PUA Tips: Top 4 pickup tips for getting laid at parties

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Now here is a fun topic that I think we all could use a little work with. Parties are a fun and easy way to get women, but like anything, you need to know what you’re doing. Otherwise you’ll just creep the girls out and piss off whose ever party it is; without getting an invite to the next one.

Here I’ve put together some valuable information – in a step-by-step format – that will get you all on your way to getting your first lays at a party; while doing pickup. So the following steps are…

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1) Approach all the women you like from the front.

The reason I do this is because this doesn’t give a girl a chance to turn away. If you approach her from an angle that is comfortable for her, then she is less likely to reject you. Nevertheless, if she is highly attracted to you, or a “yes” girl, then you can approach from any angle. Yet you most likely won’t experience that many “yes” girls at parties – in my own experience.

2) Talk with her for a minimum 5 minutes, then break the touch-barrier.

In short, don’t waste too much time babbling on about meaningless nonsense. You’re there for a reason and that is too get laid. So the moment you feel the conversation start to go stale then make a comment about a ring on her finger or any excuse to grab her hand. You could even pretend to read her palm; you don’t really have to know how to either. Just look at her hand and say she has a long life-line or something.

After you’ve held her hand for a second or 2, then gauging by how compliant she is with this, you can pull her closer to you. You might even be able to get a kiss. Ease into it though, you never want to be too aggressive.

3) Get the kiss-close.

Yes, once you’ve gotten this, then you’re very close to the close. However, don’t get too excited, because you still need to get her in the right state of mind. Which usually includes intimate touching.

Here are a few key points to focus on when kissing so everything goes smoothly…

-Don’t stick your tongue down her throat.

-Only use tongue when she does.

-Pull your head away and get her chasing the kiss.

-Get physical, by grabbing her buttocks, but not blatantly in front of people.

-She is more likely to make out with you in an isolated area, like outside or in a less crowded part of the house; even a bathroom would be fine.

4) Raise buying temperature and isolate.

Once you’ve made out for awhile, start becoming more physical. Ease into it – don’t rush. Start by kissing her neck, then feeling her buttocks. From there you can move toward feeling on her chest and if this is alright for her, then move to between her legs.

If she lets you do all of this, then you might as well try hooking up. If you aren’t already in a room, bathroom, secluded area next to the house or anything like that, then get there. You’ll be surprised how many girls have hooked up in even crazier locations than these.

Further on…

So there is a little break-down on how to get things rolling at parties. It may help to make a few approaches on your way there; so you are able to get yourself into a more social mood. Now that’s all I’ve got for today – now good luck and keep going out!

To finish off…

You can’t get anywhere without sexual tension, unless the girl just flat out tells you she wants to fuck you and how often does that happen? So you are stuck having to be the aggressor. The idea is actually quite similar to a concept coined by David Deangelo called “2 steps forward, 1 step backward”.

The main idea is to push as far as you can for sex until she is almost at her breaking point, or borderline annoyed, then back off for 5 minutes and commence laying on the affection; making out, etc. It is much more efficient to test for every opportunity as it presents itself – this can be done through touch, kissing, suggesting to go somewhere every few minutes – rather than to sit back and hope your “amazing verbal skills” convince her to go home with you. Remember you have to warm the engine before she’s ready to drive.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips for getting more compliance

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I am excited to put this article together today. I am very fascinated by the mind and building compliance, I’ve learned, this is accomplished by doing nothing more than portraying the right behavior.

In the beginning of my journey into pickup, I used to be under the impression that it is none other than a number’s game. However, over time I started noticing patterns that ultimately led to me getting much more success. I began to see ‘the matrix’ – so to speak.

Therefore, today I am going to bring you a nice list of effective concepts that will revolutionize your success rate. So pay close attention – the following are…

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1) The Mini-bounce.

Now this is something I overlooked for a long time, but once I started paying more attention to the details, I realized how powerful a little thing like the ‘mini-bounce’ can be. In short, women instintively are attracted sexually to a man that is naturally dominant.

The idea behind the mini-bounce: You meet a woman anywhere – most likely on the street or in a bar – and you slightly guide them in a direction by slightly nudging them with your hand in order to move them out of the walkway of where people may pass by. Theoretically this will trigger her subconsciously to view you as a higher value male; hence subtle behavior can have a lot of power on building attraction.

2) The Benjamin Franklin effect.

