PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for keeping the vibe positive

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PUA Pictureremember one time when I was sitting at a Biergarten here is New York City and I was observing a guy at another table. This guy was behaving erratically and just clearly behaving like he had no idea what to do. He naturally was ditched by everyone around him and left there all by his lonesome.

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So I figured I’d take the time to explain a list of tips that will help you all avoid the aforementioned result at all costs. And these tips are…

1) Avoid negative topics.

Simple enough… women like to bring this kind of shit up all the time. The best way, I’ve come to find rather effective, is to just change the subject and continue on to the topic of your choice. If she says anything or tries to go back to the last topic – just hold your frame and don’t falter. She will usually get distracted or just continue on with what you were talking about.

2) Don’t pick arguments.

As obvious as this seems a lot of people still get tangled up in the dumbest arguments just because they can’t let go of their egos. The more you let her under your skin, the less attractive you become.

Women do this subsconsciously to test to see if you are quick to fly off the handle. They also want to see how crazy you get when mad. The best way to win is to just shrug it off and if she gets too childish, then just leave and tell her you’ll be willing to meet up again when she can behave mature. You’ll be surprised how often I’ve gotten apologies for bad behavior after doing this; you have to set boundaries.

3) Talk about things you can both relate to.

A few great fuels for conversation are talking about places you’ve both travelled. Maybe seeing if you’ve been to similar cities – if you travel a lot. Ask her if anything crazy has ever happened when she was travelling. Movies can work also – especially comedies. I bring up the “Ted” movies a lot; mainly because there is plenty of material in those movies to get the conversation more sexual. It works like a charm.

4) Play games.

Taking her out to a pool hall or a bar that has something like darts is a great idea. You have plenty of room to work in some kino and break the touch barrier. You can tease her about shots; a bar with games is a great playground for building comfort.

5) Tell stories about fun experiences.

I usually leave this for when I move on to a 2nd spot. I’ll usually start out at a pool hall, then move on to a pier or place with a nice view. I like to go somewhere quiet so I can tell her about what it was like in New York City when I first moved here. Women eat stuff like that up… like chocolate icecream after a fight with a boyfriend.

In conclusion…

Applying everything mentioned here will pave a safe road on your way to more success with women. Even if you’re in a slump – sometimes it’s good to re-evaluate your game and analyze whether you’ve picked up some bad habits. Signing up for my monthly program will help get you back into the swing of things as well (Sign up for online training course). Just like cars sometimes an experienced PUA needs a tune-up. Anyway, that’s all I got for today now get up and go out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips for becoming more Charismatic

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PUA PictureI have seen this topic pop up a lot lately online, so I thought I would give my own input today. Charisma to me is about energy and knowing what behaviors ramp up the symbiotic energy that flows within a group. Mostly being charismatic is about how you feel inside, but there are a few other concepts that I consider vital and some of these are…

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1) Have fun.

Talk about things that interest you, do things that interest you. The environment and people that you are around can have a big impact on your confidence. So making sure that you only surround yourself with the right people – and going to places that you enjoy – will have a lot of clout. How you feel inside is a huge part of being charismatic; which should always be your main focus.

2) Listen to people.

There is a little thing called “active listening” and this is when you actively partake by genuinely wanting to get to know someone. I have a natural desire to meet new people… I guess my view on this topic is that everyone has a little piece of knowledge they can share with you.

I crave knowledge and everyone has some to offer. It doesn’t matter whether it is how to protect myself in the streets or good places worth visiting in Russia. There is always one piece of information someone has that I could really use.

3) Encourage people to tell you more.

One great way to keep a conversation going without much work is through prompting others to talk instead. All you need to do is say a few easy trigger words like:

“Can you elaborate?”

“Where did this happen and is that a cool place to visit?

“What’s it like living in that part of the city?”

Questions like this will get people talking long enough for you to think of something worthwhile to talk about. If you think about it, conversation is a game and the better you get at it, then the more natural it will feel. Much like meditation – you’ll crave practice the more often you do it.

4) Smile.

Yes, smile and I’m not saying to just smile; put your soul into it. Don’t smile unless you can be real. Fake smiles will just make you look self-conscious and basic. Smile because you are having a good time and you are grateful to now have the knowledge to be spending your night hanging out with a beautiful woman. Keep your head up and live in the moment.

