ome of you may not want to accept it, but if you are single and not by choice, then you might have some flaws. If you are actively looking or have been wanting a beautiful, respectful and virtuous woman in your life for a long time without having success, then look no further. I’ve compiled 5 of the main reasons you are most likely single below…
1) Screening.
There should be a substantial amount of attraction from the woman’s part before you even consider getting in a relationship. This means she is texting you on her own – not just responding to you – and rarely flaking when you meet up to hang out.
2) Bad communication/social skills.
This usually comes down to not being assertive enough and not stating what you are unhappy about with your potential partner. She can either be willing to address it or leave.
A good partner, when you’ve found one, will want to make you happy. As long as you are being fair and respectful, then she will listen to whatever is on your mind. So don’t be afraid to say what you feel – just make sure you are coming from a healthy place first before you speak. This means not spewing out drunken belligerence, or talking when you feel insecure or selfish.
3) Bad habits.
Bad habits can be a number of things… anywhere from not taking care of yourself, being negative or just acting out of insecurity. What I’ve found to be a big attraction killer for most guys I’ve worked with is acting out due to a high level of insecurity.
When you act out due to insecurity – you will unknowingly do a lot of obnoxious things that will obviously turn women off. For example, getting jealous easily or being reactive; getting offended easily; being needy or jumping to conclusions as well. The idea is to create a comfortable vibe that will make people want to be around you.
4) Laziness.
When I talk about laziness I am mostly referring to not putting yourself in enough situations where you can meet women. This means you need to start taking massive action so you can take advantage of every potential opportunity to bring a new woman into your life.
Naturally the more women you talk to and try to get romantically involved with will lead to more sex. And if you want more than sex, then it will give you more power over who you wind up with. So in short, you need to go out more – there are no shortcuts.
5) Boring/unattractive lifestyle.
New experiences are the building blocks of an attractive lifestyle. This means travelling to new places, going to festivals, etc. You want to do more things that you can tell interesting stories about.
Learning new languages is a great start as well, and in my experience, the best way to learn new languages is to travel to different countries. There is an old French adage I like, it goes like this…
“A man that knows 2 languages is worth 2 men.”
I find this to be accurate – your value in the eyes of women will skyrocket when you demonstrate this ability. You’ll go from just another ordinary bloke to extremely attractive. So take advantage of your ability to learn new languages as much as you can, because as you get older it becomes harder and harder to learn new things.
All in all…
Being single is in your control – so stop playing video games and getting distracted with habits that won’t benefit you in developing your character. That’s what it comes down to – “character”. Well that’s everything for this week. Remember to keep being the best version of yourself and go out and meet some ladies this weekend!
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
Just click the icon below to begin reading now…
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-PUA Redsky
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