PUA Tips: 5 Things that make you look Desperate

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S-design-1 pua pictureo it’s about to be Christmas in a few weeks so I am in the giving spirit. Since I’m in the giving spirit I thought I would give you all a list of 5 things many of you are probably doing that make you look desperate as fuck.

So pay attention…

1. Texting long answers and texting too often:

Oh yes, the dreaded text game… I know for some of us this can be a real pain in the neck. The reason for this is there is a great deal of patience required in the courting process – well for most women.

Part of that is knowing how not to present yourself over text. When a woman texts you I know there is a significant urge to tell her everything you feel, but you have to learn to relax. The key is to just take your time. Don’t be a try-hard and just remember that the purpose of texting is just to get her out so you can eventually go home together.

If you really like her, then in time you can have more. However first you need time to get to know her. We do this not just for the sake of getting her comfortable with you, but to make sure she isn’t going to turn into an obsessive psycho when she realizes she has feelings for you later on down the road.

Honestly I have girls I’ve seen for half a year without ever getting serious. Yes I admit that in the beginning I sometimes get some pretty strong feelings, but then later on I may end up spotting some serious insecurities. When this happens I then realize maybe it’s not so wise to get involved any longer. Which is why I like to give everything time and space in the beginning. Besides you can’t rush anything you want to last forever.

2. Leaning in too much:

I understand this can be difficult… especially if you can’t hear the person, but getting the woman to lean in herself is actually a good thing. It shows that she really wants to be with you and it also gives you power over the interaction. Just don’t be a dick and try to make a smart ass comment about it after because you can quickly turn a girl off that way.

Once you get her investing then just treat her the same as you would treat anyone else that you have a conversation with. Believe it or not now that she’s invested somewhat, by coming in close to you, then she’s more inclined to give you her number and possibly even go home with you.

In essence seduction is a mind game and if you know how to play it well then you will never have any trouble getting sex with a beautiful woman. It’s all about power and control – it might not make sense to you now, but in time it will all come together. You just have to keep going out and collecting that mental data.

3. Bragging about what you’ve done or what you do:

This is a big no no, and even though most people’s parents have been preaching not to brag most of our lives, I still see guys doing this constantly when I go out. If you think all women care about is your status and how much you have in your bank account, then you’re in for a lonely journey.

Most women get over that mindset as soon as they get done with school. They see that thinking that way doesn’t bring true happiness and they “grow up”; which is exactly why you should too.

What women care about is authenticity. They want a man who is not like everyone else and that they can enjoy their time with. If you are always bragging about all the things you got or what school you went to, then all you are proving is how stuck up you are.

Even if you do manage to impress a girl with this nonsense – in the end she will leave you for someone that she actually has a real connection with. So if you are the guy obsessed with all the superfical balogna that I just mentioned, then I suggest you stop and start thinking about who you really are.

4. Offering to buy her a drink or paying for everything on dates:

One thing I’ll never do is pay the woman’s whole way and you shouldn’t either. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership and if she isn’t willing to put in her share, then she can take a hike.

Not only will you save money, but she will respect you more for making her get at least a round or 2. Don’t ever supplicate… if she isn’t willing to help out she isn’t worth your time.

5. Agreeing with everything she says:

One particular person most men don’t have respect for is a kiss-ass and women are the same way. You can’t brown-nose your way into the bed sorry. So don’t waste your time and develop a backbone.

Don’t be afraid to speak about how you truly feel but do so with tact. You can still disagree with someone without insulting them.

Alrighty then…

So that’s a few tid-bits for those of you that are still struggling with looking like a desperate little manlet. These are all pieces of information most people will learn after awhile just by going out a great deal – at least I hope.

The idea is to just behave like someone you would enjoy being around and that doesn’t necessarily mean being entertaining; it just means being relaxed. Not overcompensating or being a push-over either. Just be a man or an adult male and at the same time be yourself.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: 5 Top Signs she wants to go Home with you

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pua pictureow here’s an interesting topic that I bet a lot of you are probably wondering about. This can be tricky if you don’t know what to look for, but don’t worry I am going to fill you in on everything you need to know. Soon you’ll be on your way to more one-night stands than you know what to do with.

The 5 top signs to look for before suggesting going back to yours or her place are…

1. She’s very touchy feely:

Although not guaranteed 100%… if she is doing this then there is a slight chance that she will agree to go home with you. This can be anything from hugging, holding on your arm, feeling on your shoulders/muscles or even just holding hands. If it’s frequent then you might be able to get yourself some action – you never know until you make a move first though.

