PUA Tips: Behavior that will make you more attractive

Behavior that will make you more attractive:

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A lot of people think attraction is about looks, but it’s not. What it’s about is harnessing attractive traits that make people mesmerized by your presence. Nevertheless, we can be superficially attracted to someone, however most of the time it’s about their level of certainty, personality and degree of passion. The reality is that being attractive is about more than just how someone looks.

To clarify…

Having attractive traits is not just something we want in a mate, we also look for certain traits in people that we obviously choose to be around. For example, we have an idea for who is ideal for friendships. Maybe even a place we like to hang out; like for coffee or fun. We may judge a place by its location or the way it looks. Discovering what people find attractive will open some major doors about understanding what motivates people in general.

So in short, if you want to figure out how to make people like you, or want to be around you and spend time with you, then you must educate yourself diligently.

The Attraction Principles

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1) Identify what’s “Boring” about yourself and eliminate it:

Whether we like it or not, most humans have short attention spans –We get bored fast and need some kind of cheap entertainment to keep us stimulated. And even if you are blessed with looks, it is not always going to get you the attention you may crave.

The kinds of things that most of us are attracted to stem from intrigue, engagement dealing with interesting people and things. Interesting enough, we tend to come across as boring when we are simply afraid to say something that we fear will make us look bad; or what we really think.

Whenever you take a guarded stand-point, you will typically fall into a bottomless pit of asking boring interview-like questions; that will quickly turn off the person you are hoping to impress. What we should be doing is sharing what we really feel, instead of worrying about getting judged so much.

2) The most favorable qualities:

What do you like in a girl?

Is it their hips?

Smile?

Intelligence maybe?

According to some sources mentioned later in this article, it has to do with your willingness to open up and show who you really are. After that, your potential suitors, friends or business partners can decide if who you are is who they want to associate with.

For friends it comes down to that person’s ability to invest in whatever it is that you have to say. In the corporate world it comes down to who is willing to do business and not go against your way of thinking.

So being closed off will not get you anywhere and you must be willing to connect. You must be willing to make yourself vulnerable and reveal your true-self. Be willing to role with the punches and accept that not everyone will like you.

However, as long as you aren’t afraid to open up to people and get to know them with sincerity; then you are sure to find people that are attracted to you. And when people see that you have friends, then they will follow the trend and be more willing to join in on your party as well.

*Fun Exercise*
Next time you are out at some kind of event I want you to make it clear that you are there to meet people. Verbalize it and tell people, “I’m glad to have met you, I am very eager to make some unique connections here.” Or even, “What a great event, I am here to engage with like-minded people for my business. I even brought cards. Do you mind if I share one with you?”

The way people function is by having stuff put in their face. For relationships, you have to make it clear to women that you are interested in them and for everything else; same deal.

Clarify, clarify, clarify!

Being true and open about what you want is the key to attracting more of the people you want in your life. Beating around the bush and being shy is just going to lead to a long, hard road to loneliness.

3) First Impression is vital:

This is the truth and don’t listen to anyone that tells you otherwise. People choose what to think of you by the initial things that you say and do.

When we get rid of all the rapport and focus on the meat of attraction; it typically takes place within the first 30-45 seconds of an interaction. As much as ‘The Seduction Industry’ doesn’t like to admit it, people make their judgments for a mate, most of time, when they first meet you.

According to Helen Fisher, a Rutgers University Anthropologist that has studied many couples and the topic of attraction, we choose our mates relatively quickly. Also, our brains are well-developed for this task as well; meaning we are not wrong about our judgments the majority of the time (i.e. Think gut feelings).

In the world of platonic relationships and employment there was a study done by Nalini Ambady of Tufts University. She tested how accurate our first impressions are with teachers. She tape-recorded a group of 13 teachers while displaying those videos to random people.

She then had these people rate them. After that she compared the results to the teacher’s ending semester evaluations. Shockingly, their judgments were surprisingly accurate about who were more successful and viceversa.

Now for some useful tips on attractive body language…

4) Attractive Body Language:

Inviting body language is much more attractive than any suit, haircut or fancy car out there.

Here are some things to pay attention to the next time you are out…

Do not cross your arms:

Research has shown that we subconsciously close ourselves off ‘physically’ whenever we are feeling threatened or disturbed by someone. You don’t want to make someone that you are trying to attract think that you feel threatened by their presence. This will make them less likely to want to be around you; because no one likes to be around someone that doesn’t like them.

