PUA Tips: Top 5 tips on how to be more Alpha

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pua pictureow here is something that I will probably come back to periodically again and again. Despite all the contradictions that some so-called experts may state, you need to become an alpha-male if you expect to have a great deal of success with women.

So I thought I would discuss 5 traits that an alpha-male possesses. They are…

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1) Self-respect:

In this case I am referring to your limits for what you are willing to put up with. A real alpha will simply not tolerate an excess amount of maltreatment from anyone. You are to just leave and pursue someone else if the target is getting too disrespectful.

2) Assertiveness:

This comes down to making advances and not being hesitant in doing so. Even if you get rejected at least you have the balls to go for it. Remember that the only difference in whether a woman considers you a creep or hot is her level of interest in you to begin with.

In time you will be able to sense whether a target is interested in you more efficiently. So you will get less blow-outs and appear as though you never get rejected. Be patient though… it will all come with experience.

3) Control:

This requires a touch of physical dominance… basically you are physically dominating the target in a confident manner. You can get away with this as long as you know when to pull back or give her space. This also will come with practice.

An example would be: Grabbing a girl by her hand and pulling her away from her friends without even saying anything. You’ll be surprised how many women might just go with you. If she doesn’t after a few tugs, then no problem, just let her go and move on to someone else – depending on how much you like her. If you really like her, then just build a little rapport by light conversation and try to isolate her from her friends again a little later.

4) Eye contact:

It is important to get this area down pact. It is very clear to me after my 10+ years of doing pickup that you will have a much harder time building a connection with a woman if you can’t look her straight in the eye with ease. So get that handled if you haven’t already; it’s imperative.

5) Strength:

This is both a physical and mental trait… you must present that you have both. This can be done by going to the gym and staying in shape for the physical and displaying confident behavior when talking with her for the mental. The best way I believe to display confident behavior is by going out as much as you can and always pushing your comfort zone. The more women you deal with and take home, then the more confident you will feel around them.

Forget what our mothers may have told us about being overtly nice to women and expecting her to fall in love with you – good luck with that if she has no reason to respect you . Yes this “being nice” crap might get you a girlfriend at times, but you aren’t turning her on. Besides being too nice is a good recipe for the most boring sex; if you even get any.

So in short…

Learn to be a man and learn to seize your opportunities like a man. If you don’t know how to be an alpha-male then you are going to have to get used to getting walked all over and in the end never getting the girl you really deserve. So get ready to step up to the alpha-plate or sit the game out and get used to being alone forever.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: 5 Dating Tips for Turning Women on

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pua pictureow this time around I thought I would cover 5 concepts that will give every guy an edge when trying to get a woman turned on. Women are very complex but after reading these 5 concepts then they might seem less complicated.

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So the following are…

1) Comfort.

It is key to understand how to build comfort. You can do this by taking your time with a woman and not being overly aggressive. It is important to be aggressive to an extent but not to the point that you are scaring the target. Some women an agressive man more than others and in order to find out, then you have to find the balls to test her.

2) Excitement.

This can be achieved by something as simple as a pool game or karaoke. The idea is to get them to have fun with you. When you see that they are laughing, smiling and having a good time, then you are playing the game right.

3) Touch.

Here is where all the magic happens… you can touch her by measuring hands next to each other’s or just grabbing on to hers when out walking around. She will either reject you or not but if you’ve built enough comfort and excitement, the odds will be in your favor.

4) Confidence.

This comes with experience: If you’ve dated a lot of asians and slept with a lot of asians, then naturally you will have more confidence with asians. You can still sleep with women without much confidence, but it will take more work and they will most likely not stick around very long.

5) Assertiveness.

You have to make a move, there is no way around it. You will never know what woman will sleep with you if you can’t muster up the courage to make a move. If she is not ready to kiss you or to hold your hand, then all you have to say is, “Sorry, you’re cute and I’m just a man being a man.” Also just remember that women love sex and sometimes love it more than men do. Keep that in mind and you’ll be able to relax and not feel shame in making that initial move.


