PUA Tips: Seducing bartenders

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I figured this might be a good topic to cover since I have had a good amount of success seducing bartenders. This is a fun ability to have and can be very rewarding to a man’s self-confidence. Honestly it’s gotten to the point that I always end up sleeping with one of the female staff when I frequent a venue long enough.

But enough about me let’s get to the good part. Below I’ve listed a few ways to get a bartender you fancy to warm up to you…

1) Bring other women to the bar:

Yeah, you heard me! Make sure she is seeing you with other women. But not just other women… other women that are as good-looking or better looking than her and even better if they see these women kissing or going home with you. If you’ve read my Daygame or Pickup guides then you shouldn’t have a problem figuring out how to do this (–> Read my books! <--).

2) Allow yourself to cut loose and show that you are capable of being a positive social influence:

This means having fun and showing that you are capable of having fun with other people at the bar. This means other regulars, etc. If her regulars like you then you are scoring some major brownie points with her- that’s a given.

3) Go to the bar to do something other than see them:

At many bars there are billiards tables, darts, ping-pong, so on and so forth. Go there to play a game or even just to hang out with friends. Just don’t make it obvious that you are there to try and hookup with the bartenders.

4) Don’t get stupid drunk- ever:

A serious no-brainer here: If you’ve ever hung out at a bar long enough then you may notice at the end of the night there are always a few guys that had a little over their limit; don’t be that guy.

If you can’t handle your liquor or don’t know when it’s time to quit, then I can assure you that you aren’t getting anywhere with any of these girls. So be smart about drinking… if you are a light-weight then eat something before and drink slower.

Once you get a little buzz then slow down completely. Have a drink in front of you but there is nothing wrong with not drinking it when you are reaching your limit. And if you are reaching your limit go home. You can always come back another time and I can guarantee you that she’ll be even more excited considering you have showed her that you are one of the lucky few that can actually contain themselves.

Remember if you are wanting to seduce a bartender then you are going to have to drink. Sorry to break it to you. The truth is you won’t get anywhere but kicked out if you go to a bar and never order drinks.

Furthermore…

It may take a couple of months to get these lovely ladies to the point where they are obviously very glad to see you every time you walk in. Also be ready for jealous bouncers and male co-workers. This is actually pretty common and I’ve had to deal with it quite a lot.

Other orbiters will either be adult about your success and applaud you or they will allow their jealous sides to take over and of course hate on you. The best way to deal with this is by just avoiding those people as much as possible.

If you are forced to have to interact with the haters, then just be nice. Understand that not everyone is at your level and jealousy is a natural human emotion. We all have it and at times it has gotten the best of all of us. I understand this and therefore I don’t take it personal when someone becomes jealous of me. Nevertheless if someone is going to act out and try to physically harm me I am not incapable of defending myself; yet words will never hurt me and the last thing I will let bother me is “those words”.

So remember that having a thick-skin is a huge advantage in the PUA world. I constantly deal with gossip, but it no longer bothers me because when those same people get to know me they always realize they were wrong. This doesn’t mean I will be best friends when I receive an apology, but I won’t let someone else’s hatred ruin my time.

To conclude…

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After you’ve gotten these lovely bartenders excited about seeing you then the next thing to do is to get their contact info. This can be Facebook, Instagram, a phone number – it doesn’t matter. If they are genuinely into you, then they will find a way to see you and if not oh well; it is a numbers game at the end of the day.

Once you’ve gotten their information you can invite them out and go about things as though you would with any other woman you are on a date with. If you don’t know how to do that, then I advise you to have a look at one of my books (–> Read my books! <--).

So there we have it! A nice little piece on how to get your favorite bartender in your bed; which I have personally had success with time and time again. Thanks for reading and get the hell out of the house!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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