Hands in front of you:

Research shows seeing someone’s hands will make them more comfortable around you. So take your hands out of your pockets and don’t be afraid to show them off.

People actually tend to show they are relaxed through the physicality of their body language. Naturally, a person who is comfortable with someone will never cross their arms or put their hands in their pockets. Those behaviors are nothing more than nervous tendencies. So conquer them and you will see your social, sex and business life begin to thrive.

*Bonus Tip*
If a woman is exposing her neck, their is a high probability that she is attracted to you.

On a final note…

Think back to all the times you’ve crossed your arms or have had your hands in those pockets…

Did the interaction go well?

If it didn’t, then I challenge you to not do this the next time you are out and see what kind of impact it has on people. Also pay attention to everything else I said about making a good first impression and not being afraid to say what’s on your mind.

Remember, you are never going to meet anyone worth your while if you are afraid to put yourself out there. So put yourself on display and don’t be ashamed of what you honestly think about anything.

Lastly, I bring another superb book for you all; some very useful material. This book is called…

Take Me To Truth” by Nouk Sanchez

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PUA Tips: How to build a Strong Group Dynamic

How to build a strong group dynamic:

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ey everyone,

I realized I talk about seduction a lot, but today I thought I’d get into something related to sociology. Today I wanted to talk about building a positive, strong group dynamic. This is important because it will not just help you get more women but make you more likable over-all.

When trying to build a good group of friends for anything in life, it is important to know how to get everyone working together and not against one another. I thought I’d put together some helpful guidelines that could help those of you trying to understand what it takes to build a good team dynamic; whether it is for your business or to just get along better with people as a whole.

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So here are a few ways to do just that…

1. Make sure to give props when they are due:

A group cannot flourish if the main alpha’s, or leaders, in the group have it in their mind that their ideas are the only good ideas. Many times I have been out with a beginner seducers that have done something quite clever and I can’t help but commend them for their unique sense of humor or maybe an insightful perspective.

2. Give your friends their roles in relation to what they are best at:

When you are able to organize a system of individuals that are all equally recognized for their strengths, then there will be much less competition. Members will have a better understanding of what others expect of them and it will encourage them to grow in whatever strength, or ability, that they have chosen to develop in their lives.

3. Build a frame that incorporates the use of the word “We” or “Us” instead I or me:

It’s important to use the words “We” or “Us”, because of the beneficial psychological effects it has on those involved in whatever you wish to accomplish. These effects are that it allows everyone to experience a feeling of support; without support a house will collapse. When dealing with new potential additions to your group, use words like “We believe” and “Our thoughts are” to show to those already in your group that you value them and their abilities.

4. Relay, educate and act out:

You will have many opportunities to show someone something interesting you’ve learned on your journey. It helps to take advantage of every chance you get to teach someone in your circle something new; you should do it as much as you can.

This doesn’t just build a better relationship, but you’ll build momentum and get the group working much more productively and with purpose. Getting everyone on the same page will lead to more success, more pulls and more respect from the spectators; which includes bouncers, DJ’s, promoters, club managers, etc. This means you won’t have to wait in lines and may even be able to get in to certain exclusive places without paying a cover.

5. Sometimes you’ll lose and sometimes you’ll win, but at least you tried and did it as a team:

Like I said before, recognize those which have success; however, on the flip-side, do not fault one person for any failure. This is somewhat self-explanatory, but it’s important to recognize the fact that it was the entire group’s fault and not a single individual. This will keep the dynamic positive and help create a “Brother-hood” type of frame.

Everyone feels accepted and it will keep people wanting to come back; because most likely they are treated the exact opposite for failure in the majority of other groups.

6. Have regular meet-ups:

A really useful tool for getting your team/group to feel more of an attachment towards each other is going out as a team. So having a weekly, bi-weekly meet-up will help create more of a family-like experience.

In time the dynamic will grow and everyone will enjoy helping each other out. In addition, those that are new will feel more welcome when they see that everyone is getting along well.

7. Create a fun environment where team-work is necessary:

I have always liked the idea of playing laser tag, bowling, basketball, martial-arts, or even playing paintball to build more of a bond between a group of people. This is perfect for creating a fun, indirect team-like atmosphere. If someone doesn’t have the equipment, it helps to have extra equipment available to lend them. Nevertheless, don’t be a bully to a new-comer; so if you are good at something don’t rub your wins in their face.

