ow I thought I might make the article of the day about building comfort – or the initial part of the first date/first interaction. In my opinion, you shouldn’t have much trouble getting on a woman’s good side if you have the following concepts mastered. These concepts are…
1) Make her feel good.
I don’t think it is rocket science to understand that making someone feel good around you will also make them value you a little more. So putting some effort into making people feel pleasant in your company can definitely help.
Sweet talking: A form of banter that ilicits positive emotions with mostly flattery.
Sweet talking is great for American women; at least I’ve found this to be true. Especially with the whole feminist trend taking place within the American female community. If a girl is attracted to you from the start, then a sweet compliment about how you think she’s cute may play in your favor. Don’t elevate her too much though; 2 compliments at max.
2) Meet women in a place where you feel comfortable.
I actually discovered this after years of putting myself in uncomfortable situations. One day I just realized certain bars, where I know everyone, I just seem to kill it at. So I started doing this and started getting double the hookups I was getting before. It actually blew my mind how much one little tweak like this changed everything.
So find out where your safe space is and start making this your sacred hunting ground. Just like how the Native Americans have sacred hunting ground – find out where yours are.
3) Be positive.
When I say be positive I mean don’t get triggered like a little insecure child by any slight shot to your ego a woman might take. Talk about positive experiences and basically be nice to everybody – the tyoe of behavior some us in New York might consider being fake. However other people in Los Angeles might consider having class. Nevertheless, don’t be the downer or the guy who doesn’t ever seem like he’s having fun.
4) Make her laugh.
I have a bunch of content on this already (Article: How to be funny), but the idea is to just not take things as seriously and stay relaxed. You can say something like, “The waiter/bartender looks like a penguin – I feel like I’m watching National Geographic.” It doesn’t have to be super funny either… even better if you got the girl is laughing at things that aren’t that funny. It shows compliance and that seducing her might actually be easier than originally thought.
So that’s about it for this week…
Hope that I was able to share some insight with you guys this week and feel free to message me with ideas for new articles as well. Also remember that the more women you have seduced, that are actually a challenge, then the more comfortable you will become naturally; at least for me. It’s like you’re subconsciously learning too. The way I see it is that you are like a guitar string and the more women you’re with, then the more tuned the string (You) will become. Well that’s everything I have to share, thanks for reading – now go out and take advantage of the Spring!
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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