2. She likes being very close to you:

I’ve actually had women tell me after hooking up with them that they get somewhat clingy when they are in the mood for sex. This is normal and don’t judge a woman because she happens to be in the mood for sex. It’s human nature and she is just letting nature run its course. Instead accept the invite so you can enjoy nature to the fullest.

3. She keeps asking you where to go next:

Most of the time when a girl does this she is basically hinting that she wants you to make a move – meaning she wants to get “busy”. There are many factors that come into play beforehand; like if you already kissed her, etc.

If you did kiss her and she is having a good time, then suggest going back to yours or her place. You can even just say let’s get out of here and she may just follow along. The trick is to learn how to lead. When you get comfortable leading, then they will follow.

4. She likes making out with you heavily:

It’s not just about getting the kiss, but about her really liking to kiss you. If she can’t get enough of that then imagine what else she probably won’t be able to get enough of. A lot of guys think they want a girl that likes to have sex until they actually find a girl that likes to have sex. When you find a girl like this she’ll probably wear you out.

5. She keeps grabbing your buttocks or crotch:

An obvious sign… pretty self-explanatory and if you don’t have the balls to take advantage of this kind of situation then you might as well give up on life. When you experience this, and trust me you will if you go out enough, then grab her and kiss her. After that tell her, “Let’s go”. Go give her what she wants without any hesitation.

In conclusion…

Not every woman is going to be a for sure thing obviously. There are always women that don’t sleep around on the first date so you’re going to have to take some losses here and there. Nevertheless there are plenty that won’t have a problem going home with you.

So don’t be afraid to suggest going back to yours or her place for some tea or to watch a movie – you never know what she might agree with. Besides if she is giving you any of the signs mentioned above then she is obviously attracted to you. When a woman is attracted she is much more likely to be persuaded; so stay assertive.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 Dating Tips to Attract Women

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pua pictureow if you ask many supposed “pickup gurus” they will all have their own opinions. Just like many I have my own beliefs that are based on my own experience with the opposite sex. The list I have made is not from books I’ve read or from videos I’ve watched on YouTube, but from actual real-life experiences that I have had with countless women – from phone number to bedroom. So get ready!

The following are…

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1. Be mysterious:

I really can’t count how many times I’ve had a girl tell me this. I’ve been getting this most of my life and honestly I think it might be because I come off kind of reserved when they first get to know me. When I first got into “the game” I thought this was a bad thing but it is actually the exact opposite of bad.

It means that you aren’t trying too hard to impress her and because of this you stand out from the rest of the guys. So if you are naturally introverted, then embrace it. Get used to being this way but without portraying any attention-seeking or fake behavior. You can have a conversation without trying to be the life of the party and still get the girl.

2. Have a life:

I would say this goes hand in hand with having drive or purpose. The idea is to not be a lazy bum and to actually have healthy activities other than chasing women going on. For me that would involve going to the gym, writing, playing guitar – I think you get my drift.

It’s also not a bad idea to have some friends that you hang out with and see an occasional movie at the theatre with. It’s healthy to have human interaction every so often and not just be a loner all the time. If you have this part of your life handled then you are one step further than the rest of the crowd already.

3. Build some muscle:

Studies have shown that even just a little bit of exercise can help you exude confidence (View Study Here). Not only that but the status quo that most women are fawning after is the hard body that you can only get from, you guessed it, working out.

So I suggest getting a trainer that you trust if you are serious about finding yourself a woman of quality. It’s a great feeling when you find a woman that finds you sexy and unless you were born with the looks of Brad Pitt then you’re going to have to take some initiative.

4. Be bold:

When I say be bold I’m talking about approaching shamelessly and mercilessly. I am not talking about approaching every woman in your sight, but approaching when you see a woman take notice.

If she is looking at you for longer than a couple of seconds or even looks at you more than once then that’s your green light. Make your move… just say hello and try to strike up a conversation. If she is smiling and seems like she enjoys talking to you then ask for her number. With more practice it will become more natural but you must be willing to make that first move.

5. Make her invest:

This doesn’t have to be much… just asking her to watch your drink while you go to the bathroom is fine. The reason I advise that you do this is because people are much more willing to accept that they like a person if they do them a favor.