So that brings me to my final point…

It’s necessary to understand that team-work doesn’t build over-night and it will take dedication. If you want your team dynamic to improve, you’ll have to be patient and understand that you will lose some of your crew at times. However, as long as you are behaving appropriately and putting in the work, then over-time you’ll see fulfilling improvement.

Remember hard work and dedication are the key ingredients to any kind of success. If you aren’t seeing success, then maybe you should look into the amount of time you invest into what you are trying to accomplish. You need to make it your main priority and if it’s not, then it will directly reflect on your level of productivity.

Finally, I bring another great book for everyone, something that will really help us all. This book is called…

What Every BODY Is Saying” by “Joe Navarro“.

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PUA News: Masculine men turn women on the most (Study)

Masculine men turn women on the most (Study):

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oday, I thought I would get into something I found to be very interesting that I discovered recently. The topic today is in regard to women’s undying lust for masculine or “manly men”. Believe it or not, there is now significant evidence that the majority of women are more sexually turned on by men and not pretty boys.

Honestly, I am not the least bit surprised, and since I’ve been doing this awhile, I’ve noticed this phenomenon way before I even saw this study (Read study HERE). Which is exactly why I still, to this day, don’t shave my chest. In fact, I actually prefer to have some stubble on my face whenever I plan to prowl the streets of New York City; on my weekends off.

The details of this study cover how common, the frequency and what kinds of experiences enable women to have the most orgasms. According to this study, women with dominant ‘alpha-males’ as partners were much more likely to have a higher number of orgasms, as opposed to the boyish, androgenous, Justin Bieber types.

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So this study was done by the University of Pennsylvania, All of the women in this study were straight or heterosexual and they were examined for the amount of orgasms they had; along with what type of facial characteristics seemed to be helping them climax with the most ease.

The elements analyzed were level of attractiveness (over-all), symmetrical features of the face, whether the men were more well-endowed than others and of course their level of dominance.

The majority of the women had better and a larger amount of orgasms when getting plowed by the most masculine, muscular and dominant men. They also indicated “more frequent and earlier-timed” orgasms when paired with dominant or muscular men. More female orgasms were also reported among women dating “masculinely attractive” (Think Hugh Jackman) men, as defined by the study.

However, when women were analyzed during the act of masturbation; they did not necessarily focus on these particular masculine traits.

They plan to look further into this study in the future for a much more diligent hypothesis. Nevertheless, the current data suggests that the female orgasm is synonymous with choosing the most favorable genetics for their offspring; relating to survival.

So in short…

The stronger you are, more pronounced jawline or symmetrical features that you have and the more dominant you behave in the bedroom are the most important aspects to focus on for a female to climax. Meaning it will potentially lead to a better sexual experience for the women that you are sleeping with.

To leave off, I bring another great book for you all, something that will be very useful. This book is called…

The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction” by “Erik Von Markovik” A.K.A. “PUA Mystery” and “Chris Odom” A.K.A. “PUA Lovedrop“.

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PUA Tips: How to tell if she is cheating (Micro-expressions)

How to know if your girlfriend is cheating on you (Micro-expressions):

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ello everyone,

Today I thought I’d cover something commonly referred to as micro-expressions.

A micro-expression is a series of facial expressions that humans make when preocuppied with certain emotions. The great thing about micro-expressions is that they are very hard to fake and can help a person figure out what others think of them; that is if you know what to look for.

According to many studies (One you can read about is HERE), there are 7 micro-expressions to look out for. These are: Disgust, anger, fear, sadness, happiness, surprised, and hatred. Something interesting about them is that they take effect rather quickly; approximately around 1/25th of a second.

So you might now be curious to know exactly how to read a micro-expression and find out how you can use it to know if your girlfriend is cheating, which is what I will get into soon enough, but first I want you to think about what you are feeling now.

Are you happy, sad, stressed out or maybe you’re worried?

Whatever emotion that you are feeling, I suggest looking into a mirror and concentrating on that emotion for a brief moment. Now look at the expressions that your face makes when focusing on that particular emotion.

The first micro-expression I will be describing is…

1) Surprised:

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There are 5 things to pay attention to when you feel surprised. Your eyebrows will become raised and slightly curve, the skin below the brow gets stretched, You get wrinkles on your forehead (Horizontally), your eyes become wide open (Exposing the white in your eyes more noticeably) and your jaw drops a bit; opening your mouth slightly.

