Hello,
The path of enlightenment when it comes to becoming an mPUA is inevitable, if you just put in the hard work and time. It can be hard and to some of us may seem unreachable, at times, but then you will have a few victories that are deep and meaningful connections with women that are splendid in every way imaginable.
I advise against petting our egos and blaring victories openly, because many that have not seen you in action will not believe it. The true ‘ups’ of the PUA lifestyle are a high that is intensely superior to what any drug can deliver.
It can make you feel the best you will ever feel; the acceptance you feel from others when with a beautiful woman that has high intellect, as well as class is intoxicating. It’s a sense of acceptance that is unlike any other and a sense of belonging that is magnetic to everyone observing and around you.
Waiters, Locals and Bartenders will want to learn from you and everyone will want to be your wing-man. However, you must remember that you need to be careful with whom one lets in his circle. The worst kinds of people I like to refer to as ‘The Arrogants’. These are common scum that will constantly be trying to battle against you and will most likely be on a vendetta to destroy anyone’s reputation that doesn’t agree with them. Stand clear of this type of PUA, because they will never reach true enlightenment, since they need to put others down in order to feel better about themselves.
If you are looking to make a name for yourself, the truth is that as long as one is getting beautiful women then people will want to learn from you. But you need to never get lazy and always be looking for the hottest and best quality. The most beautiful and smartest of women will spot an mPUA in a crowd and will respect him for his prowess.
You will feel the connection and the bond instantaneously. It will be as though you are at one and she will feel it too. Yet, to get there you must master one thing above all else and that one thing is “EYE CONTACT”.
Deep and meaningful eye-contact that will make a woman connect with you on a different level than any other man that hasn’t mastered this skill. You can mesmerize a woman with your eyes and send a non-verbal message that communicates a real feeling of intimacy. It’s as though you are hypnotizing them and the truth is that you are. You are hypnotizing her with your feelings and they love it.
So next time you are out, just work on that. Work on finding a girl with chemistry and when you are with her, I want you to open your senses to the chemistry that you feel. Think about how it feels, tell her about the chemistry you feel.
Tell her how real it feels and communicate it by looking deep into her eyes while thinking about that chemistry.
In time you will be able to duplicate that connection with more and more women. You’ll begin to see your flake rate decrease. You’ll be able to tell right when you meet a woman, that you are going to have a good time when you go out with her.
Now that’s all I got for this morning and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newsletter!
Good luck!
-PUA Redsky