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May 30, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for how to use takeaways

o today I am going to cover the ancient art of the takeaway. For those that are not familiar… a takeaway is when you meet a girl who is obviously showing signs of attraction (IOIs: Indicators of interest.) and instead of giving her a lot of attention or making it obvious that you are interested – you back off a little. This way you cause her to feel a stronger level of attraction for you, because it’s human nature to want something that is not that easy to get.

I’ve listed below the details on how to master the takeaway – so take note if you don’t have this down already…

1) Best to use early on in the night.

Yes, the reason I say this is because most women in the club are still sober early on. So bouncing around to a few girls will give you an idea of who is showing the most interest. If a girl is showing interest when sober, then backing off and reapproaching a little later on in the night – when the target has a few drinks in her – may just light a fire.

Once you reapproach all you have to do is build some sexual tension through eye-contact (Google triangular gazing). Mastering the takeaway is what separates the men from the boys in my opinion. When you completely understand how to do this from practice, then you will see your success rate improve drastically. When I first got the hang of this I finally reached a turning point where I felt like I had more solid control of my game.

2) Walking away after pinnacle of interaction.

So it’s early on in the night and you see a girl that is looking at you constantly. Now is the perfect chance to go up and introduce yourself – so you do this. You exchange information about each other and she’s very receptive. She’s probably smiling as well at this point.

Eventually you get to the point where she is talking more than you. This is the perfect time to use the takeaway. What I do is just tell her I’ll be back later, but first I find out if she’s planning to stick around for awhile. If not, I’ll ask if she has Facebook or if she wants to meet up another time. If she says yes, then I’ll ask for her number and part ways.

Nevertheless if she does plan on staying around, I just tell her I’ll be back. Following this I’ll leave her plain of sight. At this point she doesn’t know if I left or if I am even still around. Now she’s most likely thinking about me – this interesting and mysterious guy – that she may never see again. That feeling is exactly the point of the takeaway and now she values me higher than most of the other guys that are going to approach her later on.

I try not to wait too long, maybe 45 minutes or so, then I’ll come back. Hopefully she is feeling the alcohol a little more. Usually they do, because it doesn’t take more than 1 or 2 drinks for most women to feel the effects of booze.

Once I’ve come back and see that she is clearly excited to see me, then I will smile and say something playful like, “Long time, no see.” I’ll talk with her a bit more and then suggest going out for a smoke or tell her to come with while I get a drink so I can isolate her from her friends. Once I see that she’s compliant with this, then I’ll start to escalate (Move in for a kiss, etc.).

3) Use sparingly.

Another piece to add to the equation is that you should not apply this technique to the same target more than once. In order to be effective one time is enough. If you do too often then you’ll just make the girl think you are not that interested or that you’re a douche. The idea is to create a sense of loss, then ultimately add clout to the initial level of attraction – not to make you seem like a jerk.

4) Make sure the target is giving IOIs before using.

A few examples of IOIs are her moving close to your vicinity, looking at you more than normal, smiling at you or just flat out coming up to you to talk. If you notice any of these things, then it is obviously safe to make these girls you targets.

5) Don’t be too harsh.

I’ve read some research over the years about how to be an effective leader in the workplace and heard that it is better not to be too nice but at the same time not be too mean as well. So this can also be applied to effectively attracting a mate.

There is a happy medium that women are more attracted to. Meaning that you must have a certain level of detachment that keeps the woman yearning for you. This basically makes us seem like a challenge – which humans in general are just more attracted to. Think about it… no one appreciates anything that comes easy.

So in short…

Just don’t be easy and you’ll be in the right state of awareness to master this skill. Women can sense desperation, so keep your options open – and most of all – don’t doubt yourself. Now that’s everything for today – enjoy your week and make sure you’re going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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-PUA Redsky
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May 13, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 reasons why you’re still single

ome of you may not want to accept it, but if you are single and not by choice, then you might have some flaws. If you are actively looking or have been wanting a beautiful, respectful and virtuous woman in your life for a long time without having success, then look no further. I’ve compiled 5 of the main reasons you are most likely single below…

1) Screening.

There should be a substantial amount of attraction from the woman’s part before you even consider getting in a relationship. This means she is texting you on her own – not just responding to you – and rarely flaking when you meet up to hang out.

2) Bad communication/social skills.

This usually comes down to not being assertive enough and not stating what you are unhappy about with your potential partner. She can either be willing to address it or leave.

A good partner, when you’ve found one, will want to make you happy. As long as you are being fair and respectful, then she will listen to whatever is on your mind. So don’t be afraid to say what you feel – just make sure you are coming from a healthy place first before you speak. This means not spewing out drunken belligerence, or talking when you feel insecure or selfish.

3) Bad habits.

Bad habits can be a number of things… anywhere from not taking care of yourself, being negative or just acting out of insecurity. What I’ve found to be a big attraction killer for most guys I’ve worked with is acting out due to a high level of insecurity.