These are involuntarily executed and we all do the same thing when we experience a feeling of surprise. It’s as though the data from our parents was upoaded into our DNA from the moment our mother’s eggs were incubated; much like a computer inherits information from a USB drive.

2) Fear:

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Again we have 5 more things to pay attention to for this emotion. When fear takes place our eyebrows raise and move closer together, the wrinkles become apparent in the center of our forehead, the upper eyelids rise and the lower eyelids tighten, the white in our eyes becomes only exposed at the top of the retna and again the mouth opens; but the lips become slightly tensed.

Someone may make these expressions when they are worried about something (Possibly even something they are hiding, when confronted about what they might be hiding). It could be money, a test, an abusive partner; a plethora of affairs. Fear is a very easy expression to spot and probably the last one that you want to trigger in a female early on. So if you see these signs, then you obviously need to change something in your current game-plan.

3) Disgust:

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Now this I think many newbies and even experienced PUA’s are familiar with. This is definitely something you will come into contact with in the city where I live; which in New York City.

When your target is experiencing this emotion she will give off signals that will make it obvious that she isn’t happy with you. First off, her upper eyelids are raised, lower lip tend to also be raised, nose is most likely wrinkled, cheeks rise and there might be some lines that become more prominent below her lower eyelids as well.

When this happens you better take cover, because you are probably on your way to experiencing some bitchiness. Which is right on track for the next emotion I am going to describe…

4) Anger:

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When your target is angry her eyebrows will become lowered and closer together, lines pointing downward will appear in-between the eyebrows, the lower eyelids become tense, her eyes will have a hard and cold stare (Possibly even bulged), her lips will become pressed tightly together, nostrils flared and the jaw/chin will stick out slightly or become more prominent.

I have experienced this quite a bit with some of my ex’s and have to say that this is ‘no-man’s land’. So if you are seeing these expressions, then I advise you to stop with whatever it is that is antagonizing her.

5) Happiness:

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This one you need to be careful with because it is sometimes possible to get fooled by someone that is pretending to be happy, when actually they are not.

When someone is happy their lips are obviously pulled back in somewhat of a smile, teeth may or may not be exposed, there will be a prominent wrinkle that runs from the side of the nose to the outer lips, cheek-bones are raised, the lower eyelids become tense and the last feature is crow’s feet on the outer portion of their eyes.

The way that you can tell someone is really happy is that their over-all face is tighter and if they aren’t happy(Or faking), then the sides of the face will appear to be looser.

6) Sadness:

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Usually if this is an issue, then I will stay far away from this female. This will just lead to her need for constant reassurance and I personally don’t have the time to baby-sit anyone’s emotions. So it’s better to identify this as soon as possible; if you want to save yourself a headache.

A woman that is sad will have eyebrows that point more upward toward the center of the forehead, the space between the upper eyelids and eyebrows is somewhat triangular in shape, the mouth is in the shape of an upside down smile, the jaw raises more vertically and the lips become puffy as though the person is about to cry.

7) Hatred:

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Hatred is probably the easiest to spot when you know what to look for and it’s not very complicated at all. When this emotion takes place the person involuntarily flexes the muscles on the side of their mouth; which causes one side of their mouth to rise more than the other. I see this a lot when I tell other dating coaches I don’t want to work with them.

So now I suggest really internalizing this information, because it will make all the difference whenever you want to know what someone really thinks about you. You can also find out what emotion the topic of conversation is triggering in your date.

And finally, you can tell your girlfriend is cheating by seeing if she has a surprised response when you accuse her of the act. Chances are her micro-expression will indicate an element of surprise if she is being loyal and if she is not, then she may appear more worried; as if she has something that she’s hiding.

There you go… You now have a new skill that you can now develop on your own and have a better understanding of whether you are really connecting with people the way that you truly intend to.

On a final note, I bring another amazing book for everyone, something that will truly benefit you all. This book is called…

What Every BODY is Saying” by “Joe Navarro

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PUA Hot Women Moments: The 4 hottest women online

The 4 hottest women online:

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o I was looking around the other day and feel as though all I see is material that talks about how to get women. However, I hardly see any articles on dating sites that are actually appreciating the women that we all strive to get.

So I thought I would take the time to show my appreciation for 4 beauties that I am personally appreciative of.

