PUA Tips: Top 5 Dating tips for texting women

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S-design-1 pua pictureo on all my social media outlets I am always getting bombarded with questions in regard to texting. People ask me questions like when do you text after getting the number? How much should you text? So on and so forth.

So today I decided to write a thoughtful article about it just for all of you that have asked me. All these concepts are based on the majority of questions I’ve received over time and also based on the most insightful knowledge I have came across online. So to get started, the following are…

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1) Balance the momentum.

Bottom line, you shouldn’t text her too much or not enough. 1-2 times a week is best and if she doesn’t reply, then depending on how much you like her, wait a week and try again. If she doesn’t respond after a couple of times of doing this, then move on. You did all you could do… anymore trying is just going to scare her off.

2) Don’t overuse emoticons.

Less is always more in this case. There is nothing masculine about a guy that uses more emoticons than a girl he’s trying to talk to. If anything, the focus should be on waiting a little bit; see how much she’s willing to invest first.

3) Text soon after first getting the number.

I’ve lost track of all the times I meet a girl that acts conservative in front of her friends, then I text her the next day and end up spending the night at her place. Always with a night full of sex.

So jump on it quickly before someone else snatches her up. Especially in a big city like New York – you could be competing with 10 other guys.

4) Push for meeting up as soon as she can.

Like I said before, act fast and be assertive. It is actually a turn on to most women when a guy shows that he knows what he wants. Don’t be afraid to message her the next day either – especially if you really hit it off when you first met.

5) Avoid complex discussion.

The phone is not a place for discussion and until they make it possible for a woman to give you an orgasm over the phone, then you should be only using it as a tool for getting her out on a date. So cut to the chase, answer her if she asks you anything, but don’t ask her anything that you can ask when the two of you are together.

Overall…

It should be straight to the point and just aimed at getting her to meet up with you. When you meet in person, then you can work your magic and if you don’t have any magic, then at least you’re in the right place. So that’s all for today, now go out and meet some women!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips for getting more compliance

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I am excited to put this article together today. I am very fascinated by the mind and building compliance, I’ve learned, this is accomplished by doing nothing more than portraying the right behavior.

In the beginning of my journey into pickup, I used to be under the impression that it is none other than a number’s game. However, over time I started noticing patterns that ultimately led to me getting much more success. I began to see ‘the matrix’ – so to speak.

Therefore, today I am going to bring you a nice list of effective concepts that will revolutionize your success rate. So pay close attention – the following are…

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1) The Mini-bounce.

Now this is something I overlooked for a long time, but once I started paying more attention to the details, I realized how powerful a little thing like the ‘mini-bounce’ can be. In short, women instintively are attracted sexually to a man that is naturally dominant.

The idea behind the mini-bounce: You meet a woman anywhere – most likely on the street or in a bar – and you slightly guide them in a direction by slightly nudging them with your hand in order to move them out of the walkway of where people may pass by. Theoretically this will trigger her subconsciously to view you as a higher value male; hence subtle behavior can have a lot of power on building attraction.

2) The Benjamin Franklin effect.

I’ve mentioned this in the past and it has a lot of clout in the attraction game as well. The idea is to ask for a small favor. This can be to watch your drink while you go to the bathroom, hold your seat, etc.

Once you get a woman used to behaving in a submissive way, then they will be more likely to stay submissive when you start making advances towards sex. I personally like to use this when at stripclubs. I tell them to sit on my lap, before I get a dance and if they are willing to comply, then they’ll usually give me their number after a dance.

3) Changing venues.

When you change venues with a target you build a great amount of trust. Once they’ve seen that they can hang out with you alone without being turned off, then they will be much more likely to decide whether you are suitable to sleep with. Women love sex just as much as us, the only difference is they are only willing to have it with men that they trust and are attracted to sexually; you can’t have one with out the other either.

As you’ve probably heard women say dozens of times… friends first. That is completely fine, however it doesn’t mean you can’t be friends with benefits. What you perceive becomes reality – so stay optimistic no matter what.

4) Eye contact.

I know many of you aren’t surprised to see this. Eye contact is always going to be a notable weapon for everyone’s arsenile when mastered. To keep things simple, focus on just giving it first. You can practice looking at a picture of a girl on your computer as well. Just hold eye contact to start and it may help to even pretend like she is saying something to you. Practice how you’d look at them – facial expressions can be very helpful too. Nevertheless, you need a living woman in front of you to see what facial expressions get the best responses. It all will come with practice.

To conclude…

You’ll be surprised how effective these little things can be and how well they’ll increase your rate of success. For me I have a mental check list of things I do when out with each date and I am at somewhere near a 75-80% success rate; which means I am getting laid around 3 out of 5 times that I go out.

Since I only go for one-night stands mostly these days, I don’t need to waste extra time walking around and collecting numbers. It is a dream come true and I am not even in my 20’s anymore. So no more excuses… go out and get to work!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips to build sexual tension

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H-design-1 PUA pictureere is another important skill to master, what I’m going to cover today is building sexual tension. You need to have a good understanding of this in order to get a girl turned on enough to go home with you. In short, the better you are at building sexual tension, then the more you are going to get laid.

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Below I’ve put together a list of a few ways to do this…

1) Tease.

Lightly bumping her jokingly on your way to making a shot when playing a game of pool or darts is a nice little start. After she misses a shot you can tell her something like, “Nice shot.” Make sure to say it in a joking demeanor and it wouldn’t hurt to crack a smile also. These kinds of mind games will start the flow of communicable energy between the 2 of you. Create a flow of emotional energy through touch and nonverbal communication; like Bruce Lee once said, “Be like water.”

2) Talk dirty.

Talking a little dirty never hurts – just be sure to have a good amount of comfort built prior. Women instinctively respond sexually to alpha men – so what’s more alpha than saying how you feel without holding back?

I have no problem telling a date I want to bang the hell out of her honestly. Nevertheless, I will make sure we’ve been making out for a little time before. Comfort should be built first, but once she’s started complying, then you have a green light to do more or say more.

3) Get close to her.

Don’t be afraid to close some distance and see how she responds. If she is backing off then back off a little as well. If she doesn’t seem alarmed then you might just be able to get a kiss. If you’ve ever seen a real alpha trying to seduce a woman – they are usually very close right from the beginning.

4) Break the touch barrier.

The most important boundary that you all need to learn to cross is the touch barrier. If you can’t muster up the courage to do so, then you are never going to get anywhere with any woman.

So get used to grabbing her hands or looking for excuses to grab her hands. One thing I do is meet in a busy area so that we are forced to have to hold hands so we don’t get separated. You can also just grab her hand and put it up to yours and laugh about the size difference. It doesn’t take much to break the touch barrier – you just have to have the balls to do it.

To finish off…

You can’t get anywhere without sexual tension, unless the girl just flat out tells you she wants to fuck you and how often does that happen? So you are stuck having to be the aggressor. The idea is actually quite similar to a concept coined by David Deangelo called “2 steps forward, 1 step backward”.

The main idea is to push as far as you can for sex until she is almost at her breaking point, or borderline annoyed, then back off for 5 minutes and commence laying on the affection; making out, etc. It is much more efficient to test for every opportunity as it presents itself – this can be done through touch, kissing, suggesting to go somewhere every few minutes – rather than to sit back and hope your “amazing verbal skills” convince her to go home with you. Remember you have to warm the engine before she’s ready to drive.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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