To conclude…

If you’ve paid attention closely the first 3 concepts actually are labeled in the steps in which they should be used. This means that you should first build the comfort, excite her then when the aforementioned are satisfactory you can begin with touch.

Well that is all I have to share with everyone today and I hope this filled in some gaps on the topic. Just remember seduction is a journey and don’t expect everything to be learned in one day. Take your time and don’t stop going out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: 4 Tips to keep a Girl around after a One-night stand

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PUA Picture have seen a lot of info online about how to get women in bed and so on. However I haven’t seen much on how to keep them around – especially after a one-night stand.

A lot of times after a one-night stand women won’t expect a relationship or something ongoing to come out of it. Nevertheless at times you might meet a girl that you really like and unfortunately she doesn’t have the same intentions. You hookup and never see her again.

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So I put together a list of things one can do to increase the odds of her wanting to continue seeing you. These are…

1) Take her to breakfast if she is free the following day.

Yeah, that’s right… nothing like a little post-date to present to her that she can also have a good time with you outside the bedroom. This will also show her that you actually value her for more than the typical booty call – which isn’t a bad thing. Depending on how much she values you she might actually see you as something more; even despite the fact that she let you bang her relatively easily.

2) Walk her to the train or to the taxi.

A great gesture that I have no problem with. I see this as a victory walk so that all my neighbors or her neighbors can see that we’re fucking; nothing like a little ego boost. Besides it shows her that you have a little class.

3) Text her your name after getting her number.

This is obvious… assuming you remembered to exchange numbers before you parted ways in the morning. Just text her your name so she doesn’t forget you. Do not text her a long text about how much you like her or how it was great to meet her; just sending your name is all that’s needed to make the desired impression.

4) Hold out on telling her your deepest darkest secrets after you finally get some.

I know a lot of us probably see what I am getting at here. When some men finally get a smoking hot female to sleep with them, then it is easy to get excited about it. One of the things some of us may do is overwhelm the target with a bunch of nonsense that makes us look like a desperate little bitch.

So I will say this once… do not tell her how great she makes you feel or that you want her to be your girlfriend. Don’t tell her that she is the hottest girl you’ve ever been with or start reading her poetry. Do not go emo by telling her about how bad your life is and how she is the only thing that brings happiness into it. Basically, just enjoy the moment and be positive or funny – if you can be. If you aren’t funny, then don’t try.

Furthermore…

As your skill progresses you will experiment with new material and advice you read online hopefully. The best way to hone one’s skill of “the game” is to just not make the same mistakes over and over again. Therefore if you’ve tried something multiple times and the result never seems to come out in your favor, then it might be a good idea to start doing things a little different.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Gaming in Japan (Part 2 – Tokyo)

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PUA Picture recently shared an article about my experience gaming in Osaka and this will be the continuation. Tokyo is the next place I visited and it is a whole different world compared to Osaka.

I liked Osaka somewhat because of the fact that it is much cheaper and the fact that I got laid twice within the first 4 days of being there was definitely a bonus. However after another week in Osaka I made out with countless women, had women grabbing on my genitals but never managed to bed any to follow.

Tokyo on the other hand was much more expensive but I was still able to rack up another couple of lays in just a week of being there. Like I said in the previous article… every girl I had sex with spoke a little bit of English. I noticed in Tokyo that there were a lot more Japanese girls that could at least communicate in English – which was a major benefit; at least for a Gaijin like me.

Another thing about Tokyo is they have these relatively inexpensive bars, well compared to New York, called HUB’s. They are British styled pubs that a lot of Japanese men and women hang out at in hopes of meeting Gaijin men and women.

Osaka had a few HUB’s also, but Tokyo had at least 6 within a 2 block radius where I was staying – which is an area called Shinjuku. This was perfect because since I love to go bar hopping in NYC – it was exactly what I was used to. I would just have a drink at one place and I’d focus on the Jgirls that were paying the most attention to me. If there wasn’t an obvious connection I would leave to the next HUB once I finished my drink. Sometimes I would even meet a wingman along the way.