However do not stress it or you can easily go from casual to rude. So use this sparingly and remember that after she’s done something little for you she might expect you to do something little for her as well. As long as it’s not excessive, meaning a tiny favor as well, then remember to return that favor. If it is excessive then you can just make up an excuse not to do it.

*Bonus: How to pass a common “shit test”*

Sometimes women will test to see how reactive a man is by making ridiculous requests. An example would be, “Can you wait here and watch our stuff while we go freshen up in the bathroom?” This is just one example, but if the girl is going to try to push to see how much she can get you to do then back out immediately. Just tell her something like, “I just was about to get up and get a drink sorry.” Since you only asked ‘her’ to watch your drink before, then it makes no sense why you would watch everyone else’s.

Then go to the bar and pretend like you were going to do so. When they get back you can join them. If she asks where your drink went just tell her you finished it or got sick of waiting for the bartender.

Yes, it sounds ridiculous but if you stayed back to watch their stuff she would view you as a beta male; or a weaker male. She would lose respect for you and she would most likely never return your call or text – if you managed to get her number in the first place. So to make a long story short… don’t ever let a woman take advantage because they will.

And there you are…

I’m keeping everything as straight to the point as possible. I’m not a fan of unnecessarily long step-by-step tutorials that will just confuse whoever is reading them. Instead I like to talk in concepts. When you can understand the concepts then you can connect better and eventually seduce the target.

There isn’t some one time trick that will all of a sudden make every woman you talk to attracted to you. The only real thing you can do is work on yourself to become a person of character. When your character is put together correctly then you’ll gradually start to see more and more women become attracted to you.

In the end it comes down to behavior and a healthy sense of entitlement. When you master how to behave along with learning to be comfortable in your own shoes wonderful things will start to happen.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 6 Best Tips for Building Confidence Now

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PUA Picture‘m back once again to open your ears and fill your minds. Today we’re going to get into confidence and how to obtain it right here and right now. Some of you might not need this, but to those that are still struggling with this – pay close attention.

Below I’m listing some sure-fire ways to boost your confidence ASAP. So read on…

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1. Work out regularly.

Yeah this is pretty self-explanatory… just sweat out the stress, toxin build-up and make way to a new life of feeling much better than you did before putting in the exercise. Not only will you feel better you’ll look better and probably live longer.

2. View yourself as a trophy.

Although I am not a fan of embracing narcissism I do think it is in fact very beneficial to have a healthy sense of self-worth. I believe everyone has the right to value themselves highly to some degree. Just remember that there is a big difference between arrogance and confidence.

For those that need me to explain… arrogance is when you think you’re better than others and confidence is when you are proud of all the hardwork you have put in to build your character into what it is today.

3. Never stop trying to achieve the next level.

Self improvement should always be one of the main priorities in your life. We must never stop trying to grow and part of being confident is being able to look back to see all that you’ve accomplished with a sense of glory. If you can look back at everything you’ve done in your life so far and feel good about it, then you are on the right track.

4. Stop giving a damn what people think.

Sticks and stones… words mean nothing – actions mean everything. Take less notice in what people say and focus on yourself. Remember to work hard towards your goals and as long as you are moving forward then go at your own pace. No need to compare ourselves to anyone – no one is you and will never be.

5. Remember compliments from those whose compliments you value.

Have you ever had a hot girl tell you that you were cute? Or maybe at least told you that she liked something about you?

It doesn’t matter what they said… all that matters is that they said it. Remember those compliments and cherish them because that is proof right there that you have something to be confident about.

6. Where a great smelling cologne.

A great smelling cologne will do wonders and I’m not exagerating. I suggest Armani Code or Drakkar Noir. There is nothing more confidence boosting than when I hot woman grabs on to you aggressively and pulls you in just to get a whiff of your scent.

Women love the scent of a nice smelling man and it has almost as strong of an impact on them as catnip does on cats; no joke. So go to the store and do yourself a favor by picking up a quality scent.

To conclude…

Believe it or not we are not all born with confidence. It is learned… we either learn how to be confident when we are young or many of us struggle years until we get a grasp on it – I know I did. However in time anyone can become confident. The only thing holding you back is that you have to be willing to work on it – which means tackling new challenges and getting out of your comfort zone.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 5 Dating Tips your Dad should have Taught you

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I was thinking to myself the other day about the fact that a lot of the people that are coming to me are asking questions their fathers really should have taught them. That being said… I’ve decided to leave everyone with just that knowledge that everyone’s father should have shared with them.