I’ve mentioned this in the past and it has a lot of clout in the attraction game as well. The idea is to ask for a small favor. This can be to watch your drink while you go to the bathroom, hold your seat, etc.

Once you get a woman used to behaving in a submissive way, then they will be more likely to stay submissive when you start making advances towards sex. I personally like to use this when at stripclubs. I tell them to sit on my lap, before I get a dance and if they are willing to comply, then they’ll usually give me their number after a dance.

3) Changing venues.

When you change venues with a target you build a great amount of trust. Once they’ve seen that they can hang out with you alone without being turned off, then they will be much more likely to decide whether you are suitable to sleep with. Women love sex just as much as us, the only difference is they are only willing to have it with men that they trust and are attracted to sexually; you can’t have one with out the other either.

As you’ve probably heard women say dozens of times… friends first. That is completely fine, however it doesn’t mean you can’t be friends with benefits. What you perceive becomes reality – so stay optimistic no matter what.

4) Eye contact.

I know many of you aren’t surprised to see this. Eye contact is always going to be a notable weapon for everyone’s arsenile when mastered. To keep things simple, focus on just giving it first. You can practice looking at a picture of a girl on your computer as well. Just hold eye contact to start and it may help to even pretend like she is saying something to you. Practice how you’d look at them – facial expressions can be very helpful too. Nevertheless, you need a living woman in front of you to see what facial expressions get the best responses. It all will come with practice.

To conclude…

You’ll be surprised how effective these little things can be and how well they’ll increase your rate of success. For me I have a mental check list of things I do when out with each date and I am at somewhere near a 75-80% success rate; which means I am getting laid around 3 out of 5 times that I go out.

Since I only go for one-night stands mostly these days, I don’t need to waste extra time walking around and collecting numbers. It is a dream come true and I am not even in my 20’s anymore. So no more excuses… go out and get to work!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips for attracting women without words

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PUA Picture was browsing around some forums the other day and took notice of some of the topics I see people throwing out online. I came across ‘attracting women without words’ – so I thought I might have some insight into this. So today I put together my own list of ways I like to go about doing this…

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1) Stand up straight.

Yes, probably some of the most basic advice I can give, but it works. Get used to bringing your shoulders back as far as they can comfortably go and push that waist forward. Some of my clients laugh when I tell them this but soon realize how effective a little thing like good posture can be.

2) Develop a sense of style.

You don’t have to be the flashiest guy in the bar, but at least have a look. Something that will differentiate you from the guys that still look like their moms dressed them.

What’s important is that you are comfortable. A style I think looks pretty good, even to this day, is the leather jacket, jeans and artistic t-shirt look – like in the movie “Fight club”. Of course, I would leave the jacket at home if it was a hot summer day.

3) Go out with a wingman.

Having a good wingman is gold… many don’t realize how much of a benefit this is. It doesn’t matter where you meet them either. Sometimes if I don’t have the patience to wait for a friend that likes to take his time, then I’ll just make friends at a nearby bar.

It is definitely a bonus if your wingman knows what he is doing, but not necessary. The value boost you get from a girl just seeing that you aren’t alone is enough. Once you get a target hooked, then you are most likely going to have to leave the wingman at some point anyway. In this case, I sometimes actually prefer meeting a random wingman at a bar, because they won’t take it as personal when I meet a girl that is ready to go home with me.

Having a wingman that you are good friends with can sometimes even be a distraction – since it may hurt your friendship if you leave them high and dry. So moral of the story: Don’t get too attached to your wingmen and don’t get upset if they leave with a chick before you as well; you can always find another wing if needed.

4) Don’t use submissive body language.

Now this is the interesting part for me… body language is an art-form and like everything else in pickup, it takes time to develop. However, a few pointers of what can be considered submissive body language is not being able to deliver stable eye contact.

Another is taking too long to break the touch barrier. You should be working towards holding or playing with a target’s hand within the first 5-10 minutes that you’ve noticed some kind of indication of interest.

Closing distance is dominant body language and you might also notice many alpha males have a deep and somewhat louder tone than other men. A good example of someone with submissive body language is someone like Michael Jackson, Prince, etc. Any kind of body language that can be construed as shy or timid as well.

On top of that…

Women are elusive with their emotions – so you could hit it off in the beginning and she changes her opinion about you the moment you open your mouth. Attracting women enough to approach you on their own is one skill-set, but keeping them interested is all on its own. So in short, don’t think that just because you know how to look sexy, that the game is done, talking is just as important; it’s just another side to the coin.

