So since I am so good at this these days – I’ve decided to create this little cheat-sheet for all of you that are still struggling with “one of the easiest ways of getting laid”. The truth is, in New York city at least, night-game is a breeze. There is almost no point doing Day-game, unless you want a serious relationship. And at this point of my life, a one-time hookup every weekend, with a girl I never have to see again, is much more satisfying than a relationship.
So here are a few of my tips for all of you…
1) Talk to a lot of people when out.
You don’t have to talk to the whole damn bar, but at least have a few interesting conversations to get you into a social mood. This also helps because half the time those people you are talking with may have friends coming. Some of those friends might just be good-looking females. I can’t even remember how many times I’ve gotten laid through a social circle of someone I just randomly talk to about MMA or some other sport I watch; it pays to watch sports!
2) Go out on the busiest nights of the week.
In my city this is usually Friday and Saturday. I think this is usually the case for most cities in the United States. Weekends are the best times for night game, and in my opinion, it’s almost pointless to waste precious energy on any other days; unless you can get into a busy nightclub for free.
3) Get plenty of sleep the night before going out.
Being well rested is key and you’ll not only have a higher probability of getting some ass, but you’ll have more fun as well. I’ve still hooked up with a lot of girls when I felt like crap, but in the beginning when you have less experience, you are going to get burned out early and just want to go home to sleep.
4) Find a wingman.
A good wingman is gold… you will get less rejections and you’ll have more fun as well. I suggest staying away from anyone that gets overly jealous and the types of guys that can’t pay for shit. There are a lot of those here, but there are also a lot of stand up guys that can pull their own weight and want to see both of you get laid. It just takes a little bit of searching, but it is well worth it when you meet a good wingman; it will make getting laid feel effortless.
5) Don’t waste your time with bitchy attitudes.
I have had women apologize via Facebook or text the next day for rudeness before, when I was first figuring things out. Nevertheless I’ve noticed from many experiences, that I can have more fun and get laid faster if I just move on to someone less problematic.
So moral of the story, if she doesn’t like you in the first 2 minutes of the interaction, then she most likely won’t like you after that. Move on gracefully and don’t look back.
To leave off…
Night-game definitely has its pros, but some cons to keep in mind are:
Yes, there are lots of jealous douchebags out there. It just comes with the territory and you may have to fight. So that is another good reason to have a wingman. You can always just walk away, but if you’re drinking, then there’s always a chance mister liquid courage may sneak up on you.
Not relationship material.
Maybe 1 out of a 100 girls you meet at night are relationship material. Plus if they had a one-night stand with you, then they probably will feel like a slut. Unfortunately we live in a society where meaningless hookups are considered shameful behavior by many. However, look on the bright side… if you get good enough, then you can have nasty, meaningless debauchery every weekend with a different sexy woman; like I do.
You have to buy drinks.
Yes, sorry to say, but this is the truth. Unless you want the bartenders and security to hate you, then you best believe you better have a drink in your hand. This is another thing that comes with the territory my friends.
So if you are too cheap to buy a drink or 2 when you go out, then please unsubscribe to my email list and go climb into a hole where you can be an unambitious broke-ass by yourself. And that’s about it! Now good luck to all of you this weekend and keep going out!
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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