PUA Tips: 3 Habits for a better life

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I was thinking to myself the other day about what habits I’ve changed about myself that have really improved my quality of life. I came up with these 3 habits that have not just made my life better, but have increased my overall productivity ten-fold. Of course, I’ve listed them below…

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1) Read.

Although, I don’t really list any books – I do read a lot and I can definitely understand why supposedly most CEO’s read around 50 books a year. I personally am up to 3-5 a month – so around 40-50 a year.

I have always been a pretty avid reader and I tend to focus on non-fiction. I also like to research the author first and make sure they are successful (If still alive) and if they aren’t alive, then at least I make sure they are somewhat of an influential figure that have some kind of traits that I value.

2) Meditate.

The definition of meditation, for me, is to “still the mind” and this is exactly what it does. So if I’m feeling a bit stressed out, then I’ll lay back, close my eyes and meditate. After doing so for around 15-30 minutes I always feel much more relaxed and ready to tackle whatever work I need to get done.

I am not going to get into detail on how to meditate, because there is so much great and free content online that you can all discover for yourself. Besides I am not a meditation expert, I just do what works for me. The main point is that you feel relaxed afterward; whatever techniques you decide to to utilize is entirely up to you.

3) Work out and eat healthy.

One of biggest factors that will regulate how you feel and how productive you are is how well you take care of your body. The biggest mistake a person can make is neglecting one’s health.

It really makes a difference when you change up your diet with healthier foods and a nice, weekly routine of about 3 days a week at the gym. I like to combine about an hour of weight training with 30-40 minutes of mild cardio after; usually just walking on the treadmill.

After that I’ll stretch and hop in the shower. I mostly workout in the morning, because it helps me sleep better at the end of the day and I also get my blood flowing before I have to start working. Trust me, working out makes a big difference in how you feel – you will have much less stress and are less likely to feel depressed; if that is one of your problems.

And that’s it…

Stick to these 3 habits and I guarantee that you will feel so much more better than you were before. Happiness is about what you do in your spare time and as long as you are trying to reach your full potential, then you will always continue to feel better and better. So that’s all I got for everyone today… thanks for reading and don’t forget to keep going out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 tips for never to get screwed over

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I am pretty big on not making enemies and if I meet someone that I see a potential enemy, then I will sever ties pretty quickly. So for all of you that are not as experienced with people – I thought I’d put this together to help you all, not just choose better girls, but also better friends in general.

The following principles in regard to this are…

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1) Come to terms with the fact that most people are out for themselves.

Yes, this is an ideology that is somewhat comforting – especially in a ‘dog eat dog city’ such as New York; where I live. In stead of getting your feelings hurt, then you can just come to terms with this somewhat Machiavellian principle that I’ve come to appreciate.

Although, not everyone is like this, the majority of the world are out for themselves; maybe not consciously, but subconsciously. So when you can alter your paragdigm to align with this ideology, then you are much more less likely to put yourself in risky situations that may not turn out in your favor.

2) Never give more than what someone is willing to give you.

This can be applied to who you choose as a wing-man and to the women you choose to form relationships with. Otherwise you will be spending your time and money on other people, that most likely, view you as lower than them.

I personally am into being respected and not being taken advantage of. And yes there may be some people that have a personal masochistic kink – such as the opposite of this principle – yet I know many do not. So if you are like me and don’t like being taken advantage of, then pick the people that you spend your time with wisely.

3) Offer value is exchange for value.

Another interesting way to view this is from the perspective of a “buyer versus a seller”. A seller is coming from a perception where they are trying to convince the person that they are worth their time. A seller’s view is seen as lower value than the buyer’s.

So in short, be the buyer and in order to do so, then you need to internalize that you have something of high value to offer. When you can demonstrate this effectively, or have a high sense of self-worth (confidence), the right people will stay and the wrong people will quickly stay away; because they see that they can’t use you.

4) Don’t talk too much.

Another Machiavellian principle… never reveal too much about yourself. Allow people to gradually get to know you over time. Doing this will create a more profound bond and people will respect you more.

You’ll also be able to distinguish who you want to keep around. The more time you are around a person, then to more likely someone will reveal their true self; so give everyone a grace period of about 1 1/2 – 2 months. You’ll learn their true intentions and true character. Whether they actually are quality people that are capable of creating a symbiosis that you both can benefit from; these are the best relationships. The more relationships that you can create like this, then you will be more likely to achieve a higher level of success in life.

