‘m back once again to open your ears and fill your minds. Today we’re going to get into confidence and how to obtain it right here and right now. Some of you might not need this, but to those that are still struggling with this – pay close attention.
Below I’m listing some sure-fire ways to boost your confidence ASAP. So read on…
1. Work out regularly.
Yeah this is pretty self-explanatory… just sweat out the stress, toxin build-up and make way to a new life of feeling much better than you did before putting in the exercise. Not only will you feel better you’ll look better and probably live longer.
2. View yourself as a trophy.
Although I am not a fan of embracing narcissism I do think it is in fact very beneficial to have a healthy sense of self-worth. I believe everyone has the right to value themselves highly to some degree. Just remember that there is a big difference between arrogance and confidence.
For those that need me to explain… arrogance is when you think you’re better than others and confidence is when you are proud of all the hardwork you have put in to build your character into what it is today.
3. Never stop trying to achieve the next level.
Self improvement should always be one of the main priorities in your life. We must never stop trying to grow and part of being confident is being able to look back to see all that you’ve accomplished with a sense of glory. If you can look back at everything you’ve done in your life so far and feel good about it, then you are on the right track.
4. Stop giving a damn what people think.
Sticks and stones… words mean nothing – actions mean everything. Take less notice in what people say and focus on yourself. Remember to work hard towards your goals and as long as you are moving forward then go at your own pace. No need to compare ourselves to anyone – no one is you and will never be.
5. Remember compliments from those whose compliments you value.
Have you ever had a hot girl tell you that you were cute? Or maybe at least told you that she liked something about you?
It doesn’t matter what they said… all that matters is that they said it. Remember those compliments and cherish them because that is proof right there that you have something to be confident about.
6. Where a great smelling cologne.
A great smelling cologne will do wonders and I’m not exagerating. I suggest Armani Code or Drakkar Noir. There is nothing more confidence boosting than when I hot woman grabs on to you aggressively and pulls you in just to get a whiff of your scent.
Women love the scent of a nice smelling man and it has almost as strong of an impact on them as catnip does on cats; no joke. So go to the store and do yourself a favor by picking up a quality scent.
To conclude…
Believe it or not we are not all born with confidence. It is learned… we either learn how to be confident when we are young or many of us struggle years until we get a grasp on it – I know I did. However in time anyone can become confident. The only thing holding you back is that you have to be willing to work on it – which means tackling new challenges and getting out of your comfort zone.
To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…
“Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.
Just click the icon below to begin reading now…
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-PUA Redsky
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