This strategy worked very well and on the weekends I barely had to do any approaches at all because women would just come over to ask me to sit with them. There was also a Karaoke bar that was close by that was open even later than the HUB’s on the weekdays. I am not the best Karaoke singer but I can at least appear like I know what I am doing with the right songs that fit my vocals; this actually helped me with the first Jgirl I slept with in Tokyo actually. I’ve included a picture of her at the top of the article actually.

The next time I go to Tokyo I will have a more honed method for getting laid while spending the least amount of money. Since I was in Shinjuku I was limited on where I could meet women. I did check out Roppongi a couple of times and I had a good time. However I had to deal with a lot of cock-blocking from asian foreigners like Koreans, Chinese, etc. At one point a girl in one of the Korean groups was talking with me and one of the Korean men in the group started to get jealous; so he just grabbed her hand and dragged her away mid-sentence.

I actually had a Korean guy punch me in the chest another time and unfortunately for him I had to return the favor which left him with a busted nose. Luckily for me I was with a middle-aged Japanese woman, that decided to be my sugar mama for the night, who also knew the owner and saw exactly what happened. To make a long story short he had a bad night and had to leave – bloody nose and all. I guess one can say I got lucky. Nevertheless I do not suggest getting in fights in Japan, because being a foreigner, you are very likely to get deported and if you hurt the guy too bad then they might not let you back in the country; so keep that in mind.

As for other foreigners… I met a few Australians, French-fries, a couple of Italians, Brits, Spaniards, Chileans, Canadians of course Americans. I had a British wingman one of the nights in Roppongi – awesome guy. I also had a good time with a couple of guys from Chile and Spain – unfortunately for them I was the only one that got laid that night; it happens. Yet anyone could have gone home with a girl that night – I just was the first to escalate.

I’ve learned that in Tokyo Jgirls are a lot like American women; if they like you then they won’t be as reluctant at your attempts for PDA (Ie. Kissing in public.). There are still lots of women that aren’t ok with that, so it is pretty much up to how comfortable you are taking a leap of faith. Me on the other hand… I have zero issues with taking a leap of faith. My game is very much assuming the woman is attracted to me regardless of whether she is or not. Sometimes I’m right and sometimes I’m not. If not, then oh well, plenty of other women to talk to. I just make an advance a few times and if she doesn’t submit then I move on to the next.

To leave off…

I had a great time in both Osaka and Tokyo. They are both very different in a gaming sense; Osaka has more of a small town feel, where Tokyo is very similar to New York but with a lot more asians.

One of the great things about Japan is the fact that most women will be willing to talk with you from the beginning. There is always the chance that they have boyfriends, but you can always use that time spent talking to find out about cool clubs or bars that you otherwise would have never discovered.

For the women that don’t speak English: Google translate does wonders and you can rent a pocket WIFI device from the local airports. They are great if you don’t want to have a ridiculously expensive phone bill when you get back home; depending on your plan.

If you are going to Tokyo I would suggest staying 3 weeks to a month. Weekends are great for foreigners in Tokyo. Weekdays can be good too, but if you are the kind of guy that has issues with approaching women, then I propose taking advantage of as many weekends as possible.

Don’t waste your time with women that expect you to pay their way. There are many that are used to the man paying; which is kind of what is expected for Japanese men. The great thing about being a foreigner, however, is that you can get away with going Dutch simply by stating that you don’t pay for the woman in your country. Regardless of whether it is the truth or not – we foreigners have an advantage and that advantage is that a lot of Japanese women view us as exotic. And if you are frequenting a few of the places that I’ve mentioned above you will come across quite a few of these types of women; A.K.A. Gaijin hunters.

So there is a brief summary of my experience in Tokyo. I will be returning, and to reiterate, I had a blast. I definitely suggest visiting this wonderful place. It is a one of a kind city and if you just remember to have fun and enjoy the scenery, then you will love it.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 5 ways to reduce Anxiety or Stress

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PUA Picture am back once again to share some information that might help some of you as well as it helps me. I know we all have our own qualms with stress and anxiety – there is no telling what it can do to you if managed improperly. Since an excess level of stress can not only hurt you, but also decrease longevity, I’ve decided to list a few ways to combat this unwanted nuisance.

