PUA Tips: 4 Top tips for not getting Friendzoned

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pua pictureow here is a topic that many are struggling with… “Oh the struggle.” The zone we all hate and have all been in at some point of our lives. Nothing is worse then wanting to have sex with a woman and not being able to because she sees you as a “friend”.

I’ve decided to put together a list of some things everyone can pay attention to so that you can all avoid the dreaded friend-zone.

These are…

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1) Don’t be pushy.

I would say this applies to a guy that is anxious to get physical. Maybe you went for the kiss too soon and she pushed you away. So he struggles to try and force it in a cringeworthy manner; which just makes her want to get as far away from you as possible – if she hasn’t already. Most men would probably give up, but it’s fine if she rejects your advance to kiss her a couple of times. Most women are going to make it a little difficult to get the first kiss.

All you need to do is enjoy yourself and just keep trying to get that kiss. Best times to try is when you see she is laughing and having a good time. Once you get the kiss then you can potentially move on to more; depending on the woman.

What you shouldn’t do is expect your date to kiss you when you haven’t talked about anything. You also shouldn’t expect her to want to be your girlfriend all the way from the start obviously. It takes some time for her to get comfortable being around you before the both of you can bond.

2) Touch her.

I’ve said this many times… you need to get her comfortable with your touch before you can get her in bed. There are a lot of ways you can accomplish this. Among some of them is meeting in a crowded area so you have an excuse to grab her hand or just putting your hand up to hers to measure the difference in size – which is always an interesting thing to talk about.

From the hand you can move to the waist and pull her close to you. If she is alright with this then you can try for a kiss. Once you get the kiss you can test for more – I’ll let your imagination fill in the details for now.

Take into account that not every woman is going to be ok with this, but if she is worth your time then she will. However in some countries, such as Japan, I would save the touching for behind closed doors – since displaying affection in public is considered very rude.


3) Make sure you yourself are having fun on the date
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Over the years I’ve come to realize that self-amusement is kind of a big deal. If you aren’t having fun yourself on a date, then your date won’t be having fun either. So enjoy yourself and go somewhere that you both would like to be.

I like to play Billiards… therefore I often take my date to a bar that has Billiards. I also like to listen to Frank Sinatra and sing Karaoke – so I will go somewhere that offers either of these choices as well.

4) Let her chase.

Nothing can turn a girl off more than a guy that is too attentive. Learn to just sit back and listen to the music of whatever place you are at. Wait for her to ask questions; you don’t have to be the main one talking. It’s even better if you can get her talking more than you. Remember the more you get her to invest, then the more she will start to like you.

Overall…

The key to not getting friendzoned is to just behave like a man. It’s a happy medium between not being too nice and not being too mean. Just show her that you have your head in the right place and she is secure around you – there really isn’t a lot to it.

Also there is chemistry that you have to pay attention to also. Sometimes you just aren’t compatible with someone and there really isn’t much you can do but leave to move on to someone else.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Gaming in Japan (Part 1 – Osaka)

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I just recently spent a month in Japan for those that aren’t following me on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. I started out by visiting my son for the first week; which was great. I won’t go into that much however because I like to keep that part of my life private. Anyway after that I began my Japan pickup rampage.

I have to say it wasn’t exactly easy to meet women in Japan, considering I don’t speak the language but I did manage to rack up another 4 notches regardless. Out of those 4 I managed to get footage of 2; simply because the other 2 left before I had a chance to whip out my phone.

Upon the first week I hooked up with 2 girls and I must mention beforehand that all the women I slept with in Japan were from one-night stands. I did do day-game in the beginning, but after seeing my success with night-game – I just stayed with that. After all I only had 3 weeks in total.

The first girl was a young Taiwanese traveler that was staying at a hostel in Osaka. I met her through a group of people I believe she was in a hostel with. She was very sexy and I had a great time from the moment we met to the moments we spent between the sheets. All I have to say is that she let me do whatever I wanted behind closed doors.