And they are…

1) Alena Shishkova:

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Alena is a Russian fashion model and although many of us probably don’t care about what she is offering upstairs, she apparently studied law and seems to have some brains.

I first saw her when I was skimming through Instagram and her beauty drew me to her profile; which I am very thankful for discovering.

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Now on to the number 2 stunner…

2) Lindsey Pelas:

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This beauty is actually one of Dan Bilzerian’s wonderful treats and Playboy playmate. She is originally from Louisiana and her last name makes me think she may have some latin heritage; which is also quite apparent in her curves.

She is not just beautiful, but very sexy in pretty much every way imagineable and if you aren’t already, then I suggest following her on Instagram.

Anyway, that’s all I got for this blonde bombsell.

On to number 3…

3) Dayami Padron:

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This exotic beauty I don’t know much about, other than she is of Cuban heritage and a fine specimen of what many of us would love to wake up to every morning.

She is a true latin Goddess and I could go on for hours about her curves, but I will just limit how I feel to a few paragraphs today. I know that almost everyone reading this would much rather ogle than read anyway.

So ogle away and let’s move on to our final treat for today…

4) Jen Selter:

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So here is a very fine woman with a body that will turn even a preacher into a lecher. She is a native of New York City (Where I live) and some of you may know her from her fitness videos for building a healthy and robust looking behind.

She is a fitness model of Israeli decent and comes from a Jewish family. She has attracted significant media attention for her buttocks; as you may have noticed.

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Now that’s basically all I have to share today and I will just mention that I did not label these women in order from least to greatest. I find them all equally beautiful and they of course have their own unique appeal.

To finish off, I bring another helpful book for you all, that will benefit your game. This book is called…

Street Game; Day Game Tactics” by Cole Montag A.K.A. PUA Redsky

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PUA News: Game of trolls (The haters of the PUA Industry)

Game of trolls (The haters of the PUA Industry):

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o I have been in the dating coach industry for around 3 years now. I started coaching in 2012. Nevertheless, I first discovered pick-up when I was 19 and I’m about to be 29 now; feel free to do the math.

In my journey I have come across an assortment of nay-sayers; which decorate the seduction community like ornaments on a Christmas tree. I haven’t disclosed any of the harassing I’ve experienced until now.

So allow me to share with you a couple of the colorful attacks that I’ve received from other coaches with megalomaniac personalities in this industry…

Megalomaniac #1:

This guy messaged me out the blue a few times and at first I ignored him, but eventually replied due to his persistent messaging.

Below is a picture of him and his harem of *pause* well, you be the judge.

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Now this guy is an interesting personality, to say the least, and many may agree that he has a completely different idea of how the world works than most. And since I am somewhat of a libertarian I commend him for his originality.

Undoubtedly, I am not a fan of his manipulative nature as you can see clearly in the message below:

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Unfortunately, he didn’t even give me a chance to respond to his insults.
Oh well, I’ll try not to lose any sleep tonight.

Megalomaniac #2:

This guy I am not sure of, he too recently just messaged me out of nowhere and very casually states how he doesn’t like my videos and will delete anymore posts I make in his Facebook group of now 290 members. In addition to his exceptionally large following(<--sarcasm), I am impressed with his passive aggressive style of insulting.

Here are some pictures of him, living a very lavish and woman-less lifestyle:

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And the message he felt like sharing with me:

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Thankfully this guy gave me a chance to respond to him and I have to say I do appreciate it. Unfortunately, he did choose to block once he saw my final response.

Bonus! Psychotic 40 year old Virgin:

This guy came out to a meet-up I was holding awhile back and the moment I saw him I could tell that we were all in for a treat. He showed up in a grey hoody and I could’ve sworn the guy could have doubled for ‘The Hunchback of Notredame‘.

This guy was tall and above average-looking, but still lacked the social intelligence to get laid. I couldn’t approach a set or even order a drink from a female bartender without the guy coming within 4 inches of my face and asking me, “Are going to game her now, can I watch?”

I dealt with this for a good minute and a half, before I had to tell the guy to get the hell out of my personal space. It was annoying the shit out of me. Thankfully he got the hint after a good 8 of us kept our distance; which led to him finally taking off.

The next day I receive this message from him…

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As you can see ‘the force of the darkside‘ is strong these 3 Jedi and it is sad, because all they need to do is let me work with them for a few months and they would be with a beautiful woman that treats them right. But instead, they would rather dwell in their dark abyss of loneliness and point the finger at everyone else, while pretending they have nothing wrong; despite the obvious amount of evidence that what there way of thinking is wrong.