Furthermore…

Charisma is just like learning to play an instrument – you won’t master it in a day. It’s an art-form that you can only perfect with trial and error. You need to push your comfort-zone and always be curious to see what kind of behavior triggers people in a way you want them to be triggered. Embrace every new interaction and always try to learn something new with every person. Now go out and get some experience!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

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PUA Tips: Top 4 conditions when women are looking for one-night stands

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pua pictureow this is something that I bet a lot of you might be able use. I’ve decided to narrow down some of the sure-fire times when women are looking to go home with someone. Some of you may have already realized all of these, but for those that haven’t; imagine all the time you might’ve saved doing more productive things if someone just had told you where to look.

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So I am going to give you some of that ‘where to look’ knowledge right now. Below I’ve made a short list of places and situations when women are most likely to be open to one-night stands…

1) On vacation.

Here’s a nice sign that you might get laid tonight. If you meet a girl and she says she’s on vacation and everything is going well between the two of you, then you might be able to isolate her after you’ve snuck in a few kisses. Let’s say she is still holding on to you and not backing off after the kiss-close. Now you can try to isolate and let nature run its course.

2) At bars on the weekends.

This is where I rack up most of my one-night stands honestly. Nothing says, “Easy hookup” like a cheap bar that has a lot of tourists flowing in. Just make sure to always be on good terms with the staff and treat everyone with respect.

3) When in public on an evening or night before a day off.

Yes, this is a good time to swoop in and catch a girl on an unexpected evening stroll. Just come over and introduce yourself or ask for directions. Once you’ve got her stopped, then you can invite her along with you. Tell her it’s your day off and you don’t want to have a drink by yourself. I can’t tell you how many times this has worked for me – sometimes women flat out ask me to go have a drink with them; timing is everything.

4) Concerts.

Almost everyone that goes out to a concert didn’t make plans in the morning. So why not take advantage of this window of opportunity? Take the time to talk to many girls and not just jam out to your favorite musicians performance. Most of the time these events are super easy to get make-outs at as well. Once you’ve gotten a few make-outs then just talk to those girls after and try to convince them to go to an after-party.

Sometimes I’ll actually have an after-party spot available, but if I’ve isolated the girl and she is obviously down to come home, then I’ll just suggest my place instead. If you don’t have an afterhours spot, then ask her if she wants to grab something from the store or some food with you real quick. I’ll usually start making out with her on the way – and judging from how intense we get – I’ll then decide whether it’s worth suggesting to go back to my place.

To conclude…

The time and place can have a lot of power when it comes to seduction. I see guys going out all day long and then seeing other guys that go out at different periods of the day or week – when they know women are in the mood. Guess who is getting more action? The latter of course.

So pay attention to detail and learn to be more observant on such matters as when you notice women being a little more promiscuous than normal. These little bits of information will skyrocket you to the front of the line in the world of getting laid. Now go out and open your eyes!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 conversation Starters

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W-design-1 pua pictureell back once more and today I have some helpful information for everyone. I thought I would get into the topic of openers. Since the very first skill to master is the approach, I thought putting together a list of good openers could be useful. The following are…

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1) “Hey, what’s your name?”

Pretty simple and straight to the point. She may reply with the same quesion, but at least you got her talking to you. Just be sure to look her in the eye and stand tall – don’t let your confidence wain.

9 times out of 10 a woman loses interest because a guy shows some subconscious sign if mental weakness. This could be failing to hold eye contact, studdering or just looking too anxious. Learn to just relax and live in the moment.

2) “We haven’t been introduced – I’m (Name).”

I like this one for a single reason and that is because you never hear anyone talk like that – so you come across original. Women respond well to originality; the more original you are then the more interesting you’ll be perceived.

3) You look like you’re from (Country, City, State, tec.).”

Although some may advise that making assumptions about others can offend some people, I still have no problem doing so. The way I see it, is If she was to get offended by me making assumptions, then she will be offended by almost anything. So it’s better to find out who she is first than waste my time and find out later that she was a bitch.

4) “Nice (Flamboyant article of clothing). Hi, I’m (Name).”

I find it fairly obvious to mention a flashy addition to someone’s outfit in conversation. They clearly wore it to be noticed, so they will probably feel a sense of satisfaction when someone takes notice. This is usually a great way to make an above mediocre impression – just make sure not to say something stupid after and kill the vibe.