To finish off…

You can’t get anywhere without sexual tension, unless the girl just flat out tells you she wants to fuck you and how often does that happen? So you are stuck having to be the aggressor. The idea is actually quite similar to a concept coined by David Deangelo called “2 steps forward, 1 step backward”.

The main idea is to push as far as you can for sex until she is almost at her breaking point, or borderline annoyed, then back off for 5 minutes and commence laying on the affection; making out, etc. It is much more efficient to test for every opportunity as it presents itself – this can be done through touch, kissing, suggesting to go somewhere every few minutes – rather than to sit back and hope your “amazing verbal skills” convince her to go home with you. Remember you have to warm the engine before she’s ready to drive.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for being dominant in an attractive way

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I know a lot of you may be wondering how dominance has anything to do with seduction. Well the truth it that it has everything to do with seduction. Dominance is the medium that separates being a friend from a potential lover. Of course there is a breaking point… in order to be a great seducer you need to be well educated and experienced on the boundaries women will put up and how to navigate around them without turning her off. Below I’ve included a list of some insight that will help you be dominant without scaring your date away…

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1) Go after what you want.

This means exactly what it says… if you want a kiss then go for a kiss. If you want her to go home with you, then suggest going to hers or your place. Yes it is a bold way to go about doing things, but the man that goes for what he wants shamelessly is going to get what he wants faster – and on more occasions – than the man that expects women to throw themselves at him.

I can tell first-hand that being assertive has gotten me laid much more, than sitting back and hoping the girl will just up and tell me to go home with her. Yes, that may happen at times and it has happened to me before. Nevertheless, it doesn’t happen at a frequency that is more productive than when I am the one taking action.

2) Have a plan.

Ideally this means having at least 3 places lined up for their own unique reasons. The first one could be a pool hall – for breaking the touch barrier. The second could be a less busier location – such as a park with a view – for the kiss close. The 3rd, if she hasn’t agreed to go home with you yet, could be a nice quiet and dimly lit bar; for solidifying the sexual frame. Those are just a few examples of what ‘having a plan’ is all about.

3) Always be the first to make a decision.

Now women need to be led. So you need to get used to calling the shots when you are with them. Basically tell her what to do and dial it back a notch if she says something about it. Don’t boss her around the whole time – just about a quarter of the time or when you are put in a situation that requires a decision to be made. A few examples could be crossing the street, ordering what she told you she drinks – unless it’s easier for her to get the drink – and of course getting the taxi back to yours or her place.

4) Talk to her like a little girl.

I know this sounds a bit odd, but I’ve noticed over the years that a lot of women respond well to what I like to call ‘baby talk’. So talk to her subtly as though you may address your little sister. If you aren’t sure how this looks, then have another watch of an episode or 2 of “Fullhouse” from back in the 90’s.

5) Use dominant body-language.

Yes, dominant body language is key. Don’t ask her to hold hands – reach out and grab her hand. Don’t ask her to kiss – move your face in close to hers and kiss her. Don’t ask her where to go – have a plan and tell her where the 2 of you are going. If she is not comfortable she’ll tell you, otherwise just go along with what you have planned.

To conclude…

Like many things in regard to pickup, there is a fine line to watch out for when it comes to creeping the girl out and being sexy. You have to find that threshold and the only way you can do that is through experience. You’ll learn to gauge it by the vibe. You’ll feel it like a 6th sense. Get used to pushing boundaries and never stay in a comfort zone – always be trying to get better.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips to build sexual tension

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H-design-1 PUA pictureere is another important skill to master, what I’m going to cover today is building sexual tension. You need to have a good understanding of this in order to get a girl turned on enough to go home with you. In short, the better you are at building sexual tension, then the more you are going to get laid.

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Below I’ve put together a list of a few ways to do this…

1) Tease.

Lightly bumping her jokingly on your way to making a shot when playing a game of pool or darts is a nice little start. After she misses a shot you can tell her something like, “Nice shot.” Make sure to say it in a joking demeanor and it wouldn’t hurt to crack a smile also. These kinds of mind games will start the flow of communicable energy between the 2 of you. Create a flow of emotional energy through touch and nonverbal communication; like Bruce Lee once said, “Be like water.”

2) Talk dirty.

Talking a little dirty never hurts – just be sure to have a good amount of comfort built prior. Women instinctively respond sexually to alpha men – so what’s more alpha than saying how you feel without holding back?

