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June 4, 2018March 25, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 psychological tricks you better learn

ome of you may have learned some of these in school if you’ve studied psychology. Today I’m going to list a few psychological phenomena that will help aid you all in getting whatever it is that you may desire from others.

I’m listing a few tips that will help you to not just better read someone’s mind, but to also have more control of the outcome of whatever interactions you may find yourself in at some point. Imagine having the power to make people always feel comfortable around you, or even better, have the power to make people like you. This is exactly how these tricks can be used – so pay attention. The following are…

1) The Benjamin Franklyn effect.

I’ve talked about this a good amount… this is basically asking a small favor of the person. The idea behind this is that there has been a good amount of research that suggests that people tend to like people they’ve done favors for. So you can raise your value in someone’s eyes just by asking simple favors.

This could be anything from watching your chair when you go to the bathroom or even just asking someone to hold your phone while you put on your jacket. Favors are basically the building blocks that add meaning to relationships.

2) The Yawning effect.

This is an interesting one, if you have ever been curious to know if anyone is looking at you, then yawn in front of a bunch of people. If anyone is paying attention to you they will yawn as well. This is good, when in crowded places like Starbucks, a subway or a bar.

Knowing who is looking at you will give you a big advantage when deciding what women you are going to approach. Chances are if she’s looking at you, then she’s attracted to you as well.

3) The Look-to-comrade effect.

This is a fun one…

I like this because I enjoy telling jokes, but you can also just tell a story. For some reason or another people will look at the person they like the most in a group following a funny joke or story. So if you are curious about who a girl likes the most in a group, then tell a joke or share a short story. Make sure you have everyone’s attention when doing this as well.

4) The Chewing effect.

Now this is great for when you are nervous about a girl before you meet up for a date. Just chew gum or eat something and you’ll feel more at ease when you meet up. I myself chew a lot of gum already, so this may explain why so many girls have told me in the past that I seem quite calm and relaxed.

5) The Mirror effect.

This is another trick that I find rather clever due to attractive women’s common habit of being rather narcissistic. Going to a bar that has a lot of mirrors and sitting close to the mirrors will usually lead to a better time with your target. This is because no one wants to see themself angry and the mirror will help amplify the desired result; which is to put the target in a good mood.

So next time you choose your date location, carefully pick a bar or lounge with mirrors and sit nearby them. If you can, sit next to one or have one behind where you sit. This way when she looks at you, then she’ll be forced to see herself from the side. Don’t be surprised if she looks at herself in the mirror often as well.

Last of all…

Although these tricks will not guarantee 100 percent success, they will push you more in that direction than if you didn’t know them. So use them and remember, more importantly, to always enjoy yourself and just have fun. So that’s about it for today! Now enjoy your weekend and get out there!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

“Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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-PUA Redsky
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April 15, 2018March 27, 2020

PUA Tips: Top 5 signs that you should break up with your girl

or a lot of people, you don’t hear me giving a lot of relationship advice like most guys in this industry. That’s because you don’t need much. It’s pretty black and white – when a woman really likes you she will be easy to deal with. She won’t want to risk losing you, because you make her feel complete.

So below I’ve listed some good shit on the topic – that I personally use – so I don’t get stuck with any woman that I can’t make feel complete. Here it is…

1) She isn’t willing to invest.

To me, there is nothing more annoying than a girl who is trying to get me to do everything for her. Meaning pay the bill, text her to set up dates and basically give her the power to do whatever she wants to do.

If you run into this type of girl, I promise you won’t be getting sex as much as you probably want – if you get any at all. Wasting time with this type of girl will trigger the provider switch in her mind. She’ll see that you can be easily taken advantage of and she will lose respect. Respect is necessary to turn a woman on and if she can’t respect you, then she won’t be as sexually attracted to you.

2) Pointless drama.

In my experience, more drama usually means she isn’t content with you. Which also means that she would be more content with someone else. So save yourself both some trouble and tell her to take a hike.

It always takes some fishing before you find a girl you really click with. For me it’s probably 30% of the women I date; sometimes less. You just have to be patient, enjoy the process and get used to never getting attached that fast.

3) Parties too much.

I was seeing a girl not too long ago that told me she wanted to just be with one guy. She told me she wanted something serious and I almost believed her. Later I find out from one of her friends that she was going out 3-4 times a week.

