PUA 3 Groups for Mindset and Beliefs

PUA Mindset and beliefs:

So today I am going to lay out my own mindset and beliefs, that I feel, allow me to be more successful with women than the average Joe. I’m going to isolate the qualities into groups so that it’s easier for one to comprehend.

Group 1 – Independence:

One should convey a low amount of neediness, therefore become highly emotionally independent.

“Even though I might develop feelings for women, at times, I don’t allow them to regulate how I live my life. Meaning I don’t offset what I have going on in my life because of her/ them.”

I do like to think of the future from time to time, and it does include me being in a somewhat monogamous kind of relationship. However, I believe it is important to keep things realistic.

Considering the rate of divorce and the massive amounts of adultery that I’ve witnessed, I don’t try to feel obligated; nor do I allow a woman that I’m with to feel obligated to me.

I do expect them not to openly hit on other men when I’m around; out of respect, which is natural. Yet, if I am going to spend time with a woman, then I want to see a woman that is at the same level as eager to see me.

Group 2 – Persistence:

Sometimes persistence can be attractive if you have enough patience. I’ve gotten girls that I’ve texted for months before. If you really like a girl then I don’t see any problem with hitting her up time and time again, until she finally decides to meet up with you.

In the meantime, you can shoot her a text and still occupy yourself with other women that are more interested. I think Paul Janka said it best when clarifying that he believes women go through different stages of arousal throughout a given month.

I’ve personally witnessed a large amount of horny and beautiful women sleeping with ugly losers. Seeing this right in front of me is what opened my eyes about what female hormones are capable of. So to think that I wouldn’t be able to catch a girl on a day that she is giving out these passes, just seems stupid to me.

Group 3 – Highlight your Strengths:

Some Dating Coaches may not agree with this, but the way I like to game is a little bit different. I don’t see a problem with being proud of who you are and what you may have accomplished, as long as it’s not being thrown in everyone’s face in an overcompensating way.

If you worked hard on something and it just happens to come up in conversation, then don’t be afraid to throw it out briefly. Like the other day some girl was talking about how she just started doing kickboxing and asked me if I did anything like that.

I threw out a couple of interesting facts about myself but not excessively. I gave her a little bit of timber to ignite the flame. Women are very intuitive; as a result she may have sensed my passion when bringing the subject up and it may have triggered more curiosity/ interest about me.

I didn’t go overboard and say I was the best at it… Or that I used to kick everyone’s ass… etc… Even if you did…

Anyway, I don’t have a lot of time, so I think that is enough. I don’t want to overload anyone on this topic.

But now you have some new concepts for developing some solid Inner-game.

Anyway, thanks for reading and best of luck to everyone still putting in the work!

-PUA Redsky

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2 Replies to “PUA 3 Groups for Mindset and Beliefs

  1. An impressive share! I’ve just forwarded this onto a coworker who had been doing a little research on this. And he actually ordered me breakfast because I found it for him… lol. So let me reword this…. Thanks for the meal!! But yeah, thanks for spending the time to discuss this topic here on your blog.

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