On top of this…

It’s important to focus on the other issues I discussed in previous articles – such as eye-contact, smiling, etc. What is being said is just constituent of pickup; it’s important you work on the delivery as well. You can master the delivery with practice, but in order to do that, you need to keep going out! So get on it!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 Dating tips for meeting women on vacation

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S-design-1 pua pictureo now that the summer is approaching a lot of you may be planning a vacation. I thought this might be a great time to help some of you get ready for the trip. You can never be too prepared and there is never too much knowledge on these topics. Below I’ve listed a few tips that may make it a little easier to meet someone on your next vacation…

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1) Research the best clubs and bars beforehand.

I remember one time I visited a city for two weeks expecting everyone to be out everywhere that weekend and almost every bar I went in was almost empty. It was nuts, I am so used to people being out on the weekends here in NYC.

I ended up figuring out that people were out but most of them were at certain venues in the city. I ended up discovering a few of those venues thanks to Google and had a better time the following week. Nevertheless I wasted a weekend before due to crappy planning. So in short, find out where the people hang out before you plan your vacation.

2) Make sure you are staying close to the party scene.

Once you’ve seen a few interesting clubs or venues online and seen they have good reviews, then I would advise booking a place close by them. In most cities those venues usually won’t be too far away from each other – if they are – then book a place close by to the majority of the venues with good reviews.

The reason for being close is obvious… the more time you spend in a cab with her, then the less turned on she will be when you finally reach home. Therefore since you are more likely to take her home than to her place, then it’s important that you have your own place when travelling; not a room you are renting.

3) Stay for at least a couple of weeks.

There’s nothing worse for me than a vacation where I don’t get laid at least once. I Figure understanding the whole dating scene in a city takes me at least a week. Do as much cold-approaching as you can in that first week so you can adjust your game efficiently.

Different countries have different cultural conditioning; what you might be able to get away with in America might be insulting in France, etc. It wouldn’t hurt to read up on some online forums about gaming wherever you plan to go as well. (Here’s my forum!)

4) Get an AirBNB.

The reason I suggest this piece of advice is because women are more likely to go back with you if you have your own place and are not just staying at a hotel. Nothing makes a women feel cheaper than going back with a guy who is staying in a hotel. Just make sure you don’t bring too many valuables and keep your money on you when you leave the AirBNB.

5) Get to the point.

If you have to, go direct and only focus on the most interested women you meet. There is no time to waste on women that you aren’t sure about. Only go for the women that are giving you a high amount of IOI’s (Indications of interest). Remember you aren’t looking for a girlfriend – you are looking for a fun time and that’s it. If you hit it off, then you can always stay in touch for another future trip back. Nevertheless, she will probably not wait for you – but at least you may have a potential girl to hookup with or for networking and such – if you decide to come back.

And there you have it…

Travelling is one of my favorite times to game simply because I like to meet new people from new places – so I’m enjoying myself as well. First and foremost, the idea is to enjoy yourself no matter what. So if you aren’t enjoying yourself you are doing something wrong; let go and feel the moment.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for being seen as the Bad boy

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F-design PUA pictureirst off, if you are wondering why it is beneficial to be a bad boy then I’ll tell just why. Bad boys almost always get sex on the first date. Women also like the challenge of changing a bad boy or taming him – some might say.

Now I’ve listed just a couple of benefits, but let me dive even deeper. What characters in movies resemble bad boys? Think Fight Club… does Tyler Durden ring a bell? Or Brad Pitt’s character; if you’ve never seen it.

Who else? The transporter… Jason Statham – who is actually barely 5 and a half feet tall. Still I am sure even if he wasn’t plastered on the big-screen – he radiates the essence of a bad boy.

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Anyway, I am going to tell you just how you also can harness your inner bad boy – so pay attention…

1) Wear red:

Red is actually attractive for both sexes, but don’t over-do it. I usually have a little in my shirts and I wear red shoes as well. I read a study about this awhile back (Here’s study), and since I first decided to add it to my wardrobe, I have definitely noticed a change.

Women blatantly look me up and down on the subway. I’ve also had them coming up to me more often in venues. So believe me when I tell you there is a big difference.

2) Get in shape:

Not only does this help superficially, but you’ll feel better in general. Even if you are working out only 3 times a week, you will be much less anxious and carefree. It will be much easier to form relationships with people because you will just be in an overall better mood.

