Well, I personally have been reading up a little about him. So today I put together a list of some things he considered when getting women that I also agree with. The following are…To make a woman feel special, do something special.
I’ve had the most luck taking women to high end nightclubs, rooftops and of course dimly lit bars with relaxing music.
Privacy is an aphrodisiac.
This I apply to the dimly lit bar scenario – which also has enough space where my target and I can not be disturbed. I personally have a place that I have been going for close to 10 years that hardly ever has anyone in the back on the weekdays.
In those 10 years I’ve gotten blow jobs, hand jobs, and banged a couple of girls in the bathroom. Of course I always tip the bartender well – so we don’t get kicked out.
Admire her from all angles.
What Casanova is talking about is mirrors. There has also been some psychological evidence that suggests people naturally feel more comfortable in a setting with more mirrors. So wherever you choose to go – the more mirrors, the merrier.
Ask what she thinks.
Casanova spent a lot of his time asking questions and listening to details. I apply this to commonalities… the more commonalities, the better you connect. So listen carefully so you can catch those commonalities.
Once you find a commonality that you can relate to, then you can quickly recall an interesting experience to tell a captivating story. Remember to keep her engaged in the story by asking her subtle meaningless questions like “Have you been there” or “That’s a weird name right” as well.
Casanova sought to appeal to all the woman’s senses.
What he means by this is to smell good, surround her with good music and of course go to nice restaurants; at least when the relationship becomes a regular thing. I don’t take women out to eat until after we’ve already had sex though. Sometimes I’ll even take them out to a nice French restaurant for breakfast the day after.
As for smelling good… I always have a fresh collection of new cheap cologne, from all over the world, that I buy when travelling. London has tons of cheap vendors all over the city and Dubai has some of the best smelling street vendor colognes I’ve ever bought; all for around 5$ a jar.
I love music and I’m sure everyone does. So I take my dates out to places that have music like Frank Sinatra for a dimly lit bar experience. Also clubs that have great DJs that I’ve already heard.
And that about does it…
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s I sit here in my room today after just getting back from a random one-night stand last night. I sit here and come to share 4 concepts that I’ve recently pondered thay will get those of you that are struggling a boost of success.
The following are…
1) Get your life in order.
This is pretty cut and dry… get your shit together. This means getting a job where you have enough money to go out on the weekends. It means getting a gym membership and eating healthy. It means learning how to behave in front of people because you read books like mine. Last of all, it means getting plenty of sleep so you have energy to go out while approaching women.
2) Don’t be overly competitive.
Learn to just go with the flow and don’t dwell on the little shit. Instead think about things this way… If something isn’t going to benefit you 5 years from now then it isn’t worth worrying about.
3) Don’t have high expectations.
I like to enjoy the moment when I’m with a woman. I like to sit there and appreciate the fact that I am usually busting my ass when I’m not with her. So since I don’t always have the chance to hang out with a hot woman I am going to relish it and make the best of the experience.
4) Take some risk.
When I say this I mean to not be afraid to approach a woman that’s really attractive to you wherever you see her. I would avoid work, but most places are fine. You never know if you had an opportunity until you’ve gone for it; that goes for making a move on a date as well.
To add…
This advice is also to help motivate you all to achieve a more productive lifestyle as well. Yes you can get women without having your life in order but you are still not doing anything that improves you as a person.
I myself don’t want to be that random dead-beat that mooches off of women only to be looked down on as the loser some girl got stuck on. I like to be someone that her, her friends and family can look at as the successful and intelligent guy she is with. So pay extra close attention to number 1 and….
Don’t stop going out!
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“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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