Furthermore…

Relationships should be of great importance in one’s life. Overly selfish people that think they don’t need people often tend to be dissatisfied wth life and unhappy. Yes, people can cause a lot of pain, but that is only when you surround yourself with the wrong people.

The right people are the only real recipe for happiness and that is me speaking from experience. We all have an innate need for acceptance. Do not be ashamed for wanting to be accepted, just get better at finding the right people to accept you. So that is all I have to say for today, hope I was able to help some of you and have a great week!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 tips for attracting people

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I know many of you are probably wondering why I’m talking about people in general and not just women. Well, that is because I’ve learned that this life is not just about getting laid. It is also about building a great life and being successful.

In order to be successful you must first learn to master the art of building relationships. If you you often come across unattractive or boring, then you will have quite a bit of trouble becoming a success.

So below I’ve listed a few principles that all of you can follow to become more liked or become more attractive…

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1) Find out what makes the target excited.

Whoever you are trying to form a relationship with must have some interest in something. So a good way to find out is by having a conversation with them. This isn’t hard, you just need to go up and say hi.

You can start off by mentioning an article of their clothing that you may like. Maybe you like the same brand. It doesn’t take much to get a conversation going.

Maybe they are very fashion conscious, maybe they like cars or maybe they just like to sit at home and read well written books. It doesn’t matter what it is, what matters is that you find out what it is.

So play around and see where the conversation takes you. Avoid confrontational subjects such as who they voted for, negative topics like lost loved ones, things they don’t like, etc. Ask questions or talk about a sport you like, maybe mention a player that is doing good this year and see if they get excited about such. Not too difficult, you just need to be willing to relate with them.

2) Decide what archetype you want to attract.

When I say archetype, I’m talking about category that whoever you are trying to connect with falls into. This relies a good deal on their upbringing.

In the United States you have a few different archetypes and they usually form around class; lower class, middle class and upper class. The idea is to match whatever class you are trying to attract.

You can match them by dressing similar, talking in a similar way or having similar likes or values. There are other things, but those are the most prominent that I can think of. The best way to understand whomever you are trying to attract is by getting to know more of these kinds people.

For example: If I want to attract a beautiful, naeive and sweet Morman girl, then I might start going to a Morman church and getting to know more Mormans. I may go to their gatherings and befriend as many of them as I can to learn about their ways. Remember this is just an example.

Another example: If I sold real estate, then I might want to build more relationships with people that have a lot of money. So I am going to go out to bars that rich people go to. I am going to pay attention to how they dress, how they talk, what they talk about, their values and what excites them, then match them.

This isn’t rocket science, you don’t have to spend a lot of time on Google researching every little detail either. All it takes is hanging out with as many of these people as possible and taking a mental note of the things they talk about and asking them about whatever they may be willing to tell you.

Yes, you may give away that you aren’t from where they are from in the beginning; which may cause you to lose some of those potential clients. However, in time all that data that you’ve gathered from countless interactions will accumulate.

In time, they will never know who you really are. You’ll become a chameleon and they will accept you as their own. Once you have that acceptance, then you have formed that relationship. Once you have that relationship, then they are that much more likely to buy whatever it is you are selling.

3) Show signs of similarity.

I did mention this before, but I will articulate a little more on the subject. People like people that remind them of themselves. When I was in school, my friends were all interested in the same things that I was interested.

I did wrestling for a long time… so I had a lot of hardcore wrestling friends. I also liked to play chess… so a lot of my friends I met from gathering and playing chess after school. The same is true with videogames. I loved videogames growing up, like many kids from my generation, so many of my friends were also into playing videogames; which is what we would end up doing on the weekends when we finished our homework.

Coming back to the rich guy in #2 – that I want to sell real estate to…

Maybe a good idea for bonding with people, you may want to sell houses to, may be taking up golf. Since many rich men enjoy the sport, you can talk about how you’ve been playing golf for years. Talk yourself up a little, but when you do manage to get them out playing with you, then make sure not to out-shine them.

Just show them a good time… they already have plenty of money. They most likely will want to buy property eventually and they can buy from anyone selling real estate. Nevertheless, if they know you, see that you both like to play golf and like you, then you now have an advantage over the rest of the real estate competition. And they are now much more willing to hit you up, when they are ready to buy some property.