I have no problem telling a date I want to bang the hell out of her honestly. Nevertheless, I will make sure we’ve been making out for a little time before. Comfort should be built first, but once she’s started complying, then you have a green light to do more or say more.

3) Get close to her.

Don’t be afraid to close some distance and see how she responds. If she is backing off then back off a little as well. If she doesn’t seem alarmed then you might just be able to get a kiss. If you’ve ever seen a real alpha trying to seduce a woman – they are usually very close right from the beginning.

4) Break the touch barrier.

The most important boundary that you all need to learn to cross is the touch barrier. If you can’t muster up the courage to do so, then you are never going to get anywhere with any woman.

So get used to grabbing her hands or looking for excuses to grab her hands. One thing I do is meet in a busy area so that we are forced to have to hold hands so we don’t get separated. You can also just grab her hand and put it up to yours and laugh about the size difference. It doesn’t take much to break the touch barrier – you just have to have the balls to do it.

To finish off…

You can’t get anywhere without sexual tension, unless the girl just flat out tells you she wants to fuck you and how often does that happen? So you are stuck having to be the aggressor. The idea is actually quite similar to a concept coined by David Deangelo called “2 steps forward, 1 step backward”.

The main idea is to push as far as you can for sex until she is almost at her breaking point, or borderline annoyed, then back off for 5 minutes and commence laying on the affection; making out, etc. It is much more efficient to test for every opportunity as it presents itself – this can be done through touch, kissing, suggesting to go somewhere every few minutes – rather than to sit back and hope your “amazing verbal skills” convince her to go home with you. Remember you have to warm the engine before she’s ready to drive.

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 dating tips for keeping the vibe positive

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PUA Pictureremember one time when I was sitting at a Biergarten here is New York City and I was observing a guy at another table. This guy was behaving erratically and just clearly behaving like he had no idea what to do. He naturally was ditched by everyone around him and left there all by his lonesome.

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So I figured I’d take the time to explain a list of tips that will help you all avoid the aforementioned result at all costs. And these tips are…

1) Avoid negative topics.

Simple enough… women like to bring this kind of shit up all the time. The best way, I’ve come to find rather effective, is to just change the subject and continue on to the topic of your choice. If she says anything or tries to go back to the last topic – just hold your frame and don’t falter. She will usually get distracted or just continue on with what you were talking about.

2) Don’t pick arguments.

As obvious as this seems a lot of people still get tangled up in the dumbest arguments just because they can’t let go of their egos. The more you let her under your skin, the less attractive you become.

Women do this subsconsciously to test to see if you are quick to fly off the handle. They also want to see how crazy you get when mad. The best way to win is to just shrug it off and if she gets too childish, then just leave and tell her you’ll be willing to meet up again when she can behave mature. You’ll be surprised how often I’ve gotten apologies for bad behavior after doing this; you have to set boundaries.

3) Talk about things you can both relate to.

A few great fuels for conversation are talking about places you’ve both travelled. Maybe seeing if you’ve been to similar cities – if you travel a lot. Ask her if anything crazy has ever happened when she was travelling. Movies can work also – especially comedies. I bring up the “Ted” movies a lot; mainly because there is plenty of material in those movies to get the conversation more sexual. It works like a charm.

4) Play games.

Taking her out to a pool hall or a bar that has something like darts is a great idea. You have plenty of room to work in some kino and break the touch barrier. You can tease her about shots; a bar with games is a great playground for building comfort.

5) Tell stories about fun experiences.

I usually leave this for when I move on to a 2nd spot. I’ll usually start out at a pool hall, then move on to a pier or place with a nice view. I like to go somewhere quiet so I can tell her about what it was like in New York City when I first moved here. Women eat stuff like that up… like chocolate icecream after a fight with a boyfriend.

In conclusion…

Applying everything mentioned here will pave a safe road on your way to more success with women. Even if you’re in a slump – sometimes it’s good to re-evaluate your game and analyze whether you’ve picked up some bad habits. Signing up for my monthly program will help get you back into the swing of things as well (Sign up for online training course). Just like cars sometimes an experienced PUA needs a tune-up. Anyway, that’s all I got for today now get up and go out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 dating tips for becoming more Charismatic

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PUA PictureI have seen this topic pop up a lot lately online, so I thought I would give my own input today. Charisma to me is about energy and knowing what behaviors ramp up the symbiotic energy that flows within a group. Mostly being charismatic is about how you feel inside, but there are a few other concepts that I consider vital and some of these are…

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1) Have fun.