3) Don’t be a permission boy:

For those of you that don’t know what this is: A permission boy is a guy that is too nice and asks for permission to kiss, etc. You don’t ask for permission to kiss! Ever! She makes it obvious and will usually make eye contact with you and not back away when your face is close to hers.

Instead of asking where she wants to go, you choose where you both are going. If she feels strongly opposed then she’ll speak up; otherwise just do what you want to do.

4) Slow down your movement:

I forgot who it was that I saw mention this in a video, but I take my hat off to that man. Slow your movement down by half of what you normal would. So that means whenever you turn your head, hail a taxi, etc. Slow things down and you’ll be taken more seriously – you’ll see.

5) Look her straight in the eyes:

I mention this all the time and I will continue to do so. Get used to keeping eye contact; it needs to become second nature. Eye contact is the most important skill to master if you want to get good at seducing women. If you really want to master this art-form then you should check out my new coaching program as well.(See coaching program)

So in short…

You don’t have to go out and fight off an army to get her to think you’re a bad boy. You just have to behave like one and develop the charisma of one. Following what I said above will help you to be perceived as such. However the number one thing I didn’t list is to just get used to not giving a fuck. Don’t sweat the small stuff… if it wasn’t meant to be, then let it go and move on. Life is too short to dwell on the past.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 Tips for qualifying women

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pua pictureow here’s a skill that some of you have probably heard of. I’m going to elaborate on how this works and how it can help improve success with the opposite sex.

First off, qualifying a woman is a tool for building attraction. You can’t apply this skill unless the target is already interested to begin with. Once you’ve identified that she is into you then you can spike that interest even more by qualifying her.

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Below I’ve listed a few concepts on how I myself qualify women…

1) Screen her:

I usually screen women by asking questions related to qualities that I like. Things that I look for are commonalities, attractiveness, level of respect and of couse IOI’s (Indications of interest). Once you’ve established that she is a woman that is not only interested in you – since she’s giving you her attention – you can then move on to the actual qualifying.

2) Only invest what she invests:

This means that you aren’t going to be the one putting the most attention into the interaction. Think about it… what behavior is more attractive? A guy that will do anything to get a girl to notice him or a guy that is having fun on his own and doesn’t need any kind of reassurance from a woman? I hope you chose the latter.

Women are naturally attracted to a man that has other options. Women like a challenge and will be more inclined to chase you if you are displaying that you have these options. So the easiest way to display this is by not investing more attention in her than what she is willing to give you.

A good way to get her investing more attention is by asking her open-ended questions. Getting her talking more than you is a great way to make her feel that you are a man of higher value. She will realize how much she has told you and therefore view you as someone she is attracted to.

3) Get her working for your attention:

I believe one of the best ways to do this is through playful teasing. One technique I utilize quite a bit is something called a ‘take-away’. Basically whenever the conversation runs dull I’ll turn away like I am leaving and then come back when she thinks I’m about to go.

I might just say something like, “Did you think I was going to leave you?” and I’ll crack a smile right after. What this does is make the already interested target even more interested and is also a form of teasing; or teasing done right.

4) Reward her only when she’s done something you like:

A lot of guys these days, at least of what I’ve seen going out, are too nice and give too much without getting in return. Women these days are too comfortable taking and this is partly our fault. We have conditioned women to being this way thanks to the old school gentleman’s way of thinking; known as chivalry.

Unfortunately back in the day – when most women actually appreciated the opposite gender of their species – there wasn’t a cancerous belief system called feminism. However in this day in age there is.

So now we have to adapt to the new terrain and that means modifying our behavior because you’ll most likely be taken advantage of if you don’t educate yourselves on this. So in detail… you should get used to making her pay for her own stuff when out on dates. Not giving her affection unless she is showing good behavior and simply grooming her to be a partner that is well-behaved and respectful to her man.

If she is unwilling to behave herself around you and act civil, then simply don’t see her again. It doesn’t matter if she is very attractive, you should never compromise your self-esteem for anyone. If you or her don’t feel right being with each other then you shouldn’t be – plain and simple.

An example of how I reward a target early on is by high-fiving her whenever we have something in common or maybe after she’s displayed genuine interest in something I shared about myself. From the high-fiving I can test to see if she is ready for me to kiss her by holding her hand for a moment after. If she isn’t moving away I can pull her in closer to see if she might be ready to kiss.

The reality of hooking up is that a kiss is the gateway to building that comfort and turning her on enough to want to sleep with you. Once you have the kiss then it is all down-hill from there.

