Fundamentals of dating | Glory Be Thy Night

Don’t brag.

I think this is one of the more obvious things, yet I still see guys doing it. Sorry to break it to some of you, but the more you give out about yourself the more dull you’ll seem.

Instead say as little as possible about yourself and allow her imagination to wander. The more mindfucked she is – the better. Be a mystery.

Don’t talk about an ex.

Talking about your ex in general is a bad idea – even worse if you talk bad about them. Unless asked, stay far away from this topic, it will only lead to trouble.

Don’t be too touchy feely

It’s important to break the touch barrier at some point, but don’t ever be in a rush to do so. Wait a bit until the girl has gotten comfortable around you first.

Build rapport and get her laughing. Maybe tell her to hold your arm when crossing the street sometime beforehand. After a drink or 2 pull her chair closer at a bar and look in her eyes. If she looks back, then move your face close to hers and see if she does the same.

If she does move in, get a kiss. From a kiss at least you have somewhere to start. Take your time though.

Don’t pay for everything.

Sorry to sound like such a pessimist, but chivalry is dead unless you’re already intimate with the girl. So one of the best ways to a girl’s respect is by asking her to get a round or 2 also.

Don’t wear too much cologne.

There is a happy medium between smelling of body odor and smelling like a midlife crisis. No more than 2 sprays on the neck and 1 on the wrist should be just fine. Anymore and you’ll keep anyone within a 20 foot radius far away from you.

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o today I thought I would talk about something a little new and try to help all you readers out there see things from a new perspective. I know there are a lot of people out on the internet trying to over-complicate dating and that’s why I’ve decided to break it all down into 3 basic fundamentals.

And these are…

1) You have to go out.

That’s right! So stay the hell away from online dating and go to a bar or do some day-game. You can’t just stay home and expect everything to be fine and dandy because you are missing out on some prime-grade hotties that you could be railing. Remember the more that you go out then the higher of a chance that you’re going to get laid and you’ll rack even more lays up on top of that obviously.

2) You must stay persistent.

Yes… don’t just get a girl’s number and never follow up. At one point I just sat around and waited for the most interested women to text me, which still works, but you still are missing out on the other women that were also interested – who may have just had hang-ups about texting guys. So following up is a must!

3) You need to learn to let go.

There will come a time when things just aren’t doing it for your current booty call anymore. You will need to understand, as an experienced player, the majority of the women you meet will move on and want to leave you at some point.

Yea it hurts, but it’s just part of the process. Instead of dwelling on your loss just enjoy it for what it was worth and understand that not everyone is meant to be together forever. The better you get at letting go, then the easier it will be for you to move on to the next lovely lady. Don’t worry you will eventually meet a few that will want to stick around. I still have some girls that I stay in touch with that I’ve known for years and that will still have sex with me; it does happen.

Furthermore…

I am not trying to say that dating in general is easy, because it’s not, it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. The emotional side to it is just brutal… you’ll experience lots of pain and I am sure we are all aware of this already.

However there is light on the other side of the tunnel. I’ve said this before so I’ll say it again… you will experience a lot of women that don’t give a fuck about you before you meet one that does. Nevertheless you will find some great women out there that will make the search feel like it was worth it – so never give up. And that’s all I have for today, now man the fuck up and go out!

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