Following that I continued to go out and met up with a couple of other women before I had another success. They were both Japanese and very beautiful – probably among the most beautiful women I had seen in Japan.

The first date we went out for Ramen and I was quite put off by how she slurped her Ramen at first, but I later read an article online that this is a custom. It is similar to how in Hungary belching is considered polite – in other words it’s a compliment to the chef.

Unfortunately this first date didn’t lead to anything more than hand-holding. I could tell that she was significantly attracted, but the language gap was too large. We eventually got sick of going back and forth reading each other’s phone screens. We had to do so in order to translate what was being said.

I did try to escalate but we were in public and for the majority of Japanese women PDA in public is a big no-no. When I tried to kiss her she would just pull away and shake her head no. Eventually I just told her with Google translate that I thought it would be best to meet up another time when either of us could communicate in a language that we both know. Also I might add that every girl I went to bed with on this vacation could speak English well enough to at least communicate.

After realizing that things weren’t going anywhere I told her I am going to drop her off at the station we met at. She agreed and we walked there together. We still messaged on Line (A popular social media platform used by many Japanese.) after that for awhile, but I ended up angering her when I got bored one day and sent her around 10 pictures of me kissing other random women.

But moving on…

The next date was also with a local Japanese girl in Osaka. I figured this time around I would take the target somewhere more interactive than a Ramen restaurant – so I picked a local bar that has free Karaoke. I went out with the owner the night before; which was also the same day I had Ramen with the other Jgirl. The owner is a cool Canadian guy that I got along pretty well with. He got me into a bunch of clubs for free and also hooked it up with free drinks, so my thoughts were I might as well repay him by bringing my date there.

So we met up and walked to the Karaoke Bar, but the owner wasn’t there that day. We still had a good time for the most part and I probably would have got her home if it wasn’t for her boss showing up. Yea, this is the best part of the story actually: Apparently they don’t have strict laws about sexual harassment in the workplace in Japan. This means that like 90% of straight men in authoritative positions take advantage.

Therefore I had to deal with her boss texting and callling her nonstop, then coming in to eventually tell her she needed to leave me to wake up early for work the next day – real stalker shit. This guy seriously deserves the “cockblock of the year” award. What is even worse is that she was ignoring him most of the time and talking to me instead; which of course made him even more upset. Naturally he had to be even more pathetic and demand that she go home immediately.

Luckily I ended up winging with a cool British guy that was singing Karaoke with us at the bar after the Jgirl left. We went to a small club called G3 which happens to have some of the most amazing female EDM DJ’s. Here I met another Jgirl that was very into me and randomly convinced her to come home with me – like I said before… she also spoke english relatively well enough to communicate.

I don’t know exactly how I managed to pull this one-nighter off, but it might have had something to do with my nonchalant, IDGAF dance moves I suppose. That and the fact that when I saw the level of interest she had I decided to go in hard with the escalation – at one point we were making out very aggressively against the wall of the dance floor.

I stayed until the club closed with her and suggested we get something to eat after. She was with a friend and the friend also was talking to a guy. So I told them I knew a place and walked them all the way but a block away from my place. Her friend actually was the one that said she wanted to go home after getting tired of walking – we probably walked a good mile actually.

What I think sealed the deal was this girl’s high level of attraction. I told the Jgirl I was with that my place was literally a block away and even though her friend was trying to get her to leave – she still decided to stay with me.

We spent the night together and she left around noon the next day. I enjoyed meeting her and it was probably one of my top 20 favorite girls so far. She is very sweet and we are still in touch – we talk on Line around 2 to 3 times a week at this point.

Here’s a pic of the morning after…

3 things I learned from gaming in Osaka:

1) Day-game is not as effective as Night-game.

2) To get laid efficiently; It’s better to focus on women that can at least communicate in English until I can myself communicate in Japanese.

3) An easy way to get a target to go home with you is if you suggest going somewhere to eat and walking her to your place instead. If she decides she doesn’t want to go with you, then at least you don’t have to go far to get home. After-all she might just decide to stay because she doesn’t want to go all the way home herself (IE. Law of investment).