Talk about things that interest you, do things that interest you. The environment and people that you are around can have a big impact on your confidence. So making sure that you only surround yourself with the right people – and going to places that you enjoy – will have a lot of clout. How you feel inside is a huge part of being charismatic; which should always be your main focus.

2) Listen to people.

There is a little thing called “active listening” and this is when you actively partake by genuinely wanting to get to know someone. I have a natural desire to meet new people… I guess my view on this topic is that everyone has a little piece of knowledge they can share with you.

I crave knowledge and everyone has some to offer. It doesn’t matter whether it is how to protect myself in the streets or good places worth visiting in Russia. There is always one piece of information someone has that I could really use.

3) Encourage people to tell you more.

One great way to keep a conversation going without much work is through prompting others to talk instead. All you need to do is say a few easy trigger words like:

“Can you elaborate?”

“Where did this happen and is that a cool place to visit?

“What’s it like living in that part of the city?”

Questions like this will get people talking long enough for you to think of something worthwhile to talk about. If you think about it, conversation is a game and the better you get at it, then the more natural it will feel. Much like meditation – you’ll crave practice the more often you do it.

4) Smile.

Yes, smile and I’m not saying to just smile; put your soul into it. Don’t smile unless you can be real. Fake smiles will just make you look self-conscious and basic. Smile because you are having a good time and you are grateful to now have the knowledge to be spending your night hanging out with a beautiful woman. Keep your head up and live in the moment.

Furthermore…

Charisma is just like learning to play an instrument – you won’t master it in a day. It’s an art-form that you can only perfect with trial and error. You need to push your comfort-zone and always be curious to see what kind of behavior triggers people in a way you want them to be triggered. Embrace every new interaction and always try to learn something new with every person. Now go out and get some experience!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 conditions when women are looking for one-night stands

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pua pictureow this is something that I bet a lot of you might be able use. I’ve decided to narrow down some of the sure-fire times when women are looking to go home with someone. Some of you may have already realized all of these, but for those that haven’t; imagine all the time you might’ve saved doing more productive things if someone just had told you where to look.

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So I am going to give you some of that ‘where to look’ knowledge right now. Below I’ve made a short list of places and situations when women are most likely to be open to one-night stands…

1) On vacation.

Here’s a nice sign that you might get laid tonight. If you meet a girl and she says she’s on vacation and everything is going well between the two of you, then you might be able to isolate her after you’ve snuck in a few kisses. Let’s say she is still holding on to you and not backing off after the kiss-close. Now you can try to isolate and let nature run its course.

2) At bars on the weekends.

This is where I rack up most of my one-night stands honestly. Nothing says, “Easy hookup” like a cheap bar that has a lot of tourists flowing in. Just make sure to always be on good terms with the staff and treat everyone with respect.

3) When in public on an evening or night before a day off.

Yes, this is a good time to swoop in and catch a girl on an unexpected evening stroll. Just come over and introduce yourself or ask for directions. Once you’ve got her stopped, then you can invite her along with you. Tell her it’s your day off and you don’t want to have a drink by yourself. I can’t tell you how many times this has worked for me – sometimes women flat out ask me to go have a drink with them; timing is everything.

4) Concerts.

Almost everyone that goes out to a concert didn’t make plans in the morning. So why not take advantage of this window of opportunity? Take the time to talk to many girls and not just jam out to your favorite musicians performance. Most of the time these events are super easy to get make-outs at as well. Once you’ve gotten a few make-outs then just talk to those girls after and try to convince them to go to an after-party.

Sometimes I’ll actually have an after-party spot available, but if I’ve isolated the girl and she is obviously down to come home, then I’ll just suggest my place instead. If you don’t have an afterhours spot, then ask her if she wants to grab something from the store or some food with you real quick. I’ll usually start making out with her on the way – and judging from how intense we get – I’ll then decide whether it’s worth suggesting to go back to my place.

To conclude…

The time and place can have a lot of power when it comes to seduction. I see guys going out all day long and then seeing other guys that go out at different periods of the day or week – when they know women are in the mood. Guess who is getting more action? The latter of course.

So pay attention to detail and learn to be more observant on such matters as when you notice women being a little more promiscuous than normal. These little bits of information will skyrocket you to the front of the line in the world of getting laid. Now go out and open your eyes!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 4 conversation Starters

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W-design-1 pua pictureell back once more and today I have some helpful information for everyone. I thought I would get into the topic of openers. Since the very first skill to master is the approach, I thought putting together a list of good openers could be useful. The following are…

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1) “Hey, what’s your name?”