The following tips are…

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1. Don’t ever ask a girl if she likes you.

There is no faster way to turn a woman off then by asking them this ridiculous question. It shows that you doubt yourself and the number 1 thing women are most attracted to is, you guessed it, confidence.

2. Don’t talk too much.

I don’t know anyone that likes a blabber mouth and women definitely don’t either. Besides how masculine is it to behave this way; not very. Instead try to get her talking more than you – you can do so by asking positive and normal questions.

An example question would be something like:

What’s the story? Did you do anything excited this week?

Asking about events happening in a woman’s life is perfect. I do this all the time and most women will be more than glad to share what they have going on with you – even on a first date.

3. If you like a girl you have to be the one who asks her out.

This applies to all of you that are still stuck in your head and think that the perfect woman is just going to magically appear in your arms one day. Sorry but that just isn’t going to happen – you have to make it happen and that means getting up off your ass and approaching.

4. Never be ashamed of being yourself.

Be who you are, do what you do and don’t care if others don’t see eye to eye. Not everyone has to agree with you. If you don’t agree on something or your date doesn’t agree with you, then so what.

It’s not the end of the date if you don’t see things in a similar light oh well. You can still flirt and have fun – just focus on the things that you both enjoy.

5. If you don’t like her anymore then don’t continue dating her and vice versa.

This is one of realest pieces of knowledge anyone will ever tell you. If she isn’t making you happy, then say goodbye; even if it hurts. Staying with someone that you aren’t that into or that isn’t that into you is a recipe for heart-break on either yours or her end and trust me that will end in disaster. You’ll end up with a whole plethora of problems you could have avoided if you just ended it at the first sign of trouble.

There you have it… some blunt and straight to the point knowledge for all of you. I understand in the oh so ever-changing world that we all can have a wide range of upbringings which is exactly why I put this together. For whatever reasons the general male public is not being correctly educated in the facets of how to attract a mate these days.

I will always share what I’ve learned on this journey through my blog – so be sure to pay close attention. However most importantly go out and figure things out for yourself. You can start by doing just that now – so get out and meet some ladies!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 6 Ugly Dating Truths

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I was thinking the other day about this topic and figured I might put it up for everyone to enjoy. In the many years I’ve been machining my way through countless experiences with the opposite sex many realizations have come into play. Among all of them I’ve managed to piece together 6 notorious truths – brace yourselves…

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1. Those that give less of a damn usually determine the outcome of the relationship. No one wants to be the one chasing.

Yeah, life’s a bitch… get over it. Sometimes you win more when you stop caring too much about people; or at least until they show that they care substantially for you. Nevertheless women can care a lot for you at one point and be like “fuck this dude” a few moments later. The only real way to win is to just enjoy it while it lasts and if it doesn’t “oh well”.

2. No one talks on the phone anymore. Texting is the new mode of communication. Which isn’t much different from a pager in the 90’s – we just prefer to do it with a cell-phone.

The only real purpose of talking on the phone these days is to talk with other people that grew up in the age when people talked on phones – talk about a paradox. Quite frankly I’m not opposed to texting for the simple reason that you can send and receive pictures, but I’ll save that rant for when I want to write about how much I love getting women to send me photos provocateur.

3. Modern dating usually involves mind games like purposely taking hours or days to text back – how fun.

I don’t know how many times I have to play this game with American women. Yes the same games we played in grade school also apply to dating.

4. The sweet text you sent earlier did go through. Sorry but they intentionally didn’t respond and it had nothing to do with their cell-phone provider.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but being sweet is not always going to get you laid. Instead just give short answers and keep it straight to the point – you know like when you’re trying to explain something to a child.

5. You can know a woman for years and not know who she really is until you actual enter into a relationship with her.

When I think about this an experience pops into my mind from when a friend of mine met a cute little Irish girl he really was attracted to. After a month of seeing her he decided he wanted to get serious.

He dated her for about 3 months before beginning to realize that she was always getting calls from a certain number. One night he stays over at her place only to see the same number calling her phone while she was asleep.

He decides to answer it and guess who it was?

Her Madam.

6. With every new woman we meet we are either going to end up together forever or break up at some point or another. Unfortunately the ladder is going to be the most common.

There’s no other way to put it… you will lose most of the women you hook up with. The reality is that sleeping with a woman is just a start. Keeping them is a whole different ball game.

