PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips on early signs you are in a toxic relationship

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I did a similar piece about how to know if you are in toxic relationship before, but I was more-so speaking to those that have been in a relationship for awhile already. Now this time around I thought I would help those of you that are just forming or about to form a relationship with a prospective partner. The following signs are what I think you all should look out for before proceeding further with any woman you are considering becoming more serious with…

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1) Quickly fall hard for the person.

If you find yourself thinking about this person too often and can’t get on well without them popping into your mind, then this is clearly toxic. You need to be able to function normally, otherwise it is clearly not a healthy situation for anyone. So if you feel a massive amount of infatuation, you might want to consider giving the 2 of you some time off or a break to get your bearings back.

2) They give you verbal warnings.

Another subtle sign to look out for is when a girl you’re seeing is throwing warnings at you. This means she’s telling you things like she’s hard to be with or just stating something like she’s not good with relationships. If she is giving you warnings, then it’s for a good reason – so listen to those warnings and cut it short before you get hurt.

Sometimes girls will stay with guys they don’t really want because they are too afraid to hurt them. Don’t let yourself fall into this trap, there are not many things more emotionally painful than unrequited love.

3) Partner doesn’t want to meet your friends.

Usually when someone really likes you, they want to be part of your life. They are also more willing to do things for you if asked. So it makes plenty of sense why you should view her not wanting to meet your friends as a red flag. What this shows is that she doesn’t value you as much as she should and will just lead to her taking and you giving the whole relationship. To make a long story short, stay away from takers.

4) Unforgivable behavior.

I don’t know how many times I’ve seen a girl out with a guy, then at the end of the night that same guy is still standing right next while she makes out with another dude. Yet, he ends up staying right there with her til the end of the night as he accompanies his belligerent girlfriend back home; like the noble man he thinks he’s being.

First off, you shouldn’t be with a girl that gets this drunk to begin with and second of all you definitely shouldn’t be with a girl that is going to kiss other guys in front of you. I don’t think I need to describe what unforgivable behavior is; anything that is extremely offensive is all. If she does it once, then she’ll do it again.

5) You find yourself feeling jealous.

If you’re with a girl that doesn’t understand how to behave with a man that they are with, then it might be a good time to leave. A lot of women these days – especially American women – think that it’s alright to talk with other men when out with their guy. Unless you’re into 3-ways this is a big red flag.

If a girl you are courting is constantly trying to make you jealous, she needs a psychiatrist, not a boyfriend. Our job is not to give a woman the attention her parents failed to give her – our job is to find a woman that values us and respects us. It’s pretty cut and dry – she either appreciates the time spent with a man or she doesn’t and if she is talking to other guys, then she clearly doesn’t respect or appreciate you in her life.

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Taking note of all these things will keep you from falling into the trap of unrequited love. Yes it may be difficult to let go of a beautiful woman at times, but it will pay off in the long run. Well, that’s all for today, thanks for reading and enjoy the weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 psychological tricks you better learn

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S-design-1 pua pictureome of you may have learned some of these in school if you’ve studied psychology. Today I’m going to list a few psychological phenomena that will help aid you all in getting whatever it is that you may desire from others.

I’m listing a few tips that will help you to not just better read someone’s mind, but to also have more control of the outcome of whatever interactions you may find yourself in at some point. Imagine having the power to make people always feel comfortable around you, or even better, have the power to make people like you. This is exactly how these tricks can be used – so pay attention. The following are…

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1) The Benjamin Franklyn effect.

I’ve talked about this a good amount… this is basically asking a small favor of the person. The idea behind this is that there has been a good amount of research that suggests that people tend to like people they’ve done favors for. So you can raise your value in someone’s eyes just by asking simple favors.

This could be anything from watching your chair when you go to the bathroom or even just asking someone to hold your phone while you put on your jacket. Favors are basically the building blocks that add meaning to relationships.

2) The Yawning effect.

This is an interesting one, if you have ever been curious to know if anyone is looking at you, then yawn in front of a bunch of people. If anyone is paying attention to you they will yawn as well. This is good, when in crowded places like Starbucks, a subway or a bar.

Knowing who is looking at you will give you a big advantage when deciding what women you are going to approach. Chances are if she’s looking at you, then she’s attracted to you as well.

3) The Look-to-comrade effect.

This is a fun one…

I like this because I enjoy telling jokes, but you can also just tell a story. For some reason or another people will look at the person they like the most in a group following a funny joke or story. So if you are curious about who a girl likes the most in a group, then tell a joke or share a short story. Make sure you have everyone’s attention when doing this as well.

4) The Chewing effect.