She’s a chef so she would always get done at night. After I realized this I stopped responding to her texts. A week passes and I’m at the bar I met her at and she comes in drunk with her roommate and another guy.

So there was proof that I made the right decision. She didn’t even bother to come up to me either. A few years ago I would have been upset and would’ve probably acted up, but these days – since I understand women a lot better – I just let it go without any emotional attachment at all. I did this because I already know I can find someone just as good that will treat me much better.

So moral of the story is that you should not kid yourself when it comes to women that like to party a lot. They will never be relationship material and if you are the kind of guy that wants something serious – these are the women you should seriously stay away from. This is the path to disappointment.

4) She’s too controlling.

A major red-flag is when a girl wants you to tell her everything and tries to boss you around. Some women will want to check your phone and find out where you work, etc. The best advice I can give you with women like this is to get the hell away while you still have a dick. These are the Lorena Bobbett types.

5) She doesn’t enjoy having sex.

If you’ve allowed a relationship to progress to this point, then you’re a moron. Sorry if I am being too blunt. Unless you have a kid with her, she has no leverage to quit putting out. If your woman thinks she doesn’t need to have sex with you anymore to keep you around, then “zero sex” she will give.

So you need to be willing to draw the line and there are a few ways to deal with this also. One is to just make her satisfied sexually; which sometimes just isn’t possible. The second is be willing to lose her by telling her straight up that you will leave her if she stops putting out. If she values you enough, then she’ll respect your wishes. If not, then it wasn’t meant to be.

So in short, the only way to find out if you are with the right woman is by maintaining a mindset of abundance. This will become easier the more numbers you rack up with attractive women. When your reference number (Number of women you’ve slept with.) is high, then you won’t have a problem cutting one loose. At that point you’ve already internalized indefinitely the idea that there are 20 more women that are hotter to take her place.

So that about does it…

Don’t make these mistakes and you should have some smooth sailing or I guess you can say humping. A nice adage to add to your arsenile for the day is “If they did it once, then they’ll do it again”. So once again, thanks for reading, hope I was able to help some of you and make sure you go out this weekend!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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-PUA Redsky
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March 5, 2017October 24, 2019

PUA Tips: 4 Tips to keep a Girl around after a One-night stand

have seen a lot of info online about how to get women in bed and so on. However I haven’t seen much on how to keep them around – especially after a one-night stand.

A lot of times after a one-night stand women won’t expect a relationship or something ongoing to come out of it. Nevertheless at times you might meet a girl that you really like and unfortunately she doesn’t have the same intentions. You hookup and never see her again.

So I put together a list of things one can do to increase the odds of her wanting to continue seeing you. These are…

1) Take her to breakfast if she is free the following day.

Yeah, that’s right… nothing like a little post-date to present to her that she can also have a good time with you outside the bedroom. This will also show her that you actually value her for more than the typical booty call – which isn’t a bad thing. Depending on how much she values you she might actually see you as something more; even despite the fact that she let you bang her relatively easily.

2) Walk her to the train or to the taxi.

A great gesture that I have no problem with. I see this as a victory walk so that all my neighbors or her neighbors can see that we’re fucking; nothing like a little ego boost. Besides it shows her that you have a little class.

3) Text her your name after getting her number.

This is obvious… assuming you remembered to exchange numbers before you parted ways in the morning. Just text her your name so she doesn’t forget you. Do not text her a long text about how much you like her or how it was great to meet her; just sending your name is all that’s needed to make the desired impression.

4) Hold out on telling her your deepest darkest secrets after you finally get some.

I know a lot of us probably see what I am getting at here. When some men finally get a smoking hot female to sleep with them, then it is easy to get excited about it. One of the things some of us may do is overwhelm the target with a bunch of nonsense that makes us look like a desperate little bitch.

So I will say this once… do not tell her how great she makes you feel or that you want her to be your girlfriend. Don’t tell her that she is the hottest girl you’ve ever been with or start reading her poetry. Do not go emo by telling her about how bad your life is and how she is the only thing that brings happiness into it. Basically, just enjoy the moment and be positive or funny – if you can be. If you aren’t funny, then don’t try.

Furthermore…

As your skill progresses you will experiment with new material and advice you read online hopefully. The best way to hone one’s skill of “the game” is to just not make the same mistakes over and over again. Therefore if you’ve tried something multiple times and the result never seems to come out in your favor, then it might be a good idea to start doing things a little different.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…