4) Improve your appearance.

Nice clothes and a good haircut can go a long way. You show that you value yourself and have class when you know how to dress. Women will trust you more if you are well-dressed; as opposed to being dressed in rags.

People will be a lot more willing to buy from you because they’ll think you can offer them a quality product. If you look like you take care of yourself, then they will assume you’ll take care of them as well.

So there you have it…

Follow these principles and watch how much your life changes. Watch how much more people accept you into their circles. It’s not hard, it just takes practice and in time anyone can learn how to attract anyone they want.

So that’s that! Hope I was able to help inspire some of you and remember to keep working hard!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

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PUA Tips: Top 4 tips for dealing with conflict from other guys

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So this isn’t an uncommon thing that most of us men have to deal with. I don’t know how many times I was just standing around and trying to order a drink, then next thing I know some douchebag has to come bump my arm agressively as he walks by. Welcome to another hurdle of the night-life in the big city!

Below I am going to give everyone a few tips on how to deal with this situation without, hopefully, losing the girl or getting in a fight. The following are…

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1) Ignore them.

Most guy’s bark is worst than their bite. If you just act as if you don’t hear them or care enough to be bothered, then they most likely will leave. Just continue talking to each other as if some douche isn’t in the background acting a fool.

2) Go out with friends.

The bigger friends, the better. I’m talking from experience, because I’ve gone out with shorties and big guys just to see the difference. I actually hung out with some short guys for a month to see what it was like and it showed me that the Alpha Male Theory is real.

So if you want to have a safe and fruitful night out, then make friends with big dudes that are into game. You’ll be blown away at how much women are attracted to big, strong men and if you are with them, then they will most likely see you as strong as well.

3) Nod your head and walk off.

If the guy is persisting and you don’t know the security, then this may be a good way to avoid a fight. Remember the point is to get laid, not to get into trouble. All you have to do is walk away and make sure to tell the girl something like, “Let’s go over here” to bring her with you.

4) Move closer to the bouncers when being patronized.

This is also a good reason to make friends with bouncers. You never know when you may need their help. In my own experience, I had a guy start hitting a girl in front of me, like hay-maker hitting her, and she was small too.

Everybody was just sitting around and watching, not doing anything. After 2 hard hits I was the idiot that grabbed his arm. Next thing I know him and 2 other guys tackle me to the ground. I had been punched in the face and had my elbow stomped on before the bouncer, that I always talk with for a few minutes when I come in, is tossing these guys off me.

I got away with a couple of bruises, a small lump on my head and bruised elbow. Thanks to a little chit-chat I got away from maybe a potential stabbing – who knows.

So there you have it…

Four ways to keep yourself from having a bad night; like the one I had. Some of the most pain in the ass bills are hospital bills also. well, that’s all I got for today! Now don’t forget to keep your cool and don’t stop going out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

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PUA Tips: Top 5 tips for quick night-game fixes

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So since I am so good at this these days – I’ve decided to create this little cheat-sheet for all of you that are still struggling with “one of the easiest ways of getting laid”. The truth is, in New York city at least, night-game is a breeze. There is almost no point doing Day-game, unless you want a serious relationship. And at this point of my life, a one-time hookup every weekend, with a girl I never have to see again, is much more satisfying than a relationship.

So here are a few of my tips for all of you…

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1) Talk to a lot of people when out.

You don’t have to talk to the whole damn bar, but at least have a few interesting conversations to get you into a social mood. This also helps because half the time those people you are talking with may have friends coming. Some of those friends might just be good-looking females. I can’t even remember how many times I’ve gotten laid through a social circle of someone I just randomly talk to about MMA or some other sport I watch; it pays to watch sports!

2) Go out on the busiest nights of the week.

In my city this is usually Friday and Saturday. I think this is usually the case for most cities in the United States. Weekends are the best times for night game, and in my opinion, it’s almost pointless to waste precious energy on any other days; unless you can get into a busy nightclub for free.

3) Get plenty of sleep the night before going out.

Being well rested is key and you’ll not only have a higher probability of getting some ass, but you’ll have more fun as well. I’ve still hooked up with a lot of girls when I felt like crap, but in the beginning when you have less experience, you are going to get burned out early and just want to go home to sleep.