In conclusion…

If you’ve had the opportunity to be around someone that understands major principles of game then you have probably seen this applied without realizing it. Qualifying is a powerful weapon and that’s exactly why I suggest putting this knowledge into action. So take what you’ve learned today and re-read what I’ve written. This will not only help you to connect better with women, but it will also lower your flake-rate; which means less time spent per woman. Now go out and get laid!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 tips for new relationships

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F-design PUA pictureor a long time I battled with going in and out of relationships with women I newly hooked up with. It seemed as if I had no issues getting the sex, but keeping the women was a major problem with my game.

So I decided to analyze myself a little more and figured out my weaknesses and changed what I realized was making it harder to bond with the women that came into my life. What I came up with revolved around the following…

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1) Have fun when you are together.

I think it is very important that you learn to have fun when out with your target. Learn to live in the moment and keep the topic off anything negative. Focus on things that you both can enjoy talking about and train yourself to see the light in everything. Smiling more can help release endorphins – which will help you to feel better. So I most definitely suggest smiling more.

2) Use P.D.A. sparingly.

One way to turn a woman off is to be overly affectionate in the beginning of a relationship. Instead you need to get her used to earning your affection.

A good way to do this is learning how to qualify her. Qualifying is a semi-advanced technique but the idea is to reward her every time she does something that you like. So an example would be giving her a hug or some kind of affection when she compliments you or when you discover that you have something in common.

3) See each other at least once a week.

It’s important to understand that there is a happy medium between too much contact and not enough. Women don’t want to be the center of your life, but they also don’t want to be the last thing you care about either.

I believe that seeing your girl 1-2 times a week is perfect. Like instead of going out and partying every weekend, you can spend it with her. If you are with the right girl, meaning you both have enough chemistry not to drive each other nuts when together, then this should come pretty natural.

4) Don’t talk about the relationship unless she brings it up.

This is straight-forward… don’t ever talk about “us”. Never ask any dumb questions like, “What are we?” or “Are we a couple yet?” Don’t go there! You’ll just trigger the ‘needy switch’ and next thing you know she isn’t responding to your texts or calls. Just enjoy the moment until she decides whether or not she wants to take things to the next level.

5) Don’t spoil.

I suppose this goes hand-in-hand with number 4. Giving your new-found lady too much attention, being too nice or blowing a lot of money on her is a huge no-no. Everything you give to her she should earn. This means she should do nice things for you first. It should be right to the point where she realizes that she is doing a lot for you without you giving back – then finally you give her a little something for her selflessness. Google ‘the Benjamin Franklin effect’ for further reading.

So there you have it…

Listen to what I’m talking about here otherwise you will find yourself in a downward spiral of meaningless hooking up. That may seem like fun in the beginning, but what happens when you meet a girl that you really like? Yes it happens and you are going to feel like banging your head against the wall when you lose her. Now that’s all I’ve got… go get to work!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

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PUA Tips: Attraction and the brain

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I’ve been in the seduction community for pretty much all of my adult life. I’ve been going out and seducing beautiful women for around 13 or 14 years now and I’ve been able to analyze a lot of interesting data.

I’ve learned a lot about myself and also just people in general. I’ve been able to connect the dots when it comes to what must be done or what behavior must be displayed so I can ultimately get a woman to want to have sex with me.

Now today I am going to share one of my most groundbreaking conclusions I’ve stumbled upon on this journey…

I’ll start by mentioning the fact that the human brain is made up of 3 sub-brains. Each of these brains control different processes for survival. They also respond to different behaviors and if you know what behaviors trigger what portion of the brain then you can actually influence the target to become more attracted to you – meaning they will be more inclined to sleep with you or stay in a relationship with you.

This ideology is similar to how NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) works. Saying or doing certain things can trigger a person’s nervous system so that they are feeling the desired emotions. So in other words you are like a puppeteer pulling the strings of his puppets.

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Now I’m going to describe the 3 sub-brains…

1) The Reptilian Brain.

This brain is considered the most primitive and is in charge of regulating the emotions necessary for survival. So this would be considered the “instinctive brain” and is responsibility for all responses related; such as fear. Activating this part of the brain will usually end in rejection.

2) The Mammalian Brain.

