am back once again to share some information that might help some of you as well as it helps me. I know we all have our own qualms with stress and anxiety – there is no telling what it can do to you if managed improperly. Since an excess level of stress can not only hurt you, but also decrease longevity, I’ve decided to list a few ways to combat this unwanted nuisance.
The following are…
1) Don’t waste your time with the wrong people.
Getting rid of toxic people in one’s life is a perfect example when it comes to ridding yourself of too much stress. Stay away from attention seekers or in general just stay away from insecure people. If you don’t have a good time with someone then they are toxic; plain and simple.
2) Exercise and eat healthy.
Yes I know… I say this all the time, but it’s because it works. So once again I will tell you to get your asses in the gym and don’t eat crappy food – it will do wonders.
3) Take an annual vacation.
Believe it or not taking a vacation once a year will increase focus and productivity when you get back. You’ll feel better, you’ll feel re-energized and have a more ambitious and positive outlook on your life when returning.
I have been doing this recently and I am so glad I started because I didn’t realize how much I’ve been missing in other parts of the world. I am more motivated to go to work and make money because, quite frankly, I can’t wait to go on another vacation. I might add that I am less inclined to spend money on useless garbage as well.
4) Meditate.
I have been doing this for a few years now and I have to say I am so glad I discovered the benefits of meditation. I never realized that such a simple practice can have such a heavy impact on my life.
All I do is lay on my bed and relax my whole body – this means unclenching my jaw, letting my shoulders relax and just allowing my mind to let go of all thoughts or worries for 30-45 minutes. Just feel your body relaxing and after a few minutes you will notice the stress begin to melt away.
5) Have sex at least once a week.
This is where pickup can come in handy of course. Finding a casual sex partner or a sexually active girlfriend is perfect. There are plenty of options out there, if you just have the balls to go out and talk to some women then I’m sure you’ll find someone. If you are not completely sure what to do then check out my dating guides to better help you.
Furthermore…
When growing plants a grower can seriously harm them when exposing them to stress. This can be heat, cold, lack of nutrients, etc. Humans are similar and that is why we must learn to regulate the amount of stress in our lives. It’s important to decrease stress as much as possible and the aforementioned advice will do just that.
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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ow here is a topic that many are struggling with… “Oh the struggle.” The zone we all hate and have all been in at some point of our lives. Nothing is worse then wanting to have sex with a woman and not being able to because she sees you as a “friend”.
I’ve decided to put together a list of some things everyone can pay attention to so that you can all avoid the dreaded friend-zone.
These are…
1) Don’t be pushy.
I would say this applies to a guy that is anxious to get physical. Maybe you went for the kiss too soon and she pushed you away. So he struggles to try and force it in a cringeworthy manner; which just makes her want to get as far away from you as possible – if she hasn’t already. Most men would probably give up, but it’s fine if she rejects your advance to kiss her a couple of times. Most women are going to make it a little difficult to get the first kiss.
All you need to do is enjoy yourself and just keep trying to get that kiss. Best times to try is when you see she is laughing and having a good time. Once you get the kiss then you can potentially move on to more; depending on the woman.
What you shouldn’t do is expect your date to kiss you when you haven’t talked about anything. You also shouldn’t expect her to want to be your girlfriend all the way from the start obviously. It takes some time for her to get comfortable being around you before the both of you can bond.
2) Touch her.
I’ve said this many times… you need to get her comfortable with your touch before you can get her in bed. There are a lot of ways you can accomplish this. Among some of them is meeting in a crowded area so you have an excuse to grab her hand or just putting your hand up to hers to measure the difference in size – which is always an interesting thing to talk about.
From the hand you can move to the waist and pull her close to you. If she is alright with this then you can try for a kiss. Once you get the kiss you can test for more – I’ll let your imagination fill in the details for now.
Take into account that not every woman is going to be ok with this, but if she is worth your time then she will. However in some countries, such as Japan, I would save the touching for behind closed doors – since displaying affection in public is considered very rude.
3) Make sure you yourself are having fun on the date.
Over the years I’ve come to realize that self-amusement is kind of a big deal. If you aren’t having fun yourself on a date, then your date won’t be having fun either. So enjoy yourself and go somewhere that you both would like to be.
I like to play Billiards… therefore I often take my date to a bar that has Billiards. I also like to listen to Frank Sinatra and sing Karaoke – so I will go somewhere that offers either of these choices as well.
4) Let her chase.
Nothing can turn a girl off more than a guy that is too attentive. Learn to just sit back and listen to the music of whatever place you are at. Wait for her to ask questions; you don’t have to be the main one talking. It’s even better if you can get her talking more than you. Remember the more you get her to invest, then the more she will start to like you.
Overall…
The key to not getting friendzoned is to just behave like a man. It’s a happy medium between not being too nice and not being too mean. Just show her that you have your head in the right place and she is secure around you – there really isn’t a lot to it.
Also there is chemistry that you have to pay attention to also. Sometimes you just aren’t compatible with someone and there really isn’t much you can do but leave to move on to someone else.
To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…
“Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.
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o I just recently spent a month in Japan for those that aren’t following me on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. I started out by visiting my son for the first week; which was great. I won’t go into that much however because I like to keep that part of my life private. Anyway after that I began my Japan pickup rampage.
I have to say it wasn’t exactly easy to meet women in Japan, considering I don’t speak the language but I did manage to rack up another 4 notches regardless. Out of those 4 I managed to get footage of 2; simply because the other 2 left before I had a chance to whip out my phone.
