PUA Tips: Gaming in Japan (Part 2 – Tokyo)

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PUA Picture recently shared an article about my experience gaming in Osaka and this will be the continuation. Tokyo is the next place I visited and it is a whole different world compared to Osaka.

I liked Osaka somewhat because of the fact that it is much cheaper and the fact that I got laid twice within the first 4 days of being there was definitely a bonus. However after another week in Osaka I made out with countless women, had women grabbing on my genitals but never managed to bed any to follow.

Tokyo on the other hand was much more expensive but I was still able to rack up another couple of lays in just a week of being there. Like I said in the previous article… every girl I had sex with spoke a little bit of English. I noticed in Tokyo that there were a lot more Japanese girls that could at least communicate in English – which was a major benefit; at least for a Gaijin like me.

Another thing about Tokyo is they have these relatively inexpensive bars, well compared to New York, called HUB’s. They are British styled pubs that a lot of Japanese men and women hang out at in hopes of meeting Gaijin men and women.

Osaka had a few HUB’s also, but Tokyo had at least 6 within a 2 block radius where I was staying – which is an area called Shinjuku. This was perfect because since I love to go bar hopping in NYC – it was exactly what I was used to. I would just have a drink at one place and I’d focus on the Jgirls that were paying the most attention to me. If there wasn’t an obvious connection I would leave to the next HUB once I finished my drink. Sometimes I would even meet a wingman along the way.

This strategy worked very well and on the weekends I barely had to do any approaches at all because women would just come over to ask me to sit with them. There was also a Karaoke bar that was close by that was open even later than the HUB’s on the weekdays. I am not the best Karaoke singer but I can at least appear like I know what I am doing with the right songs that fit my vocals; this actually helped me with the first Jgirl I slept with in Tokyo actually. I’ve included a picture of her at the top of the article actually.

The next time I go to Tokyo I will have a more honed method for getting laid while spending the least amount of money. Since I was in Shinjuku I was limited on where I could meet women. I did check out Roppongi a couple of times and I had a good time. However I had to deal with a lot of cock-blocking from asian foreigners like Koreans, Chinese, etc. At one point a girl in one of the Korean groups was talking with me and one of the Korean men in the group started to get jealous; so he just grabbed her hand and dragged her away mid-sentence.

I actually had a Korean guy punch me in the chest another time and unfortunately for him I had to return the favor which left him with a busted nose. Luckily for me I was with a middle-aged Japanese woman, that decided to be my sugar mama for the night, who also knew the owner and saw exactly what happened. To make a long story short he had a bad night and had to leave – bloody nose and all. I guess one can say I got lucky. Nevertheless I do not suggest getting in fights in Japan, because being a foreigner, you are very likely to get deported and if you hurt the guy too bad then they might not let you back in the country; so keep that in mind.

As for other foreigners… I met a few Australians, French-fries, a couple of Italians, Brits, Spaniards, Chileans, Canadians of course Americans. I had a British wingman one of the nights in Roppongi – awesome guy. I also had a good time with a couple of guys from Chile and Spain – unfortunately for them I was the only one that got laid that night; it happens. Yet anyone could have gone home with a girl that night – I just was the first to escalate.

I’ve learned that in Tokyo Jgirls are a lot like American women; if they like you then they won’t be as reluctant at your attempts for PDA (Ie. Kissing in public.). There are still lots of women that aren’t ok with that, so it is pretty much up to how comfortable you are taking a leap of faith. Me on the other hand… I have zero issues with taking a leap of faith. My game is very much assuming the woman is attracted to me regardless of whether she is or not. Sometimes I’m right and sometimes I’m not. If not, then oh well, plenty of other women to talk to. I just make an advance a few times and if she doesn’t submit then I move on to the next.

To leave off…

I had a great time in both Osaka and Tokyo. They are both very different in a gaming sense; Osaka has more of a small town feel, where Tokyo is very similar to New York but with a lot more asians.

One of the great things about Japan is the fact that most women will be willing to talk with you from the beginning. There is always the chance that they have boyfriends, but you can always use that time spent talking to find out about cool clubs or bars that you otherwise would have never discovered.

For the women that don’t speak English: Google translate does wonders and you can rent a pocket WIFI device from the local airports. They are great if you don’t want to have a ridiculously expensive phone bill when you get back home; depending on your plan.

If you are going to Tokyo I would suggest staying 3 weeks to a month. Weekends are great for foreigners in Tokyo. Weekdays can be good too, but if you are the kind of guy that has issues with approaching women, then I propose taking advantage of as many weekends as possible.

Don’t waste your time with women that expect you to pay their way. There are many that are used to the man paying; which is kind of what is expected for Japanese men. The great thing about being a foreigner, however, is that you can get away with going Dutch simply by stating that you don’t pay for the woman in your country. Regardless of whether it is the truth or not – we foreigners have an advantage and that advantage is that a lot of Japanese women view us as exotic. And if you are frequenting a few of the places that I’ve mentioned above you will come across quite a few of these types of women; A.K.A. Gaijin hunters.