At the end of the day, it is their choice and you can’t change people if they aren’t willing to change for themselves.

So to finish off…

For any of you that are planning to get into the dating coach industry, the garbage above is just a fraction of what you should be ready for. This business is not for those that get their egos bruised easily, you have to have a thick skin and be able to withstand the hatred from all the bigotry.

But I guess any industry has its own share of haters and nobody likes competition. CEO’s get greedy, some clients are just full of hatred and you can’t keep everyone happy.

To leave off, I bring another helpful book for game. This book is called…

The Art of War” by Robert Greene.

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PUA Tips: The Powerful Impact of a Great Wingman

The Powerful Impact of a Great Wingman:

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here is a lot one can learn from a wingman; In fact, you don’t even need to ask for his opinion, you can observe everything required to get better. When you find someone you game well with, then you will literally enhance each other’s dating skills; sometimes unknowingly.

Just like how iron sharpens iron. You stand to gain tons of benefits just by having your ‘pick-up artist brother’ close by in the dating game.

To get into detail…

1) Enhance the Impact of Your First Impression:

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Picture this, you walk into a bar and suddenly bump into the one-and-only Bill Gates – billionaire extraordinaire. Just as you come to terms with this fortunate meet-up, Warren Buffet joins in. Talk about your good fortune becoming a billion times better. That’s just the kind of enhanced impact your wingman can have on ladies.

When you go out looking smart and charming, you’re sure to dazzle any girl you meet. Having a wingman who is equally smart will double the impact. This is definitely useful as a first impression, which will go a long way in determining how the rest of the evening pans out.

2) Saving You From Bitchy Girls:

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Being there for you bro, at times calls for sacrifice. You really want to get to know a particular girl, but the only problem is that she came along with an especially bitchy girlfriend. Luckily, you have a friend of your own, who will keep that bitchy girl occupied, while you chat up the one you set your eye on.

Just remember that your friendship is a two-way thing, and you too should be ready to sacrifice a few hours trying to entertain a bitchy girlfriend for your bro, if necessary.

3) Enhancing the Seduction:

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We’ve all seen it in the movies – a guy chats up an attractive lady in a club and, as she falls for his charms, he says. “Would you like to go somewhere more private?” Just by doing that, the seduction game gets kicked up a notch higher. The key is isolation.

When you’re out clubbing with your bro, you might not even need to move off to a more private location, just to up your seduction-game. All you have to do is time the departure of your wingman. When he sees that you’re really connecting with your girl, he can simply excuse himself and move off to another table. That has the effect of creating an even greater feeling of intimacy between you and your new girl of the moment; even without leaving the club.

4) Sample Greater Diversity:

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Your love life can get really boring if you keep hitting on the same type of women, each and every time. Sometimes, you don’t even notice it, but if you’re keen enough, you’ll see a pattern emerge. Maybe this could be the reason why you’ve never found “the one”, since you don’t want to go outside your comfort zone. Thankfully, having a wingman can help you explore a greater diversity of women.

This sampling of a greater diversity of women would normally happen unintentionally. For instance, you and your boy go out to a bar where you meet a couple of girls, but you can’t agree on which guy takes which girl. None of the girls would also show a particular interest in any one guy.

At this point you should have some form of tie-breaker. For instance, when such a tie occurs, one would take the shorter lady, while the other goes for the taller girl. Predictably, you might end up with someone whom you wouldn’t normally consider your “type”. From this, you’re sure to have a very enriching experience that’s more valuable than any dating advice you might get anywhere.

to finish things off, I bring another useful book for bettering your game. This book is called…

The Mystery Method” by Erik Von Markovik A.K.A. PUA Mystery.

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PUA Tips: Pick-up artist pre-requisites

Pick-up Pre-requisites:

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hen you first begin dating it can be hard for a man to know for sure what women are looking for at the first glance.

So I decided to put together this little guide that won’t just help with dating but also with achieving your goals in life, work and much more. But first I want you to ask yourself this…

How can you get women to notice you and come after you?

Here is some dating advice that will give you an idea of some things that you can do that will answer this question and send you on your way to success in not just dating, but also in life.

1) Become financially stable:

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Every woman needs a financially stable man. A woman needs to feel that, in a relationship, if you two end up having children, they will be well taken care of and that they will not have a hard life that is lacking of the vital, every-day necessities. She also does not want to go on a date with someone that can’t even afford to move out of their parent’s house.