The following are…

1) Don’t waste your time with the wrong people.

Getting rid of toxic people in one’s life is a perfect example when it comes to ridding yourself of too much stress. Stay away from attention seekers or in general just stay away from insecure people. If you don’t have a good time with someone then they are toxic; plain and simple.

2) Exercise and eat healthy.

Yes I know… I say this all the time, but it’s because it works. So once again I will tell you to get your asses in the gym and don’t eat crappy food – it will do wonders.

3) Take an annual vacation.

Believe it or not taking a vacation once a year will increase focus and productivity when you get back. You’ll feel better, you’ll feel re-energized and have a more ambitious and positive outlook on your life when returning.

I have been doing this recently and I am so glad I started because I didn’t realize how much I’ve been missing in other parts of the world. I am more motivated to go to work and make money because, quite frankly, I can’t wait to go on another vacation. I might add that I am less inclined to spend money on useless garbage as well.

4) Meditate.

I have been doing this for a few years now and I have to say I am so glad I discovered the benefits of meditation. I never realized that such a simple practice can have such a heavy impact on my life.

All I do is lay on my bed and relax my whole body – this means unclenching my jaw, letting my shoulders relax and just allowing my mind to let go of all thoughts or worries for 30-45 minutes. Just feel your body relaxing and after a few minutes you will notice the stress begin to melt away.

5) Have sex at least once a week.

This is where pickup can come in handy of course. Finding a casual sex partner or a sexually active girlfriend is perfect. There are plenty of options out there, if you just have the balls to go out and talk to some women then I’m sure you’ll find someone. If you are not completely sure what to do then check out my dating guides to better help you.

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Furthermore…

When growing plants a grower can seriously harm them when exposing them to stress. This can be heat, cold, lack of nutrients, etc. Humans are similar and that is why we must learn to regulate the amount of stress in our lives. It’s important to decrease stress as much as possible and the aforementioned advice will do just that.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: 4 Top tips for not getting Friendzoned

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pua pictureow here is a topic that many are struggling with… “Oh the struggle.” The zone we all hate and have all been in at some point of our lives. Nothing is worse then wanting to have sex with a woman and not being able to because she sees you as a “friend”.

I’ve decided to put together a list of some things everyone can pay attention to so that you can all avoid the dreaded friend-zone.

These are…

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1) Don’t be pushy.

I would say this applies to a guy that is anxious to get physical. Maybe you went for the kiss too soon and she pushed you away. So he struggles to try and force it in a cringeworthy manner; which just makes her want to get as far away from you as possible – if she hasn’t already. Most men would probably give up, but it’s fine if she rejects your advance to kiss her a couple of times. Most women are going to make it a little difficult to get the first kiss.

All you need to do is enjoy yourself and just keep trying to get that kiss. Best times to try is when you see she is laughing and having a good time. Once you get the kiss then you can potentially move on to more; depending on the woman.

What you shouldn’t do is expect your date to kiss you when you haven’t talked about anything. You also shouldn’t expect her to want to be your girlfriend all the way from the start obviously. It takes some time for her to get comfortable being around you before the both of you can bond.

2) Touch her.

I’ve said this many times… you need to get her comfortable with your touch before you can get her in bed. There are a lot of ways you can accomplish this. Among some of them is meeting in a crowded area so you have an excuse to grab her hand or just putting your hand up to hers to measure the difference in size – which is always an interesting thing to talk about.

From the hand you can move to the waist and pull her close to you. If she is alright with this then you can try for a kiss. Once you get the kiss you can test for more – I’ll let your imagination fill in the details for now.

Take into account that not every woman is going to be ok with this, but if she is worth your time then she will. However in some countries, such as Japan, I would save the touching for behind closed doors – since displaying affection in public is considered very rude.