So there we have it…

I hope I was able to amuse some of you because I certainly amused myself with all that I was able to come up with. It’s so real how fast the dating world changes and I bet when I am ready to throw in the towel then everything will change even more.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: 5 Things Only People who Date in Big Cities Know

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A-design-1 PUA picture person can experience a lot living in a big city and among many of those experiences is a completely different reality for dating. So I’ve decided to put this together so I can look back, enjoy and relive some of my own personal experiences on this 10+ year journey.

A few are…

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1) 5 room-mate interrogation squad:

She invites you back to her place – how nice. You even take the liberty of covering the cab fare only to realize that she has 5 room-mates that you have to make a good impression on before she even thinks about letting you spend the night.

2) One night stand and goodbye forever:

This is probably the most common for me and I can almost always assume that when she asks to go back to my place instead of hers, then it almost always means I am never going to see her again when she leaves the next morning. Out of sight and out of mind.

I can’t blame most women though. The city is tough and not everyone can manage a relationship on top of work and school. Many women are busy 12 hours a day trying to make ends meet while also working on their education. These struggles are all too real.

3) Seeing some of the most beautiful women on public transit making deep eye contact with you right before you have to get off:

This happens to me way too often. It always seems like the more busy I am the more missed opportunities. Not only that the most beautiful women I ever see, other than in the strip club, always seem to be right across from me on the train to and from work.

If I ever have a chance to retire early then I’m going to dedicate a good amount of my time to picking up beautiful women on the trains. If you are lucky enough to be retired and young, then I advise you to do so as well.

4) Getting your heart stomped on one week – ladies man the next:

It’s quite ridiculous how bipolar the dating world in a big city can be. I can’t tell you how many times I was rejected by a girl I really fancied; only to meet another girl a week later that’s 3 times hotter and practically forces me to go to bed with her. Never stop taking advantage of female abundance – the odds are always going to be in your favor in a densely populated area.

5) Going home with a hottie you met in your favorite speak-easy only to find out later she’s already gone home with 3 of your favorite drinking buddies:

This is why I don’t get serious with any of the women that hang out in bars I routinely visit. Thanks to this happening once or twice I now have been awakened to the reality that most women are just as promiscuous (If not more-so) as us men.

All in all…

The dating life in a big city is a rocky road, but I’ve had the privilege of being with some of the most beautiful women I could have ever been with thanks to living in just a few. I guess you can say that for all the crazy, stuck-up and emotional disturbed women I’ve come across I have also managed to be with some of the most beautiful women, inside and out, that I would have never been with otherwise – take the good with the bad.

It is definitely a challenge but I believe we are meant to evolve through change and challenges. It’s either we evolve or dissolve… the decision ours.

So that’s everything I got to share with everybody today. Thanks for reading and don’t forget to keep going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: New Rules of Dating

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A-design-1 PUA picture lot of us have been raised with the old-school hypergamy principles that pretty much tell us to go to school, become successful and find a woman to settle down with. However the world is constantly changing one generation to the next and having the white picketed fence is not necessarily what will bring everyone a sense of contentment in this age.

These days many of us can lead completely arbitrary lifestyles and still have no issues with achieving a satisfying dating life. You don’t need money and you don’t really even need a fancy degree from a great university (Although I do urge everyone to pursue a higher education regardless.) You do however need a stable sense of self worth.

I am going to list a few guidelines for the changing world that I think everyone should pay attention to when it comes to creating a connection with your newfound female friends. The following are…

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1) Never let a woman compare you to other men:

This is a shit-test if you think about it. When a woman brings up another guy in conversation, then she is testing you. She is testing to see if you become insecure and the way you need to react is not by acting as though you are unphased – like many dating instructors will probably tell you.

The correct way to react is by simply saying that you do not see any reason to be talking about other men while she is on a date with you. If she has a big problem with that then just leave.

The many generations that us men have allowed the feminist propaganda to manifest in our society needs to come to an end. Women need to re-learn to respect their male counter-parts and the only reason to change this is by not allowing them to play such ridiculous games as we have for the past 50-60 years.

A self-respecting man will sacrifice a chance of sex to preserve their own integrity. A woman that feels the need to subject a man to a phony mind-fuck does not deserve a dignified man’s attention anyway.

2) Focus on commonalities 80%:

I can tell you from my own personal experience that the more a woman feels they have something in common with you, then the better the bond. So find some common ground and focus on those things as much as possible on your dates.