When you act out due to insecurity – you will unknowingly do a lot of obnoxious things that will obviously turn women off. For example, getting jealous easily or being reactive; getting offended easily; being needy or jumping to conclusions as well. The idea is to create a comfortable vibe that will make people want to be around you.

4) Laziness.

When I talk about laziness I am mostly referring to not putting yourself in enough situations where you can meet women. This means you need to start taking massive action so you can take advantage of every potential opportunity to bring a new woman into your life.

Naturally the more women you talk to and try to get romantically involved with will lead to more sex. And if you want more than sex, then it will give you more power over who you wind up with. So in short, you need to go out more – there are no shortcuts.

5) Boring/unattractive lifestyle.

New experiences are the building blocks of an attractive lifestyle. This means travelling to new places, going to festivals, etc. You want to do more things that you can tell interesting stories about.

Learning new languages is a great start as well, and in my experience, the best way to learn new languages is to travel to different countries. There is an old French adage I like, it goes like this…

“A man that knows 2 languages is worth 2 men.”

I find this to be accurate – your value in the eyes of women will skyrocket when you demonstrate this ability. You’ll go from just another ordinary bloke to extremely attractive. So take advantage of your ability to learn new languages as much as you can, because as you get older it becomes harder and harder to learn new things.

All in all…

Being single is in your control – so stop playing video games and getting distracted with habits that won’t benefit you in developing your character. That’s what it comes down to – “character”. Well that’s everything for this week. Remember to keep being the best version of yourself and go out and meet some ladies this weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

-PUA Redsky
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April 15, 2018March 27, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 signs that you should break up with your girl

or a lot of people, you don’t hear me giving a lot of relationship advice like most guys in this industry. That’s because you don’t need much. It’s pretty black and white – when a woman really likes you she will be easy to deal with. She won’t want to risk losing you, because you make her feel complete.

So below I’ve listed some good shit on the topic – that I personally use – so I don’t get stuck with any woman that I can’t make feel complete. Here it is…

1) She isn’t willing to invest.

To me, there is nothing more annoying than a girl who is trying to get me to do everything for her. Meaning pay the bill, text her to set up dates and basically give her the power to do whatever she wants to do.

If you run into this type of girl, I promise you won’t be getting sex as much as you probably want – if you get any at all. Wasting time with this type of girl will trigger the provider switch in her mind. She’ll see that you can be easily taken advantage of and she will lose respect. Respect is necessary to turn a woman on and if she can’t respect you, then she won’t be as sexually attracted to you.

2) Pointless drama.

In my experience, more drama usually means she isn’t content with you. Which also means that she would be more content with someone else. So save yourself both some trouble and tell her to take a hike.

It always takes some fishing before you find a girl you really click with. For me it’s probably 30% of the women I date; sometimes less. You just have to be patient, enjoy the process and get used to never getting attached that fast.

3) Parties too much.

I was seeing a girl not too long ago that told me she wanted to just be with one guy. She told me she wanted something serious and I almost believed her. Later I find out from one of her friends that she was going out 3-4 times a week.

She’s a chef so she would always get done at night. After I realized this I stopped responding to her texts. A week passes and I’m at the bar I met her at and she comes in drunk with her roommate and another guy.

So there was proof that I made the right decision. She didn’t even bother to come up to me either. A few years ago I would have been upset and would’ve probably acted up, but these days – since I understand women a lot better – I just let it go without any emotional attachment at all. I did this because I already know I can find someone just as good that will treat me much better.

So moral of the story is that you should not kid yourself when it comes to women that like to party a lot. They will never be relationship material and if you are the kind of guy that wants something serious – these are the women you should seriously stay away from. This is the path to disappointment.

4) She’s too controlling.

A major red-flag is when a girl wants you to tell her everything and tries to boss you around. Some women will want to check your phone and find out where you work, etc. The best advice I can give you with women like this is to get the hell away while you still have a dick. These are the Lorena Bobbett types.

5) She doesn’t enjoy having sex.

If you’ve allowed a relationship to progress to this point, then you’re a moron. Sorry if I am being too blunt. Unless you have a kid with her, she has no leverage to quit putting out. If your woman thinks she doesn’t need to have sex with you anymore to keep you around, then “zero sex” she will give.

So you need to be willing to draw the line and there are a few ways to deal with this also. One is to just make her satisfied sexually; which sometimes just isn’t possible. The second is be willing to lose her by telling her straight up that you will leave her if she stops putting out. If she values you enough, then she’ll respect your wishes. If not, then it wasn’t meant to be.

So in short, the only way to find out if you are with the right woman is by maintaining a mindset of abundance. This will become easier the more numbers you rack up with attractive women. When your reference number (Number of women you’ve slept with.) is high, then you won’t have a problem cutting one loose. At that point you’ve already internalized indefinitely the idea that there are 20 more women that are hotter to take her place.

So that about does it…

Don’t make these mistakes and you should have some smooth sailing or I guess you can say humping. A nice adage to add to your arsenile for the day is “If they did it once, then they’ll do it again”. So once again, thanks for reading, hope I was able to help some of you and make sure you go out this weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…