It is also common knowledge that men with better jobs are also more educated and have the drive that women want instilled in their children. A woman needs to have a man whom she can compete with intellectually as well; not a dummy. A man that can challenge her and even improve her lifestyle and way of thinking. So financial stability is the number one seduction tip to focus on before developing anything else.

2) Confidence from life experience:

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The type of confidence women are looking for has nothing to do with being tough or dominant; true confidence is from wisdom and your ability to adapt. This means being able to handle opinions and ideas that are not similar to your own with grace and giving insightful feedback on them; not just blurting out the first thing that comes to mind. Women will also analyze how you deal with rudeness or ignorance, you need not get worked up if someone doesn’t support your religion, football team or political party; instead you should act in a mature, diligent manner.

Confidence from life experience means loving yourself enough to worry about how you look and understanding that being well maintained doesn’t just make you look better, it shows that you have pride in what you do. For women ‘Mr. Right‘ even cares that his nails are untrimmed or dirty, because he takes pride in everything he does and does not want to do anything half-assed. Be humble, don’t boast or brag about your accomplishments, stating them in a well thought out and entertaining story is enough. It is also a sign of confidence to have a good sense of humor. Your jokes should also not be offensive to women or any other group of people; you can be funny without making fun of people. Be tactful and take notice that something that is funny to a group of guys at the gym will not necessarily be funny to a woman.

3) Maintain a healthy state of physical fitness:

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The third and one of the most important dating tips on how to seduce a woman, in my opinion, is to maintain a good state of physical fitness. You do not need to have the ‘super-cut six pack‘, though this would be an added advantage, you just need to look after your body. When a woman looks at how a man takes care of what he eats and how healthy his lifestyle is, she sees a man who will take good care of her and their possible future off-spring.

Just like men, women are also attracted at first by what they see; however they are looking for different things than what many of us men look at. Sure it counts that you have an amazing personality, but the first thing she will see is how good you look and take care of yourself. she will also pay attention to how well groomed you are, if you work out regularly; which will usually mean that you have high sense of self-respect and discipline. So if you want to find women, or want women to find you, then get these three things up to par.

So on a final note, I bring another useful book for improvement of one’s dating skills. This book is called…

The art of seduction” by Robert Greene.

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PUA Tips: 5 ‘Real’ Dating Tips to have more success on a Date

5 ‘Real’ Dating tips to have more success on a date:

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re you unable to pick up ladies and convince them to go on a date with you?

Do you find your dates boring?

If this is the case you should not worry much since you are not the only one going through that. A date may be black and white for some men but for others it may be quite a challenge. However, some good dating advice should help you overcome all this trouble and make women like you more.

The best place to find dating advice is from a Pick-up artist; since that is what they focus most of their time on. Due to this reason alone they probably have the best answers for your dating issues. However, the following five tips should also help you out.

1) Formulate a plan:

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The golden rule in success with dating is to plan it properly. Ensure you work on all the details, even the ones you think are minor, in order to prevent disappointments. Chose a good location and ensure it is comfortable for your date so that they may have a great time. Movies are a common date option for many, but it would not be so good for a first date since most of your time will be spent staring at a screen.

2) Don’t be afraid to be yourself:

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Being you is dating advice that cannot be over-emphasized. Trying to put up a show or acting like someone you aren’t will only ruin the moment for both of you. Ladies don’t like fake men and so once she realizes you are putting up a show she will get turned off. There are many women who will like and appreciate you just the way you are. So be yourself at all times and stay genuine.

3) Trust your inner-confidence:

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Most women will admit that lack of confidence is a deal-breaker for them. Even if you do not have confidence try to find some somewhere. You do not have to be the most confident guy in the world but you should never doubt yourself. Confidence will be required even in the later stages of the relationship; so try thinking of something you are good at and channel that into confidence. Lasting confidence will only come with experience as well.

4) Compliment her on the right things:

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She probably spent a lot of time to look stunning for you and so it would only be fair if you complimented her for that. However, do not exaggerate the compliments. If it is the first date do not use compliments that imply physical attractiveness and don’t excessively compliment her either; use in moderation. Most women can appreciate a complement as long as you are ‘real’ about it.