4) Find a wingman.

A good wingman is gold… you will get less rejections and you’ll have more fun as well. I suggest staying away from anyone that gets overly jealous and the types of guys that can’t pay for shit. There are a lot of those here, but there are also a lot of stand up guys that can pull their own weight and want to see both of you get laid. It just takes a little bit of searching, but it is well worth it when you meet a good wingman; it will make getting laid feel effortless.

5) Don’t waste your time with bitchy attitudes.

I have had women apologize via Facebook or text the next day for rudeness before, when I was first figuring things out. Nevertheless I’ve noticed from many experiences, that I can have more fun and get laid faster if I just move on to someone less problematic.

So moral of the story, if she doesn’t like you in the first 2 minutes of the interaction, then she most likely won’t like you after that. Move on gracefully and don’t look back.

To leave off…

Night-game definitely has its pros, but some cons to keep in mind are:

Fights.

Yes, there are lots of jealous douchebags out there. It just comes with the territory and you may have to fight. So that is another good reason to have a wingman. You can always just walk away, but if you’re drinking, then there’s always a chance mister liquid courage may sneak up on you.

Not relationship material.

Maybe 1 out of a 100 girls you meet at night are relationship material. Plus if they had a one-night stand with you, then they probably will feel like a slut. Unfortunately we live in a society where meaningless hookups are considered shameful behavior by many. However, look on the bright side… if you get good enough, then you can have nasty, meaningless debauchery every weekend with a different sexy woman; like I do.

You have to buy drinks.

Yes, sorry to say, but this is the truth. Unless you want the bartenders and security to hate you, then you best believe you better have a drink in your hand. This is another thing that comes with the territory my friends.

So if you are too cheap to buy a drink or 2 when you go out, then please unsubscribe to my email list and go climb into a hole where you can be an unambitious broke-ass by yourself. And that’s about it! Now good luck to all of you this weekend and keep going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

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PUA Tips: 4 tips for channelling your inner Tyler Durden

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I thought today would be a really good day to discuss a fictitious icon of modern-day masculinity. This icon is commonly known as “Tyler Durden”. In short, Tyler Durden is the ideal image of what most women consider attractive; both physically and behaviorally. So pay close attention to some of the concepts I’m listing below so you can get in touch with your own inner Alpha (A.K.A. Tyler Durden)…

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1) Be real with yourself and others (Don’t kid yourself).

This means stop pretending and start learning to be comfortable being you. Let go of all your insecurities and encourage others to live that way too.

2) Live to amuse yourself.

When you go out, do things that you want to do. Be comfortable being the main focal point in your life. Think to yourself… what could I say to make this conversation with a hot girl more amusing?

3) Don’t waste your time around people you don’t enjoy being around.

Stop letting boring, energy sucking people into your night-life. That could be friends that are recently out of relationships or just typical downers.

We all have that one friend that always seems to love being depressed. Yea, that one… stay away from him.

4) Find your purpose and do whatever it takes to fulfill it.

Whether you like cars, motorcycles, playing Magic the gathering or whatever – embrace it. If it makes you happy and you’re good at it, then take that path. It’s not rocket science – you just need to take that first step.

And that’s about it for today…

Follow what I said above and you’ll be on your way to discovering your inner Tyler Durden in no time! now enjoy your week and don’t forget to keep things moving!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: The 3 Pillars of Game

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PUA Picture have a very insightful write-up today… today I’m going to discuss some groundbreaking information that will help you all build the foundation for your own personal skillset in pickup. I’m going to introduce a few concepts that are vital for improving your success rate or skill level in a more organized and efficient manner.

To begin with, we have 3 areas that we all need to master in order to be the best seducers that we all can possibly be. These areas are listed below…

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1) The Physical Pillar:

This pillar encompasses your physical health and mastering the physical pillar just means keeping yourself in shape. In other words, always trying to improve over-all fitness and wellness to the best of one’s ability. This also includes our level of mental health; meaning if you need therapy, then seek it out.

2) The Internal Pillar:

Now this is the most complex pillar… this includes, our social abilities, wisdom, life experience, level of experience with women, interpersonal skills or your knowledge of the world and of people.

