(Importance of Verbalizing Attraction)
Hey everyone,
Today I am going to talk about a minor thing from the past that has done some damage to the targets I’ve brought it upon. I have used a nice ‘little technique’ which has shown me a significantly higher yield of success than before I discovered it. I think this ‘little thing’ works well because it allows me to get my target focusing on her attraction and also helps to build sexual tension.
What exactly is sexual tension?
Sexual tension is what separates the beta’s world; AKA. ‘friend zone’ and the world of a PUA; the FWB(Friend w/ benefits) zone. One way I might describe the process of creating sexual tension may be in words such as; “If you aren’t trying to ‘get some’ then you aren’t building any tension at all!”
In layman’s terms; making advances, talking about a topic that points in the direction of her and you in bed… Getting close to her face… etc… etc…
So getting back to the technique…
The idea is pretty simple; you basically make her admit she likes you verbally.
Getting girls to admit that they like you verbally also helps with building comfort.
Here is an example:
Me: “So do you like me? You gave me your number, so you must like me.”
Her: “Yes, I did… Obviously… I am attracted/ interested… Etc…
+If she doesn’t like to admit it then try to persuade her like this:
Her: Maybe… Why…?
Me: “You know, it’s ok to admit that you like someone (point at yourself when saying this). I’m not going to judge you for saying… You obviously were attracted, you wouldn’t have given me your number if not.
Her: “True.. There was something about you…”
+They won’t always admit it, but this technique is still worth the try regardless. The reason is because, I feel, that this will help get her used to yielding to your wishes.
The reason I use this is because I personally think women respond better to being challenged. A bold move that puts them on the spot shows confidence.
Also, once this has been stated then I feel it sets a perfect stage/ frame for escalation.
When I first started doing this I increased my success rate from 40-50% to 75%; or 3/4 dates led to a full close (Sexual relations).
It not only helped me build comfort, I started connecting better and saw that I was given a slight confidence boost as well.
I suggest utilizing the concept the next time you are out.
Anyway, it is bedtime for me…
Thanks for reading, keep putting in the work and all the best!
-PUA Redsky
