotonin and endorphins; which all make you feel really good.

The more you exercise and if you exercise before going out to a club or social gathering, then you will be more likely to have a better time. This is because you will be experiencing a natural high; a high that will leave you relaxed and more in control.

So now you have some new things to add to your arsenal…

I also included a link to a great book that will teach you more ways to become more sure of yourself while dealing with socializing and everyday life; allow me to present to you Robert Greene’s “The 33 Strategies of War”. This is a great guide to the subtle social game of everyday life informed by the … military principles in war.

Just click the icon below to start reading “The 33 Strategies of War” now.

Now thanks again everybody for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newsletter!

-PUA Redsky

December 2, 2014October 24, 2019

PUA Tips: The 1 thing that women really want

PUA Tips: The 1 thing that women really want:

Some of you may know of a man named Pete Cashmore. Pete is one of the most successful bloggers on the internet. This guy is only 29 years old and already worth 95 million dollars that he made from some blog that he started in his home in Scotland.

You may be thinking why am I bringing him up at this very instant and what he has to do with Pick-up?

Well, the truth of the matter is that in order to be successful with women of the highest caliber, you need to have a little thing called inner-game. And for me inner-game has only been developed from overcoming extreme hardship or struggle.

This hardship can be from going to school to become a doctor, even from overcoming a troubled childhood and proving to yourself that you will not become another statistic or like Mister Cashmore; creating a fortune from an unbeatable ambition to have a successful blog. But regardless of your situation you will be left a man afterwards, because you chose not to give up until you were successful.

This is the true essence of what all women are looking for in their mate. It doesn’t matter what you really look like honestly. I’ve had amazingly beautiful women tell me they found Vladimir Putin hot.

They want a man that has battled with the world and won…

They want drive.

If you want a high quality woman that has got her shit in order and is of the most superior genetics, then you need to become a man. You can’t be living at home with your parents and expect to marry a woman like that.

On the contrary, you can’t expect to get the women that you want if you are only approaching a few girls either. If you ever expect to meet a real prime quality female, then it takes experience after experience.

You need to believe that you are going to meet that lady also, because you will, you just have to believe in yourself. Eventually you will find that chemistry and know exactly how to behave to keep the fire burning. Experience after experience and failure after failure. Eventually you will get to a point that you just know what you have to do.

Everything will click, but it is not going to be handed to you over-night. Pick-up is a journey that will last years. If you truly want to get to that level where you are seducing 9’s and 10’s, then you are going to have a lot of relationships ahead of you in the process.

But in the end it will be worth it… because you’ll be happy.

Now that’s all I got for today and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newsletter!

Good luck and remember to stay up.

-PUA Redsky