And this is where I’ll end the article…

So now you’ve read a little about the first 2 lovely ladies I had success with on this trip. I am not going to say Japan is easier than New York or other cities in the United States. I think if I had as much free time to go out and just try to get laid, then I would probably do much better in my own country. My thoughts are when you know the language, then it’s much easier to make the target comfortable. Nevertheless it was a great experience and don’t worry I still have 2 more girls to write about that I met in Tokyo – so stay tuned!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: 5 Signs that you’re in a Toxic Relationship

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pua pictureow today I am going to talk about something a little bit different. Today I’m going to talk about relationships. I know I usually don’t talk much about this but I am kind of getting sick of seeing all these poor guys, when I go out, that are being totally taken advantage of.

So I decided to put together a few red-flags to pay attention to before or when you enter into a relationship. If you notice any of the following then I strongly suggest you rethink your situation.

Here are 5 toxic examples of a relationship that will only end in misery…

1. Your self-esteem has lowered since being with her:

This is somewhat of a dead give-away and you should never jeopardize your confidence. If she is making you feel worse and worse about yourself then get the hell away from her.

I’m not saying that it is entirely her fault all the time either – maybe you just aren’t mature enough to be in a relationship. I tell people all the time that you need to be content with yourself before you can be content with somebody else. So until then just play the casual sex game.

2. You argue more often than you get along:

I have seen this a lot… sometimes if the sex is really good then people will overlook the fact that they don’t get along otherwise. Regardless this is not going to achieve happiness and it is going to end up with a break-up anyhow. So the sooner you get out then the less pain you’ll feel.

3. She puts you down or compares you to other men:

Yeah, if you are dealing with this kind of ordeal then leave her immediately. The last thing you want is a woman that will treat you like you’re nothing. Respect is the backbone of a relationship and if she has trouble naturally giving it to you then she isn’t worth your time.

4. You aren’t or are barely having any sex:

It doesn’t matter if you get along extraordinarily well my friends. When you find yourself in a conversation with your buddies and realize that they have a lot more erotic stories to tell about their relationships than you do, then maybe you should take into consideration that something’s wrong.

Sexual compatibility is 50 percent of the relationship and if she has trouble giving it to you then you should look elsewhere. If she isn’t turned on by you enough to have it everytime she sees you then she’s being selfish and maybe even getting it elsewhere.

5. She’s overly dependant on you:

Needy women are a recipe for disaster and it always leads to an unnecessary amount of stress that no one needs in their life. A woman should be able to support herself financially before you come into her life and even after. I understand if you have a kid with her, then everything changes, but until then there is no reason she should need anything from you.

This includes paying her way on dates, her asking you for money, her moving in with you and not paying her share of the rent. Everything should always be 50/50 and if she has a problem with that she can go free-load off someone else. Don’t ever let anyone take advantage of you, because if they see that they can, then they will.

Furthermore…

If you or someone you know is involved with someone that exhibits the qualities I just mentioned then either you or they need to find someone else. I know the dating world these days can be very difficult at times but there is always someone better out there – someone that will truly make you happy.

Don’t allow yourself to get discouraged just because you can’t find your ideal girl over-night. The cold hard truth about dating is that it just isn’t that easy and we have to accept it. If it was easy then we all would be knee deep in flaming hot pussy.

It’s always going to be competitive and it’s always going to feel like a challenge. The only thing that changes, at least for me, is that when you begin to have more success you will fall in love with the challenge.

You’ll see that what you once thought would never happen is possible and you’ll want to experience it again and again. The truth is that one of the best feelings in the world is meeting an intelligent and beautiful woman that feels the same amount of attraction for you as you feel for them. There isn’t much that can beat that.

And when you find that it becomes intoxicating. You will crave it and you will fall in love with the chase, the experience and the game. Like I said before… there isn’t much that I’ve experienced in life that can replace that kind of symbiosis. And I know some of you already know what I’m talking about, but for those that don’t… your hard work will eventually pay off. Trust me.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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