To start off, here is a helpful video explaining how to use the Pre-selection PUA Concept:
The Truth about Looks:
The truth about looks is often misinterpreted when trying to understand what men attract the most females. The reality is that the majority of men can become attractive with the right tips on appearance and behavior.
You don’t necessarily need a 6 pack or 6% body fat, but it will definitely benefit all of us to spend some time in the gym. It doesn’t just help with your appearance but it obviously will help with behavior as well.
From all of the years I’ve spent chasing the opposite sex, I’ve learned that just being relaxed and being able to let go of your worries is the best thing a guy can do when out with a lady. If you spend a lot of time in the gym, then you may have noticed that you are not just more sure of yourself, but you will also become over-all more relaxed.
The way a man dresses will tell a woman a lot about him and if you work on it enough, then you will learn to dress in a way that attracts the kind of women that you are looking for. If you dress like a rich businessman, then you’re going to attract gold-diggers and superficial cunts. If you dress casual and the way that you personally like to dress, then you are going to attract women that are more genuinely into you and not preoccupied with what they can gain from you. This can be a subjective topic, but I am speaking from my own personal experience; as a result of my own personal social-experimentation and observations over the years.
These observations have shown me that the more time one spends on his appearance will in return lead to a greater deal of sex. However, the majority of the women that you hook up with will be quick to leave or cheat, once it appears that you are starting to let yourself go. So for me, if I am going to have a woman for a short amount of time, then I am wasting my time!
And since we are all going to be old and decrepit at some point, then I see it best to spend just as much time, or even more, on developing ourselves internally and socially. This way we will not all be lonely once the wrinkles and slow metabolism start to set in.
One of the things that one will learn from developing themselves socially, is not just how to talk, but he will get a better sense of what chemistry feels like. When you are able to identify this phenomenon, one will begin to experience more meaningful relationships. Not just more meaningful, but you will find women more comfortable around you. When this starts to happen, you’ll be blown away by what women are willing to do for you when they fall in love. You will finally feel what it really feels like to be “The Alpha”. You will be even more struck by the quality of women that you will begin to attract.
Developing yourself socially is not just about watching videos to learn methods that are being taught on the internet or in a book. There are a lot of things you will learn on your own that you can only learn from experience. There is a lot going on that cannot be explained and that one will only learn from years of hard work and application.
*You need to make pick-up a passion if you ever expect to get good at it…all the time.
*You can’t get discouraged and you need to see as many women as you can…all the time.
So I come to the end of this article to tell you that looks do matter, but if you want to see the longest amount of success in “The Game,” then you need to have a strong core. A core of skills that will lead to the ability to identify the woman that best suits your lifestyle and how to show that woman that you are not just well put together physically, but emotionally, socially and intellectually.
Now thanks for reading and remember that pick-up is a lifestyle not something you do here and there, whenever you feel like it.