But be actually interested in learning about this woman across from you and not just going through the motions to get her in bed. Be a good listener, don’t be critical and respect how she feels about certain things even if you don’t agree.

3) Quit using dating apps and go out:

Fuck tinder, fuck Okcupid and all the other garbage they keep coming out with. Quit allowing technology to make things easier for us. Develop your social skills with good, solid work ethic. Go out! Go out! And Go out!

4) Fuck astrology and be in the moment:

I hate when I hear a woman bring up some astrology nonsense and try to tell me or one of my friends who we are compatible with. Astrology is hogwash and I have had many great experiences with women I am “not compatible with” according to our astrological signs.

5) Don’t be afraid to put a woman in her place when she is treating you unfairly:

Since the rise of the feminazi campaign many women have been miseducated in a way that has them thinking it is ok to mistreat men. We’ve been raped by the justice system through marriage alimony, unfair rates for child support and in the end the judge always gives the women whatever they want.

These facts are so blatantly obvious yet many naive men are still going out of their way to be the white knight that most women is our modern society do not deserve. So we must make an effort to change this norm to a much more realistic norm. One where we are once again looked upon as a valuable entity and not just a cash machine.

Therefore we must speak our mind when necessary. Tell them they are wrong and present a valid argument. Do so with a stern demeanor and if she has a hard time accepting this, then leave and don’t even waste another word on them. Instead move on to another woman that deserves your attention.

Furthermore…

We are in a constant state of change: Every 5 years our metabolism slows, we grow older, we become wiser and we lose energy. The only way to survive this journey we call life is by always keeping our minds in the right place.

We will meet a lot of women along the way that will overall just waste our time. Never have expectations for more than you can offer and those special women will, in time, choose to stick around. And when they do you should cherish them.

Now that’s all I have for today. Remember never stop working on yourselves and keep going out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Gaslighting – A Manipulation Technique

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F-design PUA pictureor many of us, when we think of dating, we like to think of it in a light-hearted way. We think about everything we do as being harmless and just trying to have fun while getting laid in the process.

We never really think about what kind of power we can have over people or women in particular. What I’m getting at is that getting in the game will give you a newfound ability that many of us never thought we could ever have. An ability to change someone’s life forever – maybe for the better or maybe, just maybe, for the worse.

What I’m talking about is having the ability to change someone’s reality. Having the ability to get inside a woman’s head and convincing her to think the way you want her to think.

Believe it or not this is very real and although not every woman is susceptible you can still have a big impact on many. Even the most beautiful women if caught off guard can easily become influenced.

Now what I am foreshadowing is a little technique called gaslighting. Today I am going to explain exactly what this is and how some may use it to get their way with others.

There is much debate to whether this is ethical or not. I choose to stay neutral and will plead the 5th when it comes to that debate. Nevertheless I feel that it is good to be educated on things like this because we never know when someone may be trying to pull the same wool over our eyes.

So moving on…

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What is gaslighting?

In short this is a technique where the perpetrator attempts to change the targets reality through various means. One common avenue is with debate or what may seem like simple suggestions.

At first they will tell you what they think about you and maybe imply that you should change something about yourself. Most people will usually find it humorous and probably laugh it off. Many of us will see this person as just being ridiculous and not pay their comments any mind.

After awhile we might end up spending more time with this person for whatever reasons. They could be hitting you up to hang out, maybe they’re a regular customer at your job or even a co-worker. In time that person will keep bringing up similar suggestions in hopes of persuading a target to do what they wish.

They will give logical reasons and over time it may even start to seem as though what they’re saying makes sense. If a person isn’t careful then they might just give in to what the perpetrator is asking.

“When something is repeated over and over again then it may be mistaken as truth.”

Who is susceptible?

Anyone can be susceptible depending on how well the perpetrator earns their trust. However the most common types are a combination of people pleasers, those obsessed with trying to do the right thing or people with a lack of self-esteem.

Regardless it can be anyone who falls for this. It all depends on how much power one allows the perpetrator to have over them. If you value someone or look up to them in some way, then you yourself could very well become a victim.

How does one apply it to pickup?

If someone is good with words or has a great sense of humor then they will find themselves getting on people’s good sides more often than most. Once that level of comfort, or trust, has been built then the perpetrator’s target is much more willing to listen to what they have to say.

Should you apply it?

That is entirely up to you, but I wouldn’t. I have found myself in many situations over the years where I could have applied this and had my own personal human pet. However I am not that kind of person.