Some examples are things that you may say or do to connect with others or strategies you’ve learned for making friends or meeting women. This could also be just your overall ability to influence others.

3) The External Pillar:

This is basically your style or how you present yourself without the use of words. Some examples are how you dress, the car(s) you may drive, the house you live in or just how you live your life in general (ie. Lifestyle).

Basically…

If you can master all of these pillars then you will have no issues attracting and keeping women in your life ever again. So I hope this was able to help some of you understand what is needed to set up your own foundation. Let me just add that once you’ve mastered all these areas, women will most likely be the ones coming up to you, and in exchange, make the seduction process much easier. So there it is, now thanks for reading and don’t forget to keep going out!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 tips for reading people

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S-design-1 pua pictureo I’ve been seeing similar topics come up a lot lately on YouTube and that’s why I’ve decided to write something from my own thoughts and experience on this. In this write up I’m going to discuss reading people; knowing who to trust and who not to trust.

It’s kind of a pain having to go up to people you know and ask them if someone is trustworthy – so why not become effective with your own judgement. So below I’ve listed my own set of rules and concepts on how I stay out of, sometimes dangerous situations, by making good judgements about people…

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1) Focus on where their attention is or where their eyes are.

Some say eyes are the gateway to the soul. This is somewhat true and more like the gateway to someone’s intentions. You can tell if someone is a good person to keep around by seeing how much they are looking at the current person they talk to. If they are constantly breaking eye contact and looking at others when that person talks, then they probably don’t have anyone but their own best interests in mind.

2) Pay attention to body language.

Does the person you’ve just met walk like a thug or like a normal person?

Do they come across cocky, maybe tilt their head to the side or have a condescending energy about them?

These things are other indications that you might not be around a cultured person. When I say cultured, I mean someone that has had a respectable upbringing and does not have any malicious intentions.

3) Engaged or not in engaged in conversation.

When you talk, does it seem like someone is ignoring you?

Are you being cut off often by a certain somebody?

These are telltale signs that someone doesn’t like you that much. If you see this, then I suggest keeping your distance and making new friends.

4) Level of genuine interest.

A great way to see that someone cares about what your saying is when they ask you questions related to details in whatever you are talking about. If you meet someone like this, that you don’t think is weird, then you should keep them around. They are most likely people with good energy and someone you can have a good time with.

5) Pay attention to micro-expressions.

I’m going to list 2 of the most common facial reactions or looks I look out for below…

Disgust: Squinted eyes and backing away in an almost upward motion. This usually happens as a motor response to hearing information someone doesn’t agree with.

Delight: Eyes widen and people move towards you slightly in a somewhat submissive manner. This usually happens when you are behaving in an attractive manner; whatever that may be. If you have people doing this in your circle, then you are off to a good start.

To leave off…

You can get better with reading people through constant practice. I also mention a good deal about this in my newest book “Street Game: The Definitive Book of Seduction”. Now that’s all I got for today, now add this to your arsenile and remember to keep going out!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 tips to not get interrupted when talking and dominate a conversation

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PUA Picture know for some people this can be kind of frustrating and there is nothing worse than being in a great conversation only to find some rude one, in the circle, cutting you off. So I thought I might give you all some of my own advice on how to deal with this annoying situation. The following is listed below…

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1) Get used to pausing mid-sentence and don’t answer questions until you’ve said what you have to say.

I will say something like, “Today I went out and met up… (Pause) with a friend and ate in Little Italy for… (Pause) most of the day.

What this does is confuse those that may interject with what they have to say. Most people are used to people finishing their sentences, then pausing. So you can say everything you want to say by simply pausing when people least expect it.

2) Speak loud and clear.

A good way to get people turned off by your speaking abilities is by having to repeat yourself over and over again. So a great remedy for this is to just speak louder and pronounce your words clearly.

If you ever notice how an alpha male behaves (Like Michael Jordan, Brad Pitt in Fight Club, Jon Hamm in Madmen, etc.) – they always have a loud and clear sounding way of speaking. I suggest changing your speaking strategy to a similar one for better results.

3) Maintain eye contact.

Good eye contact is a sign of a high-status individual. If you can maintain eye contact effectively, then you convey that you are a person with character and not easily mentally defeated; not a chump.