3) Make sure you yourself are having fun on the date
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Over the years I’ve come to realize that self-amusement is kind of a big deal. If you aren’t having fun yourself on a date, then your date won’t be having fun either. So enjoy yourself and go somewhere that you both would like to be.

I like to play Billiards… therefore I often take my date to a bar that has Billiards. I also like to listen to Frank Sinatra and sing Karaoke – so I will go somewhere that offers either of these choices as well.

4) Let her chase.

Nothing can turn a girl off more than a guy that is too attentive. Learn to just sit back and listen to the music of whatever place you are at. Wait for her to ask questions; you don’t have to be the main one talking. It’s even better if you can get her talking more than you. Remember the more you get her to invest, then the more she will start to like you.

Overall…

The key to not getting friendzoned is to just behave like a man. It’s a happy medium between not being too nice and not being too mean. Just show her that you have your head in the right place and she is secure around you – there really isn’t a lot to it.

Also there is chemistry that you have to pay attention to also. Sometimes you just aren’t compatible with someone and there really isn’t much you can do but leave to move on to someone else.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Gaming in Japan (Part 1 – Osaka)

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I just recently spent a month in Japan for those that aren’t following me on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. I started out by visiting my son for the first week; which was great. I won’t go into that much however because I like to keep that part of my life private. Anyway after that I began my Japan pickup rampage.

I have to say it wasn’t exactly easy to meet women in Japan, considering I don’t speak the language but I did manage to rack up another 4 notches regardless. Out of those 4 I managed to get footage of 2; simply because the other 2 left before I had a chance to whip out my phone.

Upon the first week I hooked up with 2 girls and I must mention beforehand that all the women I slept with in Japan were from one-night stands. I did do day-game in the beginning, but after seeing my success with night-game – I just stayed with that. After all I only had 3 weeks in total.

The first girl was a young Taiwanese traveler that was staying at a hostel in Osaka. I met her through a group of people I believe she was in a hostel with. She was very sexy and I had a great time from the moment we met to the moments we spent between the sheets. All I have to say is that she let me do whatever I wanted behind closed doors.

Following that I continued to go out and met up with a couple of other women before I had another success. They were both Japanese and very beautiful – probably among the most beautiful women I had seen in Japan.

The first date we went out for Ramen and I was quite put off by how she slurped her Ramen at first, but I later read an article online that this is a custom. It is similar to how in Hungary belching is considered polite – in other words it’s a compliment to the chef.

Unfortunately this first date didn’t lead to anything more than hand-holding. I could tell that she was significantly attracted, but the language gap was too large. We eventually got sick of going back and forth reading each other’s phone screens. We had to do so in order to translate what was being said.

I did try to escalate but we were in public and for the majority of Japanese women PDA in public is a big no-no. When I tried to kiss her she would just pull away and shake her head no. Eventually I just told her with Google translate that I thought it would be best to meet up another time when either of us could communicate in a language that we both know. Also I might add that every girl I went to bed with on this vacation could speak English well enough to at least communicate.

After realizing that things weren’t going anywhere I told her I am going to drop her off at the station we met at. She agreed and we walked there together. We still messaged on Line (A popular social media platform used by many Japanese.) after that for awhile, but I ended up angering her when I got bored one day and sent her around 10 pictures of me kissing other random women.

But moving on…

The next date was also with a local Japanese girl in Osaka. I figured this time around I would take the target somewhere more interactive than a Ramen restaurant – so I picked a local bar that has free Karaoke. I went out with the owner the night before; which was also the same day I had Ramen with the other Jgirl. The owner is a cool Canadian guy that I got along pretty well with. He got me into a bunch of clubs for free and also hooked it up with free drinks, so my thoughts were I might as well repay him by bringing my date there.

So we met up and walked to the Karaoke Bar, but the owner wasn’t there that day. We still had a good time for the most part and I probably would have got her home if it wasn’t for her boss showing up. Yea, this is the best part of the story actually: Apparently they don’t have strict laws about sexual harassment in the workplace in Japan. This means that like 90% of straight men in authoritative positions take advantage.

