remember one time when I was sitting at a Biergarten here is New York City and I was observing a guy at another table. This guy was behaving erratically and just clearly behaving like he had no idea what to do. He naturally was ditched by everyone around him and left there all by his lonesome.
So I figured I’d take the time to explain a list of tips that will help you all avoid the aforementioned result at all costs. And these tips are…
1) Avoid negative topics.
Simple enough… women like to bring this kind of shit up all the time. The best way, I’ve come to find rather effective, is to just change the subject and continue on to the topic of your choice. If she says anything or tries to go back to the last topic – just hold your frame and don’t falter. She will usually get distracted or just continue on with what you were talking about.
2) Don’t pick arguments.
As obvious as this seems a lot of people still get tangled up in the dumbest arguments just because they can’t let go of their egos. The more you let her under your skin, the less attractive you become.
Women do this subsconsciously to test to see if you are quick to fly off the handle. They also want to see how crazy you get when mad. The best way to win is to just shrug it off and if she gets too childish, then just leave and tell her you’ll be willing to meet up again when she can behave mature. You’ll be surprised how often I’ve gotten apologies for bad behavior after doing this; you have to set boundaries.
3) Talk about things you can both relate to.
A few great fuels for conversation are talking about places you’ve both travelled. Maybe seeing if you’ve been to similar cities – if you travel a lot. Ask her if anything crazy has ever happened when she was travelling. Movies can work also – especially comedies. I bring up the “Ted” movies a lot; mainly because there is plenty of material in those movies to get the conversation more sexual. It works like a charm.
4) Play games.
Taking her out to a pool hall or a bar that has something like darts is a great idea. You have plenty of room to work in some kino and break the touch barrier. You can tease her about shots; a bar with games is a great playground for building comfort.
5) Tell stories about fun experiences.
I usually leave this for when I move on to a 2nd spot. I’ll usually start out at a pool hall, then move on to a pier or place with a nice view. I like to go somewhere quiet so I can tell her about what it was like in New York City when I first moved here. Women eat stuff like that up… like chocolate icecream after a fight with a boyfriend.
Applying everything mentioned here will pave a safe road on your way to more success with women. Even if you’re in a slump – sometimes it’s good to re-evaluate your game and analyze whether you’ve picked up some bad habits. Signing up for my monthly program will help get you back into the swing of things as well (Sign up for online training course). Just like cars sometimes an experienced PUA needs a tune-up. Anyway, that’s all I got for today now get up and go out!
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