So there is a brief summary of my experience in Tokyo. I will be returning, and to reiterate, I had a blast. I definitely suggest visiting this wonderful place. It is a one of a kind city and if you just remember to have fun and enjoy the scenery, then you will love it.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 5 ways to reduce Anxiety or Stress

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PUA Picture am back once again to share some information that might help some of you as well as it helps me. I know we all have our own qualms with stress and anxiety – there is no telling what it can do to you if managed improperly. Since an excess level of stress can not only hurt you, but also decrease longevity, I’ve decided to list a few ways to combat this unwanted nuisance.

The following are…

1) Don’t waste your time with the wrong people.

Getting rid of toxic people in one’s life is a perfect example when it comes to ridding yourself of too much stress. Stay away from attention seekers or in general just stay away from insecure people. If you don’t have a good time with someone then they are toxic; plain and simple.

2) Exercise and eat healthy.

Yes I know… I say this all the time, but it’s because it works. So once again I will tell you to get your asses in the gym and don’t eat crappy food – it will do wonders.

3) Take an annual vacation.

Believe it or not taking a vacation once a year will increase focus and productivity when you get back. You’ll feel better, you’ll feel re-energized and have a more ambitious and positive outlook on your life when returning.

I have been doing this recently and I am so glad I started because I didn’t realize how much I’ve been missing in other parts of the world. I am more motivated to go to work and make money because, quite frankly, I can’t wait to go on another vacation. I might add that I am less inclined to spend money on useless garbage as well.

4) Meditate.

I have been doing this for a few years now and I have to say I am so glad I discovered the benefits of meditation. I never realized that such a simple practice can have such a heavy impact on my life.

All I do is lay on my bed and relax my whole body – this means unclenching my jaw, letting my shoulders relax and just allowing my mind to let go of all thoughts or worries for 30-45 minutes. Just feel your body relaxing and after a few minutes you will notice the stress begin to melt away.

5) Have sex at least once a week.

This is where pickup can come in handy of course. Finding a casual sex partner or a sexually active girlfriend is perfect. There are plenty of options out there, if you just have the balls to go out and talk to some women then I’m sure you’ll find someone. If you are not completely sure what to do then check out my dating guides to better help you.

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Furthermore…

When growing plants a grower can seriously harm them when exposing them to stress. This can be heat, cold, lack of nutrients, etc. Humans are similar and that is why we must learn to regulate the amount of stress in our lives. It’s important to decrease stress as much as possible and the aforementioned advice will do just that.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 4 Top tips for not getting Friendzoned

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pua pictureow here is a topic that many are struggling with… “Oh the struggle.” The zone we all hate and have all been in at some point of our lives. Nothing is worse then wanting to have sex with a woman and not being able to because she sees you as a “friend”.

I’ve decided to put together a list of some things everyone can pay attention to so that you can all avoid the dreaded friend-zone.

These are…

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1) Don’t be pushy.

I would say this applies to a guy that is anxious to get physical. Maybe you went for the kiss too soon and she pushed you away. So he struggles to try and force it in a cringeworthy manner; which just makes her want to get as far away from you as possible – if she hasn’t already. Most men would probably give up, but it’s fine if she rejects your advance to kiss her a couple of times. Most women are going to make it a little difficult to get the first kiss.

All you need to do is enjoy yourself and just keep trying to get that kiss. Best times to try is when you see she is laughing and having a good time. Once you get the kiss then you can potentially move on to more; depending on the woman.

What you shouldn’t do is expect your date to kiss you when you haven’t talked about anything. You also shouldn’t expect her to want to be your girlfriend all the way from the start obviously. It takes some time for her to get comfortable being around you before the both of you can bond.

2) Touch her.

I’ve said this many times… you need to get her comfortable with your touch before you can get her in bed. There are a lot of ways you can accomplish this. Among some of them is meeting in a crowded area so you have an excuse to grab her hand or just putting your hand up to hers to measure the difference in size – which is always an interesting thing to talk about.

From the hand you can move to the waist and pull her close to you. If she is alright with this then you can try for a kiss. Once you get the kiss you can test for more – I’ll let your imagination fill in the details for now.

Take into account that not every woman is going to be ok with this, but if she is worth your time then she will. However in some countries, such as Japan, I would save the touching for behind closed doors – since displaying affection in public is considered very rude.


3) Make sure you yourself are having fun on the date
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Over the years I’ve come to realize that self-amusement is kind of a big deal. If you aren’t having fun yourself on a date, then your date won’t be having fun either. So enjoy yourself and go somewhere that you both would like to be.

I like to play Billiards… therefore I often take my date to a bar that has Billiards. I also like to listen to Frank Sinatra and sing Karaoke – so I will go somewhere that offers either of these choices as well.

4) Let her chase.

Nothing can turn a girl off more than a guy that is too attentive. Learn to just sit back and listen to the music of whatever place you are at. Wait for her to ask questions; you don’t have to be the main one talking. It’s even better if you can get her talking more than you. Remember the more you get her to invest, then the more she will start to like you.

Overall…

The key to not getting friendzoned is to just behave like a man. It’s a happy medium between not being too nice and not being too mean. Just show her that you have your head in the right place and she is secure around you – there really isn’t a lot to it.

Also there is chemistry that you have to pay attention to also. Sometimes you just aren’t compatible with someone and there really isn’t much you can do but leave to move on to someone else.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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