Do you find your dates boring?
If this is the case you should not worry much since you are not the only one going through that. A date may be black and white for some men but for others it may be quite a challenge. However, some good dating advice should help you overcome all this trouble and make women like you more.
The best place to find dating advice is from a Pick-up artist; since that is what they focus most of their time on. Due to this reason alone they probably have the best answers for your dating issues. However, the following five tips should also help you out.
The golden rule in success with dating is to plan it properly. Ensure you work on all the details, even the ones you think are minor, in order to prevent disappointments. Chose a good location and ensure it is comfortable for your date so that they may have a great time. Movies are a common date option for many, but it would not be so good for a first date since most of your time will be spent staring at a screen.
Being you is dating advice that cannot be over-emphasized. Trying to put up a show or acting like someone you aren’t will only ruin the moment for both of you. Ladies don’t like fake men and so once she realizes you are putting up a show she will get turned off. There are many women who will like and appreciate you just the way you are. So be yourself at all times and stay genuine.
Most women will admit that lack of confidence is a deal-breaker for them. Even if you do not have confidence try to find some somewhere. You do not have to be the most confident guy in the world but you should never doubt yourself. Confidence will be required even in the later stages of the relationship; so try thinking of something you are good at and channel that into confidence. Lasting confidence will only come with experience as well.
She probably spent a lot of time to look stunning for you and so it would only be fair if you complimented her for that. However, do not exaggerate the compliments. If it is the first date do not use compliments that imply physical attractiveness and don’t excessively compliment her either; use in moderation. Most women can appreciate a complement as long as you are ‘real’ about it.
Most pick-up artists will advise you to avoid talking too much on the date otherwise you will make it boring for the lady and exhibit neediness. It is supposed to be a two-sided conversation and so you should also give her an opportunity to express herself as much as she can. Listening to her will also help you get to know her better, while building comfort. This will be a key factor in closing the seduction.
If you follow the dating advice above you should be able to make things flow significantly more natural and smooth, for the both of you. However, remember that the outcome of the date will depend on how much chemistry the two of you have to begin with and sometimes there just isn’t enough. Nevertheless, do not let that discourage you; it is all just part of the process. In time it will seem as though you tend to connect with women more frequently; which is due to experience.
So to finish things off, I bring another great book for reaching the next level. This book is called…
“The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction” by Erik Von Markovik A.K.A. PUA Mystery and Chris Odom A.K.A. PUA Lovedrop.
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