PUA Tips: Get laid on the first date

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S-design-1 pua pictureince I’ve been a veteran in ‘the game’ quite awhile now, I have noticed a great deal of patterns over time. Maybe I am just smarter than most or maybe anyone with the same amount of experience will begin to become enlightened over time – who knows.

The only way I’d ever be capable of knowing if I have some kind of gift is if I was reborn as someone else and spent the same amount of time dedicated to pickup. Nevertheless I know what I know and I also know what works.

So today I am going to point out a few of these observations that I’ve been lucky enough to harvest from my countless years of dating woman after woman – in regard to seducing them faster on the first date. The following are…

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1) Take them to more than one place:

Also known as venue changing – this will allow you to build more comfort in a shorter amount of time. I usually start out at a place like a pool hall and then move on to a more isolated location with a view. This can be a park with a clear sky, a pier, a rooftop or even a bar on a hilltop that looks over the city; just make sure each place you take her is no more than 10-15 minutes walking distance from each other. I’m sure you can think of many places just use your imagination.

After taking them to the spot with a view I’ll go to another isolated bar that plays good music. A dimly lit bar with a vintage look is always nice. If it has a Juke box even better and play nothing but Frank Sinatra if possible.

2) If they are boring don’t be afraid to drop them:

I’ve flat out left many women because of a bad attitude or even not being willing to kiss on the first date. I understand that some women came from somewhat conservative upbringings, but come on this is 2016.

If a girl isn’t at least willing to kiss you by the second venue, then she can take a hike. 9 times out of 10 she isn’t even worth the trouble to begin with. So be selective and don’t be afraid to walk if necessary.

3) Start off with an activity:

Like I said in number 1, I like to start off at a pool hall then go on from there. Guess what we do in the pool hall? We go swimming! No just kidding – we play pool obviously.

Playing a game to start off whether it be darts, billiards, ping-pong, strip poker (If you can get her into it.) – it doesn’t matter what. The important thing is that you are able to frame a fun situation where you are both capable of relaxing and teasing each other about missed shots or what not.

Trust me doing this will get her laughing and smiling. She will feel positive emotions and in return be more comfortable around you. Just remember not to be a bully if you are much better than her; I suggest playing at a rate where she feels like she has a chance so she won’t get bored.

4) Wear a good cologne and clothes that look good on you:

Drakkar Noir, Armani Code and so on. There are countless aromas one can experiment with to find the ideal scent. I personally like Drakkar Noir but it might not be for everybody – I wouldn’t want you to buy a cologne that you didn’t appreciate yourself.

As for clothes: If you are a medium wear a medium; if you are a large wear a large – not a medium. Don’t expect a super tight shirt to get you laid; if anything she will probably just think you’re in the closet.

Pants shouldn’t be too baggy, I suggest Calvin Klein jeans or even Levi’s will do. I like to dress casual because I don’t like to dress up and I’m definitely not trying to give off the impression I have money – especially in a city like New York. The last thing I want to do is activate a woman’s gold digger mode.

5) Don’t be pushy and enjoy yourself:

This is the most important part of the article right here: I usually don’t go for the kiss right off the bat. After a couple of games of pool/darts I’ll move on to the next location. By this time she has had a little bit of fun and I’ll walk her to the location with the view.

If she asks where we are going I just tell her I want to show her a view I think she’d like. When we get there I’ll ask her what she thinks – most of the time they like it. After she takes the view in I’ll look at her in her eyes, smile and pull her close to me.

At this point I have had women kiss me on their own, but sometimes you still need to make the move. Some women won’t ever make the first move. You can blame overbearing, brainwashed parents from the previous generation – it is what it is. However, in short, right after she’s taken in that view and sees you looking at her; that is the perfect time to steal that kiss.

On a final note…

A lot of my advice stems from the fact that I don’t like to stress myself out in excess. I have 2 children already which I have to take care of and I also have to take care of the feelings of their mothers. So at this point I am not trying to stress myself out anymore than I already am.

When I bring a new woman in my life I don’t look at her as a potential mate; because quite frankly I already am tied down with 2 that I am stuck with for the rest of my life. I’m not ashamed because they produced 2 beautiful children and I couldn’t be anymore grateful. However when I am meeting new women then I am just looking for fun – nothing more. I don’t want them to take me seriously and I don’t want them to fall in love with me; I just want them to sleep with me and for as long as possible.

Many guys come from a different place in their heads and want more than just a little bit of fun. In a big city where women have an endless amount of resources you are going to have to look around for awhile before you find a woman that is “actually ready to settle down”.

So my last bit of advice for today is just have fun. The more you allow yourself to sit back and enjoy life then the easier it will be to bring more women into it. That’s all I got for today, now get the hell up out of your chair and go out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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