PUA Tips: 4 Tips to keep a Girl around after a One-night stand

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PUA Picture have seen a lot of info online about how to get women in bed and so on. However I haven’t seen much on how to keep them around – especially after a one-night stand.

A lot of times after a one-night stand women won’t expect a relationship or something ongoing to come out of it. Nevertheless at times you might meet a girl that you really like and unfortunately she doesn’t have the same intentions. You hookup and never see her again.

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So I put together a list of things one can do to increase the odds of her wanting to continue seeing you. These are…

1) Take her to breakfast if she is free the following day.

Yeah, that’s right… nothing like a little post-date to present to her that she can also have a good time with you outside the bedroom. This will also show her that you actually value her for more than the typical booty call – which isn’t a bad thing. Depending on how much she values you she might actually see you as something more; even despite the fact that she let you bang her relatively easily.

2) Walk her to the train or to the taxi.

A great gesture that I have no problem with. I see this as a victory walk so that all my neighbors or her neighbors can see that we’re fucking; nothing like a little ego boost. Besides it shows her that you have a little class.

3) Text her your name after getting her number.

This is obvious… assuming you remembered to exchange numbers before you parted ways in the morning. Just text her your name so she doesn’t forget you. Do not text her a long text about how much you like her or how it was great to meet her; just sending your name is all that’s needed to make the desired impression.

4) Hold out on telling her your deepest darkest secrets after you finally get some.

I know a lot of us probably see what I am getting at here. When some men finally get a smoking hot female to sleep with them, then it is easy to get excited about it. One of the things some of us may do is overwhelm the target with a bunch of nonsense that makes us look like a desperate little bitch.

So I will say this once… do not tell her how great she makes you feel or that you want her to be your girlfriend. Don’t tell her that she is the hottest girl you’ve ever been with or start reading her poetry. Do not go emo by telling her about how bad your life is and how she is the only thing that brings happiness into it. Basically, just enjoy the moment and be positive or funny – if you can be. If you aren’t funny, then don’t try.

Furthermore…

As your skill progresses you will experiment with new material and advice you read online hopefully. The best way to hone one’s skill of “the game” is to just not make the same mistakes over and over again. Therefore if you’ve tried something multiple times and the result never seems to come out in your favor, then it might be a good idea to start doing things a little different.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Gaming in Japan (Part 2 – Tokyo)

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PUA Picture recently shared an article about my experience gaming in Osaka and this will be the continuation. Tokyo is the next place I visited and it is a whole different world compared to Osaka.

I liked Osaka somewhat because of the fact that it is much cheaper and the fact that I got laid twice within the first 4 days of being there was definitely a bonus. However after another week in Osaka I made out with countless women, had women grabbing on my genitals but never managed to bed any to follow.

Tokyo on the other hand was much more expensive but I was still able to rack up another couple of lays in just a week of being there. Like I said in the previous article… every girl I had sex with spoke a little bit of English. I noticed in Tokyo that there were a lot more Japanese girls that could at least communicate in English – which was a major benefit; at least for a Gaijin like me.

Another thing about Tokyo is they have these relatively inexpensive bars, well compared to New York, called HUB’s. They are British styled pubs that a lot of Japanese men and women hang out at in hopes of meeting Gaijin men and women.

Osaka had a few HUB’s also, but Tokyo had at least 6 within a 2 block radius where I was staying – which is an area called Shinjuku. This was perfect because since I love to go bar hopping in NYC – it was exactly what I was used to. I would just have a drink at one place and I’d focus on the Jgirls that were paying the most attention to me. If there wasn’t an obvious connection I would leave to the next HUB once I finished my drink. Sometimes I would even meet a wingman along the way.

This strategy worked very well and on the weekends I barely had to do any approaches at all because women would just come over to ask me to sit with them. There was also a Karaoke bar that was close by that was open even later than the HUB’s on the weekdays. I am not the best Karaoke singer but I can at least appear like I know what I am doing with the right songs that fit my vocals; this actually helped me with the first Jgirl I slept with in Tokyo actually. I’ve included a picture of her at the top of the article actually.

The next time I go to Tokyo I will have a more honed method for getting laid while spending the least amount of money. Since I was in Shinjuku I was limited on where I could meet women. I did check out Roppongi a couple of times and I had a good time. However I had to deal with a lot of cock-blocking from asian foreigners like Koreans, Chinese, etc. At one point a girl in one of the Korean groups was talking with me and one of the Korean men in the group started to get jealous; so he just grabbed her hand and dragged her away mid-sentence.

I actually had a Korean guy punch me in the chest another time and unfortunately for him I had to return the favor which left him with a busted nose. Luckily for me I was with a middle-aged Japanese woman, that decided to be my sugar mama for the night, who also knew the owner and saw exactly what happened. To make a long story short he had a bad night and had to leave – bloody nose and all. I guess one can say I got lucky. Nevertheless I do not suggest getting in fights in Japan, because being a foreigner, you are very likely to get deported and if you hurt the guy too bad then they might not let you back in the country; so keep that in mind.