Therefore I had to deal with her boss texting and callling her nonstop, then coming in to eventually tell her she needed to leave me to wake up early for work the next day – real stalker shit. This guy seriously deserves the “cockblock of the year” award. What is even worse is that she was ignoring him most of the time and talking to me instead; which of course made him even more upset. Naturally he had to be even more pathetic and demand that she go home immediately.

Luckily I ended up winging with a cool British guy that was singing Karaoke with us at the bar after the Jgirl left. We went to a small club called G3 which happens to have some of the most amazing female EDM DJ’s. Here I met another Jgirl that was very into me and randomly convinced her to come home with me – like I said before… she also spoke english relatively well enough to communicate.

I don’t know exactly how I managed to pull this one-nighter off, but it might have had something to do with my nonchalant, IDGAF dance moves I suppose. That and the fact that when I saw the level of interest she had I decided to go in hard with the escalation – at one point we were making out very aggressively against the wall of the dance floor.

I stayed until the club closed with her and suggested we get something to eat after. She was with a friend and the friend also was talking to a guy. So I told them I knew a place and walked them all the way but a block away from my place. Her friend actually was the one that said she wanted to go home after getting tired of walking – we probably walked a good mile actually.

What I think sealed the deal was this girl’s high level of attraction. I told the Jgirl I was with that my place was literally a block away and even though her friend was trying to get her to leave – she still decided to stay with me.

We spent the night together and she left around noon the next day. I enjoyed meeting her and it was probably one of my top 20 favorite girls so far. She is very sweet and we are still in touch – we talk on Line around 2 to 3 times a week at this point.

Here’s a pic of the morning after…

3 things I learned from gaming in Osaka:

1) Day-game is not as effective as Night-game.

2) To get laid efficiently; It’s better to focus on women that can at least communicate in English until I can myself communicate in Japanese.

3) An easy way to get a target to go home with you is if you suggest going somewhere to eat and walking her to your place instead. If she decides she doesn’t want to go with you, then at least you don’t have to go far to get home. After-all she might just decide to stay because she doesn’t want to go all the way home herself (IE. Law of investment).

And this is where I’ll end the article…

So now you’ve read a little about the first 2 lovely ladies I had success with on this trip. I am not going to say Japan is easier than New York or other cities in the United States. I think if I had as much free time to go out and just try to get laid, then I would probably do much better in my own country. My thoughts are when you know the language, then it’s much easier to make the target comfortable. Nevertheless it was a great experience and don’t worry I still have 2 more girls to write about that I met in Tokyo – so stay tuned!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

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PUA Tips: 5 Signs that you’re in a Toxic Relationship

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pua pictureow today I am going to talk about something a little bit different. Today I’m going to talk about relationships. I know I usually don’t talk much about this but I am kind of getting sick of seeing all these poor guys, when I go out, that are being totally taken advantage of.

So I decided to put together a few red-flags to pay attention to before or when you enter into a relationship. If you notice any of the following then I strongly suggest you rethink your situation.

Here are 5 toxic examples of a relationship that will only end in misery…

1. Your self-esteem has lowered since being with her:

This is somewhat of a dead give-away and you should never jeopardize your confidence. If she is making you feel worse and worse about yourself then get the hell away from her.

I’m not saying that it is entirely her fault all the time either – maybe you just aren’t mature enough to be in a relationship. I tell people all the time that you need to be content with yourself before you can be content with somebody else. So until then just play the casual sex game.

2. You argue more often than you get along:

I have seen this a lot… sometimes if the sex is really good then people will overlook the fact that they don’t get along otherwise. Regardless this is not going to achieve happiness and it is going to end up with a break-up anyhow. So the sooner you get out then the less pain you’ll feel.

3. She puts you down or compares you to other men:

Yeah, if you are dealing with this kind of ordeal then leave her immediately. The last thing you want is a woman that will treat you like you’re nothing. Respect is the backbone of a relationship and if she has trouble naturally giving it to you then she isn’t worth your time.