5) Talks as much as you listen(If not, listen more):

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Most pick-up artists will advise you to avoid talking too much on the date otherwise you will make it boring for the lady and exhibit neediness. It is supposed to be a two-sided conversation and so you should also give her an opportunity to express herself as much as she can. Listening to her will also help you get to know her better, while building comfort. This will be a key factor in closing the seduction.

If you follow the dating advice above you should be able to make things flow significantly more natural and smooth, for the both of you. However, remember that the outcome of the date will depend on how much chemistry the two of you have to begin with and sometimes there just isn’t enough. Nevertheless, do not let that discourage you; it is all just part of the process. In time it will seem as though you tend to connect with women more frequently; which is due to experience.

So to finish things off, I bring another great book for reaching the next level. This book is called…

The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction” by Erik Von Markovik A.K.A. PUA Mystery and Chris Odom A.K.A. PUA Lovedrop.

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PUA Tips: Golden dating tips for Seduction

Golden dating tips for Seduction:

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hether you are a new member to the dating scene or regularly trying to satisfy new ladies, you are probably eager to understand everything concerning dating and probably gathering tips and suggestions that are going to assist you on a date. It just so happens you aren’t the only one. One thing many of us battle with is reframing that women are not the goddesses that many of us hold on a pedestal. They’re human beings and what you simply need is to behave like the sort of a man that conveys that you know this. However, it’s not a behavior that you can easily fake, you have to work on your behavior until the shoes begin to fit; yet in the meantime just practice being a more social version of yourself.

Below are some golden Dating tips and helpful hints to send you on your way to becoming a master of Seduction…

Preparation:

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Before you venture upon anything, preparation is something that’s a must. If you really have the will to become a master, you must assume the preparation that it requires before you begin. Try to go out daily and set a minimum of 15-20 approaches a day.

Don’t doubt yourself:

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There’s no better tip for you than this. If you’ve got it already, you’re further along than most. If not then facilitate. Attempt to emulate confidence in every action and with everything you do. You’ll be able to gain confidence when you have more experience also. And no matter what, keep your thoughts positive.

Be patient with the girls you date:

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Never hasten the seduction of a girl you’re dating before you are completely sure that she is comfortable with it. This will kill the connection and make you look like a creep. Your body language ought to make it clear that you are not excessively into her as well. This means not looking hungry, so to speak. Don’t become her dancing, little permission boy.

Build comfort by talking about happy things:

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Find something nice about your date to say and compliment her on it; preferably about her personality. If it’s painfully difficult to come up with something that you sincerely like about the person, then this might just not be the person for you; everyone comes across snags.

Pay attention and listen to your date:

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Your date will usually try to connect by talking and the more talking you get her doing, then the more comfortable she will become around you. This will provide you with further topics, accompanied by open-ended questions that will allow you to keep the conversation going, while gradually working to break the touch barrier. Positve and good listeners are more welcome than any kind of company, regardless of how much they say.

Ask good open-ended questions:

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Think up some fun things to talk about that will reveal an interesting part of your life or personality(DHV Stories). Don’t forget to work in questions along the process (Open ended questions). After telling a story, ask your dates opinion about what she would do. Use words like ‘why’ or ‘how’, and not ‘who’, ‘where’ or ‘when’. Most importantly, make sure your date is having fun and that you are not pressuring them.

Use their name often:

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Call them by their name… Ladies respond well to the sound of their own name. It also shows that you are listening to them and that you value their company and opinion.

Enjoy the process:

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Listen to your desires or go with the flow. At the same time, you have got to keep in mind the fact that the primary and foremost step of dating is to be sociable and build familiarity. The only way you can do this is by allowing yourself to have a good time. Don’t let your mind get consumed with expectations, just let go and enjoy getting to know the new beautiful woman in front of you.

And to finish things off…

Be aware that it is not a quick process and takes practice to get the most beautiful of women. Undoubtedly, as long as you continue to internalize the dating advice above, then the seduction process will only get easier and easier. Just be sure not to go beyond who you really are; don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t; be realistic and optimistic. In time you will ultimately surpass the expectations you had in the beginning; but only if you are willing to get out of your comfort zone. Pick-up Artistry is a life-time journey that requires one to be continuously evolving. There isn’t any ‘know-all, end-all’, just an on-going process of evolution and adaptation.

Now I will leave you all with an interesting book, like I always do… to share some insight that will hopefully improve your game. Let me to introduce…

The Art of Seduction” by Robert Greene.

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