Upon the first week I hooked up with 2 girls and I must mention beforehand that all the women I slept with in Japan were from one-night stands. I did do day-game in the beginning, but after seeing my success with night-game – I just stayed with that. After all I only had 3 weeks in total.
The first girl was a young Taiwanese traveler that was staying at a hostel in Osaka. I met her through a group of people I believe she was in a hostel with. She was very sexy and I had a great time from the moment we met to the moments we spent between the sheets. All I have to say is that she let me do whatever I wanted behind closed doors.
Following that I continued to go out and met up with a couple of other women before I had another success. They were both Japanese and very beautiful – probably among the most beautiful women I had seen in Japan.
The first date we went out for Ramen and I was quite put off by how she slurped her Ramen at first, but I later read an article online that this is a custom. It is similar to how in Hungary belching is considered polite – in other words it’s a compliment to the chef.
Unfortunately this first date didn’t lead to anything more than hand-holding. I could tell that she was significantly attracted, but the language gap was too large. We eventually got sick of going back and forth reading each other’s phone screens. We had to do so in order to translate what was being said.
I did try to escalate but we were in public and for the majority of Japanese women PDA in public is a big no-no. When I tried to kiss her she would just pull away and shake her head no. Eventually I just told her with Google translate that I thought it would be best to meet up another time when either of us could communicate in a language that we both know. Also I might add that every girl I went to bed with on this vacation could speak English well enough to at least communicate.
After realizing that things weren’t going anywhere I told her I am going to drop her off at the station we met at. She agreed and we walked there together. We still messaged on Line (A popular social media platform used by many Japanese.) after that for awhile, but I ended up angering her when I got bored one day and sent her around 10 pictures of me kissing other random women.
But moving on…
The next date was also with a local Japanese girl in Osaka. I figured this time around I would take the target somewhere more interactive than a Ramen restaurant – so I picked a local bar that has free Karaoke. I went out with the owner the night before; which was also the same day I had Ramen with the other Jgirl. The owner is a cool Canadian guy that I got along pretty well with. He got me into a bunch of clubs for free and also hooked it up with free drinks, so my thoughts were I might as well repay him by bringing my date there.
So we met up and walked to the Karaoke Bar, but the owner wasn’t there that day. We still had a good time for the most part and I probably would have got her home if it wasn’t for her boss showing up. Yea, this is the best part of the story actually: Apparently they don’t have strict laws about sexual harassment in the workplace in Japan. This means that like 90% of straight men in authoritative positions take advantage.
Therefore I had to deal with her boss texting and callling her nonstop, then coming in to eventually tell her she needed to leave me to wake up early for work the next day – real stalker shit. This guy seriously deserves the “cockblock of the year” award. What is even worse is that she was ignoring him most of the time and talking to me instead; which of course made him even more upset. Naturally he had to be even more pathetic and demand that she go home immediately.
Luckily I ended up winging with a cool British guy that was singing Karaoke with us at the bar after the Jgirl left. We went to a small club called G3 which happens to have some of the most amazing female EDM DJ’s. Here I met another Jgirl that was very into me and randomly convinced her to come home with me – like I said before… she also spoke english relatively well enough to communicate.
I don’t know exactly how I managed to pull this one-nighter off, but it might have had something to do with my nonchalant, IDGAF dance moves I suppose. That and the fact that when I saw the level of interest she had I decided to go in hard with the escalation – at one point we were making out very aggressively against the wall of the dance floor.
I stayed until the club closed with her and suggested we get something to eat after. She was with a friend and the friend also was talking to a guy. So I told them I knew a place and walked them all the way but a block away from my place. Her friend actually was the one that said she wanted to go home after getting tired of walking – we probably walked a good mile actually.
What I think sealed the deal was this girl’s high level of attraction. I told the Jgirl I was with that my place was literally a block away and even though her friend was trying to get her to leave – she still decided to stay with me.
We spent the night together and she left around noon the next day. I enjoyed meeting her and it was probably one of my top 20 favorite girls so far. She is very sweet and we are still in touch – we talk on Line around 2 to 3 times a week at this point.
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3 things I learned from gaming in Osaka:
1) Day-game is not as effective as Night-game.
2) To get laid efficiently; It’s better to focus on women that can at least communicate in English until I can myself communicate in Japanese.
3) An easy way to get a target to go home with you is if you suggest going somewhere to eat and walking her to your place instead. If she decides she doesn’t want to go with you, then at least you don’t have to go far to get home. After-all she might just decide to stay because she doesn’t want to go all the way home herself (IE. Law of investment).
And this is where I’ll end the article…
So now you’ve read a little about the first 2 lovely ladies I had success with on this trip. I am not going to say Japan is easier than New York or other cities in the United States. I think if I had as much free time to go out and just try to get laid, then I would probably do much better in my own country. My thoughts are when you know the language, then it’s much easier to make the target comfortable. Nevertheless it was a great experience and don’t worry I still have 2 more girls to write about that I met in Tokyo – so stay tuned!
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
Just click the icon below to begin reading now…
Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!
am back once again to share some information that might help some of you as well as it helps me. I know we all have our own qualms with stress and anxiety – there is no telling what it can do to you if managed improperly. Since an excess level of stress can not only hurt you, but also decrease longevity, I’ve decided to list a few ways to combat this unwanted nuisance.