This is the “second brain” and the brain that we as seducers should understand the most in my opinion. This part is responsible for human emotion as well as pleasure. I’ll explain further on what one can do to stimulate this brain as much as possible. Activating this part of the brain effectively will usually end in hooking up.

3) The Rational Brain.

This is what scientists call the “new brain”. Here you have self awareness, thinking, consciousness and of course logic. Activating this part of the brain will most likely lead to being friend-zoned.

Furthermore…

Now you have a better understanding of the 3 sub-brains. To push on a little more… there are certain ways a person can conduct themself in order to activate the desired brain. Below I’ve listed certain behaviors and what parts of the brain they activate…

Touch:

Touch is definitely necessary in order to get a woman home, but too much of it will kill attraction. I don’t consider breaking the touch barrier until I’ve gotten a good amount of compliance from a woman first. Usually I’ll ask her to go somewhere with me; like out for a smoke or to a less crowded area of a bar. Once she’s agreed then I’ll make a move and that is usually lightly pulling her close for a kiss. Excessive touching activates the reptilian brain, but the right amount of touching at the right time or in the right areas will activate the mammalian brain.

Eye contact:

Eye contact is similar to touch – too much will turn her off but the right amount will turn her on. I usually will look at a woman until she looks straight back at me or we both are making solid eye contact. Following that I’ll break eye contact for a moment by looking off to the side then my eyes will come right back to hers. Too much eye contact will activate the reptilian brain and the right amount will activate the mammalian brain.

Conversation:

Certain topics will obviously activate different parts of the brain.

Example 1 – A debate: If you are bringing up something like why a woman should date you or giving her logical reasons why you are qualified, then you are most likely going to trigger the rational brain.

Example 2: Travelling: Talking about places you’ve been always seems to go well with me. Just be careful not to come across in a braggadocious manner. Bragging will look try-hard and trigger the rational brain.

Instead just share stories and pleasant experiences that you had. Talk about the nice places you’ve been or the weather; elicit emotions. Draw a picture with your words or describe how you felt and what you enjoyed – doing so will activate the mammalian brain.

To conclude…

Understanding the correlation between behavior and the brain can benefit all of us when it comes to connecting better with women. Now I’ve given you all a taste of some of the knowledge I’ve acquired over the years. It is up to you to continue to develop your understanding and remember knowledge is power; knowledge is also control. So never stop learning and never stop pushing your comfort zone – the sky is the limit.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 things you should know about dating emotional women

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PUA Pictuream here once again to bring some valuable information for those that value my opinion and the many years I’ve spent learning about how to bring the hottest members of the opposite sex into my life. Today I will be discussing emotional women.

Every now and then I find myself mysteriously charmed by this particular type of woman. I don’t know exactly why – maybe it is due to my own mother being somewhat emotional while I was growing up or who knows. Nevertheless I feel that I have a substantial amount of knowledge on these types of women. So I’ve included a few interesting conclusions I’ve come to about them and the following are…

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1) She worries for you a lot.

Believe it or not, one of the pros of dating these women is that they actually care. They aren’t self-centered and tend to value the person they are with significantly. So learn to appreciate this because in my experience – especially with the cancer of feminism sweeping the world – this is a valued trait amongst any woman; in my personal opinion.

2) She’s open to hearing your secrets.

So the majority of the time, since these women are very emotional, they are open to hearing about your past. They are more likely to care about you as a person and will respect your vulnerable side. In this case, you can vent a little to them and they will actually listen to you because they genuinely care about you; unlike many women these days.

3) She values being in a relationship with you highly.

She is less likely to cheat and in these days something like 60 percent of women cheat – so be grateful. However at the same time she will expect a good deal of commitment on your end as well. So I suggest only getting involved with these women if you can commit yourself.

4) She’s sensitive.

Be careful what you say or do around these women because they will take awhile to forgive if you hurt their feelings. I guess this is to be expected, but they will also treat you very well when you treat them well. Just remember to stay respectful, like you should, and you shouldn’t have a problem.

5) Get over the fact that you don’t know why she’s upset.

If you ever catch her on a bad day then the best thing you can do is just let her be. Don’t try to bother with finding out why because you will just upset her more. Sometimes women just need some space and that is perfectly fine.

Continuing on…

Depending on your personality type – these kinds of women might not be ideal. However if you are like me, and like to entertain the idea of understanding human behavior more and more, then why not experiment by dating someone new. Who knows you might realize what seems highly unlikely might just be likely.

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