o I’m going to cover five skills that will make women go crazy for you. If you’ve ever wondered what exactly women are crazy about, then today is your day to find out. Below I’ve listed 5 skills that women are highly attracted to…
1) Having a sense of style.
Believe it or not, women pay a lot of attention to how a guy dresses. If you have a decent sense of style then women will find you much more attractive. Most importantly, make sure that you are still comfortable – so keep it casual. Don’t wear a tuxedo or suit, khakis and a nice fitted t-shirt is fine. I personally shop at Uniqlo and usually wear the chino pants or shorts and I have Calvin Klein t-shirts as my go-to outfits.
2) Conversational skills.
The idea is not to just be able to converse with her, but to also have the ability to converse in any given situation. So don’t get angry easily because someone may have said something offensive.
Instead show your ability to diffuse uncomfortable situations. Having the ability to get on anyone’s good side is much more impressive than having the ability to kick ass. Charm is much more impressive than brawn.
3) Musical talent.
There’s nothing that women go crazy for more than music. If you can play the guitar, piano or anything musically oriented, then you have the potential to make most women fall in love with you. I know because I’ve done it.
So don’t be afraid to take a girl out to karaoke if you can sing. Also, if you can play an instrument and managed to get her back to your place then shorten the seduction process by playing something romantic.
4) Being fit.
I’ve mentioned this before and I’ll mention it again… a good body will go a long way. So make sure you are taking care of yourself. Get a trainer if you don’t know what you’re doing I’m going to get in the gym. And if you do know what you’re doing, then also getting the gym. Start building lean muscle mass and watch what you eat. Not only will you look better but you’ll feel better about yourself – which women definitely notice.
5) Discipline.
Discipline is a skill just like pickup – the more you practice discipline then the better you will be at it. So instead of going out all the time, make sure you focus on your goals. Make your goals your number one priority and that means putting off time with women to meet those goals. It may seem counterintuitive but the right women will appreciate it.
To conclude…
Having any of these skills will definitely make an impact on your dating value. Having all of them will make you light years ahead of the competition. So if you don’t have anything on here, then now is a good time to start developing. If you do then even better Make sure the you are showcasing these skills the next time you are out on a date and watch the amount of success you have. That’s about it… thanks for reading and keep going out!
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hen some of you got into the game, you probably expected to become a master seducer within the first couple of years or so. Unfortunately for many of you (Including myself.) it didn’t progress that way.
In stead I had to learn for much more than 2 years, something like 5-6, until I started to see the matrix. Now it’s in every aspect of my life and yes I have conquered approach anxiety; which is possible.
So I’m taking the time to share my own input on the 5 most important things you need to focus on in order to start seeing massive results – which are listed below…
1) Lack of Style.
One thing that women pay attention to is a guy’s sense of style. So if you look like you don’t put thought into how you look, then it will show in your style.
I gamed a long time without really caring, but one day I just thought to myself “What the hell” and decided to put more thought into it. Low and behold I’m having more women come up to me on their own. So basically changing up my look made the attraction process half as hard.
If you are like I was and overlook this, then it just might be one of your sticking points. So in short, don’t neglect your style.
2) Lack of Health.
For me, these days are way more focused on health than anything. Now that I’m so knowledgeable about women – I want to make sure I can enjoy this new-found freedom for as long as possible.
It’s amazing what a healthy state of mind can do for your life. Tons of energy leading to more intriguing conversations and tons of energy leading to tons of hot times between the sheets as well. So get your diet in check fast. I personally suggest looking into the Keto (Short for ketogenic.) diet.
As for fitness… get a gym membership and start working out at least 3 times a week. Do an hour of weights, then finish it off with a 30 minute walk. If you don’t know how to lift weights, do a few sessions with a trainer until you have a good routine figured out and don’t be afraid to ask questions.
3) Lack of Escalation.
Now escalation is a tough skill to master. Not for the technical aspects, but because most men feel like creeps trying to touch a girl.
The truth is that women naturally become submissive to men they are attracted to. Consider it some sort of biological programming created through generations of evolution.
Basically when the female mind analyzes a potential mate and deems him good enough – subconsciously and/or consciously – they naturally become willing to submit to his advances. So the only way you can ever find out if a woman sees you as a suitable mate is by trying to sleep with her.
So trying to sleep with her would look something like:
You approaching her and having a normal conversation. Maybe asking her where she’s from and telling her where you’re from. Then you may judge her level of interest by how excited she becomes when you tell her these things; or maybe just by how excited she is to talk with you. If she is smiling – that’s is always a good sign.
Now you got her smiling and impressed by you. Next step could be suggesting she come to another part of the bar where it’s not as noisy or outside with you for a smoke. I’ve had women come outside with me that didn’t smoke before – just to accompany me. If a girl likes you, she’ll be willing to follow you almost anywhere.
Once you get her isolated, then you can move in to kiss. Your kiss has a lot of power so figure out what women like – all you have to do is ask them.
When she gives you the kiss, make sure it is good and do it until she’s breathing hard. After she’s breathing hard grab her butt firmly. From here you can go close to the Vag. If she isn’t pushing your hand away, go for fingering.
If a girl lets you finger her, you might as well try to bang her in the bathroom somewhere. If that’s not an option, then ask her if she lives close by. If that’s neither an option, then tell her, “Let’s go to my place.” I promise you she will most likely say yes.
Remember even a pervert that tries to make the moves on every woman he sees is going to get laid more often than an exceptional looking guy that just sits around and expects women to fall out of the sky.
4) Lack of Logistics.
Yes – this is a skill you need to get in check and I’ll break in down for all of you. First off, you need to make sure you are always at least a 15 minute cab ride from your place; whether gaming on weekends or when out on dates.
Sometimes girls just aren’t willing to leave with a guy they just met. However they will still go to first or second base (Fingering, ass-grabbing, etc.). When you see this – like I mentioned earlier – just try to take her to a bathroom. I know some awesome clubs here in NYC that have cool, clean and large bathrooms that are also unisex; can’t get any more convenient for hooking up than that. Just look around and you’ll find something like this – especially if you live in a big city.
5) Lacking Social skills.
What are social skills?
Good question… I’ll categorize it for you now. Social skills are comprised of, but not limited to, your ability to tell stories, your sense of humor, your demeanor, your level of confidence, your level of comfort in social situations and many more.
For starters, the most important things to focus on are your ability to tell stories and your ability to be funny. I’ll cover these now…
Funny stories or jokes:
You can easily learn a few jokes; there are plenty online. Remember nothing sexist, racist, political or just stupid.
For me personally, I might just tell a story like, “One time I was in Japan and I was in club with a few expats. All of the security were telling everyone to leave and the drunk British guy in our group decides to tell them to fuck off. Next thing I know I see this whole group of skinny Japanese guys come in and literally lift the guy off the floor all the way to the entrance. The guy was a big dude too – he was like 6’3″ at least. That was one of the craziest things I’ve ever seen”
This is why I advise people to travel. When you travel your acquire so many hilarious experiences that you can go on for hours and never run out of shit to talk about.
So that about breaks it down for today…
If you have been gaming for awhile and feel like you are still not getting shit done, then take note of what I wrote above. Read it and read it again. Don’t procrastinate and remember to always be pushing your comfort zone. So that’s all I got today, thanks for your support and keep going out!
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