Now this is great for when you are nervous about a girl before you meet up for a date. Just chew gum or eat something and you’ll feel more at ease when you meet up. I myself chew a lot of gum already, so this may explain why so many girls have told me in the past that I seem quite calm and relaxed.

5) The Mirror effect.

This is another trick that I find rather clever due to attractive women’s common habit of being rather narcissistic. Going to a bar that has a lot of mirrors and sitting close to the mirrors will usually lead to a better time with your target. This is because no one wants to see themself angry and the mirror will help amplify the desired result; which is to put the target in a good mood.

So next time you choose your date location, carefully pick a bar or lounge with mirrors and sit nearby them. If you can, sit next to one or have one behind where you sit. This way when she looks at you, then she’ll be forced to see herself from the side. Don’t be surprised if she looks at herself in the mirror often as well.

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Although these tricks will not guarantee 100 percent success, they will push you more in that direction than if you didn’t know them. So use them and remember, more importantly, to always enjoy yourself and just have fun. So that’s about it for today! Now enjoy your weekend and get out there!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for how to use takeaways

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S-design-1 pua pictureo today I am going to cover the ancient art of the takeaway. For those that are not familiar… a takeaway is when you meet a girl who is obviously showing signs of attraction (IOIs: Indicators of interest.) and instead of giving her a lot of attention or making it obvious that you are interested – you back off a little. This way you cause her to feel a stronger level of attraction for you, because it’s human nature to want something that is not that easy to get.

I’ve listed below the details on how to master the takeaway – so take note if you don’t have this down already…

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1) Best to use early on in the night.

Yes, the reason I say this is because most women in the club are still sober early on. So bouncing around to a few girls will give you an idea of who is showing the most interest. If a girl is showing interest when sober, then backing off and reapproaching a little later on in the night – when the target has a few drinks in her – may just light a fire.

Once you reapproach all you have to do is build some sexual tension through eye-contact (Google triangular gazing). Mastering the takeaway is what separates the men from the boys in my opinion. When you completely understand how to do this from practice, then you will see your success rate improve drastically. When I first got the hang of this I finally reached a turning point where I felt like I had more solid control of my game.

2) Walking away after pinnacle of interaction.

So it’s early on in the night and you see a girl that is looking at you constantly. Now is the perfect chance to go up and introduce yourself – so you do this. You exchange information about each other and she’s very receptive. She’s probably smiling as well at this point.

Eventually you get to the point where she is talking more than you. This is the perfect time to use the takeaway. What I do is just tell her I’ll be back later, but first I find out if she’s planning to stick around for awhile. If not, I’ll ask if she has Facebook or if she wants to meet up another time. If she says yes, then I’ll ask for her number and part ways.

Nevertheless if she does plan on staying around, I just tell her I’ll be back. Following this I’ll leave her plain of sight. At this point she doesn’t know if I left or if I am even still around. Now she’s most likely thinking about me – this interesting and mysterious guy – that she may never see again. That feeling is exactly the point of the takeaway and now she values me higher than most of the other guys that are going to approach her later on.

I try not to wait too long, maybe 45 minutes or so, then I’ll come back. Hopefully she is feeling the alcohol a little more. Usually they do, because it doesn’t take more than 1 or 2 drinks for most women to feel the effects of booze.

Once I’ve come back and see that she is clearly excited to see me, then I will smile and say something playful like, “Long time, no see.” I’ll talk with her a bit more and then suggest going out for a smoke or tell her to come with while I get a drink so I can isolate her from her friends. Once I see that she’s compliant with this, then I’ll start to escalate (Move in for a kiss, etc.).

3) Use sparingly.

Another piece to add to the equation is that you should not apply this technique to the same target more than once. In order to be effective one time is enough. If you do too often then you’ll just make the girl think you are not that interested or that you’re a douche. The idea is to create a sense of loss, then ultimately add clout to the initial level of attraction – not to make you seem like a jerk.

4) Make sure the target is giving IOIs before using.

A few examples of IOIs are her moving close to your vicinity, looking at you more than normal, smiling at you or just flat out coming up to you to talk. If you notice any of these things, then it is obviously safe to make these girls you targets.

5) Don’t be too harsh.

I’ve read some research over the years about how to be an effective leader in the workplace and heard that it is better not to be too nice but at the same time not be too mean as well. So this can also be applied to effectively attracting a mate.

There is a happy medium that women are more attracted to. Meaning that you must have a certain level of detachment that keeps the woman yearning for you. This basically makes us seem like a challenge – which humans in general are just more attracted to. Think about it… no one appreciates anything that comes easy.

So in short…

Just don’t be easy and you’ll be in the right state of awareness to master this skill. Women can sense desperation, so keep your options open – and most of all – don’t doubt yourself. Now that’s everything for today – enjoy your week and make sure you’re going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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