Most people don’t want to be friends with a chump, so do your best not to behave like one. Also women are less likely to want to sleep with a chump – no matter how attractive he may be physically. This is exactly why you hear about or see good looking men getting cheated on with men that are not as attractive from time to time. It’s not just about looks.

4) Keep it short and sweet.

Try not to ramble on, say what you have to say in 5 seconds or less. The more you talk, then the more energy you suck from people. If you have ever meant someone that is fun to be around, you might notice they talk in a quick and to the point – sometimes blunt – kind of way.

5) Keep it positive.

And the most obvious tip, don’t be a Debbie-downer… don’t be someone that is trying to drag the group into some emo, bullshit depression. Talk about uplifting topics, like dreams, family or recreation. As long as you stay on these topics, then you won’t have any problems making friends – trust me.

To add to all this…

There is a considerable amount of conversational ability that most women require to keep them around. Especially in a competitive city like New York; where I live. You need to know how to speak and convey yourself as a confident, well put together man if you want to attract a quality network of friends or potential mates. So pay attention to this article if you get cut off a lot – this will do wonders!

To finish off, here is my newest book for everyone; some useful information in here. This book is called…

The Definitive Book of Seduction“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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PUA Tips: Top 5 tips for overcoming shyness

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pua pictureow here is a fun one, and believe it or not, I used to be really shy. It’s amazing how much you can change if you just learn to face the things you are most uncomfortable with. Basically facing these things is what encourages the transformation from a boy to a man; if you think about it.

Below I’ve listed a few guidelines that will help you overcome shyness, like I did long ago…

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1) Surround yourself with the right people.

Pretty simple right… I bet 90% of you still hang out with toxic people that will never amount to anything or go anywhere in life. Sorry to say, but it’s the truth. If you are shy, then 90% of the reason is because you hang out with the wrong people.

So start hanging out with people that influence you to come out of your shell. People that won’t shoot you down when you want to say something on your mind. People that have respect for your opinions – I think you get the idea. That’s what it takes; surrounding yourself with the “right” people.

2) Change your tonality and volume.

This has a lot of impact, I just started really noticing this also. One day I went out really focused on my tonality. I tried to speak like someone in my vocal range, that I also thought had a cool voice. I’ll keep it a mystery on who it was. I ended up having women want to go places with me and even had a girl offer to hookup in a bathroom that night. I know it sounds farfetched, but it is the truth. So I stand by my word, when I tell you tonality will greatly increase a man’s attraction.

3) Stop doubting yourself.

This is probably the single best and easiest piece of advice I can give. Channel your inner Tyler Durden and man the fuck up. You should be confident and comfortable with yourself. You are the human counterpart to all female human beings on this planet – therefore you should feel entitled to them.

Let go of any negativity that doesn’t support you going home with a beautiful woman. Let go of any negative anything… emotion, article of clothing, people, friends or anything that doesn’t allow you to feel entitled to being the alpha male that we all have inside of us.

4) Have more conversations with random people.

You shouldn’t be limited to just speaking with women. In fact, in some countries you could get in trouble for just going up to random women. For example, in the middle east the safest way to meet women is through introduction – otherwise you could find yourself in a dangerous situation.

So learn to make friends in clubs and bars… you’ll be better off having more friends than enemies. If you have a pivot-group that you met earlier, then you can always come back to them every so often to reinforce that you have backup in case any onlookers with malicious intent are among you. It will make those people think twice before messing with you.

5) Make a conscious effort to be interested in who people are.

There is a great African Proverb that I like to say from time to time. The saying goes like this:

A fool speaks, a wise man listens.

This in pickup, means that instead of blabbering about yourself – try to take some effort in learning about the person in front of you. Work on relating and seeing if the two of you have anything interesting in common.

From my own experience, there is a big satisfaction in actually connecting with a woman. Not only does it make sex better, but it makes her treat you better. Although relationships can hurt a lot, they also can be rather enjoyable with the right people.

Furthermore…

Whether you think so or not, being shy is beatable – it just takes careful practice and persistence. Like I said before, I know this because I was once a very shy young man. I beat it and I know all of you, that are struggling with it, can beat it too. Now the next step is getting up and doing exactly what I mentioned in this article; now get on it!

To finish off, here is my first book for anyone that hasn’t read it already; some useful information in here. The book is called…

Street Game: Day Game Tactics“.

Just click the icon below to begin reading now…

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