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PUA Tips: How to avoid being “too nice”.

The importance of not being too nice:

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So I’m back!

And with a new thing or two to share with anyone that’s interested.

Today I wanted to get into how I think it is important to not do too much for women until, uh… They sleep with you. I feel like it is “too easy” to get put into the nice guy frame, if you aren’t pretty much a cold hearted prick; at least a little bit of the time.

I feel that when I do this, I am able to elevate my value and behave more like a man who has options or an “Alpha”. And the truth is that we do have options, even a prick like me.

If you live in a city of nearly 9 mill with 53% women and 47% men; while in Manhattan(Where I live) there is a ratio of 2 single women to 1 single man. Then you can afford to be a little more choosy than if you lived in a smaller town.

If you were to be in a smaller town, I personally believe that one can convey an abundance state of mind with one’s behavior; which in return will make a man far more compelling than the surrounding competition.

A good way to emulate this trait is by not having expectations and not allowing yourself to get overly-invested in the interaction. An example would be trying to avoid paying on the date or if she is offended by this, then agreeing to take turns buying rounds. I remember Paul Janka talking about how he would even go as far to make women pay him back.

I found Paul Janka’s response quite interesting, because I have him friended on Facebook and that guy is with a lovely lady that most of ‘those without game’ would probably consider out of his league. So in my opinion, I would see his success as evidence that withdrawing investment works.

The way I view the interaction, when out with a girl, is as though I had nothing better to do and didn’t feel like staying home. As long as she doesn’t annoy me too much, then I will keep it going and if she does something to test me then I won’t give her the response she is looking for; if anything I will do something similar to test her or to challenge her.

In my personal experience I see that when women are given the opportunity, they will most likely take advantage of the situation. It’s not that they are doing it on purpose, most women just have a false sense of entitlement.

I remember this girl getting kicked out of a bar, that I guy I know owns. I guess he was watching her in the camera and she would go up to a bunch of dudes and just spend her night leading men on and getting free drinks. Seeing this really opened my eyes to how some women can be.

So that is why it is important to be a little bit of a douche my friends. By being this way you are weeding out the trash and getting the women that actually value you. This will not only get you more sex and faster, but it will leave you less stressed out with women in general.

The way I see it; there are ‘No-Win’ girls and there are ‘Win’ girls. A good PUA is skilled at screening for them. Over time you will get better and better at finding the ideal target and eventually you’ll have so many women in your life, that you can just bring them around to places where the no-win women are. Doing this will convert the no-win girls into a win.

There are a few bars that I frequent here and there. In the process I’ve brought a significant amount of beautiful women to these places. I began to notice that the female bartenders and waitresses would begin to flirt with me when I would show up alone. At that point I wasn’t super keen on pre-selection and social-proof. But after a cute waitress asked me to hang out with her after she got off, which led to getting laid, then I realized that it wasn’t BS.

Initially this girl at this bar thought of me as just another ‘average Joe’ with no value. Yet when she sees me bring in beautiful women, time after time, then I become interesting.

Yes, this is how women think… They are just as shallow as us and some even more.

Now getting back to my point, if you are going to get anywhere with women, I suggest setting some boundaries and getting used to setting them. Get them abiding by your rules, then once they are used to it, they become comfortable with it. Not only this, they will become more appreciative.

It is human nature to have a high appreciation for what one has to work for.

So that’s all I got to share today and thanks for reading.

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-PUA Redsky

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My pick up artist experience at a Real Social Dynamics Free Tour Seminar

My pick up artist experience at a Real Social Dynamics Free Tour Seminar:

I just recently went to an RSD seminar and I thought it might be worth sharing what I thought of it. So for those that are interested in trying out RSD, listen up.

The first speaker was RSD Todd. Todd had some useful information. For one, he stated the importance of positioning the women so that they weren’t looking at each other, when you are with a wing-man and trying to chat up a set.

The reason you do this is so that they won’t be distracted by each other. If they can see each other then I guess it is harder for attraction to be built.

However, I was getting a bit sleepy listening to him, to be honest. I am not going to say he didn’t offer value but he didn’t inspire me like other speakers I have listened to in the past.

Next up was RSD Julien. RSD Julien was very entertaining and I have to say that I enjoyed listening to him. I was not impressed by the content because it was all stuff that I had heard before but the way he spoke was very entertaining. His game isn’t exactly my style, yet there is no doubt in my mind that he doesn’t get laid.

He did state one thing I thought was helpful though. His advice was not to try to entertain the target but to entertain yourself. I found this to be great advice because it clicked in my mind that the essence of being fun is to do what amuses oneself.

So if you find yourself on a date and things are starting to go stale or get boring then think about what you could do to entertain yourself at that moment. One example he gave, was making up a story about just getting out of a relationship with a woman who is 200 pounds overweight, just to see your target’s reaction.

Another example is when talking to a girl, one can make a goofy laugh every time she answers a question. I found that pretty hilarious, especially when I heard what the goofy laugh, Julien used, sounds like.

After Julien, RSD Tyler spoke. Tyler was in a serious mood that day and decided to talk about social awareness. Which I already understand pretty well, so everything he stated was stuff I already knew, for the most part.

He also spent a good amount of time talking about how he got into game and the person he was before he got into the game. According to him, he used to think women were just after money and muscles. He even said that he would roll his sleeves up to show off his arms and flex when talking to his targets. He also would wear an expensive watch, keep it in plain sight when speaking with these women and boast about just buying a new house.

For me, the most entertaining thing about Tyler was the way he walked. He has a very awkward and almost cartoonish walk about him. He has this look on his face when he walks that is just so nerdy and geeky that I couldn’t help but chuckle to myself every time he walked by. To be blunt, he looked like a doofus or he just is a doofus, but a successful one and one whom is skilled in the art of seduction.

I valued his little self improvement speech up until he began to make the sales pitch at the end. He probably spent 35 minutes trying to talk about how great the RSD hot-seats are. He also went on about how they will change your life. However, they are still 2000 dollars and that is a lot of money.

After drilling in our heads, the benefits of their boot-camps and hot-seats, we then were asked to stand up. When we stood up, Tyler talked about a friend of his that slept with around 500 women but had a very odd laugh. Tyler told us to mimic that laugh and before I knew it there was a room full of around 400 socially awkward frat boys, jumping up and down while letting out this ridiculous laugh. I myself could not engage but I did enjoy spectating.

Over-all, I had a good time. I met Tyler, Julien and I already knew Todd because he always goes out to one of my weekend spots. Where he does pick up with his pawns. Tyler didn’t seem like he was in a very social mood, Julien was sociable and friendly and Todd was a bit stand offish when I greeted him.

So that’s about it. If you ever have the opportunity to hear Julien speak then I suggest that you take advantage. As for the rest of the pick up artists that were speaking that day, I would not see them again unless I needed help falling asleep.

Thanks for reading and get out and do some pick up.

-Redsky

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What women want

What women want

So I just wanted to refresh the idea that the act of picking up women comes down to her initial interest. I find that women will typically go for the guy they are the most naturally attracted too. It isn’t solely whether you have money, looks, height, age, race, etc. I think it stems mainly from a combination of many factors which are all working together either for or against you.

Here I have a Model that shows the statistics of a number of women’s and men’s actions in comparison with each other:

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