Pretty simple and straight to the point. She may reply with the same quesion, but at least you got her talking to you. Just be sure to look her in the eye and stand tall – don’t let your confidence wain.

9 times out of 10 a woman loses interest because a guy shows some subconscious sign if mental weakness. This could be failing to hold eye contact, studdering or just looking too anxious. Learn to just relax and live in the moment.

2) “We haven’t been introduced – I’m (Name).”

I like this one for a single reason and that is because you never hear anyone talk like that – so you come across original. Women respond well to originality; the more original you are then the more interesting you’ll be perceived.

3) You look like you’re from (Country, City, State, tec.).”

Although some may advise that making assumptions about others can offend some people, I still have no problem doing so. The way I see it, is If she was to get offended by me making assumptions, then she will be offended by almost anything. So it’s better to find out who she is first than waste my time and find out later that she was a bitch.

4) “Nice (Flamboyant article of clothing). Hi, I’m (Name).”

I find it fairly obvious to mention a flashy addition to someone’s outfit in conversation. They clearly wore it to be noticed, so they will probably feel a sense of satisfaction when someone takes notice. This is usually a great way to make an above mediocre impression – just make sure not to say something stupid after and kill the vibe.

On top of this…

It’s important to focus on the other issues I discussed in previous articles – such as eye-contact, smiling, etc. What is being said is just constituent of pickup; it’s important you work on the delivery as well. You can master the delivery with practice, but in order to do that, you need to keep going out! So get on it!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 Dating tips for meeting women on vacation

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S-design-1 pua pictureo now that the summer is approaching a lot of you may be planning a vacation. I thought this might be a great time to help some of you get ready for the trip. You can never be too prepared and there is never too much knowledge on these topics. Below I’ve listed a few tips that may make it a little easier to meet someone on your next vacation…

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1) Research the best clubs and bars beforehand.

I remember one time I visited a city for two weeks expecting everyone to be out everywhere that weekend and almost every bar I went in was almost empty. It was nuts, I am so used to people being out on the weekends here in NYC.

I ended up figuring out that people were out but most of them were at certain venues in the city. I ended up discovering a few of those venues thanks to Google and had a better time the following week. Nevertheless I wasted a weekend before due to crappy planning. So in short, find out where the people hang out before you plan your vacation.

2) Make sure you are staying close to the party scene.

Once you’ve seen a few interesting clubs or venues online and seen they have good reviews, then I would advise booking a place close by them. In most cities those venues usually won’t be too far away from each other – if they are – then book a place close by to the majority of the venues with good reviews.

The reason for being close is obvious… the more time you spend in a cab with her, then the less turned on she will be when you finally reach home. Therefore since you are more likely to take her home than to her place, then it’s important that you have your own place when travelling; not a room you are renting.

3) Stay for at least a couple of weeks.

There’s nothing worse for me than a vacation where I don’t get laid at least once. I Figure understanding the whole dating scene in a city takes me at least a week. Do as much cold-approaching as you can in that first week so you can adjust your game efficiently.

Different countries have different cultural conditioning; what you might be able to get away with in America might be insulting in France, etc. It wouldn’t hurt to read up on some online forums about gaming wherever you plan to go as well. (Here’s my forum!)

4) Get an AirBNB.

The reason I suggest this piece of advice is because women are more likely to go back with you if you have your own place and are not just staying at a hotel. Nothing makes a women feel cheaper than going back with a guy who is staying in a hotel. Just make sure you don’t bring too many valuables and keep your money on you when you leave the AirBNB.

5) Get to the point.

If you have to, go direct and only focus on the most interested women you meet. There is no time to waste on women that you aren’t sure about. Only go for the women that are giving you a high amount of IOI’s (Indications of interest). Remember you aren’t looking for a girlfriend – you are looking for a fun time and that’s it. If you hit it off, then you can always stay in touch for another future trip back. Nevertheless, she will probably not wait for you – but at least you may have a potential girl to hookup with or for networking and such – if you decide to come back.

And there you have it…

Travelling is one of my favorite times to game simply because I like to meet new people from new places – so I’m enjoying myself as well. First and foremost, the idea is to enjoy yourself no matter what. So if you aren’t enjoying yourself you are doing something wrong; let go and feel the moment.

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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