PUA Tips: Top 5 Dating Tips to Attract Women

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pua pictureow if you ask many supposed “pickup gurus” they will all have their own opinions. Just like many I have my own beliefs that are based on my own experience with the opposite sex. The list I have made is not from books I’ve read or from videos I’ve watched on YouTube, but from actual real-life experiences that I have had with countless women – from phone number to bedroom. So get ready!

The following are…

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1. Be mysterious:

I really can’t count how many times I’ve had a girl tell me this. I’ve been getting this most of my life and honestly I think it might be because I come off kind of reserved when they first get to know me. When I first got into “the game” I thought this was a bad thing but it is actually the exact opposite of bad.

It means that you aren’t trying too hard to impress her and because of this you stand out from the rest of the guys. So if you are naturally introverted, then embrace it. Get used to being this way but without portraying any attention-seeking or fake behavior. You can have a conversation without trying to be the life of the party and still get the girl.

2. Have a life:

I would say this goes hand in hand with having drive or purpose. The idea is to not be a lazy bum and to actually have healthy activities other than chasing women going on. For me that would involve going to the gym, writing, playing guitar – I think you get my drift.

It’s also not a bad idea to have some friends that you hang out with and see an occasional movie at the theatre with. It’s healthy to have human interaction every so often and not just be a loner all the time. If you have this part of your life handled then you are one step further than the rest of the crowd already.

3. Build some muscle:

Studies have shown that even just a little bit of exercise can help you exude confidence (View Study Here). Not only that but the status quo that most women are fawning after is the hard body that you can only get from, you guessed it, working out.

So I suggest getting a trainer that you trust if you are serious about finding yourself a woman of quality. It’s a great feeling when you find a woman that finds you sexy and unless you were born with the looks of Brad Pitt then you’re going to have to take some initiative.

4. Be bold:

When I say be bold I’m talking about approaching shamelessly and mercilessly. I am not talking about approaching every woman in your sight, but approaching when you see a woman take notice.

If she is looking at you for longer than a couple of seconds or even looks at you more than once then that’s your green light. Make your move… just say hello and try to strike up a conversation. If she is smiling and seems like she enjoys talking to you then ask for her number. With more practice it will become more natural but you must be willing to make that first move.

5. Make her invest:

This doesn’t have to be much… just asking her to watch your drink while you go to the bathroom is fine. The reason I advise that you do this is because people are much more willing to accept that they like a person if they do them a favor.

However do not stress it or you can easily go from casual to rude. So use this sparingly and remember that after she’s done something little for you she might expect you to do something little for her as well. As long as it’s not excessive, meaning a tiny favor as well, then remember to return that favor. If it is excessive then you can just make up an excuse not to do it.

*Bonus: How to pass a common “shit test”*

Sometimes women will test to see how reactive a man is by making ridiculous requests. An example would be, “Can you wait here and watch our stuff while we go freshen up in the bathroom?” This is just one example, but if the girl is going to try to push to see how much she can get you to do then back out immediately. Just tell her something like, “I just was about to get up and get a drink sorry.” Since you only asked ‘her’ to watch your drink before, then it makes no sense why you would watch everyone else’s.

Then go to the bar and pretend like you were going to do so. When they get back you can join them. If she asks where your drink went just tell her you finished it or got sick of waiting for the bartender.

Yes, it sounds ridiculous but if you stayed back to watch their stuff she would view you as a beta male; or a weaker male. She would lose respect for you and she would most likely never return your call or text – if you managed to get her number in the first place. So to make a long story short… don’t ever let a woman take advantage because they will.

And there you are…

I’m keeping everything as straight to the point as possible. I’m not a fan of unnecessarily long step-by-step tutorials that will just confuse whoever is reading them. Instead I like to talk in concepts. When you can understand the concepts then you can connect better and eventually seduce the target.