This is the closest thing to mind control that I’ve experienced. I won’t list any how-to examples for the sake of those that may become victim to it; but I am sure if one looks hard enough and applies what they learn appropriately then you will get the desired result. But before you do so just ask yourself this…

What would you do if your victim committed suicide? Would you be able to forgive yourself if you were partly responsible?

Believe it or not people are fragile.

How to protect yourself if used on you?

I would say that no contact is the best path to take. As long as you give this person a chance to speak then you are potentially at their mercy. If you have some attraction to them, then you might just find yourself in a position where they have hijacked your mind. Next thing you know they have you doing all types of ridiculous things for them.

So it’s wise to cut off all contact. You are doing yourself a big favor. There is no good that can come from this kind of person. They are just going to play with your emotions, have you spiralling into a deep dark depression and may even ruin your life.

Last but not least…

This is quite an interesting subject and I enjoy writing about things like this. Gaslighting is nothing new. This technology has been around for years and there are even traces of it in modern day media.

It’s not just applicable to one certain individual it’s also used on groups. The Nazi’s used this technique to convince the under-educated masses in Germany during World War 2 to believe that Jews were evil. The Roman’s, Spartans and Mongols used it as well. Gaslighting is basically a form of psychological warfare.

I could go on and on about many other cases in which this technology has been abused, but I don’t have the time to write a whole book right now. All I can say is that this kind of power is very real and everyone should be mindful of it.

Anyway that’s all I got for today. I’ve said what I have to say. So get up, get out of your house and get your asses laid!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: When to kiss a woman

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H-design-1 PUA pictureere I am again my friends and here to spread some knowledge about a well known beginner problem a lot of us have when first starting out in the dating world. This little dilemma is of course the kiss.

Yeah a lot of us have questions in regard to this…

When should you take it? How do I know when to take it? How do I get her to want to kiss me?

I see these questions being asked all across the internet and today I’m listing just what you need to know. So get ready! The signs you should pay attention to so you know when to go for the kiss are…

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1) Eager eyes:

This is a very clear sign that the girl is into you and you should act on it fast. The truth is that the longer you wait then the less interested she’ll be – so capitalize.

She won’t just have eager eyes either, she’ll be eager to hear what you have to say and she may even be overly polite. When you notice any of this then go for it and without hesitation.

2) Frequent touching:

This can be teasing you by poking with her finger or just touching you randomly without any reason – this happens a lot actually. Also another pretty obvious way that many women touch me is by feeling on my arms or shoulders. So it definitely helps if you work out.

3) Biting or licking her lips:

This is almost a 100% guarantee that she is preoccupied with the thought of your lips pressed up against hers. So go in and give her what she wants – do so like a man!

4) Leaning in:

Let’s say you’re at a bar and go up to talk to a girl. She is receptive and clearly enjoys your company. Next thing you know she is getting very close to you. What do you do now?

When I was younger this happened to me a great deal and I would just stand there like a little lost puppy. Later I’d see that same girl making out with one of my more assertive friends. Since then I never give up an opportunity like that and I suggest you don’t either.

5) Complimenting your appearance:

If a woman tells you that you are cute, good-looking, sexy or anything of the sort then you need to get the ball rollin’. In the language of women that means she wants you and you better act fast or she’ll move on to somebody else.

This is also known as qualifying and she is letting you know that you are good enough for her to sleep with. She is validating you or openly submitting to you and letting you know that it’s time to make a move.

Furthermore…

Do not over-analyze the situation and expect to need to make the perfect move or have perfect timing. All you need to understand is that you must be willing to just make the move and that’s it.

Whether it’s smooth or rocky does not matter – if you are able to just have the balls to try and kiss her then you are half-way there. A funny thing about women is they can go as far as to say they never kiss on the first date, then you go for the kiss and they give it to you.

So don’t let her get in your head and don’t get discouraged either – just be a man. Go for what you want and calibrate accordingly. Expect there to be a rocky road ahead of you. The rockier the seduction is then the more information you will gather.

Once you can see how she reacts to your advances you will know whether or not you even need to talk in the first place. Sometimes all you really need to do is make the move. So moral of the story: Actions speak louder than words.

Well that’s all I have to say for today and thanks for reading. Now get up, get the hell out of your house and start approaching some women!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

Thanks for reading and don’t forget to subscribe to the GBTN Newletter!

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