Dating don'ts | Glory Be Thy Night

Don’t brag.

I think this is one of the more obvious things, yet I still see guys doing it. Sorry to break it to some of you, but the more you give out about yourself the more dull you’ll seem.

Instead say as little as possible about yourself and allow her imagination to wander. The more mindfucked she is – the better. Be a mystery.

Don’t talk about an ex.

Talking about your ex in general is a bad idea – even worse if you talk bad about them. Unless asked, stay far away from this topic, it will only lead to trouble.

Don’t be too touchy feely

It’s important to break the touch barrier at some point, but don’t ever be in a rush to do so. Wait a bit until the girl has gotten comfortable around you first.

Build rapport and get her laughing. Maybe tell her to hold your arm when crossing the street sometime beforehand. After a drink or 2 pull her chair closer at a bar and look in her eyes. If she looks back, then move your face close to hers and see if she does the same.

If she does move in, get a kiss. From a kiss at least you have somewhere to start. Take your time though.

Don’t pay for everything.

Sorry to sound like such a pessimist, but chivalry is dead unless you’re already intimate with the girl. So one of the best ways to a girl’s respect is by asking her to get a round or 2 also.

Don’t wear too much cologne.

There is a happy medium between smelling of body odor and smelling like a midlife crisis. No more than 2 sprays on the neck and 1 on the wrist should be just fine. Anymore and you’ll keep anyone within a 20 foot radius far away from you.

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have been getting a lot of questions lately about what behaviors attract women the most. I’ve noticed that a lot of the answers stem around only a few things that can be easily avoided – as long as you don’t make a few major mistakes.

So I took the time to delve deep and came up with this list. The following are…

1) Don’t take her to dinner on the first date.

There are a couple of reasons for this: One is because usually there is a table dividing you and that keeps you from getting her comfortable with your touch. Also the fact that she will get filled up with food and she won’t exactly be in the mood to go home with you if she needs to go number 2; plain and simple.

2) Don’t talk too much.

One of the worst things you could do is out-do a woman in the area of talking. We all know how much women like to talk and if you are depriving her of that need, then there will be trouble. Instead just ask her positive, open-ended questions and if she asks you questions then answer them with quick answers. Also make sure to eventually turn the focus back on her.

3) Don’t be afraid to get physical.

Although you should not be too hasty there does come a time when you need to get her comfortable with your touch. I believe the best time is when you see her relaxed, smiling or laughing. When you see this it’s the best time to make an advance. I would start with hand-holding and then when you see that she is comfortable with this you can go for the kiss.

4) Don’t be cocky or an asshole.

Don’t think because you see all the assholes in movies and in school getting women that this is how you need to behave. In fact it is quite the opposite when you are an adult. The idea is to just not be a push over.

5) Don’t stay in one place the whole time.

Venue-changing is necessary when you want to create comfort. The atmosphere can have a huge impact on bonding and this is why I always take my dates to places with a relaxing ambience.

A dimly lit bar that isn’t too busy and that plays soothing music is perfect. After that a nice roof-top with a great view is even better. Following that… a walk by the pier will prepare her for a romantic kiss with a nice view of whatever is near by.

And that’s it…

If you really pay attention to these 5 concepts then you will be light-years ahead of your competition. Although looks do help a lot for first impressions; it is important that you also learn how to behave. Behavior is key for keeping the women around – so start by not doing the aforementioned and watch as things finally start to get interesting.

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