There isn’t some one time trick that will all of a sudden make every woman you talk to attracted to you. The only real thing you can do is work on yourself to become a person of character. When your character is put together correctly then you’ll gradually start to see more and more women become attracted to you.

In the end it comes down to behavior and a healthy sense of entitlement. When you master how to behave along with learning to be comfortable in your own shoes wonderful things will start to happen.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 6 best dating tips for finding the right woman

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pua pictureow today I figured I would put together some content for the other branch of men out there that aren’t exactly up for the whole player lifestyle and just want to find a great woman that they can fall in love with. In other words a woman that is beautiful, sweet, loyal and will be there til the end of each other’s lives.

Since I’ve found this a few times already I think I can give some decent advice on the topic. Before anything I must say that these women are not common and you’ll crash, burn and fall a lot until you finally find one. Nevertheless I can tell you all that it’s definitely worth the time spent searching because they will give you a taste of just how wonderful the opposite sex can be – even in the dreadful era of feminism.

So to get on with it I’ve listed 5 tips we all can pay attention to that will allow us to sift through the women who are not worth our time…

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1) She answers your texts in a timely manner if she is available to do so:

Yes sometimes women are busy or have their phones in their purse on vibrate, but after dating them for awhile you will get an idea of what their schedules are like and have an idea for when they shouldn’t have any issue answering.

A lot of women these days will say that they have no obligation to answer sooner than later – which is true. However I am not coming from an obligatory perspective; I’m coming from a perspective of a woman that genuinely wants to be with a man. And if a woman genuinely wants to be with a man they will want to keep him happy and have no problem being considerate of his feelings.

2) She doesn’t look for meaningless reasons to argue:

If you find yourself constantly having to calm a woman down because she is constantly getting her feelings hurt, then tell that mental case to get hell out of the house. Not only is this childish and primitive behavior, but it is not healthy. You will stress yourself out and maybe even increase your risk of heart attack or stroke in the long term. Women like this are dangerous and you should avoid them at all costs.

3) She feels bad when you feel bad:

Let’s say you had a death in the family, we all will have this at some point, she should be capable of acknowledging your suffering or being vicarious. A woman that expects you to be strong at all times is either dense or delusional and has no real meaning to her life.

4) She chooses to see you over her friends:

This is a very amazing quality to find in a female in particular. If you are lucky enough to find a girl that you really like and one that will put you before her friends, then she’s a keeper.

5) She doesn’t talk to other men when around you unless you are alright with it:

This is also a rare quality of women; at least in the west. If you find a girl that won’t talk to other guys, when you are out with her, then she obviously has a great deal of respect for you. Learn to appreciate this and understand that women only do this when they really appreciate a certain man in their life.

6) She likes having sex with you:

This is a big deal and I don’t care what anyone thinks. If you’re seeing a woman that doesn’t enjoy having sex with you, then you’re with the wrong girl. Sexual compatibility is not only important but necessary.

So if you begin to notice that your sex life is going to hell after a couple of months, then by all means find a new girlfriend. You are not only wasting your time, but in the long run your self-confidence will suffer from it as well.

Think about it this way: Sexual compatibility is 50% of the relationship and everything else is the other half. You can’t have a healthy relationship without good sex – so don’t kid yourself. If your girlfriend is not ecstatic to get frisky with you every time you are together then dump her and never look back.

Last off…

I can tell anyone with a straight face that the majority of women we meet, for most of us, will fade out and turn into nothing more than mere memories. So I advise you all not to allow yourself to get hung up on any one girl if she doesn’t seem completely into you.

If she has even a little bit of hesitation for seeing you then kick her to the curb. No relationship should be one-sided and since men seem to be getting the short end of the stick these days, then there is no reason any of us should be tolerating any selfishness or nonsense.

All that matters in the end is that you are a good guy that is going to work hard to be the best you can in this life. If she chooses to be part of it then she should have the ability to empathize with the fact that it takes 2 to tango and it’s not just up to the guy to kiss her ass – she must be willing to reciprocate.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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