person can experience a lot living in a big city and among many of those experiences is a completely different reality for dating. So I’ve decided to put this together so I can look back, enjoy and relive some of my own personal experiences on this 10+ year journey.
A few are…
1) 5 room-mate interrogation squad:
She invites you back to her place – how nice. You even take the liberty of covering the cab fare only to realize that she has 5 room-mates that you have to make a good impression on before she even thinks about letting you spend the night.
2) One night stand and goodbye forever:
This is probably the most common for me and I can almost always assume that when she asks to go back to my place instead of hers, then it almost always means I am never going to see her again when she leaves the next morning. Out of sight and out of mind.
I can’t blame most women though. The city is tough and not everyone can manage a relationship on top of work and school. Many women are busy 12 hours a day trying to make ends meet while also working on their education. These struggles are all too real.
3) Seeing some of the most beautiful women on public transit making deep eye contact with you right before you have to get off:
This happens to me way too often. It always seems like the more busy I am the more missed opportunities. Not only that the most beautiful women I ever see, other than in the strip club, always seem to be right across from me on the train to and from work.
If I ever have a chance to retire early then I’m going to dedicate a good amount of my time to picking up beautiful women on the trains. If you are lucky enough to be retired and young, then I advise you to do so as well.
4) Getting your heart stomped on one week – ladies man the next:
It’s quite ridiculous how bipolar the dating world in a big city can be. I can’t tell you how many times I was rejected by a girl I really fancied; only to meet another girl a week later that’s 3 times hotter and practically forces me to go to bed with her. Never stop taking advantage of female abundance – the odds are always going to be in your favor in a densely populated area.
5) Going home with a hottie you met in your favorite speak-easy only to find out later she’s already gone home with 3 of your favorite drinking buddies:
This is why I don’t get serious with any of the women that hang out in bars I routinely visit. Thanks to this happening once or twice I now have been awakened to the reality that most women are just as promiscuous (If not more-so) as us men.
All in all…
The dating life in a big city is a rocky road, but I’ve had the privilege of being with some of the most beautiful women I could have ever been with thanks to living in just a few. I guess you can say that for all the crazy, stuck-up and emotional disturbed women I’ve come across I have also managed to be with some of the most beautiful women, inside and out, that I would have never been with otherwise – take the good with the bad.
It is definitely a challenge but I believe we are meant to evolve through change and challenges. It’s either we evolve or dissolve… the decision ours.
So that’s everything I got to share with everybody today. Thanks for reading and don’t forget to keep going out!
To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…
“The Definitive Book of Seduction“.
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