4. You aren’t or are barely having any sex:

It doesn’t matter if you get along extraordinarily well my friends. When you find yourself in a conversation with your buddies and realize that they have a lot more erotic stories to tell about their relationships than you do, then maybe you should take into consideration that something’s wrong.

Sexual compatibility is 50 percent of the relationship and if she has trouble giving it to you then you should look elsewhere. If she isn’t turned on by you enough to have it everytime she sees you then she’s being selfish and maybe even getting it elsewhere.

5. She’s overly dependant on you:

Needy women are a recipe for disaster and it always leads to an unnecessary amount of stress that no one needs in their life. A woman should be able to support herself financially before you come into her life and even after. I understand if you have a kid with her, then everything changes, but until then there is no reason she should need anything from you.

This includes paying her way on dates, her asking you for money, her moving in with you and not paying her share of the rent. Everything should always be 50/50 and if she has a problem with that she can go free-load off someone else. Don’t ever let anyone take advantage of you, because if they see that they can, then they will.

Furthermore…

If you or someone you know is involved with someone that exhibits the qualities I just mentioned then either you or they need to find someone else. I know the dating world these days can be very difficult at times but there is always someone better out there – someone that will truly make you happy.

Don’t allow yourself to get discouraged just because you can’t find your ideal girl over-night. The cold hard truth about dating is that it just isn’t that easy and we have to accept it. If it was easy then we all would be knee deep in flaming hot pussy.

It’s always going to be competitive and it’s always going to feel like a challenge. The only thing that changes, at least for me, is that when you begin to have more success you will fall in love with the challenge.

You’ll see that what you once thought would never happen is possible and you’ll want to experience it again and again. The truth is that one of the best feelings in the world is meeting an intelligent and beautiful woman that feels the same amount of attraction for you as you feel for them. There isn’t much that can beat that.

And when you find that it becomes intoxicating. You will crave it and you will fall in love with the chase, the experience and the game. Like I said before… there isn’t much that I’ve experienced in life that can replace that kind of symbiosis. And I know some of you already know what I’m talking about, but for those that don’t… your hard work will eventually pay off. Trust me.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Have better Sex with Marijuana

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PUA Picture have something interesting for everyone reading this today… today I am going to talk about sex. Not only that but I am going to explain how to increase the quality of the sex you are having.

One of the main reasons many women stay with a man is because of how good he is in bed. Therefore if you can increase the level of pleasure she feels when with you, then you have a higher chance of keeping any woman you want around for a much longer period of time. So if you’ve never had an excuse to experiment with Marijuana before, then you do now.

According to this study (Read Study Here) Marijuana has a big impact on receptors in your brain that will increase the pleasure both you and your female friend will feel during sex. This means she will orgasm easier and even feel more intense pleasure when climaxing.

Sounds pretty cool right? All you need to do now is just convince her to take a hit of a joint.

Actually I’ve known this little fact about Marijuana for some time and haven’t really needed to read a study to realize it. Being a mild user myself… I can tell you from experience that it’s very beneficial introduce this semi-legal drug into the equation, but I do advise doing so with caution. Not all women can handle it and it might just turn her off completely if the weed is too strong.

So if you choose to go on this journey then I suggest getting to know the girl for awhile and don’t be overtly anxious to propose having a smoke. Instead date her for a month or so and get her comfortable having sex with you without it for awhile first. Make sure that you never go limp and if you have this problem then take something for it – there is a variety of herbal supplements that will give you a boost; I may cover this issue in a later article.

Following that don’t drink too much and if you do manage to convince her to smoke with you then don’t smoke too much yourself. For men Marijuana can have a very detrimental effect on keeping an erection.

If you do smoke before sex then I recommend having no more than 1 puff. If you aren’t used to it then that much might be too much as well. I suggest smoking on your own before to see where your level of tolerance is.