As for other foreigners… I met a few Australians, French-fries, a couple of Italians, Brits, Spaniards, Chileans, Canadians of course Americans. I had a British wingman one of the nights in Roppongi – awesome guy. I also had a good time with a couple of guys from Chile and Spain – unfortunately for them I was the only one that got laid that night; it happens. Yet anyone could have gone home with a girl that night – I just was the first to escalate.

I’ve learned that in Tokyo Jgirls are a lot like American women; if they like you then they won’t be as reluctant at your attempts for PDA (Ie. Kissing in public.). There are still lots of women that aren’t ok with that, so it is pretty much up to how comfortable you are taking a leap of faith. Me on the other hand… I have zero issues with taking a leap of faith. My game is very much assuming the woman is attracted to me regardless of whether she is or not. Sometimes I’m right and sometimes I’m not. If not, then oh well, plenty of other women to talk to. I just make an advance a few times and if she doesn’t submit then I move on to the next.

To leave off…

I had a great time in both Osaka and Tokyo. They are both very different in a gaming sense; Osaka has more of a small town feel, where Tokyo is very similar to New York but with a lot more asians.

One of the great things about Japan is the fact that most women will be willing to talk with you from the beginning. There is always the chance that they have boyfriends, but you can always use that time spent talking to find out about cool clubs or bars that you otherwise would have never discovered.

For the women that don’t speak English: Google translate does wonders and you can rent a pocket WIFI device from the local airports. They are great if you don’t want to have a ridiculously expensive phone bill when you get back home; depending on your plan.

If you are going to Tokyo I would suggest staying 3 weeks to a month. Weekends are great for foreigners in Tokyo. Weekdays can be good too, but if you are the kind of guy that has issues with approaching women, then I propose taking advantage of as many weekends as possible.

Don’t waste your time with women that expect you to pay their way. There are many that are used to the man paying; which is kind of what is expected for Japanese men. The great thing about being a foreigner, however, is that you can get away with going Dutch simply by stating that you don’t pay for the woman in your country. Regardless of whether it is the truth or not – we foreigners have an advantage and that advantage is that a lot of Japanese women view us as exotic. And if you are frequenting a few of the places that I’ve mentioned above you will come across quite a few of these types of women; A.K.A. Gaijin hunters.

So there is a brief summary of my experience in Tokyo. I will be returning, and to reiterate, I had a blast. I definitely suggest visiting this wonderful place. It is a one of a kind city and if you just remember to have fun and enjoy the scenery, then you will love it.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: 5 ways to reduce Anxiety or Stress

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PUA Picture am back once again to share some information that might help some of you as well as it helps me. I know we all have our own qualms with stress and anxiety – there is no telling what it can do to you if managed improperly. Since an excess level of stress can not only hurt you, but also decrease longevity, I’ve decided to list a few ways to combat this unwanted nuisance.

The following are…

1) Don’t waste your time with the wrong people.

Getting rid of toxic people in one’s life is a perfect example when it comes to ridding yourself of too much stress. Stay away from attention seekers or in general just stay away from insecure people. If you don’t have a good time with someone then they are toxic; plain and simple.

2) Exercise and eat healthy.

Yes I know… I say this all the time, but it’s because it works. So once again I will tell you to get your asses in the gym and don’t eat crappy food – it will do wonders.

3) Take an annual vacation.

Believe it or not taking a vacation once a year will increase focus and productivity when you get back. You’ll feel better, you’ll feel re-energized and have a more ambitious and positive outlook on your life when returning.

I have been doing this recently and I am so glad I started because I didn’t realize how much I’ve been missing in other parts of the world. I am more motivated to go to work and make money because, quite frankly, I can’t wait to go on another vacation. I might add that I am less inclined to spend money on useless garbage as well.

4) Meditate.

I have been doing this for a few years now and I have to say I am so glad I discovered the benefits of meditation. I never realized that such a simple practice can have such a heavy impact on my life.

All I do is lay on my bed and relax my whole body – this means unclenching my jaw, letting my shoulders relax and just allowing my mind to let go of all thoughts or worries for 30-45 minutes. Just feel your body relaxing and after a few minutes you will notice the stress begin to melt away.

5) Have sex at least once a week.

This is where pickup can come in handy of course. Finding a casual sex partner or a sexually active girlfriend is perfect. There are plenty of options out there, if you just have the balls to go out and talk to some women then I’m sure you’ll find someone. If you are not completely sure what to do then check out my dating guides to better help you.

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Furthermore…

When growing plants a grower can seriously harm them when exposing them to stress. This can be heat, cold, lack of nutrients, etc. Humans are similar and that is why we must learn to regulate the amount of stress in our lives. It’s important to decrease stress as much as possible and the aforementioned advice will do just that.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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