o I’ve been seeing this topic pop up a lot online. I think since I am now in my 30s I am able to give advice on this, because I’m not a spring chicken anymore myself.
I know many of you are looking at your age as a hindrance but it is in fact a blessing in disguise. Many of you have no idea how many women are attracted to older men – especially younger women.
Now the following list of tips will help you turn that doubt into confidence – so pay attention…
1) Don’t try to act younger.
A big turn off I know for most people is when you pretend to be someone you aren’t. So instead be comfortable with who you are and your age. Women will respect you more if you are congruent and not putting on an act.
2) Be difficult to impress.
Don’t get excited easily… chances are you have already been through a lot that most people younger than you may be just discovering. Don’t critique but don’t be overly surprised by something you’ve already seen.
3) Act mature.
Act your age! Be the older friend of the group that is someone others can look up to. Remain calm and show control over yourself. Meditation can help a lot with this.
4) Tell short stories about your experiences.
Chances are you probably have a lot of funny and interesting stories to share. Do so but in a quick efficient manner. Don’t drag on and take an excessive amount of time to say what you are going to say.
5) Be proud of your age.
So yes you are not a spring chicken anymore, but you still have a lot to feel attractive about. Women will be attracted to your experience, wisdom and sense of maturity. Get used to this and accept that you will never be young again. Learn to embrace your age and understand that many women will still find you attractive the way you are.
To conclude…
Change the way you think and in exchange the world will change around you. perception is reality my friends and remember never to be too hard on yourself or think that you aren’t deserving of a beautiful and lovely younger lady. You deserve to have a woman like that in your life as much as anyone else. So stand strong!
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Hey RedSky.
I just found your blog this week, and I bought your book on Amazon. I’m reading it now and will do a review on my site when I’m done. I have taken a lot of notes so far… A few things your wrote are already really sinking in for me.
OLDER GUYS and YOUNG GIRLs… I’m 44, so I love this topic. I’m a daygamer, and I’m dating a 33 year old… she is new, but also two 28 year olds (they are awesome), and just started dating a 25 year old.
I have had dates with a few teenagers this year as well… it’s very do able. All this is street game.
>> A big turn off I know for most people is when you pretend to be someone you aren’t. So instead be comfortable with who you are and your age.
This is true, but I think this needs some context.
>> Act your age!
There are some girls that look/act “20” and want to date an “average” 40+ guy, but not many. And I think that “act your age” can be an excuse for older dudes to keep on rocking Dockers and a polo, and “dad jeans,” etc.
I don’t think it’s about “act your age.” I think it’s about “be cool.” If you’re not cool, doesn’t matter what age you are… until “20” still sucks. Age isn’t as important as other factors.
My look is Vans, black jeans, and a black tshirt. I’m healthy, exercise a lot, etc. I have a great job, but I don’t try to look like a “40 year old business guy,” that’s not a hot archetype. I’m more “bartender” looking, a bit artsy. I’m a former skater and it shows…
And young girls can relate to ^ all this.
Here is a piece I wrote on this topic…
http://www.daysofgame.com/dates/date-high-school-girl-older-guys-young-girls-game/
“I don’t think you “power through” from your 20s to your 40s. I think you reinvent. Shed your skin and start over. I happened to find game at 35… helped me make the quantum leap into sexual confidence as an older dude. It’s not easy, but I’ve never felt better. My stats are better too.”
I think this is it… for older guys… it’s about finding “cool.” Your age is probably less of a big deal than your lack of cool is… so that is the focus.
Viva daygame.
Cool article redsky
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