So that’s what I got…

I hope I was able to help some of you with this information. Now you have a new idea on how you can spicen up your sex life if it seems to be getting dull. Also if you are in a country where this substance is banned then please disregard, but if not, then have at it!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: 5 Things that make you look Desperate

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S-design-1 pua pictureo it’s about to be Christmas in a few weeks so I am in the giving spirit. Since I’m in the giving spirit I thought I would give you all a list of 5 things many of you are probably doing that make you look desperate as fuck.

So pay attention…

1. Texting long answers and texting too often:

Oh yes, the dreaded text game… I know for some of us this can be a real pain in the neck. The reason for this is there is a great deal of patience required in the courting process – well for most women.

Part of that is knowing how not to present yourself over text. When a woman texts you I know there is a significant urge to tell her everything you feel, but you have to learn to relax. The key is to just take your time. Don’t be a try-hard and just remember that the purpose of texting is just to get her out so you can eventually go home together.

If you really like her, then in time you can have more. However first you need time to get to know her. We do this not just for the sake of getting her comfortable with you, but to make sure she isn’t going to turn into an obsessive psycho when she realizes she has feelings for you later on down the road.

Honestly I have girls I’ve seen for half a year without ever getting serious. Yes I admit that in the beginning I sometimes get some pretty strong feelings, but then later on I may end up spotting some serious insecurities. When this happens I then realize maybe it’s not so wise to get involved any longer. Which is why I like to give everything time and space in the beginning. Besides you can’t rush anything you want to last forever.

2. Leaning in too much:

I understand this can be difficult… especially if you can’t hear the person, but getting the woman to lean in herself is actually a good thing. It shows that she really wants to be with you and it also gives you power over the interaction. Just don’t be a dick and try to make a smart ass comment about it after because you can quickly turn a girl off that way.

Once you get her investing then just treat her the same as you would treat anyone else that you have a conversation with. Believe it or not now that she’s invested somewhat, by coming in close to you, then she’s more inclined to give you her number and possibly even go home with you.

In essence seduction is a mind game and if you know how to play it well then you will never have any trouble getting sex with a beautiful woman. It’s all about power and control – it might not make sense to you now, but in time it will all come together. You just have to keep going out and collecting that mental data.

3. Bragging about what you’ve done or what you do:

This is a big no no, and even though most people’s parents have been preaching not to brag most of our lives, I still see guys doing this constantly when I go out. If you think all women care about is your status and how much you have in your bank account, then you’re in for a lonely journey.

Most women get over that mindset as soon as they get done with school. They see that thinking that way doesn’t bring true happiness and they “grow up”; which is exactly why you should too.

What women care about is authenticity. They want a man who is not like everyone else and that they can enjoy their time with. If you are always bragging about all the things you got or what school you went to, then all you are proving is how stuck up you are.

Even if you do manage to impress a girl with this nonsense – in the end she will leave you for someone that she actually has a real connection with. So if you are the guy obsessed with all the superfical balogna that I just mentioned, then I suggest you stop and start thinking about who you really are.

4. Offering to buy her a drink or paying for everything on dates:

One thing I’ll never do is pay the woman’s whole way and you shouldn’t either. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership and if she isn’t willing to put in her share, then she can take a hike.

Not only will you save money, but she will respect you more for making her get at least a round or 2. Don’t ever supplicate… if she isn’t willing to help out she isn’t worth your time.

5. Agreeing with everything she says:

One particular person most men don’t have respect for is a kiss-ass and women are the same way. You can’t brown-nose your way into the bed sorry. So don’t waste your time and develop a backbone.

Don’t be afraid to speak about how you truly feel but do so with tact. You can still disagree with someone without insulting them.

Alrighty then…

So that’s a few tid-bits for those of you that are still struggling with looking like a desperate little manlet. These are all pieces of information most people will learn after awhile just by going out a great deal – at least I hope.

The idea is to just behave like someone you would enjoy being around and that doesn’t necessarily mean being entertaining; it just means being relaxed. Not overcompensating or being a push-over either. Just be a man or an adult male and at the same time be yourself.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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